Arrangement Reports

**FeldSpot** · 05-14-19 21:30

Was willing on what I was looking for, minus anal, but wanted $$.

https://www.seeking.com/member/3eed9...5-f26e26747a06

Same thing, wanted $$.

https://www.seeking.com/member/890a8...4-dc02fae7fe6a

This one wanted to meet 1-3 times for non-sexual dates at $$ a piece, before moving to the adult action at $$ 2.

https://www.seeking.com/member/9536b...7-99b0352bbaf0

**FafaFooey** · 05-14-19 21:09

Originally Posted by StanKost [View Original Post]

Has anyone had great long lasting (6 mo this or more) with a sugar babe from SA.

Yes, but I'm having a hard time imagining it happening again with the crop of girls that populates the site now. Seemed like the sweet spot used to be early-mid 20's with some kind of life of their own. School, job, etc. This wasn't a full time hustle or sole source of money for them. This led to reasonable expectations for allowances and scheduling which made repeating desirable and possible. If a little familarity and chemistry developed, then repeat encounters could definitely happen over many months, maybe with some on-and-off breaks or stretches. And there was more of a feeling of a 'relationship' or friendship without it being committed, clingy, etc.

I'm sure it could just be me and bad luck in who I've approached recently but they all seem to be platonic, pro, or out of their mind with financial expectations about how this should work.

But happy hunting and enjoy reading all the stories, successes or not!

**Chicago41** · 05-14-19 20:09

Been trying for days to get laid, it used to be a piece of cake. I've only been off SA for a few months, all of a sudden it's full of time wasters and flakes who ghost me. Going to keep trying, one of these girls has to be willing to fuck and actually follow through with it.

**FeldSpot** · 05-14-19 19:38

Saw her profile, and wasn't interested since platonic was one of her tags, I guess she saw I viewed her profile and she messaged me with her kik username and gave me a form letter saying how she wasn't interested in meeting until she knew she could trust the guy, and to gain that trust they'd send her money for nude pics, because she'd been scammed before from guys on the site. I told her I'd been scammed by pic sellers on the site, and wouldn't part with a cent until we'd met face to face. Crickets.

https://www.seeking.com/member/cd3c3...2-a3ec6fac3d14

**Randolph** · 05-14-19 10:35

Originally Posted by AndrewT3333 [View Original Post]

I do not have pictures on my SA profile. I have found that many girls do ask for pictures. If they ask for a picture straight out of the gate, I usually view this as a negative, since I take it as "I want to see what you look like before I do you, but I don't care about anything else." On the other hand, if it gets to the point of agreeing to meet at a hotel without an M&G, I view it as a substantial negative, since I take it as "I don't care what you look like; I just want your money." The "just right" for me is to have enough back and forth that I think there might be some chemistry and then she asks for pictures. Those are the ones that I've had the best luck with. I've had a couple good experiences with girls who didn't ask for pictures but who wanted to meet publicly first before deciding to go private. But I am generally looking for someone for an ongoing arrangement, not a semi-pro or even UTR. If I were looking for the latter, then I wouldn't care much whether they had asked for pictures, although the fact that they had would make me think them less likely to ghost. Of course, you should use pictures that won't show up on Google Images.

(I've had someone try to blackmail into sending money to a cash app. They sent me a screen shot of my pics and our text conversation and said that they would upload it all to social media sites calling me out if I didn't pay. I don't recommend sending any pics until you are reasonably sure the person you are talking to is legit.

I don't send selfies. Absolutely never send a face pic making a gesture that they have asked you to do through text (making a peace sign or something like that).

If the woman is legit she knows the game and won't be turned off right away if you don't want to send a pic.).

I understand a woman wanting some level of comfort that you are who you say you are. I try to meet in a public place first. Honestly it makes me more comfortable too. It also.

Then do not ever send a picture. I have had ladies say that it's a dealbreaker -- so be it. I tell them I am married and will not send a photo. I offer to meet up before the hotel in a sbux or even parking lot and if they are not happy with how I look or sound, then we leave it there.

**SteamTrain98** · 05-14-19 10:15

Originally Posted by StanKost [View Original Post]

Has anyone had great long lasting (6 mo this or more) with a sugar babe from SA.

