But it may also get rid of those ridiculous SB profiles that say they want an online only relationship.
There is a report button on SA. Use it. When you do, there are all kinds of reasons you can choose. It includes offering $ for sex (or sex for $), and an online only postings. Getting / keeping escorts off the site is the only way that SA is going to be able to survive in this new regime. In some parts of the country, alas, from reading the USASG threads on sugar dating, SA is functioning only or mostly w / girls I would call UTR escorts. I don't play that way, and many other SDs don't. If you report them, their profile is blocked so you never have to listen to / see them. You can ad evidence if you want, but I just stick with what's on the profile or in a PM to you.
It was bound to happen. Screenshot of pop up box when I logged in today. The first step will now be to move these girls to some other form of messaging prior to making any proposals. Or risk having your membership canceled.
But it may also get rid of those ridiculous SB profiles that say they want an online only relationship.
It was bound to happen. Screenshot of pop up box when I logged in today. The first step will now be to move these girls to some other form of messaging prior to making any proposals. Or risk having your membership canceled.
HERE ARE SOME RED FLAGS THAT A GIRL IS NOT A REGULAR GIRL.
1. She has undies shots on her main page and it's in a hotel room.
2. If she is ethnic (black / latina / asian).
- She doesn't have any photos of her at the club or a snapchat / insta pic.
- She hasn't been verified as a College Baby.
- Her place of residence is somewhere vague LOS ANGELES / BEVERLY HILLS (ESP)/ SANTA MONICA.
- Tattoos on thighs. Don't ask me why but it's like. A fuckin bulls eye.
- Looks ghetto AF (even cute black girls from South Central don't look ghetto).
3. She insists on driving to your house and is NOT open to meeting in public.
4. If she has a hotel room. (DOUBLE RED).
5. She is ok with meeting at 1 am (this one is a usually, there are exceptions) for a quick fuck.
6. She talks about condoms before you even meet.
These are all red flags that maybe alone don't immediate peg someone as a pro, but from my years on SA I've discovered that a combination of these and a few others that I can't quite remember right now. Provide for a full. Provider-less experience.
None of the girls are "regular", if they were, they would not be on SD type of sites. Many are currently, were former, or are thinking about becoming workers. Good list tho, but all are, just some more obvious than others. All women have a price.
20 k salary but parents pay rent and all expenses.
I'm a stud but recently had a fake rape charge and after being found not guilty when video leaked of her lying, I have no interests in dating at this time. C.
It's actually doable. At $ a date, how many dates can you afford?
HERE ARE SOME RED FLAGS THAT A GIRL IS NOT A REGULAR GIRL.
1. She has undies shots on her main page and it's in a hotel room.
2. If she is ethnic (black / latina / asian).
- She doesn't have any photos of her at the club or a snapchat / insta pic.
- She hasn't been verified as a College Baby.
- Her place of residence is somewhere vague LOS ANGELES / BEVERLY HILLS (ESP)/ SANTA MONICA.
- Tattoos on thighs. Don't ask me why but it's like. A fuckin bulls eye.
- Looks ghetto AF (even cute black girls from South Central don't look ghetto).
3. She insists on driving to your house and is NOT open to meeting in public.
4. If she has a hotel room. (DOUBLE RED).
5. She is ok with meeting at 1 am (this one is a usually, there are exceptions) for a quick fuck.
6. She talks about condoms before you even meet.
These are all red flags that maybe alone don't immediate peg someone as a pro, but from my years on SA I've discovered that a combination of these and a few others that I can't quite remember right now. Provide for a full. Provider-less experience.
Good newbie info. Almost over obvious. Its one reason I stick to the 18 and 19 year old Girls. A lot less time for them to have been spoiled. Even if they are from the hood.
20 k salary but parents pay rent and all expenses.
I'm a stud but recently had a fake rape charge and after being found not guilty when video leaked of her lying, I have no interests in dating at this time. C.
You make 20 K? You may not be able to afford all the non-pros on sugar daddy sites, especially those non pros working out of hotels or coming to you with several different phone numbers.
You do get the busty ones! Thanks for reviving this thread. I don't see enough action on here. We have to have some successful SDs in soCal. Let's try to make this thread the west coast version of the Richmond thread.
I just met a cute Chinese spinner, college co-ed at the westwood school, who has just recently dipped her toe in the escort world. She has been here only 2 years and has a great command of English. She is a surfer girl at Venice and has only been with a handful of men. I told her she is in wrong biz and needs to go into the sugar baby world. Told her about the sites to join.
Some lucky fellows are going to have a very personable motivated honey. I gently broke her in, even though she was rubbing her tummy afterward.
