"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**Sterling44** · 08-02-19 14:04

Originally Posted by JustLonely [View Original Post]

Waste of time. Good luck getting her clothes off.

https://www.seeking.com/member/b9d0d...1-0a70b6e7afc0

I've seen her twice. Definitely a repeat. Reasonable allowance if she likes you. I guess she's very selective.

**BagIt** · 08-02-19 13:35

Originally Posted by JustLonely [View Original Post]

Waste of time. Good luck getting her clothes off.

https://www.seeking.com/member/b9d0d...1-0a70b6e7afc0

Your inbox is full BTW.

**JustLonely** · 08-02-19 08:29

Waste of time. Good luck getting her clothes off.

https://www.seeking.com/member/b9d0d...1-0a70b6e7afc0

**Kwagmire** · 08-02-19 07:57

Originally Posted by BlueEyedMan58 [View Original Post]

But still, I can't figure out why 4 days have now gone by and this woman hasn't even logged on the site. If she's looking for someone more generous than me, why isn't she back on? I'm assuming the SA function that shows when someone last logged on is reliable, and according to that she has not been on SA since our date ended. So, still weird.

Your mistake is that you're looking for and expecting logic in the mind and actions of a woman. Reminds me of Jack Nicholson's character from "As Good as It Gets":

Receptionist: How do you write women so well?

Melvin: I think of a man, and I take away reason and accountability.

Moral of the story: Move on. Meet other girls on SA, there are other fish in the sea. If this one comes back, cool, have sex with her. If not, have sex with someone else.

It may sound like I hate women, but I assure you that's not true. They're frustrating at times, but I love women, and accept them for who they are. You can't blame a scorpion for being a scorpion. It's in it's nature.

**Kwagmire** · 08-02-19 07:46

Originally Posted by Truncated [View Original Post]

Wander over to the MGTOW forums and do some reading. It's like an AA meeting for married guys.

I wish we could upvote posts on this board. Red Pill and MGTOW boards have given me a much healthier mindset toward women and relationships. You do have to sort through a lot of spergy and immature crap (lots of young guys crying about why women are being mean or not fucking them) to find the good content but the good material is worth it. Changed my life, and continues to do so.

**VetSD** · 08-01-19 08:58

Originally Posted by Passport4 [View Original Post]

I've followed her too on SA but noticed that her location changes from Chesapeake to.

Chester and other areas between Tidewater and RVA.

So she's probably not a SB. If anyone knows more, let us know.

She's a traveling pro. Usually does in call.

**Madaboutmax** · 07-31-19 14:37

Good point.

Originally Posted by BStreet [View Original Post]

I do that too, but if you unblock, you can't re-block for 48 hours, so there is a chance of you popping up in their people they may know during that 48 hours

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**TechSticles** · 07-31-19 12:22

Originally Posted by HabsBurg [View Original Post]

https://judgmentalmaps.com/post/120699828735/richmond

There was some interest previously in hourly motels. Clearly marked on this map.

This might be useful:

Hourly Hotels : Motel rooms for a few hours - Dayuse.com

https://www.dayuse.com/l/hotels-by-the-hour

**TomDickNHarry** · 07-31-19 11:43

Originally Posted by BlueEyedMan58 [View Original Post]

I get that. Like truth being stranger than fiction, so is the bowl. Ranging from experiences so amazing and unexpected that you can't believe you're having them (e. G. , first date doggy in the rest room of a public park with a 22 year old asian spinner less than 45 minutes after meeting her) to so awful you can't wait to extricate yourself from them as quickly and safely as possible (e. G. , women who evidently have a cell and a SA account but no place to live and need a hookup each day just to get a place to spend the night, and probably worse).

But still, I can't figure out why 4 days have now gone by and this woman hasn't even logged on the site. If she's looking for someone more generous than me, why isn't she back on? I'm assuming the SA function that shows when someone last logged on is reliable, and according to that she has not been on SA since our date ended. So, still weird.

Because she already has other Daddies. The part of her story that is without question complete and total BS is that she's just looking to replace this one guy in another town with one guy. With her background and the fact that she was wanting to FC same day, she's really a UTR type. That whole "my last Daddy did this" and throwing some unrealistic figure is the way the smoothest, most experienced gals handle the negotiation. I can guarantee she wasn't actually expecting that.

And it's not uncommon for many of these girls to unplug from this stuff when they don't need money or the existing daddies are seeing them regularly and taking care of them. When you didn't hit the FC that day, she probably met another daddy and got some money and doesn't need it right now. I've had babies where we're meeting weekly or more for a while and they don't log in to SA for months. Then I go a couple weeks without seeing them and they're back logging in everyday.