Yes, but you have to treat it like a dating site than a way to find sex workers. If you want something long term, you can't go in with the mindset that you are paying for their time, but rather you're giving them gifts. I know it's splitting hairs, but the non-pros who want something long-term pick up on that and will treat you differently because of it.

I've had plenty of PPM arrangements that felt like I was visiting an escort, but I've also had a LTR with a SB where we both went into it like we were dating, but she'd get cards with "gifts" from me every now and again. I didn't talk about the financial part of our arrangement with my LTR SBs, but it was just there. Honestly, with the LTR, it was really behaving like every escort asks you to on their websites when they talk about GFE and it did truly feel like she was a girlfriend, and not a SB.

As for your comment about the blackmail. I'll echo other statements, I wouldn't send pics via text, or at least none that show my face or any identifiable marks. Use a burner phone / app. Even though they are SBs, you still need to take the same precautions that you would when hiring an escort, because there are bat-shit-crazies in the SB world too.

**Riina** · 05-14-19 09:43

Originally Posted by StanKost [View Original Post]

Has anyone had great long lasting (6 mo this or more) with a sugar babe from SA.

I would leave relationships longer then six months for girls that actually like you.

**StanKost** · 05-14-19 07:59

"I've had someone try to blackmail into sending money to a cash app. They sent me a screen shot of my pics and our text conversation and said that they would upload it all to social media sites calling me out if I didn't pay. I don't recommend sending any pics until you are reasonably sure the person you are talking to is legit. ".

That's exactly what I'm worried about. Last thing I need in my life is someone threatening me to disclose texts and my picture on social media.

I'm trying to decide if SA is worthed. With escorts, especially through agency you know what you are paying for (performance may vary but BJ, DATY and few positions are guaranteed). Has anyone had great long lasting (6 mo this or more) with a sugar babe from SA.

**Truthfu11** · 05-13-19 21:52

Ok, 3 k per month compensation. But she will see you 4-6 times a month. When she comes into town.

Go for it!

https://www.seeking.com/member/33671...f-446b3b6a588d

**Truthfu11** · 05-13-19 21:46

Very sexy (at lease per photos) in town beginning Saturday for a week. Possibly a pro, never got to the point of discussing payment requirements.

https://www.seeking.com/member/609ca...8-0af7103640bd

**Elitte100** · 05-13-19 21:38

I'm new to this SA site.

Anyone has any SB by the Nw suburbs, Schaumburg area?

**GoldenGreek** · 05-13-19 20:47

Originally Posted by Chicago41 [View Original Post]

I sent this chick a long message saying exactly what I wanted, she shares her private photos and she looks great. We chat a little and I ask if she wants to meet up sometime so she asks me what I want? (WTF?) So I told her again what I wanted and suddenly her profile is gone so I guess she blocked me.

https://www.seeking.com/member/aebdd...6-8cc2df53d4cd

You didn't miss anything. She asks for 800. Settled on 500.

GPS.

**Chicago41** · 05-13-19 17:18

Originally Posted by PauFord [View Original Post]

She did you a favor. She's a pro and has multiple profiles. Wants $700/ meet. And she's a ditz / horrible communicator to boot.

Good to hear, I would never pay that for pussy.

**Pau Ford** · 05-13-19 17:09

Originally Posted by Chicago41 [View Original Post]

I sent this chick a long message saying exactly what I wanted, she shares her private photos and she looks great. We chat a little and I ask if she wants to meet up sometime so she asks me what I want? (WTF?) So I told her again what I wanted and suddenly her profile is gone so I guess she blocked me.

https://www.seeking.com/member/aebdd...6-8cc2df53d4cd

She did you a favor. She's a pro and has multiple profiles. Wants $700/ meet. And she's a ditz / horrible communicator to boot.

**Chicago41** · 05-13-19 16:36

I sent this chick a long message saying exactly what I wanted, she shares her private photos and she looks great. We chat a little and I ask if she wants to meet up sometime so she asks me what I want? (WTF?) So I told her again what I wanted and suddenly her profile is gone so I guess she blocked me.

https://www.seeking.com/member/aebdd...6-8cc2df53d4cd