WYP, SA, and other SD sites

**Missingcr1** · 02-14-20 11:23

Agree with BuffBill, please don't anyone send these guys / girl scammers money in advance of meeting. Any time a sentence contains "she certainly sounded DTF once" money was sent in advance, it is not going to end well.

Originally Posted by BuffBill75 [View Original Post]

Please don't send these dudes money. It just makes them set up another profile and wastes our time.

**IluvSmellyFish** · 02-14-20 10:17

Everyone's different. I think some guys genuinely like it when a SB is chatty. Helps fill the void and awkward silences.

I think you and I are similar. I get irritated by mindless chatter.

I think there's a happy medium tho. When a profile has little to no information on what a SB wants or is thinking, I tend to assume that she's a pro and that our time together will be mechanical and rehearsed. On the other hand, when you've got novels and treatises in the profile, I assume that any date or time together will ne therapy sessions where I'm the therapist. And that I will be providing an allowance for the "priviledge. ".

Guess I'm kinda like goldilocks. I like them not to hot, not too cold, but rather right in the middle.

Problem with my tastes are that I am too picky and so it takes a shitton of work.

Originally Posted by RegularJoe1985 [View Original Post]

Think I might have pissed her off as well by saying that I just glanced through it. Who has the freaking time to go through an essay.

Not a sequel to war and peace but a prequel, re-write and a sequel. WTF!!

So, anytime we see an About me that is more than 2 paragraphs, we should walk away, is that right?

**SamTam** · 02-14-20 08:35

Originally Posted by RegularJoe1985 [View Original Post]

Think I might have pissed her off as well by saying that I just glanced through it. Who has the freaking time to go through an essay.

Not a sequel to war and peace but a prequel, re-write and a sequel. WTF!!

So, anytime we see an About me that is more than 2 paragraphs, we should walk away, is that right?

I was in another city recently, and post-coitus told an SA baby that she should make both sections a lot smaller, that few guys would read that much. Needless to say, she's REALLY talkative, too!

**BuffBill75** · 02-14-20 08:11

Originally Posted by Shinshi86 [View Original Post]

I ended up canceling on Tiffany with a halfway decent excuse. She seemed to understand, so I might not have burned down that bridge completely. I thought I had a sure thing with another SB in DC but it ended up being a bust. One of these days, I'll fucking learn NOT to send a single cent to any woman before meeting. Unfortunately this past weekend, I let my little head do the thinking and that's on me.

She goes by the name KylieLovesU (https://www.seeking.com/member/40eed...1-61e70fdc559e) and she certainly seemed DTF once her college books were paid for. Since she asked for such a specific amount ($73), I figured why not. We were both explicitly clear about what we were after and she offered to host at her place. That Sunday after she kept pushing back our scheduled meet time (some nonsense about her mother insisting on having lunch with her), she eventually texted that we'll have to figure out another day. After three separate texts (and one SA message which was read) over the course of four days in which I was pretty respectful, I received crickets & strongly suspect that I've been had once again. Today, I messaged that if she wants to meet then let's meet. But if not, then she ought to just forward the money back. If that was a "no" or if I was blocked (both highly probable scenarios), then I would publicly share all info here before reporting the profile to SA.

When I originally used Zelle to send the requested $73, she claimed that her name wasn't "DeMarcus" (which is what popped up when sending the money via her email). That it was just some guy she knows who would then forward her the money since her bank supposedly won't work with Zelle. I'm assuming I can't quite publicly blast out any address, phone number, email, and Zelle account. But what I can do is make that information readily available to any of you who directly PMs me. So that's why I screenshot everything and am willing to post more info as this little drama plays out. I have zero qualms about sharing and it's only fair since they seem deadset on pulling a fast one on me thinking I'd let it go.

Please don't send these dudes money. It just makes them set up another profile and wastes our time.

**RegularJoe1985** · 02-14-20 06:48

Originally Posted by IluvSmellyFish [View Original Post]

Bruh. That "about me' section tho.

It was like she was trying to write the sequal to war and peace.

She shouldve paid you for your time.

