Delaware Douchebaggery!

**J Richard** · 03-23-18 15:03

What if this site is shut down for some reason, legal or otherwise. Is there a back plan or site that we know about in advance and can continue sharing information without missing a step?

I can't remember how I came upon this site. But CL was actually listed as a source for job postings in a PA Department of Unemployment publication back around 2004. That's how I came upon that one, back when the site was really good.

I noticed locally and in other areas the CL posts have migrated to Activity Partners.

Any thoughts?

**Cephlapod Love** · 03-23-18 11:27

So with Craigslist throwing in the towel over the passage of FOSTA that would appear to take away a significant hunting ground for many. The questions is what is next?

Is there a site that will take over as a replacement? What is it? (USA Adult Classifieds does not seem to be effected, so possible successor.).

Will this lead to a large increase in posts on BP?

So what happens to Supply / Demand? Will there be girls desperate to find dates and as such one can negotiate LOWER prices? Will the streets pick up? Or will horny mongers be so desperate to find anything, that they will pay anything the BP girls ask, and prices go up?

If nothing else, is it possible that BP will start to "collect" those who use to fish on CL? As such will this result in a funneling of mongers to one site where it will be easier for LE to set up stings? (is this a time where it is more important than ever to be "educated" in the hobby and follow "the rules?").

All fwiw.

We can have a discussion of trafficking and the new laws if anyone is interested.

**Cephlapod Love** · 03-22-18 22:21

Too bad no one has the ballz to stand up to this kind of narrow-minded thinking. You hobby just got more difficult! Back to the streets, back alleys and MPs!

From CL:

US Congress just passed HR 1865, "FOSTA", seeking to subject websites to criminal and civil liability when third parties (users) misuse online personals unlawfully.

Any tool or service can be misused. We can't take such risk without jeopardizing all our other services, so we are regretfully taking craigslist personals offline. Hopefully we can bring them back some day.

To the millions of spouses, partners, and couples who met through craigslist, we wish you every happiness!

**Cephlapod Love** · 03-15-18 14:18

Now I'll prolly get banned for this - promoting a "3rd Party Website here" but hey, just a being the douchebag.

Oh and as far as "other " websites*** go. You dudes need to tell your favorite girls to advertise over on the USA Adult Classifieds (USAAC) site! This sister site is hosted offshore and as such appears to be escaping the baloney that other websites are experiencing. So girls can advertise on USAAC and put up the full text of what they use to post on BP. This way they can tell WHERE they are located (so time isn't wasted when you need a Dover girl & she's in Claymont) can describe their services and can suggest rates for companionship, etc. Got to be a whole lot easier than the machinations and BS we are going through right now. Yeah, might be scary to be "first" but I have dated a girl who advertised in the past on USAAC and had fun. So mention to your girls to advertise on the USA Adult Classifieds site:

http://usaadultclassifieds.info/classifieds/

***Oh and for those who have been scratching their head over the "changes" the other websites have gone through (BP etc) - where they are only allowing pictures and phone numbers. This is the result of legislation that looks like it will soon be passed and enacted into law a bill called SESTA - Stop Enabling Sex Traffickers Act. It changes the laws that provide "innocence" to websites who allow others to 'self publish' sex related stuff. It makes the website liable to damages to a girl if she was trafficked using that website. So websites are trying the photo & number route as a defense against said liability.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stop_E...raffickers_Act

**Cephlapod Love** · 03-15-18 14:01

Anyone see these lovelies and can share some information?

LisaL. Same few pics allover several websites. No idea of location, menu or gps potential?

https://liveescortreviews.com/ad/del...-3228/1/323250

Lee. Remember this face from before on BP, not likely a high level girl but perhaps a good date?

http://ilivegoodnow.com/2018/03/04/215-954-7700/
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So anyone have any information? thx

**BlueHen** · 03-13-18 12:28

Hey Ceph.

I saw her a few years ago not sure what name she was using then and reported that she was a dead fish and was only interested $$$ and rushing you out the door. I can't believe guys are still falling for her bullshit!

Originally Posted by CephlapodLove [View Original Post]

In the past has used the name Quinn. Recently used Lauren. As noted by OP none of the pictures represent reality. Also reportedly can host on / just off MDA. Lots of pictures online: see what one can find using Rule #6. She is constantly using new ones, not actual pics or pics that are -80# ago.

