"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**BlueEyedMan58** · 08-22-19 00:47

Originally Posted by EasyeOne [View Original Post]

All was well and plans were set but when is time, got hit with the. Can I get money in advance: https://www.seeking.com/member/b2980...8-e30b80218d12.

Anybody have luck?

Been finding this more and more, especially when they're young and cute and contact you first. They go through all the back and forth of setting a meeting very quickly and then last minute either it's "will you give me something when we meet to prove you're real" (however that's supposed to work) or can you send me money or give me a cc for an Uber so I can meet you.

If it's the latter, I usually offer to pick them up, and that message ends the communication; or when I say no $$ for M / G.

**EasyeOne** · 08-21-19 23:38

All was well and plans were set but when is time, got hit with the. Can I get money in advance: https://www.seeking.com/member/b2980...8-e30b80218d12.

Anybody have luck?

**GregRichmond** · 08-21-19 23:37

Originally Posted by EasyeOne [View Original Post]

Those are the exact responses she sent to me. Copy and paste.

I agree. Avoid her.

**BStreet** · 08-21-19 21:46

Because had that very same situation, looked much better in the pics, shows, up and not close, but not unbearable either. Thought what the hell, asked if she liked to give head, YES! Some of the best head and rimming I have ever had. She was so into it!

Originally Posted by Avash88 [View Original Post]

I did a chunky latina very hot face but chunky used to do an hour BB everything for 100 an hour too bad she moved away or would have keep taping it.

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**RavensFan2012** · 08-21-19 21:46

Originally Posted by JustLonely [View Original Post]

I have been reading about this one on here so I was ready when she messaged me out the blue this afternoon. Wanted half up front as she had been screwed twice before. Or I could pay her for pics / vids for that partial payment. I reported her to Seeking as a scammer. But I doubt she will be deleted. They have her as the feature today.

The fat ones don't usually try to scam you, you'd think if she was running a scam she would say she was athletic or slim LOL.

**Avash88** · 08-21-19 20:19

I did a chunky latina very hot face but chunky used to do an hour BB everything for 100 an hour too bad she moved away or would have keep taping it.

Originally Posted by BlueEyedMan58 [View Original Post]

I had a M / G recently. She was 22, chunky, face ok but nothing to write home about. But within 5 minutes of meeting she said she was DTF, we could use her place and she'd be happy with whatever kind of gift I thought appropriate. Curious what others would do? (I did, and it was nice in a very nasty kind of way, LOL).

**BlueEyedMan58** · 08-21-19 19:36

I had a M / G recently. She was 22, chunky, face ok but nothing to write home about. But within 5 minutes of meeting she said she was DTF, we could use her place and she'd be happy with whatever kind of gift I thought appropriate. Curious what others would do? (I did, and it was nice in a very nasty kind of way, LOL).

**EasyeOne** · 08-21-19 18:29

Originally Posted by JustLonely [View Original Post]

I have been reading about this one on here so I was ready when she messaged me out the blue this afternoon. Wanted half up front as she had been screwed twice before. Or I could pay her for pics / vids for that partial payment. I reported her to Seeking as a scammer. But I doubt she will be deleted. They have her as the feature today.

Those are the exact responses she sent to me. Copy and paste.

**TomDickNHarry** · 08-21-19 17:25

Originally Posted by JustLonely [View Original Post]

I finally find a SB who didn't mind telling me how she goes about this. In her case she likes to have three regulars to see. As long as she has three, she is off of SA. When one drops out for whatever reason, she is back on looking until she finds one more. Three works for her as she wants to be able to meet up at least once a week with one of them to be sure she has enough money for her monthly bills. I asked why not just find one rich guy instead with an allowance. She doesn't want to be tied down and locked in to whatever just one guy wants her to do for that allowance.

That doesn't surprise me. The one thing I'll say is that it's not necessarily she's looking for 3 by choice, it's easy for them to find a guy who will give them a good amount once or on occasion, but it's really really hard for them to find consistency, a guy who will do that regularly. She does it that way out of the necessity, if she has 3 she'll probably see at least one of them weekly as she'll hear from each of them every week to 2 weeks. If she has less it might be a couple of weeks in between seeing anyone. Of the girls who have been around and are honest with you, consistency is their biggest complaint. Most of the guys have options, and know it, and like to play the field. They would almost all love to find the generous, great, consistent guy.

