"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[HollywoodGuy]

The virgin is back. Literally in my house. I will decide by tomorrow if she can stay more than one night. Too many new POTS showing an interest. Including a day one signee on SA, latina, cute, 5'2" and small.

[Mike7794]

I guess online sales of what would be the salient question. Sometimes a simple media trend can cause a run on anything. Just a couple of weeks ago, anyone selling confederate flags was pretty much an overnight success as folks started stockpiling them. The economy overall is in good shape though. Folks can say what they want about Obama but I'll take this over the Bush era anyday.

Your joking, right?

[JZLizard]

I mostly (like 90% of the time), date black women. So my respect for them is high, but my concerns are real.

As yours should be too for any race girl. Read these articles.

http://www.cdc.gov/nchhstp/newsroom/...ssrelease.html

http://www.thehelpernewsletter.org/i...lth&Itemid=233

If you have never tested positive for HSV2 (herpes) that's a good thing.

All STD's can be cured except HIV and HSV.

Planned Parenthood tests for everything for free, except HSV2.

Thats an $80 test at a private clinic. Here is a link to find a nearby location.

https://www.stdcheck.com/?pid=903095...FURcfgodT3cJWQ

Be safe and sound.

I once had a fuckbuddy who (after we had stopped fucking) informed me that she had a comprehensive health screening and tested positive for HSV2. She was depressed and confused (because she said she had never had an outbreak). When she told me it had been a while since we fucked and I had no reason to believe I had been infected. I held her in high regard for telling me, she didn't have to. There was a small amount of question in my mind as to whether she might be lying about the result, just as a way to get a reaction out of me and / or punish me for not really having time for ongoing fuck activities. Or maybe she had been tested positive long before meeting me and just now decided to tell me about it? I decided not to overanalyze it and give her the benefit of the doubt that she was being honest and told me as soon as she knew. She was a pretty level headed person so it was the best perspective to take based on what I knew about her personality. I got tested later and came up negative. I don't speak to her any more but I hope she is still free and clear of any outbreaks.

[HollywoodGuy]

I mostly (like 90% of the time), date black women. So my respect for them is high, but my concerns are real.

As yours should be too for any race girl. Read these articles.

http://www.cdc.gov/nchhstp/newsroom/...ssrelease.html

http://www.thehelpernewsletter.org/i...lth&Itemid=233

If you have never tested positive for HSV2 (herpes) that's a good thing.

All STD's can be cured except HIV and HSV.

Planned Parenthood tests for everything for free, except HSV2.

Thats an $80 test at a private clinic. Here is a link to find a nearby location.

https://www.stdcheck.com/?pid=903095...FURcfgodT3cJWQ

Be safe and sound.

[Dsprdo]

Technically I could avoid it with condoms but since I hate condoms I'm better off to just be prepared..

For years I did 100% condoms (the result of 18 years of unexpected child support from a one-nighter). Last year I got fixed and it has been wonderful. I am trying to be smart, but I have resolved to take the chances on catching something without. Occasionally I see somone that gives me concern and I'll suit up but mostly no. Intellectually I know the "good girls" are just as likely as anyone else to pass something along but at least I can rationalize a bit. Connecting back to the UTR discussion I have just been messaging with someone that definitely communicates like a pro, I'm probably going to try it out a couple of times, but that will be one that I don my rain suit for. She says she's not a pro, has only had a couple of SD's, is married, and would be willing to go BB after she's "comfortable" with me. Says she has a high sex drive and it's not being quenched at home.

[JZLizard]

Just decided to check on my ATF's FB and what do I see. Her talking about some guy she just broke up with after a 4 month fling. I knew she was seeing someone, as I posted that one day some dude came to her house and saw me there in my undies and literally socked her. These girls all know I work on the internet and so even if their shit is private I am going to find a way to hack it. Yet they continue to post stuff they know I am not going to like, as if I dont see every word and pic they post. They really are not thinking. I could use this as an excuse to drop my ATF today if I wanted to. But she is a real life black barbie fucking machine, so for now I am going to keep seeing her when I can. But the hunt is on.

There's an old saying, if you ask someone how many sex partners they currently have, take a guy's number and divide by 3 and take a girl's number and multiply by 3. For sugar babies there's an extra multiplier of 2-4 depending on a number of factors. Basically if any of them tell you you're the only one they're banging, be extra afraid. At least the semi-honest ones that tell you some of the other shit that's going on can be partially trusted -- rest assured there's more they aren't telling you.

I worry about STDs too. Not so much the effects on myself of getting one as much as being concerned that if I did get one and gave it to the GF, how could I explain that? All of my caution in not getting caught goes out the window due to something I can't even see coming (no pun intended).

