"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[SeekingHead]

Is it me or are these girls asking for to much money?

Every girl seem to ask for the exact samething. 500 weekly allowance for 1 or 2 days a week? WTF. I think they all are readying from an online template on rates.

They are high, but it's a negotiation. $1200 to $1500 is more in line with Atlanta, this is the cost of a 1 bedroom apartment.

My normal rate has been to always offer more for a 1st date & tell them its less going forward. I've banged a couple of model quality girls this way.

Ex.

$300 for the first meet & $250 afterwards.

Always make sure we are on the same page about what goes on behind closed doors.

[HollowGuy]

Is it me or are these girls asking for to much money?

Every girl seem to ask for the exact samething. 500 weekly allowance for 1 or 2 days a week? WTF. I think they all are readying from an online template on rates.

[TheKingFisher0]

https://www.seeking.com/member/e3225...e-da2d5044ba72

[KnoxOle]

After trying to login since this morning, it won't let me get past the login page.

I got an error saying my login is restricted by the network.

Tried to contact customer service but perhaps it's a know issue.

https://www.seeking.com/help/faq

Wdf seeking?

[Cueball]

Is secret benefits worth it or is seeking more than enough?

[LogJammin18]

I'm pretty convinced that 70-80 percent or maybe more of the girls with profiles get cold feet or never end up doing the deed. But it is a thrill to get with the newbies and pop their SA cherry, lot of them not too experience sexually. Love to watch them walking out the door after they finally got it beat up properly lmao.

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Yep, that is the essence of it. I even smashed a virgin last year. It was incredible and awkward at the same time. Ha.

The worm has turned a bit since I posted the report on no shows. It turns out it was finals week and the timing was just bad. They are done now and all looking for a release. I have been a busy boy already this week and have 3 more on the schedule. And you are right about the fat kid at the Golden Corral analogy. I keep having to tell myself to slow down. I did 4 new ones in a 24 hour period 2 separate times at one point last year. I think Hef even would have told me I was pushing it a bit. LOL.

[Leep12]

Been seeing this one a number of times. Figured I would do a report PM me if interested. Seems to be on the prowl now, but my plate is full.

5'1 maybe 110. 25 yo tight body, great ass, trim waste nice firm B cups.

Has hair natural, doesn't mind a little grab and pull. Multi orgasms, mish, doggie, riding. She sometimes blacks out during sex it think. Doesn’t mind a bit rough.

DFK, DATY, won't give head.

BBFS possible. Tells me she doesn't want to get prego, but not so sure.

Shy and quiet at first plan to carry the conversation. Won't discuss money. I usually just give her $$.

[Leep12]

Had great success before and am still seeing 4 gals I met in 2018 on rotation.

Decided to see what was new. Same fool proof techniques used this time, got a few hot ones to text / insta, set up meet and greets / coffee, 4 for 4 no-shows on the first 4 meet ups I set up.

2 went total ghost right before the meet, 1 canceled after I had already headed to the meet and one apologized for not showing and was "busy".

WTF? I could see a 1 no show for every 4, but a 4 for 4, 100% no show ratio?

Saved the 0 fer on the 5th one. I talked this one into skipping the coffee and heading to a hotel. Was raw-dogging it within 3 minutes of her arrival. Ha.

Maybe my technique of always doing a coffee meet up to get the newbie college girl comfortable is not the strategy anymore. However, if I only went after "straight to the hotel" girls, I am going to be no-showed on a lot of rooms.

What are you guys doing that is working. Just sticking with the experienced ones that are DTF and not trying to break in the newbies?

Yea, I like to use the same approach of meeting for coffee or something first although I can get a pretty good feeling if they are DTF on that day. Partly because I want the option to bail out if I'm not "feeling it"with her before investing in a room and allowance. Plus I like to get a vibe going seems to make the sex better for me.

I started on SA about 18 mos ago and went crazy like a fat kid at Golden Coral. So many hotties smashed between 25 and 30 SA girls so far. Had to change my burner number to weed out some of them, That said I have slowed down the past 9 months and been mainly working the rotation of about 5, although pretty sure I could get back with several others if I reached out.