**JustLonely** · 08-21-19 14:13

I have been reading about this one on here so I was ready when she messaged me out the blue this afternoon. Wanted half up front as she had been screwed twice before. Or I could pay her for pics / vids for that partial payment. I reported her to Seeking as a scammer. But I doubt she will be deleted. They have her as the feature today.

**UKnowWho** · 08-21-19 14:08

Originally Posted by TomDickNHarry [View Original Post]

So I've been trying to set up a new profile (just like to switch it up every now and then) and each time after a couple of days when I go to log in to this new account it says "profile deleted. " This has happened twice now. There are no reasons given, no emails sent, just deleted.

My account got deleted once and I had no idea why. I filled out a support ticket on their site (you don't need to be logged into an account, just go to https://www.seeking.com/help/ticket) and they sent me an email telling me why. In my case it was because I'd accidentally done "Delete Account" instead of "Disable Account", so not the same situation as yours, but they'll still probably tell you the reason.

**JustLonely** · 08-21-19 13:24

Originally Posted by BookerTNelson [View Original Post]

Thank you for this breakdown. I typically do 1 month of SA every 6 months because in that 1 month, I can land a good enough haul to last me roughly 4-5 months and then I'll cool down until I tag 20-30 girls that I'm interested in enough to re-up.

My last month of paid subscription landed me 4 regulars that I could rely on, and a few BBBJ queens that I'm still seeing to this day. I noticed that your age range is rather ripe and I've noticed those girls so so flaky that if you don't land one while SA is their current infatuation then you're probably not going to be successful with them. I'd recommend trying to connect with them in their first week of membership because after that they have either lost interest, found one or two that have their attention, realized this game isn't for them or have been disgusted by the messages they've received.

Just a couple thoughts on things.

I finally find a SB who didn't mind telling me how she goes about this. In her case she likes to have three regulars to see. As long as she has three, she is off of SA. When one drops out for whatever reason, she is back on looking until she finds one more. Three works for her as she wants to be able to meet up at least once a week with one of them to be sure she has enough money for her monthly bills. I asked why not just find one rich guy instead with an allowance. She doesn't want to be tied down and locked in to whatever just one guy wants her to do for that allowance.

**FarFarAway** · 08-21-19 13:00

Originally Posted by UKnowWho [View Original Post]

My month membership is almost up, so I decided to add up numbers to see if it's been as bad as it seemed with girls not logging back in. Over the month I found 22 girls with recent logins (max of 5 days before I rejoined) I was interested in, median age of 19.5. Of those, more than a third (8) haven't logged back in since I messaged them.

I'm curious to hear if this all matches others' experiences or not. I'm not sure if I'll renew. I don't mind if a girl isn't interested in my message / profile, but sending 30 messages and having 15 not even get read hardly seems worth it.

One thing that matters, where are you, generally? Everyone's bowl is local. Your experience doesn't seem that off to me. I don't keep track in that way, perhaps it would depress me. LOL. YK those who have disappeared, or dropped off after taking some steps, they're real amateurs. If they were UTR escorts, you'd already have FCd them. To me, that is the value of the site, to find PYTs who aren't taking on any comers.

**Truncated** · 08-21-19 12:28

Originally Posted by CandyMan555 [View Original Post]

I signed up paid with Vanilla card was on for about 24 hours and now cannot get back in Maybe I used my AOL account and they tracked me from before. 3 times I lost money.

Any ideas Thanks CM.

I would email SA's customer service and ask them to give you access, or provide a reason why they won't.

You can dispute the charge with Vanilla and they will put the $90 back on your card. But that will also cause SA to permanently ban you.

It's theft, but they are the only game in town.

If you sign up again, use all new stuff. Don't even use the same computer or phone to sign up. Get a burner and a new email address. Use a different photo. Different address.

**CandyMan555** · 08-21-19 12:18

I signed up paid with Vanilla card was on for about 24 hours and now cannot get back in Maybe I used my AOL account and they tracked me from before. 3 times I lost money.

Any ideas Thanks CM.