"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[Airmantroy]

From this chick and her excuses of why she's having trouble getting to my place. LOL.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...7-5527d66220c9

First, today was her errand running day. Translation: to go get her fix, Second, She's having trouble getting her friend to take her back to her car (damn groceries are going to be thawed out). Translation: She's too fucked up to drive and her dealer / handler won't turn her loose yet. Third, Could I get her an Uber. ROTFLMAO I don't have Uber, and I'm not going to go pick her up.

She tried the old, "Didn't we agree to $300" . Uhhhh NOPE. Can I make a one time deal. Uhhhhmm NO. Can I give her $40 extra so she can get her "friend" to take her to her car. NO.

So I'll sit here and screw with her for a couple of hours, call my dependable SB to come swallow some kids and play hide the salami tomorrow. Sometimes it's just too damn funny when you have all the time in the world to "wait".

If and that's a huge IF, she actually makes it to my place, I'll pop 25 mg of V and give her the railing of her life. Pure old sport fucking at it's finest. LOL.

[ReaperGuy]

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...0-b1b5c803d49b

Anyone talk to this one? I get a UTR vibe from her from our messaging, when I asked about her financial expectations she straight up said $$ per meetup and she didn't have sex on the first date.

[ReaperGuy]

Something screwy like that happened to me, too. I sent an e-mail to customer service, I got a response back 2 days (I think) later. If memory serves correct, they said I had a lot of logins and logouts and some algorithm "picked" me. I actually created a second profile because I had received a response from someone I thought would be "special" and I didn't want to wait to see how long it took, if ever, to get my other account back. I've let both lapse.

BTW, I have a prepaid debit card I got at WalMart (I think the max is $500), but since the company apparently is not in the US, I haven't been able to use it. I've used it for other things, but not the SA membership. I've tried different names (not just Prepaid Cardholder that's on the card), used the zip code I used when I set the code up, etc. But it hasn't worked the 4-5 times I tried. Any idea what I'm doing wrong? I've got 17 messages on there, some close to a month old, but I'm antsy about using a regular credit card with my name.

Thanks.

Their credit card processing is done in The Netherlands, several dating / meetup type sites all being run by the same parent company. The zip code and name you use for the prepaid card and to register for SA should match. So use your secret cool code name and fake or real ZIP across the board, I use my legit ZIP code and a partially fake name. Also need to make sure your prepaid can be used for International buying, that's a common limitation to prevent fraud.

[George GA]

Something similar to this has happened to me twice in the last two years, though it may not apply here. I use a VPN to log into the site and a prepaid VISA for the fee. On two occasions after paying my fee, I logged in to find that my account was suspended and "under review" for suspicious activity or something similar. What I did was to contact SA customer support from my "sugar" email account and explain that I had not done any of the things they outlined in their possible reasons list and asked them to reinstate my account immediately. In both cases, they reinstated my account within a couple of days.

Something screwy like that happened to me, too. I sent an e-mail to customer service, I got a response back 2 days (I think) later. If memory serves correct, they said I had a lot of logins and logouts and some algorithm "picked" me. I actually created a second profile because I had received a response from someone I thought would be "special" and I didn't want to wait to see how long it took, if ever, to get my other account back. I've let both lapse.

BTW, I have a prepaid debit card I got at WalMart (I think the max is $500), but since the company apparently is not in the US, I haven't been able to use it. I've used it for other things, but not the SA membership. I've tried different names (not just Prepaid Cardholder that's on the card), used the zip code I used when I set the code up, etc. But it hasn't worked the 4-5 times I tried. Any idea what I'm doing wrong? I've got 17 messages on there, some close to a month old, but I'm antsy about using a regular credit card with my name.

Thanks.

[Svenson]

Has anyone had their SA SD account suspended? I had a free one and hadn't ever gotten to paying and converting mine to a paid one yet. I was still trying to figure out how to do that without giving away any personal info such as CC.

I mostly used it to check out the profiles around me and the ones mentioned on here to keep track of the ones I liked and were recommended, so that when I did convert to a paid one I could easily start the ball rolling. Whenever I browse a profile, I would always make sure to request access to private pics to see what they are really like. I don't think I have even tried to contact anyone on there because I can't read anything they send me with my free profile.

