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Originally Posted by
MythMan2010
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That's solid work my friend. I'm usually closing for a good massage and a good ending but I can see that play working to get more menu items. Awesome!!
This talk is nonsense. These places are all the same in what they offer and make it obvious anyway regardless whether you show $ up front.
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Nice
Originally Posted by
Promoter3
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Since the goal is to communicate through signals, here's what I do, and it's never, ever failed me:
Of course I have only as much cash with me as I'm willing to spend. When they leave I strip down to underwear, with pants on the table. Cash is in my hand. When she returns, I make a show of putting the FS wad in the pants pocket, and then strip off the rest while making eye contact. She knows full well how to get the whole stack if she wants it, and the 40 $ comes out if services are limited.
That's solid work my friend. I'm usually closing for a good massage and a good ending but I can see that play working to get more menu items. Awesome!!
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Save your $40
Since the goal is to communicate through signals, here's what I do, and it's never, ever failed me:
Of course I have only as much cash with me as I'm willing to spend. When they leave I strip down to underwear, with pants on the table. Cash is in my hand. When she returns, I make a show of putting the FS wad in the pants pocket, and then strip off the rest while making eye contact. She knows full well how to get the whole stack if she wants it, and the 40 $ comes out if services are limited.
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Agreed
Originally Posted by
XHippie
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"Most of the time" she knows the script of the visit. But your method really helps her out such as If she speaks zero english, of course there are the hand gestures. And your method really helps her out if she is new and is a little cautious seeing someone for the first time. They know as well as us what's been going on around here with stores closing. So laying the tip out takes all the guessing out especially for her and in turn probably relaxes her so she can also give a good massage if she has the skills. You really want both of you to be relaxed from the beginning to the end. Don't want to be playing cat and mouse for 50 minutes then feel like you are taking a chance the last 5 or 10 minutes. Laying the tip out is a good way to set the tone.
Appreciate the feedback sir. I do think it lowers the anxiety of the customer and especially the ladies trying to earn a living. And hell, even if it's a bad ending, you are out $40 which is nothing in this game.
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Follow up comment.
Originally Posted by
XHippie
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"Most of the time" she knows the script of the visit. But your method really helps her out such as If she speaks zero english, of course there are the hand gestures. And your method really helps her out if she is new and is a little cautious seeing someone for the first time. They know as well as us what's been going on around here with stores closing. So laying the tip out takes all the guessing out especially for her and in turn probably relaxes her so she can also give a good massage if she has the skills. You really want both of you to be relaxed from the beginning to the end. Don't want to be playing cat and mouse for 50 minutes then feel like you are taking a chance the last 5 or 10 minutes. Laying the tip out is a good way to set the tone.
I will add this. I'm sure there are some guys out there including myself that may say to themselves. Ok I walk in lay the tip down to set the tone and nothing, nodda, not jack happens and even the Massage was shitty Dammit a waste AND she is eying the tip on the table or God Dammit she already got the tip in her pocket I've been had. Hey Hey Hey slow down it's only a tip not the end of the world just chalk it up as a learning donation experience. Which is a term I am very familiar with, It's actually happened to me before not often but shit happens in anything. Some guys get taken for hundreds with some of these BP freaks.
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Yours is a good system for a few reason’s
Originally Posted by
MythMan2010
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I've had a few people ask about the process at the AMP and let me just say, I put the tip on the table before anything starts and it's always been golden. Just lay the $40-$60 down, and I've never had a negotiation. The girls know exactly WTF it means and act accordingly.
Also if there is any issue with LE for the AMP or even a provider, the cash is down and never connected to services. That's always how I play it.
Just my perspective.
"Most of the time" she knows the script of the visit. But your method really helps her out such as If she speaks zero english, of course there are the hand gestures. And your method really helps her out if she is new and is a little cautious seeing someone for the first time. They know as well as us what's been going on around here with stores closing. So laying the tip out takes all the guessing out especially for her and in turn probably relaxes her so she can also give a good massage if she has the skills. You really want both of you to be relaxed from the beginning to the end. Don't want to be playing cat and mouse for 50 minutes then feel like you are taking a chance the last 5 or 10 minutes. Laying the tip out is a good way to set the tone.
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Just an opinion on all AMPs
I've had a few people ask about the process at the AMP and let me just say, I put the tip on the table before anything starts and it's always been golden. Just lay the $40-$60 down, and I've never had a negotiation. The girls know exactly WTF it means and act accordingly.
Also if there is any issue with LE for the AMP or even a provider, the cash is down and never connected to services. That's always how I play it.
Just my perspective.
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Still dreaming in Durham
Originally Posted by
HavingFun5190
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...haven't had much luck around here for AAMP.
If you go to JJ's List and search Durham you will find 4. At 53 you have to visit at least twice. I have had a dream on the first try but I smile and moan quietly. The other three I have no problems at all with dreaming, though find at 37 the girls can get pretty pushy on tips. You have to be firm with them. They will pout but still smile next time. You can PM me if you want to know more.
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List rating
Originally Posted by
HavingFun5190
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I moved to Durham a few months ago and haven't had much luck around here for AAMP. I tried brightleaf and collective wellness for legit massage but they are always booked up and have shitty time available. When I lived near Worcester Mass I had a few AAMP's for legit massage or extra. Here I just want a place to go see after work without having to make appointments weeks ahead. Very discouraging. Thank you to everyone keeping JJ's list up to date. I like using that and updating it to see if I can finally find one. Question though. I lost my bookmark to the "decoder" for what P+ and such means. Could someone please give ma a hint on where I can find it and thank you.
JJ's list is great for knowing what's open and where but was created in freer times. As services have been tightened and stores have been shut down by Uncle, it may not be as accurate as it was. The P+ used to indicate a better than average chance of extras. Now, you need to take it under advisement. It may not necessarily apply, if at all, until a rapport with a provider / store has been established.
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JJ's List
I moved to Durham a few months ago and haven't had much luck around here for AAMP. I tried brightleaf and collective wellness for legit massage but they are always booked up and have shitty time available. When I lived near Worcester Mass I had a few AAMP's for legit massage or extra. Here I just want a place to go see after work without having to make appointments weeks ahead. Very discouraging. Thank you to everyone keeping JJ's list up to date. I like using that and updating it to see if I can finally find one. Question though. I lost my bookmark to the "decoder" for what P+ and such means. Could someone please give ma a hint on where I can find it and thank you.
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Check your PM
Answered you in the PM for discretion.
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Which one
AMPs. Apple or Haven. What is your preference?
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Saw the sign was off and didn't stop. I'll learn to call ahead one of these days. Anyone know why the sign is off or have a burner to call them on?
Originally Posted by
Kurt309
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The sign has been off for at least a week or more. I travel by frequently and no cars in front. Not saying it's closed, I have not called or stoped just saying light is off.
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Not surprised
Originally Posted by
RTPDude
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FYI I just drove by Silver Spa today and it looks shut down. I knew it wouldn't last long.
It was in a weird location right next store to what looked like a kids daycare but like Xhippie said, they don't care where they put them! However, they probably should put a little more thought into their location if they want to last longer.
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Vip
The sign has been off for at least a week or more. I travel by frequently and no cars in front. Not saying it's closed, I have not called or stoped just saying light is off.