Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

**TSmithers24** · 04-07-19 17:59

Signed up for WYP to see what it's all about. Watch out for this one. She is on SB and we seemed to hit if off. Every time I tried to set something up she said she couldn't but then one day texted me frantic asking if I could send her paypal for nudes. I said no. She said she really needed the cash asap to pay some debts and would do some extra special stuff when we met. I said no, I don't send money online at all. Only in person. She stopped texting me. Scammer.

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/p...mzwWd5GPLe7j6K

**GMike76** · 04-07-19 16:54

Spent the day chatting with a few here's a list of don't waste your time Heiti and the duo out of new haven heiti wants 1 k per meet and the duo 3 k for the love of god where do they come up with these numbers. Meeting 2 this week will report back.

**MyHobby** · 04-07-19 16:35

https://www.seeking.com/member/3ac6a...4-75d79d2d0915

Stripper trying to drive business into Electric Blue.

**Troutman** · 04-07-19 06:55

Originally Posted by MyHobby [View Original Post]

Thanks for the info, I haven't tried WYP yet but I've had plenty of offers. Just curious:

1) Do they contact you or do you contact them?

2) Do you get away with it being only $100 or sometimes does it go higher in your after dinner conversation?

3) Do they ding you for a fancy dinner and expensive drinks?

4) Are you getting repeats for the $100?

1) after I make the offer and they accept it, I initiate contact. Keep contact very simple, offer to meet over lunch, dinner, drinks, whatever.

2) my opening offer is always $100.90% of the time that is accepted. Sometimes they counter higher, say $200, then I come back with $150. Always accepted.

3) no, they are all more interested in making sure your breath is fresh, you have no open sores, and you're no out to cheat them. I have NEVER been ripped off by one of these girls.

4) most of the repeats are at NO ADDITIONAL CHARGE. Some of them want to maintain an ongoing financial arrangement, but most of them seem to be happy with my desire to help them explore a woman's limitless capacity for orgasm.

**MyHobby** · 04-06-19 19:21

Originally Posted by Troutman [View Original Post]

Just as a postscript to what I said earlier, I have been out with a total of eleven women from WYP, and have had sex, on the first date, with nine of them. One of them didn't want to, and one of them used pictures of herself from a different dimension so I said no. Want to fuck these ladies? Don't play the games these guys are writing about. Be straight with them. If I bid $100 for a date, which is my common bid, then that's what I give them. There is rarely any discussion for more money when sex is involved. Just treat it like a date. At the end of the meal I usually say something like "it's still early, do you live around here, or should we get a room. " I act as though the sex is implied, not a question. And off we go.

Thanks for the info, I haven't tried WYP yet but I've had plenty of offers. Just curious:

1) Do they contact you or do you contact them?

2) Do you get away with it being only $100 or sometimes does it go higher in your after dinner conversation?

3) Do they ding you for a fancy dinner and expensive drinks?

4) Are you getting repeats for the $100?

**MyHobby** · 04-06-19 19:00

https://www.seeking.com/member/b899b...8-51bd0ae1b7ac

After some back and forth for a couple days agreed to a meet up at a hotel. She showed up an hour late and drunk. Much heavier than the pictures. I think the ones with the dark hair and black outfit are photo shopped. That said it started nice with some slap and tickle, light make out session, and a bit of mutual groping. When it got down to business all I got was a lackluster (to say the least) BJ and ended up using the hotel lotion in the crack of her ass to get myself off.

Even at the $100 we negotiated will not repeat.

**Troutman** · 04-06-19 05:19

Originally Posted by ArchitexOne [View Original Post]

I have a meet and greet dinner date set up with a girl I met on SA. Since I am paying for a very nice dinner am I still expected to pay there rate?

