Seeking Arrangements

[Aardvarks]

God, have sent out so many messages that have gone unread or no response back even though they read it.

Have talked with many girls in the past week. It is laughable. An average, nothing special 20 something girl on there wants 400+ to meet LOL.

Have had a couple say they would take 300 they are not worth it. Had a couple of older ones in their 30's looking for similar. That is laughable also.

When you say to them I am at 200 or 250 most of them act insulted or you are so cheap I would not see you etc etc etc.

Talk about GPS it is rampant.

Not paying an average looking girl 400 or even 300 also have run into the I want to be paid to meet up.

How do any of you guys meet anyone on there anymore.

I guess guys not on this site are paying these ridiculous prices, if the girls are still asking for it and holding steady on their prices.

Forgot, also talked with some who are looking for a weekly / monthly arrangement only right from the start. LOL again laughable.

Anyone who asks me for money or a full allowance upfront before I get what I want. I tell them sorry that's not a mutually beneficial arrangement. We can start slow on both sides and if they say no I wish them luck and I move on. If I haven't blocked them I occasionally will shoot them a DM or text telling them what the next girl agreed to.

I think the bare minimum you're going to get is $300-400 for a hottie (who knows she's hot and is not a pro) to have sex immediately. The ones who are taking $100-300 who are legit college beauties either A) are new and don't know what they're doing or B) super desperate because they owe a bill or something or they want to get back at their boyfriend.

I agree it's difficult to weed out the GPS. It's almost like a second job. I mentioned previously that single moms are like shooting fish in a barrel. They just want attention and money. So if you're into that there's easy ways to find them using filters.

For college girls and 20 somethings my strategies are simple.

Strategy A "Sex may or may not be possible on date #1": Find a hot one who will respond to you and offer to buy her lunch or dinner or a drink. Say you'll bring an initial gift and you can discuss the arrangement. This weeds out the pros I think because why are they going to waste time with you when there are Johns out there looking for what they provide. Bring a couple of gift cards to stores they like (ask them where they like to shop in advance). Say you're looking for your next amazing arrangement and maybe throw together a story about your last one (true or not). Mention gifts, sex, emotions. This makes them envision being with you and what you can provide for them. Meeting up is key in my opinion. What's the worst you can do? Have a meal or a drink with a hot girl and practice your game. All of my long terms have been a good first meeting at their place, a bar, restaurant, park or if I'm lucky enough a hotel. Try that move and see what happens. I try charming them to the point where they say when can we kick this off or meet again. Or let's take this to the second location.

Strategy B "I've detected sluttiness over DM on SA"): Get to text quickly. I like to be friendly flirty and see how their day is going. Get into detail but not too much detail. Use some of the recalling of your previous SBs from Strategy A. I tell them I'm legit and have a lot of money to spend so I have a pretty simple screening process. Question #1: If we were lying on the couch together watching TV what would your first move be. Question 2: Craziest place they've had sex. If you don't get good answers on 1 or 2 this may be a lengthy engagement or not worth your time.

Like KingOfFours said awhile back there's only two types of women on SA: Hoes that know they are hoes, or Hoes that don't know they are hoes (yet). I'll add a 3rd type and that is Hoes that want money to not put out. And for these prices you could go hire a local model to hang out with you platonically.

I keep copies of all my conversations on SA as well as an index of their profiles, pics, and numbers. Maybe we should all contribute to a book or something LOL.

[JohnTies]

God, have sent out so many messages that have gone unread or no response back even though they read it.

Have talked with many girls in the past week. It is laughable. An average, nothing special 20 something girl on there wants 400+ to meet LOL.

Have had a couple say they would take 300 they are not worth it. Had a couple of older ones in their 30's looking for similar. That is laughable also.

When you say to them I am at 200 or 250 most of them act insulted or you are so cheap I would not see you etc etc etc.

Talk about GPS it is rampant.

Not paying an average looking girl 400 or even 300 also have run into the I want to be paid to meet up.

How do any of you guys meet anyone on there anymore.

I guess guys not on this site are paying these ridiculous prices, if the girls are still asking for it and holding steady on their prices.

Forgot, also talked with some who are looking for a weekly / monthly arrangement only right from the start. LOL again laughable.

[Spike77]

Thank you. How was the session?

Session was fine. GFE type encounter. The time was a little shorter than I am used to with SA girls. She said she needed to be somewhere but next time would be longer. Plus to her defense she lives about an hour from me. She seemed nice, just not really my type. I have better options out there so I will probably not repeat.

[Spill]

Not sure if it is the same girl in the pic. The girl that showed up was really thin. Not for me but others may enjoy. Damage was 300.

https://www.seeking.com/member/13038...1-b7e6bfdda8ce

Thank you. How was the session?

[PaulRew]

Stunning pics but I am going to guess that most if not all were from around her join date. Many bad lifestyle choices later and while still an ok face, super thin and, well, lets say that in a first for me regarding SB's I choose the cover.

Any questions shoot me a pm.

https://www.seeking.com/member/69477...5-6f4856db4e44

[Aardvarks]

They have no interest in having sex with you. Ever. They just try to string you along to milk whatever dollar they can out of you until you finally figure it out. Lot's of people fall for it. Don't pay unless you know you are getting the goods. That is SA 101.

