"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[JaJunk]

Anyone else getting this on their phone app? Did I miss an update or what is going on with this? Why would SA limit this to only being able to see it through the computer?

[BookerTNelson]

With covid seeming to be "going away" or forgot about altogether, I feel that now is the time to go heavy on reporting the scammers which are the girls who "claim" they are not willing to meet in person and expect online only.

I think Seeking was being lenient during the pandemic but now that things are opening up, they will not take that approach. Just my opinion and observation.

Unfortunately, I believe that online only is here to stay.

[ErkTheOne]

SA just published a blog post on their site a couple weeks ago talking all about the realities of the aftermath of the COVID issue, and throughout it talked specifically about video dating and such. I wouldn't hold your breath on expecting them to spring right back to weeding out the online only crowd anytime soon. Ultimately, what do they care if it's still generating them revenue.

With covid seeming to be "going away" or forgot about altogether, I feel that now is the time to go heavy on reporting the scammers which are the girls who "claim" they are not willing to meet in person and expect online only.

I think Seeking was being lenient during the pandemic but now that things are opening up, they will not take that approach. Just my opinion and observation.

[Just757]

With covid seeming to be "going away" or forgot about altogether, I feel that now is the time to go heavy on reporting the scammers which are the girls who "claim" they are not willing to meet in person and expect online only.

I think Seeking was being lenient during the pandemic but now that things are opening up, they will not take that approach. Just my opinion and observation.

[DickLongwood]

Yes she is LOL. The lamest attempt at a scam I have ever encountered. She just wanted me to pay her $9 Netflix bill and I could have my way with her. Even went so far as to set a date and time and gave me an address. I said great just send me a short vid of you saying my name and I'll send it over. Crickets.

Now is listed in D. C.

[Ernest Ll]

Nana1677. Her profile is active. You must have been blocked.

Turns out its a bug with my browser. Every single profile link I clicked on told me profile could not be found.

[Shampoo55]

I was texting this chick from 2 am to 4:30 am just for her to say she wanted 500 for a meet up only. I told her only experience I had was with chick looking for sex and some spending cash. She say she new to everything so I cut her some bail. I see a lot new chick shooting for the fence for some type of movie sugar daddy experience that doesn't exist. They offering to spoil you just by their existence.

https://www.seeking.com/member/b2131...4-43f4b558d721

There are YT and other places where girls brag about the excessive amounts they get as a SB. ( There are only a VERY few guys paying HUGE amounts.)

Shoot even a Real Life episode shows the SB / SD lifestyle with one girl getting thousands for nothing more than hanging out- No physical activity. Then there is SA's sister site What's Your Price that feeds girls over to SA. WYP is explicit that it is a platonic date only and encourages girls to be GPS. I guess many dudes are duped by that site and it works? So WYP graduates might think they can get a fee for a free dinner and then decide if they want to play OR negotiate an extra fee at that point?

Old saying around here: no sugar until the panties hit the floor. So when one is unrealistic about wanting 500 for a M&G it is time to walk away. Let her get an education from someone else, I'd never spend 2 hours trying to convince a girl. If she is hesitant and you "convince" her, there is more than a fair chance she will change her mind and ghost the date or get cold feet before things get serious. Nothing worse than Coitus interruptus.

[S2568]

Could not reach her profile from that link. User name?

Her profile name is Nana1677.

[Dimples572]

Anyone got a scouting report on this one? Did a search but couldn't find anything. Please pm if you have any info. Thanks!

https://www.seeking.com/member/00d57...e-816134d311d5

[Madaboutmax]

Nana1677. Her profile is active. You must have been blocked.

Could not reach her profile from that link. User name?

[Dash]

The key with some girls is your appearance of prosperity.

I have heard this often from girls who have been poor and dated poor guys, they are tired of the guys buying them dinner at mcdonalds.

You however must save your money and invest it, but have the illusion of money available to spend.

Live with your parents or in a dump? "I'm saving money for the down payment on a place. ".

Fake wealth as she fakes affection and loyalty to you.

Minority girls seem to be more interested in you maybe, I noticed this in South Florida.

At your age use game as a substitute for cash.

Have fun, and when a girl brags about her looks to you "from behind you all look similar. ".