Suddenly last week when I login I get a message saying that my account is under review and lists the possible reasons. I don't remember the exact reasons (shouldn't be underage, no bullying, no soliciting, etc.) but I wasn't doing any of that. Just browsing around profiles and checking out the ones who view and like my profile. And a few days after that, when I try to login it says my account is now suspended.

Since I want to maintain my anonymity, I haven't contacted their customer care to get more info. But I was wondering if anyone else has been through something similar?

Something similar to this has happened to me twice in the last two years, though it may not apply here. I use a VPN to log into the site and a prepaid VISA for the fee. On two occasions after paying my fee, I logged in to find that my account was suspended and "under review" for suspicious activity or something similar. What I did was to contact SA customer support from my "sugar" email account and explain that I had not done any of the things they outlined in their possible reasons list and asked them to reinstate my account immediately. In both cases, they reinstated my account within a couple of days.

[Zipper34]

They have a no refund policy so if you got money back you was extremely lucky. Not sure how you got 320 back for a few months when 80 is the monthly payment but usually one is out the $$.

They had logged every single complaint about me for those few months but didn't do anything until my last month on there. We did some talking and they just decided to give me a refund for all the months I'd been on there since they thought I was right.

[GA400]

Has anyone dealt with Skyler out of Kennesaw?

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...0-dc004bbda7bd

She's got a bit of a professional attitude about things. Makes me wonder if she might be on BP or somewhere else.

I had set up for her to come to my place but I had a conflict and never followed up. Seems OK to me.

[Harley32]

Has anyone dealt with Skyler out of Kennesaw?

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...0-dc004bbda7bd

She's got a bit of a professional attitude about things. Makes me wonder if she might be on BP or somewhere else.

[2me4Looking2]

I'm sorry but if you are trying to keep your identity on SA a secret you might as well just not be on there. You are looking at wasting 80 bucks because SA will most likely kick you off if they do see something they don't like.

I've never had an issue with that. I use prepaid visa with completely fake info. I had one girl recently get very explicit on SA and I kept asking her to text because I was afraid my account would get suspended, but nothing ever happened. She was most definitely breaking the rules.

[Zipper34]

Has anyone had their SA SD account suspended? I had a free one and hadn't ever gotten to paying and converting mine to a paid one yet. I was still trying to figure out how to do that without giving away any personal info such as CC.

I mostly used it to check out the profiles around me and the ones mentioned on here to keep track of the ones I liked and were recommended, so that when I did convert to a paid one I could easily start the ball rolling. Whenever I browse a profile, I would always make sure to request access to private pics to see what they are really like. I don't think I have even tried to contact anyone on there because I can't read anything they send me with my free profile.

Suddenly last week when I login I get a message saying that my account is under review and lists the possible reasons. I don't remember the exact reasons (shouldn't be underage, no bullying, no soliciting, etc.) but I wasn't doing any of that. Just browsing around profiles and checking out the ones who view and like my profile. And a few days after that, when I try to login it says my account is now suspended.

Since I want to maintain my anonymity, I haven't contacted their customer care to get more info. But I was wondering if anyone else has been through something similar?

Get a prepaid visa and register it online using any zip code you want. Then when you sign up on SA use the same zip code and make up a name and phone number. The only thing that matters is that you use the same zip code you used to register your prepaid credit card. No need to give them anything remotely identifying.

I'm sorry but if you are trying to keep your identity on SA a secret you might as well just not be on there. You are looking at wasting 80 bucks because SA will most likely kick you off if they do see something they don't like.

[2me4Looking2]

Has anyone had their SA SD account suspended? I had a free one and hadn't ever gotten to paying and converting mine to a paid one yet. I was still trying to figure out how to do that without giving away any personal info such as CC.

I mostly used it to check out the profiles around me and the ones mentioned on here to keep track of the ones I liked and were recommended, so that when I did convert to a paid one I could easily start the ball rolling. Whenever I browse a profile, I would always make sure to request access to private pics to see what they are really like. I don't think I have even tried to contact anyone on there because I can't read anything they send me with my free profile.