20 k salary but parents pay rent and all expenses.
I'm a stud but recently had a fake rape charge and after being found not guilty when video leaked of her lying, I have no interests in dating at this time. C.
The thing about arrangements is that on the surface especially for mongers like ourselves, we see this as a candy store, full of tight and not so tight pussy, I've been on SA for 4 years and have hooked up with 93 girls, most ranging in the 120 qwikie cardate to the 300 evening meet. But in that process I've also fucked 6 girls for free, and not because I'm a stud. In fact my hero is Torbe. That man is my personal inspiration. What a pig of a human being but he is a god among men, the kind of women this guy has soiled. Jesus christ. Anyway I digress, what I was saying is that apart from the candy store, if you actually take the time to really get to know the girls there are some really good human beings in between the snakes, and that was the most surpising part, I've taken girls with me to Vancouver, Miami, New York, Hawaii, Stagecoach, Ultra, Sundance. And never had to pay for the trips. Granted some I didn't have sex with but honestly, they turned out to be so much fucken fun. That it wasn't a big deal. Not every girl is a beat bag.
It hasn't been all fun, I got suckered out of 1200 dollars by a girl who fucked me before I fucked her mentally. I was robbed twice, subjected to extortion, had countless chicks who tried to tug at my emotional strings. And countless fake profiles, one TS surprise that I don't want to relieve. And many many ghosts.
But if you're open to dealing with that bull, and sifting, and sifting, and more sifting, trust me the gems are there but it's not easy. Here's a few of my bests. If any of why'all have seen them. I would love to share stories, but please don't ask me to share info. SA doesn't work that way unless the girl is a true provider.
You do get the busty ones! Thanks for reviving this thread. I don't see enough action on here. We have to have some successful SDs in soCal. Let's try to make this thread the west coast version of the Richmond thread.
The thing about arrangements is that on the surface especially for mongers like ourselves, we see this as a candy store, full of tight and not so tight pussy, I've been on SA for 4 years and have hooked up with 93 girls, most ranging in the 120 qwikie cardate to the 300 evening meet. But in that process I've also fucked 6 girls for free, and not because I'm a stud. In fact my hero is Torbe. That man is my personal inspiration. What a pig of a human being but he is a god among men, the kind of women this guy has soiled. Jesus christ. Anyway I digress, what I was saying is that apart from the candy store, if you actually take the time to really get to know the girls there are some really good human beings in between the snakes, and that was the most surpising part, I've taken girls with me to Vancouver, Miami, New York, Hawaii, Stagecoach, Ultra, Sundance. And never had to pay for the trips. Granted some I didn't have sex with but honestly, they turned out to be so much fucken fun. That it wasn't a big deal. Not every girl is a beat bag.
It hasn't been all fun, I got suckered out of 1200 dollars by a girl who fucked me before I fucked her mentally. I was robbed twice, subjected to extortion, had countless chicks who tried to tug at my emotional strings. And countless fake profiles, one TS surprise that I don't want to relieve. And many many ghosts.
But if you're open to dealing with that bull, and sifting, and sifting, and more sifting, trust me the gems are there but it's not easy. Here's a few of my bests. If any of why'all have seen them. I would love to share stories, but please don't ask me to share info. SA doesn't work that way unless the girl is a true provider.
If nothing else, this may be worthy of a bit of discussion and critique. My skin is thick, let's learn.
Discussion w POT.
Me - 6 days ago.
You definitely stand out in a place like this. Your values seems to be on the other end of the spectrum of what I have discovered in the week that I have been a member here.
Her - 4 days ago.
Thank you, my name is xxxxxxx by the way. You seem very interesting and I would love to get to know you better.
Me - 4 days ago.
Nice to meet you xxxxxxx. My name is xxxx. Like you, I'm interested in getting to know one person, having some sort of emotional, physical and mental connection. With all things present for both parties, there would hopefully be a better quality of life for everyone involved. If you'd like, send me a text and we can chat some more at a more convenient time for both of us. Xxxxxxxxx.
Her - 4 days ago.
Sure, may I ask if you are open to an arrangement that does not have a sexual component?
Me - 4 days ago.
I'm always looking to make new friends xxxxxxx. There has to be a natural attraction that goes both ways for sex to become a factor in any relationship.
Her - 4 days ago.
I agree, I know that for some people that changes things so I wanted to go ahead and let you know that it's not what I am looking for personally.
Me - 4 days ago.
Looking for. Like, what does that mean? Haha. Is it lost or something? Do you abstain? Maybe I am not being fair and I should think you're intent is to save me some sort of dissapointment before we have even met. Who's to say I would be interested? Kind of presumptuous don't you think?