[Ernest Ll]

Found real hot one looks better than pics really gets into it even though she is older and pricey than what I prefer but I think she is worth it perfect size petite with huge awesome tits on a MILF and all doors open enjoyed every minute of it can't wait to see her again.

https://www.seeking.com/member/91d1e...c-c43fcb71ff79

Could not reach her profile from that link. User name?

[Zerry]

I recently moved from SoCal, and I'd say that the SB market here is pretty weak. Richmond and Charlottesville look slightly better for college coeds, but it's nothing like SoCal is. There are still a few gems here, but there are way more middle aged escorts, druggies, picture sellers / scams to filter through. Pretty easy to spot, but still annoying.

I like searching for girls I'm talking to on this forum to make sure they haven't been passed around.

If you're single and have a nice place you'll have an advantage with the coeds who are here. I have the most success with the girls who live with roommates or in the dorms. They have the freedom to come and go as they please and like having a place to escape to. Lots of these guys are married and need girls who host, or who are fine meeting at a cheap motel. Which I'd think only the most desperate of women would be will to do.

When I do start talking to a SB I'm interested in I talk to them exactly as I do with girls I match with on bumble. We know we are matching on SA, there is no reason to talk about it. The more talking and meeting you can do with out talking about money the better. Sometimes they won't even ask for money. Just being with a "successful older man" who treats them well is enough for them. Many of the other college coeds actually have parents who are fully supporting them, and they are happy just getting some party money their parents can't track.

You're probably on the young side for the girls who get off on older men. I'm 40 and I've been told I'm on the young side by 18 year olds. But if you've you got a nice apt / car or seem like a bit of a baller you'll do well. As long as you have a bit of style and aren't grossly unhealthy girls won't really care about looks. Some girls are looking for status as much as anything else.

I've been reading some of the forums here and there about SB's when I have free time. I've never given it serious thought until recent about actually joining SA and making a go of it.

The Richmond forum here seems to be the meca of the SB / SA talk on this site. I figured many of you guys reading this have lots of experience dabbling in the SB world.

Ideally, I'd like to find a SB who's College aged, well spoken and just a regular person with a life, goals, etc.

There's no concrete answer to this I know but when you have an ongoing arrangement with a SB do you find it's usually strictly business or does your SB like you in general and you talk to them from time to time without it being about setting up a time and place to meet?

The main reason I've considered joining is because with some sugar involved it speeds things up and is better than seeing a provider with all of the unknowns that come with it.

Some and I assume most are in their 40's, 50's & 60's but seem to have had some really great experiences. I'm not married; late 20's.

Any thoughts or insight would be appreciated.

[Ricrun]

You summed it up well; pretty much everything I had already thought. I will pm- thanks.

I was texting this chick from 2 am to 4:30 am just for her to say she wanted 500 for a meet up only. I told her only experience I had was with chick looking for sex and some spending cash. She say she new to everything so I cut her some bail. I see a lot new chick shooting for the fence for some type of movie sugar daddy experience that doesn't exist. They offering to spoil you just by their existence.

https://www.seeking.com/member/b2131...4-43f4b558d721

[Gyxser70]

LOL. Who knows. In general it; s a bunch of greedy college girls trying to avoid sex while getting money.

If you have some aspirations of a lovely relationship LOL then you need to manifest that organically as the site attracts the wrong type.

If you are in your twenties then it sounds like you just want to pay for an easier guarantee of sex with no commitment? You will have many girls want nothing to do with you because they actually just want money and doing it with a guy near their age will be weird. Some others though may love the idea of one that is young and handsome.

Personally I only see girls as FWB; s / dating. Tinder, real world or the occasional "convert" of SA. Most of these girls are amazing, smart young people that can't relate to most over 30-40 due to most over that age having closed their minds down to the incredibly fluid global culture we live in now. They 'relevency gap' between older and younger is greater than ever. Yet I found most young people are eager to engage and be friends if we just stop being so damn adulty full of stupid sexist remarks we don't even know are sexist lolol. It's a big subject but the main reason a lot of older guys can't date younger girls is all their baggage they never unlearned or fixed throughout their lives. It kinda reeks of "no longer growing / evolving". Not sexy.

A lof of older guys on here have watched way too many movies and talk to a girl like its 1972 lolol So you may do just fine. HMU if ya want. Good luck!

EDIT: I mean nothing disparaging to anyone here, I'm just being light and playful and we should be able to laugh at ourselves!!

You summed it up well; pretty much everything I had already thought. I will pm- thanks.