Suddenly last week when I login I get a message saying that my account is under review and lists the possible reasons. I don't remember the exact reasons (shouldn't be underage, no bullying, no soliciting, etc.) but I wasn't doing any of that. Just browsing around profiles and checking out the ones who view and like my profile. And a few days after that, when I try to login it says my account is now suspended.

Since I want to maintain my anonymity, I haven't contacted their customer care to get more info. But I was wondering if anyone else has been through something similar?

Get a prepaid visa and register it online using any zip code you want. Then when you sign up on SA use the same zip code and make up a name and phone number. The only thing that matters is that you use the same zip code you used to register your prepaid credit card. No need to give them anything remotely identifying.

[John HandCock]

If you are not paying to use SA no point in really being on there. Pay 80 bucks and see what you get for 30 days. Your account being suspended could be just a thing they do with everybody's account. Check back in a day or two on it. Will say my account got suspended for very weak reasons, I talked to them about it, and they refunded me 320 dollars for my first frw months on there. SA making people pay to be on there is a rip-off but they don't expect the same people to be paying for their site for long.

They have a no refund policy so if you got money back you was extremely lucky. Not sure how you got 320 back for a few months when 80 is the monthly payment but usually one is out the $$.

[John HandCock]

Has anyone had their SA SD account suspended? I had a free one and hadn't ever gotten to paying and converting mine to a paid one yet. I was still trying to figure out how to do that without giving away any personal info such as CC.

I mostly used it to check out the profiles around me and the ones mentioned on here to keep track of the ones I liked and were recommended, so that when I did convert to a paid one I could easily start the ball rolling. Whenever I browse a profile, I would always make sure to request access to private pics to see what they are really like. I don't think I have even tried to contact anyone on there because I can't read anything they send me with my free profile.

Suddenly last week when I login I get a message saying that my account is under review and lists the possible reasons. I don't remember the exact reasons (shouldn't be underage, no bullying, no soliciting, etc.) but I wasn't doing any of that. Just browsing around profiles and checking out the ones who view and like my profile. And a few days after that, when I try to login it says my account is now suspended.

Since I want to maintain my anonymity, I haven't contacted their customer care to get more info. But I was wondering if anyone else has been through something similar?

They suspend and in other flagrant violations ban. Your the first non paying member I've ever heard of. Might be wrong but a standard member can't read or send messages. My suggestion is check what your profile says. If its to forward then that's the problem. They have a no refund policy so just remember that if they suspend it you can lose your enire payment. They suspend for a day to whatever is left on your membership.

[Zipper34]

Seems that postal worker that was killed in Decatur is somebody I had talked to one time on SA. Didn't care about the story until I saw today that she was wearing that digital hawaiin thing on her head and then I noticed I recognized her. Sad.

On another note, I don't care if these girls put those hawaiin flowers on their head while taking a picture but I can't stand the digital crap that goes over their eyes and face.

[Iduosh]

Thanks for the tip. It seems I have been on the unlucky side, and all I got was either escort type asking for 200-300 per meet for couple of hours. The extreme was 500 for couple of hours. And many of them saying we will see how 1st meet goes etc and skip the details. The tricky part is, how do I know they won't say no to say round 2 or specific request, and you do kind of take the risk of on losing end. May be you are better negotiator and you did get good ones, or simply I need to work on my skill sets.

You must not have a very good imagination, in the past 2 years on and off SA, I have had several better than reasonably good looking, early 20's college girls come spend several hours and even an overnight or 2 for $100. For $200 per visit. And never EVER by the hour, I have had at least 15 different girls that range from a 7 to 10 in looks, for $250-400 I have had several doubles, again no rush no clock, multiple rounds.

Whatever you do, NEVER discuss a specific amount of time or specific acts (BBBJ, BBFS, DATY, etc), If you treat them like hourly hookers then you'll get that kind of treatment in return. If a girl mentions a specific amount of time to me I tell her if I wanted a hooker by the hour I know where to find them, and that usually gets me on their good side as being "respectful".