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**RedRaze** · 02-28-17 18:45

Originally Posted by Raiden [View Original Post]

I avoid thinking about it to be honest. I quit thinking about it when I did a quick mental math and found out I spent 30 k in 18 months. WTF! It's like a drug and hard to quit. Especially when you. Hook up with some special girls. And things are fabulous. It's easy for me. To take a break if I get a couple sucky sessions but when I have those perfect sessions. . man o man the rush and pleasure. Life is short got to enjoy while. We can eh?!

If you think about it in one lump sum, it sucks haha, but for me I think about it in terms of week (s) and it still sucks haha I spend almost all of my "spare" money on this relatively new hobby of mine. Luckily, I think I am finally able to pace myself as I have tried many out there and gone through some small dramas with a couple as well. But hey, still this completes and satisfies my urges. WORTH it! Hopefully I can keep it paced out reasonably without wanting to double dive or multiple visits a week.

Don't let little head take control!

**RedRaze** · 02-28-17 18:19

Originally Posted by Newbee201 [View Original Post]

I've found edging to work for me.

Wait, for stamina, I meant that it will help you last.

Getting it up with your SO is a different story. Edging does work and so does sitting on a tennis ball under your sack or a cock ring. Idea being to trap the blood flow.

Using your mongering highlight reel.

Maybe you guys also need to just start exploring different things together, S&M, toys, three-way (even try a 3 way with that new fleshlight), watch and follow a porn flick, make your own porn flick. Try roll play complete with dressing up for the parts or suggest her to do some of the things you get while mongering, like BJs and intimate P2 P. Try different times of the day or stand in front of the door naked when she comes home. LOL.

In all seriousness though, these are stuff to really try to spice it up and get you hard for her.

I know. My grammar is super junk this post. Apologies in advance.

Raze.

**RedRaze** · 02-28-17 18:06

Originally Posted by KidFarian [View Original Post]

Do you recommend Fleshlight to increase stamina? For some reason I'm good with everyone else except my SO. This is really putting a undue strain on our relationship. Any info will help. I've tried V and C pills, masturbation but nothing is working. Thanks Brothers for any help you can provide.

Sorry I didn't see your message right away.

PMed you also.

But YES, fleshlight does build stamina depending on how you use it. The only way I can explain how is that the fleshlight is soooo good that if you can last with it, you can last with a girl. My recommendation would be to get it and tighten that cap down and build to the point of popping, but stop and let it subside and rinse and repeat about 3-4 times about 3-4 times a week.

Remember that drying that thing out is SUPER important! After each use, follow the instructions and let it dry.

And don't get hooked on it! AHAHA.

**Idusixtyning** · 02-28-17 13:28

Originally Posted by Luvnsex2 [View Original Post]

I'm sure this has been discussed before but anyone ever consider how much this Hobby reallt costs? I have over 400 posts and I think most of my posts are actual encounters. Anyway being conservative let's say that 200 were. And of course there are the ones I did not do a report. Let's just say average $150. Well you do the math. Scary!!

It's a hell of a lot cheaper than getting married and then divorced later. When you get divorced, you lose half of everything and more. Not to mention that the sex will go downhill after you get married.

**Member #5810** · 02-28-17 10:03

Originally Posted by Asstro [View Original Post]

If I die tomorrow, it will be with a smile on my face, I enjoyed the best hobby in the world. There is always an opportunity cost of what you could have done with the money, but in this case, the fulfillment was well worth it, or I should say priceless.

Rajah that! Oh the special memories and priceless moments. And perhaps most important is I get. To. Meet and even become friends and lovers. Twisted in a way but there's room in this crazy situation to have some meaningful relationships. I'm married of course and happily married at that. But this hobby of ours allows me to enjoy without the risk, and drama of having a girlfriend or mistress. It's a great life damn! !

**Asstro** · 02-27-17 13:47

Originally Posted by Raiden [View Original Post]

I avoid thinking about it to be honest. I quit thinking about it when I did a quick mental math and found out I spent 30 k in 18 months. WTF! It's like a drug and hard to quit. Especially when you. Hook up with some special girls. And things are fabulous. It's easy for me. To take a break if I get a couple sucky sessions but when I have those perfect sessions. . man o man the rush and pleasure. Life is short got to enjoy while. We can eh?!

If I die tomorrow, it will be with a smile on my face, I enjoyed the best hobby in the world. There is always an opportunity cost of what you could have done with the money, but in this case, the fulfillment was well worth it, or I should say priceless.

**Member #5810** · 02-26-17 23:37

Originally Posted by Luvnsex2 [View Original Post]

I don't know guys. I mean I've had awesome experiences and have met many awesome girls. Pretty and much younger than me. But still, at least $30 K. Somehow I think I could have used that $$ in better ways. But can I quit? I've tried before.

