Ripoff Reports

[Raige614]

I don't know, maybe. Quoting Matt, "I do not desire to get into the details. " What are these details Matt?

I would just respect Matt's wishes not to elaborate further.

However, it appears that the slag (who has been quoted as saying "You don't know the whole story") appears anxious to talk. Why not satisfy your need for the lurid details that way? I'm willing to bet that for the bargain price of an hourly donation, I. E ALL your money- she'd be willing to give you all the juicy dirt-with her very own personal spin which puts her in the best possible light, of course. May even make herself out to be the "victim" in the scenario.

[TonyTF]

Sounds to me like we got enough of the story to know the truth.

I don't know, maybe. Quoting Matt, "I do not desire to get into the details. " What are these details Matt?

[EGrayUpstate2]

If you think about what sort of things they do with their bodies for what most of us would consider piddly amounts of cash I'm sure the temptation was just too great. Not that it's ok, and like most of you I only bring the minimum I need, but considering the type of people we are dealing with.

[Tomb8871]

I would agree with your point about communicating when this kind of thing happens. I think the rip-off section of this site is the most important part of the whole thing.

But I wouldn't say I am a generous guy. After a point, one should know better than to do what I did. This will be a poor analogy but one doesn't leave a nice juicy steak on the floor in front of a hungry mutt, walk away and expect the dog not to pounce on the meat. Don't blame the mutt, blame oneself for leaving it there. It's basically the same thing with an addict. There's no self-control. In the past I would go ballistic but at this point its just not worth the outrage.

Agree with your main point. Would take it one step further. Not all addicts have visible and obvious track marks or bent spoons lying around or nod out / are drowsy or act erratic when you see them. Had one regular a few years ago who was almost last person on earth I would see as using hard drugs, until at one point discovered she did. Certainly not true of all of them, but best to go on assumption anyone going to steal from you if leave wallet or car keys unattended. Similar thing with violence-always keep in back of mind, even if they swear on their kids life, that most of them have a nasty bf or pimp somewhere. Most have some sort of weapon, if only intended for defensive purposes, secretly hidden somewhere in the room. Just smart to keep one's guard up and swallow your pride over a few bucks.

[Matt574]

The take-away from all this is that we are stronger when we stick together. Her repentance seems to have come about because she had very few other options but to express regret her actions.

I would agree with your point about communicating when this kind of thing happens. I think the rip-off section of this site is the most important part of the whole thing.

But I wouldn't say I am a generous guy. After a point, one should know better than to do what I did. This will be a poor analogy but one doesn't leave a nice juicy steak on the floor in front of a hungry mutt, walk away and expect the dog not to pounce on the meat. Don't blame the mutt, blame oneself for leaving it there. It's basically the same thing with an addict. There's no self-control. In the past I would go ballistic but at this point its just not worth the outrage.

[Stark44]

She and I exchanged communications since my post. She did apologize for what she did and says she will pay back the cash. I don't expect to ever see any of it but she did acknowledge that what she did was wrong. As far as I am concerned it's in the past. I won't see her again but don't bear any grudges (what's the point?) and I was the stupid one for leaving out cash like that so I almost deserve it at this point. And as I previously stated, she has always been good to me so perhaps this situation was a temptation too great at the moment and an aberration. Others can determine for themselves whether that's a risk they want to take.

The take-away from all this is that we are stronger when we stick together. Her repentance seems to have come about because she had very few other options but to express regret her actions.

[Matt574]

Gaping, wide open, Maw fancy word for mouth. P.S. She contacted me said I don't know the whole story, said she could tell me, silence.

She and I exchanged communications since my post. She did apologize for what she did and says she will pay back the cash. I don't expect to ever see any of it but she did acknowledge that what she did was wrong. As far as I am concerned it's in the past. I won't see her again but don't bear any grudges (what's the point?) and I was the stupid one for leaving out cash like that so I almost deserve it at this point. And as I previously stated, she has always been good to me so perhaps this situation was a temptation too great at the moment and an aberration. Others can determine for themselves whether that's a risk they want to take.

[SnoBallGuy]

Gaping, wide open, Maw fancy word for mouth. P.S. She contacted me said I don't know the whole story, said she could tell me, silence.

Sounds to me like we got enough of the story to know the truth.

[Cetacean]

That sucks, I never bring more than. 20 extra to the meeting. Anyway, hope it wasn't hundreds. Any consolation I gave her a nice shower including her gaping maw about two weeks ago. No more cheap trick, she will lose her cash flow. She just texted me a couple of days ago. Peace.