Just as a postscript to what I said earlier, I have been out with a total of eleven women from WYP, and have had sex, on the first date, with nine of them. One of them didn't want to, and one of them used pictures of herself from a different dimension so I said no. Want to fuck these ladies? Don't play the games these guys are writing about. Be straight with them. If I bid $100 for a date, which is my common bid, then that's what I give them. There is rarely any discussion for more money when sex is involved. Just treat it like a date. At the end of the meal I usually say something like "it's still early, do you live around here, or should we get a room. " I act as though the sex is implied, not a question. And off we go.

**Tomb8871** · 04-05-19 20:09

Originally Posted by Kwagmire [View Original Post]

Personally, I don't do "very nice dinners" as meet and greets. I generally set up the M&G as a coffee date, but do my best to schedule it at a time where it's possible to evolve a quick cup of coffee into a cocktail and dinner and / or a sex date if things are going well. If the meet and greet ends after just coffee, I don't offer them any money at all. If the coffee date evolves into lunch or dinner, but doesn't end in sex (but I really do want to get to sex eventually), I may offer a small token of 30-50. If after dinner I am ambivalent about sex, I don't offer anything. Of course, since it is a "sugar date" I do pay for the meal (and choose a place at the price point I want).

I try not to discuss "sugar" at all, preferring to let the "date" evolve on its own, and then I just slip some money in her purse at the end, after sex. If she forces a negotiation, then I have to negotiate, but I NEVER give money before sex. I've been burned a couple times on that mistake.

Obviously I adjust tactics based on how the girl is feeling. Do I need to make it feel more like a date so she can rationalize that she's not really a prostitute? Does she just want to get to sex as soon as possible so she can get the money? Different girls are different.

Can relate and agree with what you said. Would add that sometimes when I know we hitting it off during the texting phase, I do offer M&G as dinner but generally just do a chain place it affordable and lets you talk more than at a bar or Starbucks. The problem is that the girls who are dtf quickly usually are short term, and the nicer or prettier ones often chicken out on me.

**MyHobby** · 04-05-19 17:04

https://www.seeking.com/member/d6dd0...a-359de2e9d631

Wants a "gift" before meeting. Was kinda persistent about it. Very annoying.

**TheWsgMan** · 04-05-19 16:05

Originally Posted by Kwagmire [View Original Post]

Personally, I don't do "very nice dinners" as meet and greets. I generally set up the M&G as a coffee date, but do my best to schedule it at a time where it's possible to evolve a quick cup of coffee into a cocktail and dinner and / or a sex date if things are going well. If the meet and greet ends after just coffee, I don't offer them any money at all. If the coffee date evolves into lunch or dinner, but doesn't end in sex (but I really do want to get to sex eventually), I may offer a small token of 30-50. If after dinner I am ambivalent about sex, I don't offer anything. Of course, since it is a "sugar date" I do pay for the meal (and choose a place at the price point I want).

I try not to discuss "sugar" at all, preferring to let the "date" evolve on its own, and then I just slip some money in her purse at the end, after sex. If she forces a negotiation, then I have to negotiate, but I NEVER give money before sex. I've been burned a couple times on that mistake.

Obviously I adjust tactics based on how the girl is feeling. Do I need to make it feel more like a date so she can rationalize that she's not really a prostitute? Does she just want to get to sex as soon as possible so she can get the money? Different girls are different.

I try to avoid discussing allowances ahead of time before meeting. Big red flag and turn off if after messaging and talking about meeting, they ask, what is my allowance going to be? I tell them we can discuss that when we meet.

**Buck Cock** · 04-05-19 13:50

Originally Posted by ArchitexOne [View Original Post]

I have a meet and greet dinner date set up with a girl I met on SA. Since I am paying for a very nice dinner am I still expected to pay there rate?

I'm a bit of an asshole so I let them know dinner isn't a good idea for the first meeting before hand then give other options, if they persist I go through with it but I scrutinize everything. So far 6 women have been mortified by the words"separate checks" after the bill comes.

**Kwagmire** · 04-05-19 10:04

Originally Posted by ArchitexOne [View Original Post]

I have a meet and greet dinner date set up with a girl I met on SA. Since I am paying for a very nice dinner am I still expected to pay there rate?

