Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

[Flash416]

https://www.secretbenefits.com/app/p...43f964d848e1de

She also posts on seeking. She is a scammer. I had met her a couple times and she would keep requesting money for different things gas medicine. She starting texting me one morning that she was in the ER and needed money for them to see her. She actually got hostile when I kept asking which one. I know I t was foolish but I sent it. Shouldn't have been that surprised when I went to the ER and was told that she wasn't there.

I believe her handle on seeking is Kbabbby6135. May be off on the spelling.

I will say this. She is hot but definitely not worth it.

[Longduckdong1]

Has anyone connected with her? Like the natural look and curves.

https://www.seeking.com/member/f33ac...b-cc85fdf5ab8e

Thanks.

[Longduckdong1]

Silverbug is fun. But threw me off by how aggressive she is with wanting to see you. While most SA girls don't make the first move the big was texting asking to meet same day.

Service is good, fear is that she's on track to service more people that McDonald's. Think she's closer to a pro than the girl next door with a little secret.

Guess she's just a little too high volume for my tastes.

Silverbug is my goto. Very reliable. You are correct, she is everything and more. With great personality and performance.

[DuplinRed87]

Here are a couple of Sugar Babies I have had dealings with recently.

Moonphase:

https://www.seeking.com/member/2236d...b-b77de7f5ce76

All talk. She will try to give sad stories about needing money and asks for gas money to come meet you (side note: Asking for gas money has been a major red flag to me for a person that will just bail on you). I wouldn't waste my time with this one.

Silverbug:

https://www.seeking.com/member/8fedb...3-62554cf171f5

This one is a completely different story. She is a bit on the pricey side but is open to pretty much anything. She has very little boundaries and as close to a GFE as I have found. The only down side is the amount that she initially asks for and the distance she is from me, otherwise I would keep her to myself instead of giving her a positive review here (like most, I would want to keep the good ones to myself).

Silverbug is my goto. Very reliable. You are correct, she is everything and more. With great personality and performance.

[Queen City Guy]

This is so funny.

SB sends me a message on SB, and typical, "Hi how are you doing today?

I write back, "Fine, what is a young lady like you looking for on here?

This was her answer:

"and if they ask be like I'm looking for a platonic relationship at first and then we'll see what happens" (now I suspect she cut and pasted that from an email or text one of her GF gave her telling her you get one, talk sweet, and these old men will just send you money. ".

7/16/19 10:27 pm.

My response:

"LOL looks like someone has given you advice.

Well let's just be honest, I'm not looking for just a platonic relationship although that's part of it, I could get on OurTime.com and find an activity partner today if I just wanted someone to go to the museum with or go out to eat. ".

This is one of the reasons I never answer or hit up the 18/19 yos, figure that maybe by 20 their are understanding their marketable talents.

[ThunderBoat]

SD / SB ratios.

For those of you that feel you need to pay high dollars for a SB, check out this link that shows the ratio of SDs to SBs by city, CLT is 1 to 10. How it was put together is explained in the link. Is it perfect, no, but realize there are far fewer SDs than want to be SBs. Keep this in mind as you negotiate next time around.

TB.

https://old.reddit.com/r/sugarlifest...atios_by_city/

[TheSlammer]

Same exact thing happened to me. She lives in Albemarle. Your description was dead on with my experience. I was willing to see her the next day, but she needed money right then. And I had never met her either. Must have been her "scam" day.

This gal from Concord has been on the SB boards. IMed with me some and offered up digits pretty qucikly. Then she ingored my texts for 2-3 weeks which is OK, whatever, I could see her logging into the board. Well fast foward to last night and when I land from an out-of-country trip I get a text saying she had been sick blah blah blah needed 100 for some money she owed the court by Friday (great way to start a relationship! And I don't know if that was yesterday or next Friday). Well just now I text back and say the funds are no issue but the circumstances are. If we could get together for some fun this weekend, her problems are solved if not I have no confidence in her promise to "pay-me-back this Friday" (yeah right.).

Anyone have any experience with her?

I was suspect that she had another profile on another site with slightly different data (in Albemarle, and a couple years different age. Red flags to me but hey Concord / Albemarle maybe she lives in Mt Pleasant, or Frog Pond or Midland or Locust or something and one profile isodler thanthe other or something).

Would be gald to help but not to throw money away.

