Sugarbabies and Arrangements

[KissingBandit]

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...c-be079d8786ff

Quoted me a 500.

Told her she had gps.

She says she has no problem getting that naytime. Told her when she gets realistic and hungry to give me a ring.

What is up with some of these chicks? $500 is stupid money for an hour of unenthusiastic humping. It's not an isolated incident either. Someone out there is desperate AF and ruining it for everyone.

[Member #5838]

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...c-be079d8786ff

Quoted me a 500.

Told her she had gps.

She says she has no problem getting that naytime. Told her when she gets realistic and hungry to give me a ring.

Delusional. I wouldn't hit on her if I saw her at a bar. If someone is really paying her that I want to find them and slap them LOL.

[LongDongJunior]

Excellent Advice. Over the past year and half, I've paid for membership 3 months. I'm into mid 30's MILF types with a little meat. Have to weed out scammers, but there are good ones to be had that are just looking for a little help.

S.

I've come and gone from Seeking Arraignments several times over the past year and been pretty lucky overall. I joined the site (and got into this hobby really) because of the obesity epidemic. Go on Tinder and 9 out of 10 women are FAT! I've never been able to grin and bear that so I had to try other avenues LOL. I will say that you do end up wasting a lot of time texting / messaging with time wasters and scammers and you really have to learn to weed them out. Also, a lot of girls are just terrible about returning messages or stop messaging in the middle of a convo and then 4 days later pick up again and expect you to meet within an hour. To me that's a big tell of a habit and I immediately next those.

Maybe I do well because my preferred type is the bookish cute nerdy type instead of the fake boobs blonde Pam Anderson type and my type doesn't get as many messages? I tend to find the ones that seem to want a casual FWB that pays for all of the dates with no money changing hands or the UTR semi pro that wants only 1 to 3 regulars but has a real job too. I always try to do a MnG for coffee and I will not pay a dime to the girl for a MnG. At the end of the MnG you should have a pretty good idea of it's going to go anywhere. Several times, I've been lucky and gotten a kiss at goodbye and usually that means they want a FWB w / o pay. Usually though after the MnG that's when you will start discussing whether or not to proceed and the negotiations. I have a hard and fast limit ($200) and I refuse to budge. I make it clear what I want and refuse to compromise. Stick to your guns. I've had several initially ask for the moon and balk at my offer only to come back later and accept. Also never be the first to mention a figure if you can help it. To be honest I think I've been somewhat lucky because according to most of the girls I've met I'm a lot younger than most of the guys they meet on SA, I'm fanatical about staying in shape and I'm not ugly. If you are fat, 68 years old and look like Danny DeVito things are going to be harder for you.

You just need to send a LOT of messages. If they want $$$ for MnG MOVE ON. Erratic communication? They are high MOVE ON. Immediately talk sex for money? Either a pro or cop or junkie so proceed with caution.

While I have not been able to share usernames for all of the girls I've had good experiences with (at their request I don't) I do try and share EVERY bad experience. I think it's critical we all do that.

[BudBowl2001]

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...c-be079d8786ff

Quoted me a 500.

Told her she had gps.

She says she has no problem getting that naytime. Told her when she gets realistic and hungry to give me a ring.

[Member #5838]

I've come and gone from Seeking Arraignments several times over the past year and been pretty lucky overall. I joined the site (and got into this hobby really) because of the obesity epidemic. Go on Tinder and 9 out of 10 women are FAT! I've never been able to grin and bear that so I had to try other avenues LOL. I will say that you do end up wasting a lot of time texting / messaging with time wasters and scammers and you really have to learn to weed them out. Also, a lot of girls are just terrible about returning messages or stop messaging in the middle of a convo and then 4 days later pick up again and expect you to meet within an hour. To me that's a big tell of a habit and I immediately next those.