Gaping, wide open, Maw fancy word for mouth. P.S. She contacted me said I don't know the whole story, said she could tell me, silence.

[Cetacean]

So this is an idiot me post from someone who ought to have known better. An example of a slow learner.

I have seen Schenectady Mary fairly often in the past year and she has always been quite willing and open-minded and quite capable as many of you know. Never had any issues until tonight when she lifted a fairly significant amount of bills and had someone waiting to scurry her away before any activities took place.

I do not desire to get into the details. Suffice to say I slipped in my awareness in the moment, although earlier my intuition told me something was different this time, and there it went.

I'm not really all that angry with her. Can't really expect anything else considering all the circumstances. And I am more laughing at my stupidity. In the past I would have been ballistic but he'll, it's probably not going to be the last time. I really only mention it to repeat what we all know and that is to never trust any provider, ever. And never meet anyone with more than what you are willing to lose in your wallet.

That sucks, I never bring more than. 20 extra to the meeting. Anyway, hope it wasn't hundreds. Any consolation I gave her a nice shower including her gaping maw about two weeks ago. No more cheap trick, she will lose her cash flow. She just texted me a couple of days ago. Peace.

[RustyShaq]

So this is an idiot me post from someone who ought to have known better. An example of a slow learner.

I have seen Schenectady Mary fairly often in the past year and she has always been quite willing and open-minded and quite capable as many of you know. Never had any issues until tonight when she lifted a fairly significant amount of bills and had someone waiting to scurry her away before any activities took place.

I do not desire to get into the details. Suffice to say I slipped in my awareness in the moment, although earlier my intuition told me something was different this time, and there it went.

I'm not really all that angry with her. Can't really expect anything else considering all the circumstances. And I am more laughing at my stupidity. In the past I would have been ballistic but he'll, it's probably not going to be the last time. I really only mention it to repeat what we all know and that is to never trust any provider, ever. And never meet anyone with more than what you are willing to lose in your wallet.

Sorry to hear that. I've seen her a few times, but this is the second report of shenanigans on her part, so I'm blocking her number. Plenty of fish in the sea.

[Matt574]

So this is an idiot me post from someone who ought to have known better. An example of a slow learner.

I have seen Schenectady Mary fairly often in the past year and she has always been quite willing and open-minded and quite capable as many of you know. Never had any issues until tonight when she lifted a fairly significant amount of bills and had someone waiting to scurry her away before any activities took place.

I do not desire to get into the details. Suffice to say I slipped in my awareness in the moment, although earlier my intuition told me something was different this time, and there it went.

I'm not really all that angry with her. Can't really expect anything else considering all the circumstances. And I am more laughing at my stupidity. In the past I would have been ballistic but he'll, it's probably not going to be the last time. I really only mention it to repeat what we all know and that is to never trust any provider, ever. And never meet anyone with more than what you are willing to lose in your wallet.

[GameBird]

Well, I got cocky and decided to take a chance on this one:

http://albany.skipthegames.com/femal...l/091046995319

Obviously the low donation should have warned me, but even the oldest and wisest among us thinks with our dick sometimes.

Communication was good, and the location was convenient, so I figured what the hell. I get there and someone opens the door. I walk in and it's a skinny black guy wearing a wig like he's a tranny. At this point I knew I was fucked. He asked for the money, and I said not until I see the girl. Then he got very belligerent, threw off his wig and said his pimp was going to come out and take care of me.

I'm pretty sure there was no pimp, and no girl for that matter. And while I was certain I could kick this guy's ass, I gave him the money. He then demanded more, but given that I'm only mostly stupid, I had nothing else on me besides my car key. Once he was convinced I had nothing else, he calmed down and left the room to "go get her. " Naturally I walked out, thankful to learn another lesson at the low, low cost of $70 and my pride. He left his wig on the floor. I didn't think about stealing it until later LOL.

After so many past successes taking one for the team, I guess I figured my judgment was impeccable. That's my last one for a while. I'm sticking with the tried and true.

Have fun and stay safe my friends!

I would have filled he wig full of baby batter.

[Levi10]

Ugh! I had a similar experience in South Troy a couple of years ago but it was a bigger tranny and a skinny bf. This was in a car in the middle of the day. Had a stand-off in the middle of the street. Same thing, parted with some cash to make them eventually go away.