I avoid thinking about it to be honest. I quit thinking about it when I did a quick mental math and found out I spent 30 k in 18 months. WTF! It's like a drug and hard to quit. Especially when you. Hook up with some special girls. And things are fabulous. It's easy for me. To take a break if I get a couple sucky sessions but when I have those perfect sessions. . man o man the rush and pleasure. Life is short got to enjoy while. We can eh?!

**RdPuerco** · 02-26-17 18:23

Originally Posted by Luvnsex2 [View Original Post]

I don't know guys. I mean I've had awesome experiences and have met many awesome girls. Pretty and much younger than me. But still, at least $30 K. Somehow I think I could have used that $$ in better ways. But can I quit? I've tried before.

I dunno, I've spent at least 60 K over 20+ years – probably much more if you adjust for inflation – and I don't know if I regret it. I had some great experiences and several interesting ones, and that amount was spread over a LONG time. I wouldn't mind having all that money in one chunk, but I was only able to spend that much because I never did have it in one chunk.

**Lucky808** · 02-26-17 18:21

Originally Posted by Luvnsex2 [View Original Post]

I don't know guys. I mean I've had awesome experiences and have met many awesome girls. Pretty and much younger than me. But still, at least $30 K. Somehow I think I could have used that $$ in better ways. But can I quit? I've tried before.

Before I ventured into mongering I was pre warned about the money that will be "wasted". I have 2 uncles (brothers), one rich and the other not so rich. Both made the same amount of income from work but the rich one was very frugal (invested in the stock market and real estate) with his money while the other liked to "play". At every new years party the same subject comes up between them about how the uncle that likes to play wasted his chance to become a millionare. Guess which uncle I have more betta time with talking stories, haha.

**Newbee201** · 02-26-17 18:13

Originally Posted by KidFarian [View Original Post]

Do you recommend Fleshlight to increase stamina? For some reason I'm good with everyone else except my SO. This is really putting a undue strain on our relationship. Any info will help. I've tried V and C pills, masturbation but nothing is working. Thanks Brothers for any help you can provide.

I've found edging to work for me.

**H Mobius** · 02-26-17 17:08

Originally Posted by FGreg [View Original Post]

Not sure if this is the right place to ask, if not please move or delete.

I am a well endowed man and I am having trouble finding a provider who doesn't mind someone of my "size. ".

I have never been denied service, but always have to be very gentle and usually only missionary.

Does anyone know of a good girl for me?

Thanks in advance from the help.

If Yoko from Kison ever comes back, see her. She'll easily handle you any which way and up her butt too.

In the meantime, have you tried any CHM women?

Yuki at Blue Star (on Kalakaua Avenue near Philip Street) is a heavy-built girl; perhaps she would welcome a horse. Good luck.

**KidFarian** · 02-26-17 14:25

Originally Posted by RedRaze [View Original Post]

So I came across a provider that turned me onto a trick, I mentioned in a couple of my posts prior, but for other members that may have an issue with a cover and popping, especially my fellow larger sword members. Try and have the provider put just one drop of lube in the tip of the cover before putting it on. The lube gets isolated to the top part of the cover and creates a very bareback feeling. For this instance, best to have a standard size as it is a bit tighter and holds on better. Cannot speak for how that works for average or smaller guys, but I am sure it works similar.

I fucking curse the fleshlight for building my stamina too much and can last the whole hour with a cover (and without), but this trick helps a lot!

Your welcome.

Or you can just rub that lube on the top half of your cock. Same effect.

A2

Do you recommend Fleshlight to increase stamina? For some reason I'm good with everyone else except my SO. This is really putting a undue strain on our relationship. Any info will help. I've tried V and C pills, masturbation but nothing is working. Thanks Brothers for any help you can provide.

**AVeryGoodnight** · 02-25-17 23:06

Hello everyone. Not sure if this is in the right thread but I have been mongering all over Asia and Polynesia for the past few years but I've never been with a Hawaiian girl. Last time I visited Waikiki I spent most of my time and money in the strip clubs on American girls. I will be visiting again at the end of March. Can anyone recommend a quality Hawaiian Provider? I would love to scratch that off my bucket list. Mahalo.

**Luvnsex2** · 02-25-17 21:27

Originally Posted by Redneck1 [View Original Post]

Fairly reasonable in my opinion: 200 times 150 equals $30,000. Many cars cost as much, and considering all the years you've been on the forum, I bet the total pleasure you've received from mongering is more than the pleasure you would have received from using the money to buy a car of that price.

Yes, I think that can be one of the benefits of this hobby, freedom from being under the control of "civilian" women and needing to conform to their requirements in order to receive sex.

I don't know guys. I mean I've had awesome experiences and have met many awesome girls. Pretty and much younger than me. But still, at least $30 K. Somehow I think I could have used that $$ in better ways. But can I quit? I've tried before.