Maybe I do well because my preferred type is the bookish cute nerdy type instead of the fake boobs blonde Pam Anderson type and my type doesn't get as many messages? I tend to find the ones that seem to want a casual FWB that pays for all of the dates with no money changing hands or the UTR semi pro that wants only 1 to 3 regulars but has a real job too. I always try to do a MnG for coffee and I will not pay a dime to the girl for a MnG. At the end of the MnG you should have a pretty good idea of it's going to go anywhere. Several times, I've been lucky and gotten a kiss at goodbye and usually that means they want a FWB w / o pay. Usually though after the MnG that's when you will start discussing whether or not to proceed and the negotiations. I have a hard and fast limit ($200) and I refuse to budge. I make it clear what I want and refuse to compromise. Stick to your guns. I've had several initially ask for the moon and balk at my offer only to come back later and accept. Also never be the first to mention a figure if you can help it. To be honest I think I've been somewhat lucky because according to most of the girls I've met I'm a lot younger than most of the guys they meet on SA, I'm fanatical about staying in shape and I'm not ugly. If you are fat, 68 years old and look like Danny DeVito things are going to be harder for you.

You just need to send a LOT of messages. If they want $$$ for MnG MOVE ON. Erratic communication? They are high MOVE ON. Immediately talk sex for money? Either a pro or cop or junkie so proceed with caution.

While I have not been able to share usernames for all of the girls I've had good experiences with (at their request I don't) I do try and share EVERY bad experience. I think it's critical we all do that.

[Cycologist]

Is there any technique to distinguish the good sugar baby from the bad meaning those that want to waste our time chatting with no outcome or result and not to forget the take me out on the paid meet and greet date types. Some of them say if there is a connection hint wink there might be some fun maybe that is a hint to move on LOL.

[TheEndlessEdge]

You guys are having bad luck.

I've been back on the site for the last 3 months. I've met up with 7 women. 4 were one and done, 3 I've seen multiple times.

No issues with any of them like you experienced.

Maybe I should consider myself lucky and stop while I'm ahead.

I did have a few last year when I did this a few months- texting for money, needing rides, etc. I just blocked them. Just saying- I know they're out ther, and a few can be a pain in the ass. One thing I've done this time around is quickly checked their numbers to make sure they're not BP girls, let them know I don't do monthly allowance during the first conversation on the site, and told them I don't give loans, want texts between visits, and been very upfront that I'm only looking for company " now and then".

The ones I've kept seeing have all been "normal" broads who are just looking for an extra buck. The few one and dones- nothing wrong with them, I could just tell it I was good after one visit. I stay away from the glam shot model types. The few I've kept seeing have been ultra cool and very good looking 20 somethings way younger than me things.

I guess it's just the pick of the draw.

BAX.

It definitely is pick of the draw. I've generally had a pretty good run with the site these past two years and try to vet as best I can, but it tends to get worse and worse to the point where I'm fed up with it, I suppose. I've got some UTRs that I picked up from the site that are definitely worth it, but I think it's come to a point where it's time for me to back away from it all and just stick to those UTRs for the time being. I figure I can always go back, but for now with the current state of the site, I'm OK with leaving it behind.

[BeenAroundX]

Been using SA for my last of 3 months. That means I'm out 270. Yes I actually scored with one. Who keeps wanting me to come back for more. But that one was out of god know how many scammers, phonies, fake picture money grubbers that are wanting a weekly allowance for nothing. I'm thinking like you. Not sure if I'll totally quit the hobby but certainly need a break. Wasting the bucks is one thing but the wasted time is a totally different commodity that I'll never be able to recoup.

You guys are having bad luck.

I've been back on the site for the last 3 months. I've met up with 7 women. 4 were one and done, 3 I've seen multiple times.

No issues with any of them like you experienced.

Maybe I should consider myself lucky and stop while I'm ahead.

I did have a few last year when I did this a few months- texting for money, needing rides, etc. I just blocked them. Just saying- I know they're out ther, and a few can be a pain in the ass. One thing I've done this time around is quickly checked their numbers to make sure they're not BP girls, let them know I don't do monthly allowance during the first conversation on the site, and told them I don't give loans, want texts between visits, and been very upfront that I'm only looking for company " now and then".

The ones I've kept seeing have all been "normal" broads who are just looking for an extra buck. The few one and dones- nothing wrong with them, I could just tell it I was good after one visit. I stay away from the glam shot model types. The few I've kept seeing have been ultra cool and very good looking 20 somethings way younger than me things.