You're spot on. That's why I do a certain amount at the beginning and it goes up when intimacy happens. If I don't get what I want within a reasonable timeframe I move on. I've currently got an 8 month thing going on but still occasionally dabble when she's being difficult. No good ones to report though. Just desperate single moms who need some quick cash and then are usually off the site. In my experience they are guaranteed. They don't have this platinum p syndrome and just want to hit it and quit it which is fine by me.

[Spike77]

Not sure if it is the same girl in the pic. The girl that showed up was really thin. Not for me but others may enjoy. Damage was 300.

https://www.seeking.com/member/13038...1-b7e6bfdda8ce

[Spike77]

There seems to be an epidemic of young women who want to date you, take things slow, need to build up to having sex with you if the chemistry is right.

They have no interest in having sex with you. Ever. They just try to string you along to milk whatever dollar they can out of you until you finally figure it out. Lot's of people fall for it. Don't pay unless you know you are getting the goods. That is SA 101.

[OkWhatever]

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[Joe1223]

There seems to be an epidemic of young women who want to date you, take things slow, need to build up to having sex with you if the chemistry is right.

Which I have no issue with at all as they are real young women who are sugar babies. It is great that they are on there but when talking with them.

They think they should be paid for spending time with you on real dates and doing things together that you are footing the bill for. Hoping that down the line.

They will "feel it" and be comfortable enough with you to have sex.

I have talked with more than enough of these young women in the last few days. When talking and explaining that when there is a "full" arrangement then I would be more than.

Happy to have an agreement, until then I enjoy spending time together on dates and doing things together. They do not agree that a sugar arrangement should include sex happening.

Had one even say I was treating her like a prostitute. LOL.

I have treated them all with respect, was nice to them, and wished them good luck in finding what they were looking for.

Have no idea where or why they are thinking a guy will be happy paying them to have blue balls or the honor of taking them out, paying for everything.

Getting frustrated!

It is hit or miss on SA and similar sites. Some guys are overpaying the girls so they assume everyone will. Basically you need to determine what you want from them and what your willing to pay. I personally set a range that I'm willing to pay and do not go above it. My range depends on the quality of the girl and what she is open to. At $300 I almost never repeat as it's not sustainable for me long term and eventually I'm ready for a change anyway. As far as what I am looking for, I'm upfront with them and tell them it's PPM for sex. If they freak or seem insulted them I cross them off the list. Why waste my time when I'm basically looking for a " prostitute" anyway. If you are looking to wine, dine and date then maybe tinder or some real dating app is a better fit.

You need to be able to say no to the girl and set your price and stick to it. If the girl is insulted by you asking for sex then you probably are getting nothing anyway so move on. I had a smoking hot girl ask for 400 so I asked if she was open to a counteroffer and never heard back. So I just crossed her off the list. If she hmu later which she will eventually then I get my shot otherwise I search for the next one. Eventually you find someone that you can work with.

[PaulRew]

So I started reading some other states threads on SA. I can safely say that GPS / PPS exists across this great land but seems more prevalent in the Major cities. On a personal note, I kill it with Providence girls and not so much with Boston girls. Anyway, stumbled across this profile and I think you all will be hard pressed to top her in terms of delusional thinking / pps (is there something above pps?) etc.

https://www.seeking.com/member/92621...5-db74d1d04893

[JohnTies]

There seems to be an epidemic of young women who want to date you, take things slow, need to build up to having sex with you if the chemistry is right.

Which I have no issue with at all as they are real young women who are sugar babies. It is great that they are on there but when talking with them.

They think they should be paid for spending time with you on real dates and doing things together that you are footing the bill for. Hoping that down the line.

They will "feel it" and be comfortable enough with you to have sex.

I have talked with more than enough of these young women in the last few days. When talking and explaining that when there is a "full" arrangement then I would be more than.

Happy to have an agreement, until then I enjoy spending time together on dates and doing things together. They do not agree that a sugar arrangement should include sex happening.

Had one even say I was treating her like a prostitute. LOL.

I have treated them all with respect, was nice to them, and wished them good luck in finding what they were looking for.

Have no idea where or why they are thinking a guy will be happy paying them to have blue balls or the honor of taking them out, paying for everything.

Getting frustrated!

[Aardvarks]

I chatted with this one. We negotiated through text back and forth for 200 an hour. She was cool with doing BBFS too. We had a meet up time set. Then she hits with this text.

"I don't suck dick with anyone the first time so if that's a dealbreaker say it now".

"really? Why not?

"because I'm not putting my mouth on some guys dick I don't know it's disgusting. ".

Thank you next.

As a colleague of mine used to say "Now THAT is funny". But SA is a gene pool and there is a little bit of everything. I had a lesbian contact me saying she needed some D and oh my when we went to text the stuff she wanted to do. Offered up anal because she prefers it. Then we met for a drink and she said no sex I want to just be friends. I don't need a friend LOL. Paid for the drinks and parted ways.

[Joe Kickass]

I chatted with this one. We negotiated through text back and forth for 200 an hour. She was cool with doing BBFS too. We had a meet up time set. Then she hits with this text.

"I don't suck dick with anyone the first time so if that's a dealbreaker say it now".

"really? Why not?

"because I'm not putting my mouth on some guys dick I don't know it's disgusting. ".

Thank you next.

Really? Your pics start with you looking hot and then you get fatter in each one.

https://www.seeking.com/member/36ff6...2-f77196c14925

Not trying to be an ass but.

[Aardvarks]

Really? Your pics start with you looking hot and then you get fatter in each one.

https://www.seeking.com/member/36ff6...2-f77196c14925

Not trying to be an ass but.