Any input welcomed (well most....some...a little)

[Queen City Guy]

LOL to be clear, I was paying 2. 50 when she was still hot. Once I saw the trend in weight gain, I moved on. I don't do bbw's at all myself, but I don't judge others that do. I do enjoy a nice pawg. But that's with a "phat". And not "fat" .

Not sure what's going on with the new crop of SA newbies, but seems like they're mostly got GPS lately. I guess it's time for me to switch up my tactics a bit.

LOL, and how many times a month do 'date' at 2. 5 a shot? 2 x a month is 500 or 6 large a year! Guys are nailing gals everyday that are 20 something hardbodies for less. But hey, all of us have our own way of mongering and I respect that for sure. Seriously. Hell if I were single I would work the regular dating sites (Match, POF< etc) and get some action for free with a dinner or two. The 'a few extra pounds' would gladly oblidge I think. And hey you might actually meet someone you connect with and better yet you break; them in from the beginning to be shared with your buds one occassion (I. E. ME!

With respect to the 'new crop' discretion must be used for sure because I see 'non-sexual' dating and communication buddies & soforth which means money-for-nothing. Let me interpret: the communication is me talking nice to you when I want you to Venmo me $$.

What the crap have these girls been fed except "you can get on these sites and pretend you will meet up with these guys for dinner or something and ask them for money and they'll give it to you! Best deal going!

All I can say is there must be some total and complete dumbarses out there! Whatever.

[Queen City Guy]

This gal from Concord has been on the SB boards. IMed with me some and offered up digits pretty qucikly. Then she ingored my texts for 2-3 weeks which is OK, whatever, I could see her logging into the board. Well fast foward to last night and when I land from an out-of-country trip I get a text saying she had been sick blah blah blah needed 100 for some money she owed the court by Friday (great way to start a relationship! And I don't know if that was yesterday or next Friday). Well just now I text back and say the funds are no issue but the circumstances are. If we could get together for some fun this weekend, her problems are solved if not I have no confidence in her promise to "pay-me-back this Friday" (yeah right.).

Anyone have any experience with her?

I was suspect that she had another profile on another site with slightly different data (in Albemarle, and a couple years different age. Red flags to me but hey Concord / Albemarle maybe she lives in Mt Pleasant, or Frog Pond or Midland or Locust or something and one profile isodler thanthe other or something).

Would be gald to help but not to throw money away.

Any input welcomed (well most....some...a little)

[MraTypical]

The last time I spend a total of $500, it was for two Sugar Babies (a hard 8 and a soft 9) at the same time. BBFS, and they both participated with me, and each other (girlfriends), and let me take pictures during. If you're paying $250 for a fat girl with baby damage, you need to up your negotiation skills (unless that's your thing).

LOL to be clear, I was paying 2. 50 when she was still hot. Once I saw the trend in weight gain, I moved on. I don't do bbw's at all myself, but I don't judge others that do. I do enjoy a nice pawg. But that's with a "phat". And not "fat" .

Not sure what's going on with the new crop of SA newbies, but seems like they're mostly got GPS lately. I guess it's time for me to switch up my tactics a bit.

[PorcPorc]

Here are a couple of Sugar Babies I have had dealings with recently.

Moonphase:

https://www.seeking.com/member/2236d...b-b77de7f5ce76

All talk. She will try to give sad stories about needing money and asks for gas money to come meet you (side note: Asking for gas money has been a major red flag to me for a person that will just bail on you). I wouldn't waste my time with this one.

Silverbug:

https://www.seeking.com/member/8fedb...3-62554cf171f5

This one is a completely different story. She is a bit on the pricey side but is open to pretty much anything. She has very little boundaries and as close to a GFE as I have found. The only down side is the amount that she initially asks for and the distance she is from me, otherwise I would keep her to myself instead of giving her a positive review here (like most, I would want to keep the good ones to myself).

[Murphy69]

Like I said, I didn't write the book on it (yet) so the one or two-offs college sweethearts for 350 is certainly one angle. They need funds, you need relief but they ain't handing it over. I'm saying I work those gals down like a pencil to a nub and say "hey! I'm here, not doing that 3. 5 for the evening, couldn't handle you for the evening! If you could use 1. 0 for a half hour with a clean, safe, respectful, older gent, let me know. ".

You'd be surprised how many hits I get. Not a stud muffin but not a horn-dawg either and some gals will make that trade-off for the respect and security.

Old age has its privileges!

"he's just a nice old man and its so easy to make him happy, and he appricates me!. And I feel so safe with him".