Technically I could avoid it with condoms but since I hate condoms I'm better off to just be prepared. The scariest part is looking back at all the unprotected sex I've had, and wondering how on hell I've made it this far without catching something? Luck cannot go on forever, and as we get older our immune system gets less effective at resisting these things. An escort with BBBJCIM is a possible solution and might minimize risk but I'm not into that scene and it doesn't seem like a good plan if STD avoidance is the goal. Some of the UTR type SBs might be agreeable to oral sex only, but I think most of the SB's I've known would be horrified if I told them to just blow me for the sugar.

[HollywoodGuy]

Just decided to check on my ATF's FB and what do I see. Her talking about some guy she just broke up with after a 4 month fling. I knew she was seeing someone, as I posted that one day some dude came to her house and saw me there in my undies and literally socked her. These girls all know I work on the internet and so even if their shit is private I am going to find a way to hack it. Yet they continue to post stuff they know I am not going to like, as if I dont see every word and pic they post. They really are not thinking. I could use this as an excuse to drop my ATF today if I wanted to. But she is a real life black barbie fucking machine, so for now I am going to keep seeing her when I can. But the hunt is on.

It makes me feel a little sad. But hey, they all know I fuck any hot black girl I can get, so I guess I can't expect everything in return. Plus my ATF is a booty call on steroids and she knows that (I have fucked her over 70 times). We don't talk about it a lot, but it's in the air. I guess if you fuck a girl 70 times and have never taken her out even one time, she is gonna get the memo.

My only real concern is catching something I don't want. I had that scare already 3 times in the last year. I started wearing condoms again here and there unless I am feeling really confident. I get tested every 2 months and have never had a positive test for anything in my entire life (just a miracle I guess). But my trust level is going down. I even tell my girls, just tell me if you are fucking other ppl so I can make an informed decision. I mean I am telling them when I do most of the time. No wonder my virgin had a brain blowout.

Shit, a girl I was dating last year got something, but lucky for me she only gave it to (or got it from) her IRL BF and not me. LOL. But I am definitely on a more safe and slower track (no pun intended) than i was before. And props to all the guys and their info/intel. It has really helped me formulate my plans overall.

[EasyGoingJ]

I have noticed lately there are lots of ads that have the privacy warning that I first saw on (and associate with) AFF, also read something by a lady who was not on SA, but her pic / profile was, also profiles that have no text or text written by some who don't have a command of the English language. I have also received messages from SB's who go from local to 200-2000 miles away a few days after writing. There is a newish SB thread from cincy that goes into a fair amount of detail about dubious profiles. I'm in central Va. And have had great luck, but have not renewed for a while due to lack of free time. I see profiles that have me ready to pull the trigger then some of this weirdness goes on.

Oh well, I'm always optimistic so may pay soon. Any feedback on local girls appreciated (Krill are you out there?) , Ideally I need a young lady with a great head game who can host me during the day as I have a so. Thanks, J.

[HollywoodGuy]

I guess online sales of what would be the salient question. Sometimes a simple media trend can cause a run on anything. Just a couple of weeks ago, anyone selling confederate flags was pretty much an overnight success as folks started stockpiling them. The economy overall is in good shape though. Folks can say what they want about Obama but I'll take this over the Bush era anyday.

Everything is up. Health related stuff, stuff for seniors (always a good sign as they have the tightest wads), dating sites, cosmetic surgery, college enrollment. All across the board really. An interesting slight down trend is coupon cutting (although it is still very popular). People are just being less paranoid about spending money.

And lol.. I did sell a ton of flags this summer. As far as politics I was literally printing money under bush (and sugaring about 20k a month including alimony), under obama I actually thought I might go out of business (which is how I got started on my $ plan and dropped the alimony to 1k a month). Kind of like Hannity's penny plan on steroids.

Because before obama I was paying $$$+ daily on girls, no problem. People are feeling the winds of change. Hope is replacing fear again. There is huge pent up buyer demand. Vacation spending is going to be massive this month. As it always is, just more than the last few years. This xmas should be insane. Watch car sales start to creep up again. Hasn't happened yet but it will next year I think. Cars sales are a good indicator. High end sales are already up. And inexpensive cars have been doing well for a while. When the middle priced cars start selling again you know for sure the economy is rising.

Shit, I was spending 7k a month on my daughter alone. I cut that to 2k. Since the X Wifey and my daughter are now stabilized at about 3k a month total, this would allow any extra money to go straight to savings and sugaring. A happy prospect for sure. Now if I can only get my health back up so I can drive normally again, this could be a fun 3rd and 4th quarter. its a lot tougher and more expensive when the girl has to always drive or transport over to me. One reason I hooked up with the car-less virgin was her close proximity to my house.