She insists on "money up front" with NO EXCEPTIONS!!!! So violates Rule #23. (totally inflexible on this) Now on my "avoid" list!

Oh wait! I just "panned" a girl! That means guys are going to rush out and see her! (after all, wdik?) Well, good luck with that!

**Cephlapod Love** · 03-12-18 09:53

In the past has used the name Quinn. Recently used Lauren. As noted by OP none of the pictures represent reality. Also reportedly can host on / just off MDA. Lots of pictures online: see what one can find using Rule #6. She is constantly using new ones, not actual pics or pics that are -80# ago.

She insists on "money up front" with NO EXCEPTIONS!!!! So violates Rule #23. (totally inflexible on this) Now on my "avoid" list!

Oh wait! I just "panned" a girl! That means guys are going to rush out and see her! (after all, wdik?) Well, good luck with that!

**Cephlapod Love** · 03-11-18 12:45

Last night, I had a hallucination (again!) This time, it was in the evening and I was on LA around the auto parts store, just minding my own bidness and apparently saw Michelle. Since I was headed to the post office, didn't chat long.

Got to do something about these "visions" I keep having, as repeated reports tell me nothing is to be found out there.

**Cephlapod Love** · 03-06-18 14:05

I mean really! I won't agree to this girl's "procedure" so mark me down as a time waster and douchebag!

Contacted the girl in this CL post. Her "rates" are listed in the advert. I mean "life and video chat=50 an hr" sounds pretty good no? A live girl for an hour at 50? Yeah, I know TGTBT!

Anyway, I politely asked if she would be willing to meet and head off to read some poetry to me or wash some windows? Her reply? $100 and you can do anything you want to me! WOW!

But that also meant one needed to send her $50 to her PayPal account and she would collect the other 50 after the windows were pristine!

So since I was born yesterday and was thinking with my little head I quickly agreed and sent her the money! NOT!

WTF is wrong with these girls? Do they pay the rent with scams like this? I mean I TRIED to figure out a way we could meet and where everyone would be happy, but she would have none of it. Hmmm.

So yeah, I know I shoulda just "paid up front" (Rule #23) and for that I must be a douchebag!

**Cephlapod Love** · 03-06-18 13:15

Originally Posted by CephlapodLove [View Original Post]

Took a tour through the box today at about 12:35 PM or so. Saw two girls out- Jackie, black hair with blue streaks and Diana in red & black coat.

Fuck! I saw these two again Monday evening at about 5:32 PM! Same freaking area!

Got to lay off the LSD before I get in the car in the future! Maybe I need new glasses? Or need to wipe the "rose coloring" off of them?

**Cephlapod Love** · 03-06-18 13:08

So the pure douchbaggery continues on the streets. As reported to me:

Prior Sunday evening a girl was scooped off of uLA by a dude in a white Mazda. Dude called himself Miguel, a stocky, Mexican male approximately 5'9" in height. He drove her to Centerville where he offered her $20 for sex, when she refused, he forced himself on her, put one hand over her mouth and attempted to have sex with her despite her saying NO! (this geniuses is the definition of rape - once a girl, date, prostitute or your wife says "No," going further is a crime) She tried to get away, the dude took her money and her cell phone. She got out of the car but was abandoned in Centerville. I have details on the license plate, but forum rules prohibit post them here.

Reminds me of the Golden Rule: Do unto others as you would have done to you! If a girl does not want to take your offer, drop her off. (I guess it would be too much to ask to give her $5 for the time she spent with you and the other paying date she missed?) Just because she is "working" does not make her less of a human being than your mother, wife, sister or daughter. She still deserves respect as a human being.

But also, what is with these dudes? $10 will get you NOTHING on the streets, unless you find a girl who is Jonesing and you probably want to avoid her anyway. Look, the cost of a "bundle" of dope is around $35 - $45. Gee, any idea why street rates are what they are? So offering less than a bundle for a date usually isn't going to get you anywhere. No, you are not special and any girl has the RIGHT to refuse low-ball offers!

Now it appears as though this numbnuts does not understand is that he committed at least 3 felonies! If these girls were smart they would report these azzh*les: after all, IF the cops charge the girl with prostitution, that is a misdemeanor. So hey guys, use your big head. You want to be a "macho man"? You want to trade felonies against a misdemeanor charge?