I must admit I like your angle a lot. I unfortunately won't be able to use the older man angle as I'm not exactly close to your age but I consider myself a professional gentleman so perhaps I can develop my own script similar to yours but taking into account my situation. I feel like with you it is all in the warm and not overly horny delivery which sets them at ease. I think adapting to that warm and inviting delivery may yield my own interesting results so I am going to give it a shot. Thank you for those points of info!

[Queen City Guy]

Yeah I have mainly been in that college girl group and been spending 250-350 for awhile now. Don't get me wrong the looks and fun have been amazing but the girl next door for 100 trying to make a cell phone payment sounds amazingly great all in itself. Maybe I need to search a little more if I'm interested in trying your route. I never thought about it that way but worth looking for.

Like I said, I didn't write the book on it (yet) so the one or two-offs college sweethearts for 350 is certainly one angle. They need funds, you need relief but they ain't handing it over. I'm saying I work those gals down like a pencil to a nub and say "hey! I'm here, not doing that 3. 5 for the evening, couldn't handle you for the evening! If you could use 1. 0 for a half hour with a clean, safe, respectful, older gent, let me know. ".

You'd be surprised how many hits I get. Not a stud muffin but not a horn-dawg either and some gals will make that trade-off for the respect and security.

Old age has its privileges!

"he's just a nice old man and its so easy to make him happy, and he appricates me!. And I feel so safe with him".

[Murphy69]

Well Murph a 3-600 gal sounds like a high-class / low vol escort to me not a SB / UTR. That's fine if that's what you're looking for. A SB / UTR is the girl next door that needs to pay her cell bill, the mom that needs pampers and formula, the wife whose hubby has ED and needs some Talbots money, the fiance whose man says how are "we" going to make up the 100 we need so we can make the rent this month. I don't go for the home coming queens just the gals next door. Plus at my age (early 60's) I just need a QV of sorts maybe 45 min max. I don't do BBWs, people with drug problems, people with tons of 'traffic' but do look for people I can connect with, help out, so the next time they need help they hit me up FIRST. But most all of mine woud let me get 2nds if I needed them.

Didn't write the book on it but Gman and I have colaborated on doing one LOL! Sure to be a USASG Best Seller!

Yeah I have mainly been in that college girl group and been spending 250-350 for awhile now. Don't get me wrong the looks and fun have been amazing but the girl next door for 100 trying to make a cell phone payment sounds amazingly great all in itself. Maybe I need to search a little more if I'm interested in trying your route. I never thought about it that way but worth looking for.

[Queen City Guy]

Is that $100 you are paying? I couldn't tell by what was typed. If so you have me in shock as I'm paying on average $300 for a SB with very solid 9 looks. That's usually a early 20's college hard body type. I usually get at least 2 hours of non stop fun and to me I've always considered that a bargain. I have went 400 before on a couple but been none the more impressed so prefer staying in the 250-300 range on my money spent. I had a great one last year at 200 per visit and I thought I hit the lottery with that. Some are just outrageous in their wants as I've been quoted 500-900 in past per meet and attempted to negotiate to 300 or maybe 350 if they looked amazing but then moved on if rejected. Some say very high prices but will settle at that 250-300 range while others refuse to at that moment but I realize that they will eventually come down when they realize the market.

If you though are getting $100 a meet up and getting an extended time too I am very jealous and wish I had your negotiating skill or something as I'm apparently lacking big time in that department. I am always open to learn and would be happy to get some teachings through pm if you could help improve my negotiating skill any. I am always willing to learn from someone who is working the hobby better and more efficient money wise than I am. Thanks for any advice ahead of time.

Well Murph a 3-600 gal sounds like a high-class / low vol escort to me not a SB / UTR. That's fine if that's what you're looking for. A SB / UTR is the girl next door that needs to pay her cell bill, the mom that needs pampers and formula, the wife whose hubby has ED and needs some Talbots money, the fiance whose man says how are "we" going to make up the 100 we need so we can make the rent this month. I don't go for the home coming queens just the gals next door. Plus at my age (early 60's) I just need a QV of sorts maybe 45 min max. I don't do BBWs, people with drug problems, people with tons of 'traffic' but do look for people I can connect with, help out, so the next time they need help they hit me up FIRST. But most all of mine woud let me get 2nds if I needed them.

Didn't write the book on it but Gman and I have colaborated on doing one LOL! Sure to be a USASG Best Seller!