Not exactly relevant to these particular circumstances but there was one time when I was away on a business trip and decided I wanted some company at my hotel as I was in a city I didn't know and didn't want to end up in least-than-desirable neighborhoods without knowing my way around. So contacted a BP poster and made arrangements. Everything seemed and felt pretty standard. There was a knock on my door and I open it to find a talk skinny dude. Tells me he is my date. I respond accordingly but he takes advantage of my surprise and forces himself in where he proceeds to tell me he is going to scream rape and raise all kinds of hell. This was in an upscale hotel and I didn't relish the idea of a scene a few hours before critical client meetings so I did pay him off. I could have called his bluff but didn't want it prolonged.

I mention this partly because a fellow mongers post the other day about not wanting to visit private residences. This episode is one of many I have had where being in a hotel was no better.

Glad you got out safely, Rusty.

Rusty. Brother you're not alone. Several years ago (8-10) when I was in troy I noticed a WSW that looked pretty good. Looped around where she could hop right in. She told me she had a place not far from where we were. I though what the hell and off we went. We parked on the street when up to a second story apartment that opened into a hall way. She opened the door and went in, naturally I followed her. She sat on the couch collected the donation, then started with a rather nice BBBJ (me standing in front of her sitting on the couch). As she is doing her thing I happened to look back only to notice that she had left the door ajar. Being relatively new to this and getting serviced at the time. I chose to ignore it. BIG MISTAKE! A few seconds later some tall skinny black dude with a short stockier white buddy slam the door open and begin to tell me that I was messing with his wife and that I needed to give him the rest of my money. Given that I always leave my wallet and cell phone in my truck and literally only bring what I intend to spend. I honestly told the thugs that I didn't have a penny left on me and that I had $20 in my truck. The dumb-ass agreed to go with me to my truck to collect the $20. As I soon as I got past him (he was blocking the door the entire time) I reared back and hit him with the back of my right hand as hard as I could. It was such good contact that it left part of one of his teeth embedded in the back of my hand. After seeing his buddy get clocked. The other white trash thug ran like a fat kid chasing the ice cream truck. In retrospect I could have been seriously hurt or worse and I don't recommend anyone confronting these thugs however at the time it just felt like I had only one option.

Guys. Be smart out there and above all stay safe. There were several warning signs I missed or chose to ignore. Whatever you do don't ignore the obvious warning signs.

Needless to say this slowed my SW chasing days down to a near end and now I only stick to the tried and true and the UTR group.

L10.

Boys. Learn from everyone else's mistakes and lessons. One of the best things about this board is that information of all types is power so share all experiences you have and the lessons you've learned. The rest will benefit!

[Matt574]

Well, I got cocky and decided to take a chance on this one:

http://albany.skipthegames.com/femal...l/091046995319

Obviously the low donation should have warned me, but even the oldest and wisest among us thinks with our dick sometimes.

Communication was good, and the location was convenient, so I figured what the hell. I get there and someone opens the door. I walk in and it's a skinny black guy wearing a wig like he's a tranny. At this point I knew I was fucked. He asked for the money, and I said not until I see the girl. Then he got very belligerent, threw off his wig and said his pimp was going to come out and take care of me.

I'm pretty sure there was no pimp, and no girl for that matter. And while I was certain I could kick this guy's ass, I gave him the money. He then demanded more, but given that I'm only mostly stupid, I had nothing else on me besides my car key. Once he was convinced I had nothing else, he calmed down and left the room to "go get her. " Naturally I walked out, thankful to learn another lesson at the low, low cost of $70 and my pride. He left his wig on the floor. I didn't think about stealing it until later LOL.

After so many past successes taking one for the team, I guess I figured my judgment was impeccable. That's my last one for a while. I'm sticking with the tried and true.

Have fun and stay safe my friends!

Ugh! I had a similar experience in South Troy a couple of years ago but it was a bigger tranny and a skinny bf. This was in a car in the middle of the day. Had a stand-off in the middle of the street. Same thing, parted with some cash to make them eventually go away.

Not exactly relevant to these particular circumstances but there was one time when I was away on a business trip and decided I wanted some company at my hotel as I was in a city I didn't know and didn't want to end up in least-than-desirable neighborhoods without knowing my way around. So contacted a BP poster and made arrangements. Everything seemed and felt pretty standard. There was a knock on my door and I open it to find a talk skinny dude. Tells me he is my date. I respond accordingly but he takes advantage of my surprise and forces himself in where he proceeds to tell me he is going to scream rape and raise all kinds of hell. This was in an upscale hotel and I didn't relish the idea of a scene a few hours before critical client meetings so I did pay him off. I could have called his bluff but didn't want it prolonged.

I mention this partly because a fellow mongers post the other day about not wanting to visit private residences. This episode is one of many I have had where being in a hotel was no better.

Glad you got out safely, Rusty.