The good news is that you still have a chance to nail her. Even if she was disappointed somewhat in the figure she agreed to it and will probably do it for that. You just have to wait for her to be wanting to meet someone again. Trust me, she'll be back on there, be patient, then pounce then. Just don't have any illusions about you being the only guy she's seeing or anything like that.

**HabsBurg** · 07-30-19 21:24

https://judgmentalmaps.com/post/120699828735/richmond

There was some interest previously in hourly motels. Clearly marked on this map.

**Roadie1** · 07-30-19 15:29

Originally Posted by VetSD [View Original Post]

Help! An Sa girl turned me in for talking about PPM. I immediately tried to put up another profile using a real and current pic. My picture was denied saying that I was using someone else's photo. It was a real undoctored photo of me. I spent 3 hours trying to set up a profile all with my own undoctored pics. I had to come up with several new email addresses so that it was all different information and they finally accepted one. When I started talking to the girls and telling them my story, the girls who just recently put up new profiles had the exact same problem. One SA girl told me that she had a profile up for a month. She decided to add a pic of herself in a bathing suit in her own backyard. They denied her bathing suit photo because they said it was too sexual in nature. What! Has SA hired new staff? Is this why the new girls only have one shitty photo. I'm going to ask some more girls with new profiles and get back to you. Somethings going on and theres an idiot turning down real pics. Why in the world would they treat good paying customers this way?

Absolutely! New staff. Sa is denying authentic profiles. They are denying new profiles and new / real profile pics left and right. The girls are getting turned down if their pic is too sexual in nature. That is the reason why profile pics are scarce and BORING. They're obviously trying to lose all of their customers to other sugar daddy sites.

**BStreet** · 07-29-19 20:42

I do that too, but if you unblock, you can't re-block for 48 hours, so there is a chance of you popping up in their people they may know during that 48 hours

Originally Posted by Madaboutmax [View Original Post]

If I find an SB from my real FB account I quickly block them. I can review my list of blocked users and briefly unblock them if I want to check their activity.

I believe this keeps them from seeing you pop up in their suggested friends list. Can anyone confirm?

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**Ernest Ll** · 07-29-19 15:31

She certainly has the look for it in her private photos.

Any intel? https://www.seeking.com/member/290f8...a-3a7157de82f6.

I found her on Instagram from one of the photos she texted me, says she will get totally freaky with me for a few hours for $600.

**Truncated** · 07-29-19 13:50

Originally Posted by VetSD [View Original Post]

Help! An Sa girl turned me in for talking about PPM. I immediately tried to put up another profile using a real and current pic. My picture was denied saying that I was using someone else's photo. It was a REAL undoctored photo of me. I spent 3 hours trying to set up a profile all with my own undoctored pics. I had to come up with several new email addresses so that it was all different information and they finally accepted one. When I started talking to the girls and telling them my story, the girls who just recently put up new profiles had the exact same problem. One SA girl told me that she had a profile up for a month. She decided to add a pic of herself in a bathing suit in her own backyard. They denied her bathing suit photo because they said it was too sexual in nature. What! Has SA hired new staff? Is this why the new girls only have one shitty photo. I'm going to ask some more girls with new profiles and get back to you. Somethings going on and theres an idiot turning down real pics. Why in the world would they treat good paying customers this way?

Take a deep breath.

Seeking is cracking down on fake pics.

At this point, you'll need to create a completely new profile with all new data points (new phone #, email address, etc.) Use nothing from the old profile.

Then, take a pic of yourself from the side, so both of your eyes cannot be seen. Upload that. Seeking should accept it.

You need to start from scratch. Get a burner and use it for the new pic and Seeking registration. Don't use anything from your previous account.

**Madaboutmax** · 07-29-19 11:20

If I find an SB from my real FB account I quickly block them. I can review my list of blocked users and briefly unblock them if I want to check their activity.

I believe this keeps them from seeing you pop up in their suggested friends list. Can anyone confirm?

Originally Posted by Tidad [View Original Post]

Another thing to keep in mind. Now that you have looked at her account and have seen that you have 25 friends in common, the account you used will appear in her "people you may know" feed. If that account has your pics and name, she probably knows as much about you as you know about her. If you used a "monger" account but use the same device (phone?) to access both accounts then FB assumes those two accounts know each other. If your phone was in your pocket when you met her and she had her phone with her (and uses it for FB) then FB will guess that she may know both of your accounts. Both accounts will eventually appear in her feed although your "real" account will take longer and will appear less often and for a shorter amount of time. It's all data points and FB is crazy good at connecting the dots.