Think I might have pissed her off as well by saying that I just glanced through it. Who has the freaking time to go through an essay.

Not a sequel to war and peace but a prequel, re-write and a sequel. WTF!!

So, anytime we see an About me that is more than 2 paragraphs, we should walk away, is that right?

**RegularJoe1985** · 02-14-20 06:45

Originally Posted by Shinshi86 [View Original Post]

......She goes by the name KylieLovesU (https://www.seeking.com/member/40eed...1-61e70fdc559e) and she certainly seemed DTF once her college books were paid for. Since she asked for such a specific amount ($73), I figured why not. We were both explicitly clear about what we were after and she offered to host at her place. That Sunday after she kept pushing back our scheduled meet time (some nonsense about her mother insisting on having lunch with her), she eventually texted that we'll have to figure out another day. After three separate texts (and one SA message which was read) over the course of four days in which I was pretty respectful,.....

Is this the same girl, the following has blocked me:

https://www.seeking.com/member/10e39...-b574d4ed6d3e.

Same M. O.

**Shinshi** · 02-13-20 23:56

Originally Posted by Telcova [View Original Post]

They contacted me as well. Offered the threesome. I could tell from the texted photos that the brunette was large. Passed on both. Nice to know the blonde is fit and attractive. Never posted about them.

Based on what little I could tell from her censored profile pic, to her age, to the sounds-way-too-good-to-be-true directness, I ignored her. I may have yet to meet with anyone from that damn site, but she sure as hell won't my first from SA.

Guess I'll keep casting the line in hopes of landing another gem before I let my subscription fizzle out next month.

**IluvSmellyFish** · 02-13-20 22:31

Bruh. That "about me' section tho.

It was like she was trying to write the sequal to war and peace.

She shouldve paid you for your time.

Originally Posted by RegularJoe1985 [View Original Post]

Met her for dinner last week.

https://www.seeking.com/member/6807c...9-20a4334cf6c2

I think her M. O. Is talk, talk and talk, about herself, how she likes to do things and how we need to proceed etc. And bore one to death.

Thankfully, after about 30 min I got a call and went outside to take it and never came back.

Can someone put a sock or something else in that mouth before it starts?

Phew.

**RaiderKid24** · 02-13-20 21:43

Originally Posted by Shinshi86 [View Original Post]

I ended up canceling on Tiffany with a halfway decent excuse. She seemed to understand, so I might not have burned down that bridge completely. I thought I had a sure thing with another SB in DC but it ended up being a bust. One of these days, I'll fucking learn NOT to send a single cent to any woman before meeting. Unfortunately this past weekend, I let my little head do the thinking and that's on me.

She goes by the name KylieLovesU (https://www.seeking.com/member/40eed...1-61e70fdc559e) and she certainly seemed DTF once her college books were paid for. Since she asked for such a specific amount ($73), I figured why not. We were both explicitly clear about what we were after and she offered to host at her place. That Sunday after she kept pushing back our scheduled meet time (some nonsense about her mother insisting on having lunch with her), she eventually texted that we'll have to figure out another day. After three separate texts (and one SA message which was read) over the course of four days in which I was pretty respectful, I received crickets & strongly suspect that I've been had once again. Today, I messaged that if she wants to meet then let's meet. But if not, then she ought to just forward the money back. If that was a "no" or if I was blocked (both highly probable scenarios), then I would publicly share all info here before reporting the profile to SA.

When I originally used Zelle to send the requested $73, she claimed that her name wasn't "DeMarcus" (which is what popped up when sending the money via her email). That it was just some guy she knows who would then forward her the money since her bank supposedly won't work with Zelle. I'm assuming I can't quite publicly blast out any address, phone number, email, and Zelle account. But what I can do is make that information readily available to any of you who directly PMs me. So that's why I screenshot everything and am willing to post more info as this little drama plays out. I have zero qualms about sharing and it's only fair since they seem deadset on pulling a fast one on me thinking I'd let it go.

Amazing what some girls or people will do for a couple bucks. Sounds like you've been had brother. Sorry for your luck!! . rule number 1 NEVER EVER PAY BEFORE HAND. Always turns out bad.