Personally, I don't do "very nice dinners" as meet and greets. I generally set up the M&G as a coffee date, but do my best to schedule it at a time where it's possible to evolve a quick cup of coffee into a cocktail and dinner and / or a sex date if things are going well. If the meet and greet ends after just coffee, I don't offer them any money at all. If the coffee date evolves into lunch or dinner, but doesn't end in sex (but I really do want to get to sex eventually), I may offer a small token of 30-50. If after dinner I am ambivalent about sex, I don't offer anything. Of course, since it is a "sugar date" I do pay for the meal (and choose a place at the price point I want).

I try not to discuss "sugar" at all, preferring to let the "date" evolve on its own, and then I just slip some money in her purse at the end, after sex. If she forces a negotiation, then I have to negotiate, but I NEVER give money before sex. I've been burned a couple times on that mistake.

Obviously I adjust tactics based on how the girl is feeling. Do I need to make it feel more like a date so she can rationalize that she's not really a prostitute? Does she just want to get to sex as soon as possible so she can get the money? Different girls are different.

**Troutman** · 04-05-19 04:24

Originally Posted by ArchitexOne [View Original Post]

I have a meet and greet dinner date set up with a girl I met on SA. Since I am paying for a very nice dinner am I still expected to pay there rate?

Some of the ladies are just in it for the food.

**TSmithers24** · 04-04-19 19:21

Originally Posted by MyHobby [View Original Post]

I'll check out SB and report on findings. I see a lot of repeats between SA and WYP, do you see the same faces on SB?

Don't feel you need to book a date with an exact time specification. I've met for dinner and had it turn into a 2 day fuck fest, I've met for what turned into a 45 minute PSE that I was happy laying out the cash.

I'm not really on the other sites much so I don't know about repeats. On the timeframe for the meeting, I travel for work and am meeting her during a work trip in another northeast city. She said she would only have two hours that night. But I get what you are saying.

One other thing I noticed is if a girl messages you and then is not on anymore for several days it's probably a bad account. So I don't unlock messages right away. Works most of the time but sometimes it's a waste. So far I've spent less than half of what I would've by having a monthly to SA during the same time frame.

You may not have the same experience though but it's worth a shot. One thing I will say is the local CT area doesn't get a ton of new profiles so you see the same girls in your searches all the time. I'm searching basically from Philly yo Boston and upstate NY so there's lots of option.

**MyHobby** · 04-04-19 18:39

Originally Posted by TSmithers24 [View Original Post]

Secret Benefits. It uses a credits system to message instead of monthly payments. You buy 100 or 200 or more credits and then it takes 10 credits to message a girl or 10 credits to unlock their message to you. Once unlocked you can chat openly with them for no credits fee but most of the ones that are serious end up going through text messages or some other messenger service like facebook. I have a burner facebook account for that. It's easy to run through the credits though because you will get messages or want to message girls. At first I was messaging them which is such a crap shoot. Instead now I favorite their profile and see if they favorite me back or they send me a message. Also, what is written in their profile will say a lot about whether they are real or not and whether there is a shot it's more than just "send me money". Some come out and just say, no physical relationship in their profile. I have about 15 messages that I have not unlocked because I think they are scam accounts and don't want to spend the credits. But there are real girls there. Just have to find them.

Thanks for the advice. I'm meeting her next Wednesday. Attractive and 21. We are meeting for two hours. I'll let you guys know how it goes since I now know this sub-forum exists.

I've had two girls just ask me for money for nudes. I said no. Had one that when I asked for a verification photo she stopped texting, total scammer. Had one who wanted 4 bills just to take her out to dinner and twice that for anything else and she wasn't even that hot. I said no. We will see. I'm having fun with it though.

I'll check out SB and report on findings. I see a lot of repeats between SA and WYP, do you see the same faces on SB?

Don't feel you need to book a date with an exact time specification. I've met for dinner and had it turn into a 2 day fuck fest, I've met for what turned into a 45 minute PSE that I was happy laying out the cash.