I'm pretty convinced that 70-80 percent or maybe more of the girls with profiles get cold feet or never end up doing the deed. But it is a thrill to get with the newbies and pop their SA cherry, lot of them not too experience sexually. Love to watch them walking out the door after they finally got it beat up properly lmao.

It has been different out there this year, although I've gotten really picky if they don't have anything going that gets me really excited, I'm sticking with my regulars. . I've had the same thing happen, meet with 6 so far this year. One was no show then total ghost, two showed but I punted on them. 3 others backed out on our plans to meet the first time, but ended up smashing them later. One girl I really wanted to meet was a newbie, I threw a Hail Mary and laid into her about time wasting and comfort zone and she came back all submissive and I've smashed her a few times. Another one was experienced SB / seen her around for a while, still went awol but then drove to my office the next day for a nice session.

Think you have a combination of bad luck, plus in general they just don't seem to be biting like in the past. I wouldn't give up on your approach. May want to give them another shot after sereral days if you think they are worth it. No doubt the newbies take more effort and better chance that they don't show. Dealing with Millennials, who the fuck knows what their thinking?

I figure the only way I'm winning is if I'm stroking it at a good value.

[CagerCoach]

Does anyone ever review SecretBenefits SB site? I've actually been more successful on that site. Seeking seems to have a lot more "professionals".

[Johnny Mapalo]

I just re-upped my membership and have been searching for some new ladies. Nicole is one I came across that's definitely worth pursuing. She's a 21 yr old light skinned AA curvy girl, very attractive. She was very straight forward and seems dtf. We had agreed on $5-6 per month and she was even willing to host. My only issue was she's a safety girl. If that's not a problem then I think someone could have some real fun with her. Obviously, I never got to the point of actually meeting her so I can't vouch for the authenticity of the pics or whether she's a flake in person.

https://www.seeking.com/member/54d6d...7-9b633c11125d

That chic has been on backpage and craigslist for at least 4 years now. LOL. Now she's a "Sugar Baby". LOL. Trust me. Alot of people have had her already. I remember going to check her out about 3 years ago in Union City and she flaked on me. "Big Money" the Senior member on here tried to see her a few years back too. She's put on some weight as well. She used to be an averaged bodied chic.

[Harley32]

I just re-upped my membership and have been searching for some new ladies. Nicole is one I came across that's definitely worth pursuing. She's a 21 yr old light skinned AA curvy girl, very attractive. She was very straight forward and seems dtf. We had agreed on $5-6 per month and she was even willing to host. My only issue was she's a safety girl. If that's not a problem then I think someone could have some real fun with her. Obviously, I never got to the point of actually meeting her so I can't vouch for the authenticity of the pics or whether she's a flake in person.

https://www.seeking.com/member/54d6d...7-9b633c11125d

[Jims2321]

Sorry try this? I am you able to see it anymore may have been blocked or its removed. https://www.seeking.com/member/01aed...-b1ec7fb02917..

It appears to be gone. Thanks for the photo, these SB's tend to use them over and over on Seeking, hoping guys forget what they look like.

Jim.

[TheWolverineJP]

I met the sister, she came with Bria but just dropped her off. I inquired if she wanted to play and was told she doesn't. It would be cool to have the twin sis's though. LOL.

Yeah, I've hooked up with her a couple times. She's a cool lady, as long as you cool with her. Wouldn't mind getting with her sister (She's a bit thicker, but not sure she plays).

Skywalker.

[HollowGuy]

Please link the profile not your messages.

Sorry try this? I am you able to see it anymore may have been blocked or its removed. https://www.seeking.com/member/01aed...-b1ec7fb02917..

[Swernon]

This one hit my inbox out of the blue. I saw she was from DC so my first question was when are in Atlanta. Said she was coming Memorial day so we moved to text. She sent a nice face selfie then wanted mine so I sent one of somebody looking close to me. Then it got weird fast. She wanted my nude pics and asked about size of my junk. Then asked if I fuc bare. I suspect its a gay dude trying to get his rocks off.

https://www.seeking.com/member/b5a6d...2-4b346bfaaaae