I guess it's just the pick of the draw.

BAX.

[ZigBang1]

Been using SA for my last of 3 months. That means I'm out 270. Yes I actually scored with one. Who keeps wanting me to come back for more. But that one was out of god know how many scammers, phonies, fake picture money grubbers that are wanting a weekly allowance for nothing. I'm thinking like you. Not sure if I'll totally quit the hobby but certainly need a break. Wasting the bucks is one thing but the wasted time is a totally different commodity that I'll never be able to recoup.

Contemplating retiring from the game entirely after all of this as I'm quite tired of the scamming and game playing that goes on.

Daisy5111 - She lives in Geneva. Things started out pretty well with her and had plans to hook up yesterday. She started going on a guilt-trip experience trying to get me to send her money early because she really needed it to put a smile on her daughter's face, etc. Etc. Flipped out and blew up my burner phone when I didn't respond immediately to her in ten minutes and amped up the guilt-tripping x100. Responded back to her by saying that her guilt-tripping needs to stop and that going about things that way to pressure people is completely unnecessary, especially if we were going to meet that same day. At that point I was so turned off I didn't respond back to her.

SBNow3 - Things didn't even get past our first two conversations before it ended with her falsely reporting me for "soliciting" (something I never mentioned in our conversations on the site at all knowing the rules). My account was banned on the site with no way to dispute it.

I don't plan on joining the site again any time soon, but my last good connection on the site was with Musiclover1997. Planning on meeting with her after she comes back from her trip, but that's the last opportunity I'm giving the site before moving on completely. It's getting to be too frustrating dealing with some of these women on there.

[TheEndlessEdge]

Contemplating retiring from the game entirely after all of this as I'm quite tired of the scamming and game playing that goes on.

Daisy5111 - She lives in Geneva. Things started out pretty well with her and had plans to hook up yesterday. She started going on a guilt-trip experience trying to get me to send her money early because she really needed it to put a smile on her daughter's face, etc. Etc. Flipped out and blew up my burner phone when I didn't respond immediately to her in ten minutes and amped up the guilt-tripping x100. Responded back to her by saying that her guilt-tripping needs to stop and that going about things that way to pressure people is completely unnecessary, especially if we were going to meet that same day. At that point I was so turned off I didn't respond back to her.

SBNow3 - Things didn't even get past our first two conversations before it ended with her falsely reporting me for "soliciting" (something I never mentioned in our conversations on the site at all knowing the rules). My account was banned on the site with no way to dispute it.

I don't plan on joining the site again any time soon, but my last good connection on the site was with Musiclover1997. Planning on meeting with her after she comes back from her trip, but that's the last opportunity I'm giving the site before moving on completely. It's getting to be too frustrating dealing with some of these women on there.

[Dixon Cider]

Wants $$ just to meet for coffee. Bailed.

Be glad you bailed, I went to see her and she was HOTT, a hot mess! Messy house, sweat pants and a bigger gut than me. Had some sort of skin complexion issue going on. Asked me if I remembered to bring a condom. Told her no, but I can go get one from the circle K and ran for ze hills. She is still waiting on me to return with the condom.

[SAGuy17]

What were the rules?

I did meet her today during lunch. Definitely larger than her profile pics. She seems nice, talked way too much. She just didn't seem into it while we were screwing. I like a girl that at least seems like she is enjoying it! Too many rules also.

[NeonRt70]

Guys. Any word on her? I have a meet setup for Wednesday!

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...8-e44071451827

I did meet her today during lunch. Definitely larger than her profile pics. She seems nice, talked way too much. She just didn't seem into it while we were screwing. I like a girl that at least seems like she is enjoying it! Too many rules also.

[Mojo Rising]

Mojo what happened to the friend, any idea or contact info?

I have her Snapchat name, but have not contacted her lately, so not sure she is still seeing people. PM for contact info if you want?

[Groove1]

Honestly when I saw her, she was living with her girlfriend in a house in Akron. It's my understanding that they are not together anymore, so not sure what is going on?

Mojo what happened to the friend, any idea or contact info?