**Cephlapod Love** · 03-05-18 20:02

Originally Posted by JRichard [View Original Post]

I visited a person a few times who conducted business at the WaWa on Ridge and Naamans a number of years ago. One evening I am reading CL's are&are and came across a warning about her there. Sure enough the next day while showering I notice some funky shit going on down below the equator. Straight to the doctor, all around not good.

So did what I thought was appropriate and I tried to tell her, but she wanted no part of listening. I only received oral from her. You got to play safe, it's simply not worth it. Some just take too many chances, especially if you know they have other issues / demons. I did comment on the post with another public service announcement to steer clear of the area. But man, that cured me of the hobby for some time.

I hear ya! LOL! Years ago, well before the hobby, I had an ex-GF that was an occasional hook up. Nice girl, working RN. Back then she was pretty much all I was playing with and one day I noticed a little "scab" in the pubes. So I picked it off. THEN I noticed another one and picked it off. Interestingly the skin under the "scab" didn't look like what was typical. So I looked closer at the "scab" and it had legs! Off to the Doc for Quell shampoo and ended up doing lots of bed linen washing in hot water & bleach!

But the hardest part was the garbage feelings I heaped on myself. I guess somewhere in the socialization process we are taught that only "dirty people" (I. E. Realy sub-human, lesser value people) get Venereal Diseases and what not. So I had something, so that made me "dirty?" So I get it when anyone contracts an STD or sexually transmitted "situation. " It is hard not to be down on one's self. But hey, no need to tell others (self shame) so the only one putting you down is you! LOL! I mean really, when you were a kid and got Mono, was that shamed, or did you get "props" for kissing girls and thus getting infected?

Took me a few years but realized that good people catch colds, Mono and STDs! I'm sure the religious right will tell you we are all equal in the face of God, yet they are likely be the first to condemn you as something "less than human" if you come down with an STD. So how do you want to view things? As a manageable hazard to the hobby or as all of a sudden one becomes "dirty?" Most STDs are treatable and the ones that can not be cured are manageable as long-term chronic conditions!

Of course finding and staying in a Monogamous relationship is a sure fire way to avoid STDs. Oh, and using condoms each an every time can help reduce the risk even more! Or one can just become "dirty!" LOL!

**J Richard** · 03-03-18 16:12

I visited a person a few times who conducted business at the WaWa on Ridge and Naamans a number of years ago. One evening I am reading CL's are&are and came across a warning about her there. Sure enough the next day while showering I notice some funky shit going on down below the equator. Straight to the doctor, all around not good.

So did what I thought was appropriate and I tried to tell her, but she wanted no part of listening. I only received oral from her. You got to play safe, it's simply not worth it. Some just take too many chances, especially if you know they have other issues / demons. I did comment on the post with another public service announcement to steer clear of the area. But man, that cured me of the hobby for some time.

**Cephlapod Love** · 03-03-18 14:20

Took a tour through the box today at about 12:35 PM or so. Saw two girls out- Jackie, black hair with blue streaks and Diana in red & black coat.

Also saw two LE hiding in plain sight, pulled off to the side, parked surveying the landscape. Hard to see these guys until you are on top of them.

But hey, it is OK as I was passing out doughnuts today while I was having this delusion.

Anybody F one of these girls?

**Cephlapod Love** · 03-03-18 12:00

I am shocked! If you are hobbying then one needs to take STDs seriously! That means getting tested AT LEAST 2 times a year! AND IF someone you dated has an STD. Get tested to make sure you didn't get it too.

Look, a monger PM'ed me recently that he got a call from a girl he dated. She had Chlamydia and reported it to him. He went and got tested, and YES, he was POSITIVE for Chlamydia as well. So he went and got treatment and refrained from dating until he got an "all clean" test result. BUT the problem is that he dated at least two, VERY popular and highly reported on Elkton girls after he dated the girl who gave him Chlamydia and BEFORE he learned he had it. SO that means that he probably gave Chlamydia to those two girls and any other girls he dated.

But what has me shaking my head is that dudes that have dated these girls since "Mr Infected" dated them, these dudes have a "ho-hum" attitude about this information. I guess these geniuses figure that if their d*ck isn't dripping or there is no pain on urination, that they are OK? Problem is that Chlamydia infection often has ZERO outward effects. So hey, you want to run around with Chlamydia and give it to your GF, or SO only to be discovered later? Yeah, that sounds like a great idea.

Don't be a douchebag and an idiot and gamble with your health - GO GET TESTED!