Her - 4 days ago.
I understand and hope I didn't offend you. Most guys I have met on here assume that sex is on the table and available at their command. I am just trying to not waste your time.
Me - 4 days ago.
Hurt my feeling just a hair to be honest. I considered you probably get a lot of that after I sent that message, so I understand your having asked I suppose. I guess it's tough to not be assumptive when you see a clear pattern otherwise. The principle of being able to just do a little snap of the fingers and sex appears like breakfast during room service is pretty ridiculous. I wouldn't expect a platter full of money to appear like that either though. - Like I said, your profile made it seem as if there was something a little different versus what I have seen here and certainly what has been proposed to me in the short week I have been a paid member here. I'm not interested in that either. We'd just have to meet and see how we felt is all I can think to do from here.
Her - 4 days ago.
Well I am awfully sorry for hurting your feelings, it's good to be on the same page though! I would love to meet up sometime this week and get to know each other better.
Me - 4 days ago.
My feelings will be okay I think. You're better than alright xxxxxxx. It's a crazy week for me with work. I am sure this weekend though if you can manage that. Again, if you want, send me a text so it's easier to communicate. Otherwise I will look for you here. It was truly a treat chatting with you tonight. Night.
Her - 4 days ago.
Goodnight! I enjoyed chatting with you as well, I would love to plan something for the weekend soon.
END.
I haven't replied back yet. Weekend is almost here. She'll agree to meet I am 95% sure. She's my type. I don't think it's so much GPS, but more just being new and, needing an adjustment period I guess.
Whatcha think?
From my experience this girl is a dud, unless she's freaking like smoooking hot, I'd cut my losses and walk away, even if you don't pay her. Don't get me started on how I feel about the guys that "PAY" for a meet and greet, those guys should be dragged onto the street and castrated. If I hear one more time "my time is valuable and I deserve to get compensated" I'm going to shoot myself. I think, there's a reason she thinks this way, because there's plenty of fools out there that say, yes massa.
But from the sound of this somewhat mundane conversation, I can see you meeting her for coffee and her awkwardly laughing at your coup d'etat. Out of pure uncomfortable sense of incompatibility, she doesn't get your humor and she's kind of dense. A girl like that honestly the only way would be to get her excited about things she really wants to talk about. Otherwise she sounds like she's in over her head, she has an idea of what she thinks this arrangement thing is. She thinks that just because she's attractive, that should be enough.
If you don't believe me, go on a date and let me know how wrong I was.
I'm not saying that some of the platonic dates don't eventually chika bow chika bow wow. But like I said in other posts, a lot of it depends on who fucks who. Either a girl fucks with a guys mind to get him to cash in his 401 k for pecks and kisses because she's not "one of those girls" or the guy massages her brain with his mind dick convincing her that she's meeting a guy that's going to show her the world, full of experiences and fun and is unlike any other guy she's ever met.
HERE ARE SOME RED FLAGS THAT A GIRL IS NOT A REGULAR GIRL.
1. She has undies shots on her main page and it's in a hotel room.
2. If she is ethnic (black / latina / asian).
- She doesn't have any photos of her at the club or a snapchat / insta pic.
- She hasn't been verified as a College Baby.
- Her place of residence is somewhere vague LOS ANGELES / BEVERLY HILLS (ESP)/ SANTA MONICA.
- Tattoos on thighs. Don't ask me why but it's like. A fuckin bulls eye.
- Looks ghetto AF (even cute black girls from South Central don't look ghetto).
3. She insists on driving to your house and is NOT open to meeting in public.
4. If she has a hotel room. (DOUBLE RED).
5. She is ok with meeting at 1 am (this one is a usually, there are exceptions) for a quick fuck.
6. She talks about condoms before you even meet.
These are all red flags that maybe alone don't immediate peg someone as a pro, but from my years on SA I've discovered that a combination of these and a few others that I can't quite remember right now. Provide for a full. Provider-less experience.
I'm trying to meet up with her, and the most I get are short 2 or 3 word answers. It's very atypical, where I usually get a fountain of how they're feeling. My spidey senses are up. I could be wrong, everyone's different, and she could be foreign born.
Thanks.
She will forget who you are, I met her for dinner once, didn't pay her any money, then she blocked me, a few months later I saw her again, this time I texted her since I had a new SA name, and just said hey want to do a cardate, and she was like. Ok how much. I told her that I could do 160 and she was like ok let's go. But then I fell asleep. A few weeks later I texted her again when I couldn't find any of my lovelies free and she was like. I don't do that, that's gross. If you want to meet it's 300 minimum.