**RegularJoe1985** · 02-13-20 19:19

Met her for dinner last week.

https://www.seeking.com/member/6807c...9-20a4334cf6c2

I think her M. O. Is talk, talk and talk, about herself, how she likes to do things and how we need to proceed etc. And bore one to death.

Thankfully, after about 30 min I got a call and went outside to take it and never came back.

Can someone put a sock or something else in that mouth before it starts?

Phew.

**Shinshi** · 02-13-20 17:02

Originally Posted by Dimples572 [View Original Post]

So how'd it go? You ever end up meeting with her?

I ended up canceling on Tiffany with a halfway decent excuse. She seemed to understand, so I might not have burned down that bridge completely. I thought I had a sure thing with another SB in DC but it ended up being a bust. One of these days, I'll fucking learn NOT to send a single cent to any woman before meeting. Unfortunately this past weekend, I let my little head do the thinking and that's on me.

She goes by the name KylieLovesU (https://www.seeking.com/member/40eed...1-61e70fdc559e) and she certainly seemed DTF once her college books were paid for. Since she asked for such a specific amount ($73), I figured why not. We were both explicitly clear about what we were after and she offered to host at her place. That Sunday after she kept pushing back our scheduled meet time (some nonsense about her mother insisting on having lunch with her), she eventually texted that we'll have to figure out another day. After three separate texts (and one SA message which was read) over the course of four days in which I was pretty respectful, I received crickets & strongly suspect that I've been had once again. Today, I messaged that if she wants to meet then let's meet. But if not, then she ought to just forward the money back. If that was a "no" or if I was blocked (both highly probable scenarios), then I would publicly share all info here before reporting the profile to SA.

When I originally used Zelle to send the requested $73, she claimed that her name wasn't "DeMarcus" (which is what popped up when sending the money via her email). That it was just some guy she knows who would then forward her the money since her bank supposedly won't work with Zelle. I'm assuming I can't quite publicly blast out any address, phone number, email, and Zelle account. But what I can do is make that information readily available to any of you who directly PMs me. So that's why I screenshot everything and am willing to post more info as this little drama plays out. I have zero qualms about sharing and it's only fair since they seem deadset on pulling a fast one on me thinking I'd let it go.

**BaltoMan66** · 02-13-20 12:34

Originally Posted by JasonCuse [View Original Post]

Honestly, if they say they want to sell pics, I don't call that a scam really. Of course, if they say they want to meet and it ends up being a "I can't trust you unless you send me money. " Then yeah. It's really lazy and hilarious that money equals trust, not talking and getting to know someone.

More girls need to use that platonic tag on their profiles. Or they need to add another tag that's similar but doesn't sound so pride, like Online Only or Just Friends.

As I read the rules on SA, isn't "just platonic" reason enough to get kicked off?

I reported a picture seller yesterday, and I thought I saw platonic only as a reason to report.

**SamTam** · 02-13-20 08:39

Originally Posted by BaltoMan66 [View Original Post]

I arranged to meet them at a hotel. I negotiated a great rate for the two of them. I saw them walk in. The blonde looks like the picture she sent me, tall, lean, attractive. Her friend, the brunette, was about 5'4" and say 165+. I'm not into heavy girls. The picture they sent showed a woman not that heavy. I couldn't do that.

I went to my room, since they didn't know the number. When they called I explained that seeing, and paying for the brunette was out. First she wanted the full amount, then she just wanted the brunette to come to the room for a while before we got to it.

It didn't feel right, so I told her I would pass. I'd rather waste the cost of a room than the room plus a gift on a shitty scenario.

Sorry for that experience. I only saw the blonde. I never saw the brunette.

**Telcova** · 02-13-20 00:33

https://www.seeking.com/member/23215...7-ef22f4727676

Nothing physical. Pretty girl though.

**Telcova** · 02-13-20 00:29

Originally Posted by BaltoMan66 [View Original Post]

They immediately ask about a threesome.

They contacted me as well. Offered the threesome. I could tell from the texted photos that the brunette was large. Passed on both. Nice to know the blonde is fit and attractive. Never posted about them.