[JZLizard]

Is the Trumpster rejuvenating the American spirit? Something is going on, on the Internet. Online sales have jumped dramatically in the last 5 weeks (in the slowest month of the year except August). This directly impacts my ability to play in the bowl. And part of my reason for having the confidence to offer $$ to that model below. I hope this keeps up, because my game is way up even from a couple years ago. So if my paycheck goes up proportionately, I could go on an awesome sugar run till the end of the year.

Smiley Face.

I guess online sales of what would be the salient question. Sometimes a simple media trend can cause a run on anything. Just a couple of weeks ago, anyone selling confederate flags was pretty much an overnight success as folks started stockpiling them. The economy overall is in good shape though. Folks can say what they want about Obama but I'll take this over the Bush era anyday.

[HollywoodGuy]

Is the Trumpster rejuvenating the American spirit? Something is going on, on the Internet. Online sales have jumped dramatically in the last 5 weeks (in the slowest month of the year except August). This directly impacts my ability to play in the bowl. And part of my reason for having the confidence to offer $$ to that model below. I hope this keeps up, because my game is way up even from a couple years ago. So if my paycheck goes up proportionately, I could go on an awesome sugar run till the end of the year.

Smiley Face.

[JZLizard]

Societal norms do change over time, I agree. Don't think that women's desire to trade on their attractiveness to men has changed since the beginning of time, and doubt that it ever will, based on empirical evidence. A generalization that some women will hate, I know, but I'm pretty confident that position is backed by a myriad of day to day examples.

I mentioned earlier in this discussion that the worlds oldest profession will never go away.

What would be in jeopardy, however, of diminishing is the simple convenience of meeting good clean college aged babes by simply signing up for a website. If it is not dead-simple and convenient, free of legal risk and social stigma for them, the numbers would drop off exponentially and we'd mostly be dealing with escorts and BP skanks.

Trust me when I say SBs can still be found on Match/POF etc all day long. It's just a LOT more work to do so with much less to choose from.

[Mike7794]

LOL! Last week for only the 2nd time I ended a date as soon as the girl got in the car. This one described herself as "average". I should have guessed when her profile had only face shots and the one private pic she was in very loose clothing. As she came walking out to the car she was obviously way past "a few extra pounds" and solidly into "overweight". She got in the car and I told her I was sorry, but this just wasn't going to work. She did take it fairly well.

Good Hunting!

Travelin.

I had two of those early this year. They qualified as a few extra pounds for sure.

[Mike7794]

My personal opinion -Yes- each to his own. A label is just that but it is good to know in your own mind how to process your activities. Does that make us Johns if we see 1 SB? Probably. If a girl is collecting men to pay her and is willing to have sex to do it then she is a pro by definition. The only way to avoid that definition is the existence of a relationship that is not solely dependent on a sex / money dynamic. Most SBs would not see any of us unless they were getting paid. And we would not pay them without the expectation of sex. An exception to that rule is the true IRL bar / dating site pickup. I know my SBs "like" me and many are thrilled with the sex, but I have yet had one offer to drop the allowance. I know it happens because some of you report it, but those girls see some of you as a potential IRL "catch".

For those of you who see Escorts you know the difference in mentality between a naive college girl wanting to pay for her tuition and taking a dick for the effort vs a working Pro with a Pimp, website, agency, etc. The SB college girl is just starting on that slippery slope to being a Pro. It isn't long before she sees how easy it is to bang some geeze and pocket an easy $$$ ,then another and another. Same with us guys. If I had the time and $ I would see a different SB every day ala Hollywood in his prime. I want to catch the SB at the naive stage where she hasn't acquired the hooker mentality, and actually can still respond emotionally and actually enjoy the ride.

Well said. It is a fine line. I was thinking along the lines of your second paragraph type of SB. I too like that type of SB. In fact my senior to be at a university is like that, as she took her profile down a couple of months ago.

[HollywoodGuy]

And speaking of pussy. I while back I said I might decide to go an alternate route and pay $$ a date (here and there), but then just date a little less. I just made my first $$ offer today, to this girl, based off her message to me that a $ just wasn't going to cut it.

I would never normally do this, but since being with my ATF who is 6' tall, I have come to appreciate the kinetic dynamics of our love making. This girl is close to 6 feet as well.

Anyway, she just accepted my offer of a "no sex, no money" date to see if we click.

And here is a front shot of the aforementioned 6 foot girl. After sleeping on it. I am just not sure. But I guess I can meet her for free and see what happens.