Seeking Arrangements (SA)

**Orbits** · 12-20-14 00:29

Originally Posted by BackWoods [View Original Post]

Is it worth the initial "membership fee" I've been burnt before by website scams and kinda hesitant. I signed up and got an assload of messages in just a couple days but I'm on the fence because you have to pay the fee to read them and message back. Plus you don't have any sort of review system so it seems like you would be constantly TOFTT and sooner or later. Your luck may run out. Just wondering. Thoughts?

Don't know if the membership fee is "worth it" -- this probably varies a lot, depending on who you ask. But I can tell you it's definitely not a scam and they are very good at keeping fakes / scam profiles out of there. I've yet to run across even one that was just a straight up scam. There are some crazies on there that think they'll get 10 k / week for letting you talk to them occasionally, but at least they're real crazies LOL hmmm, maybe that's not a good thing.

And yeah, no reviews = you're taking a chance. A few rules that might help: Don't give them your primary phone number (I use google voice for SA stuff), don't use your real name, don't use pics where you're clearly identifiable. For pics, either blur them or use "visual approximation" pics. Most importantly: if she sounds crazy or like a dumbass who can't put a coherent sentence together, pass. Even if she's hot. Not worth it.

**Jem411** · 12-17-14 09:05

Originally Posted by MilfMan865 [View Original Post]

The guys' reports are not exaggerated. The site with the initials SA is the real deal. Reaped the benefits four days in a row. I'll likely throw a lure in this section as well, but I wanted to add my two pennies based on my experiences.

Embracing intense connections without commitment,
Milfman.

There's not enough time in the day. I have found that I can ignore them for a month and contact them and their ready to jump back into the sack. One hiccup so far, called her bluff through silence, so far so good.

**MilfMan865** · 12-16-14 22:24

The guys' reports are not exaggerated. The site with the initials SA is the real deal. Reaped the benefits four days in a row. I'll likely throw a lure in this section as well, but I wanted to add my two pennies based on my experiences.

Embracing intense connections without commitment,
Milfman.

**Jem411** · 12-13-14 19:33

Originally Posted by KnoxTNman [View Original Post]

Has anyone seen Jessica? Attachment 356030 Attachment 356031.

Pictures are not accurate. Was once a pretty girl. Meth teeth. Showed up, she open door, smiled. I split. Sounded great on the phone too. Stay safe.

**KnoxTNman** · 12-13-14 15:52

Has anyone seen Jessica?

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**MilfMan865** · 12-13-14 02:24

Originally Posted by Jem411 [View Original Post]

Having my first real negative issue with someone from SA, goes by NSA_2014 (oak ridge). Had an arrangement for about 8 weeks. I'm trying to move on, she is demanding more funds, one last time, because she has not nor will she ever tell anyone about me. Then today, after zero response from me, "I'm not trying to be ugly, but I know someone who works with your wife". Be careful guys, as I continue to play the silent game and wait it out.

Thanks for the heads up. That's the kind of information that we need. I'm taking the slow and methodical process with the SA site, but I've had decent conversations with a few prospects so far. It's hard to pick out the sane ones from those that have wreaked havoc elsewhere and deciding to try their hand at SA now. It sounds like she has an ample supply of strings attached instead of NSA as she claims.

Stay safe,

MilfMan.

**Gibson1970** · 12-09-14 13:20

Originally Posted by Jem411 [View Original Post]

Having my first real negative issue with someone from SA, goes by NSA_2014 (oak ridge). Had an arrangement for about 8 weeks. I'm trying to move on, she is demanding more funds, one last time, because she has not nor will she ever tell anyone about me. Then today, after zero response from me, "I'm not trying to be ugly, but I know someone who works with your wife". Be careful guys, as I continue to play the silent game and wait it out.

Sent you PM.

**Jem411** · 12-09-14 12:54

Having my first real negative issue with someone from SA, goes by NSA_2014 (oak ridge). Had an arrangement for about 8 weeks. I'm trying to move on, she is demanding more funds, one last time, because she has not nor will she ever tell anyone about me. Then today, after zero response from me, "I'm not trying to be ugly, but I know someone who works with your wife". Be careful guys, as I continue to play the silent game and wait it out.

**GaltGuy** · 12-09-14 09:56

Why didn't I do this earlier? Unfuckingbelievable. I can't find enough hours.

**CaneBay** · 12-08-14 11:16

Anyone have any contact with Sarahtn? PM and thanks!

**Tnmm51** · 12-04-14 12:25

Originally Posted by Jem411 [View Original Post]

Wow. You can sure tell that Christmas is around the corner. I'm getting 4-5 offers a day. It's like shooting fish in a barrel. This is beyond fun and easy. They're eager to meet and willing to do about anything. I've not been told no yet for anything I've wanted. Including greek and doubles. Having a blast.

The only thing I can tell is some of them are raising their rates. I just laugh and say no thanks and keep searching. Happy hunting.

**Jem411** · 12-03-14 18:01

Wow. You can sure tell that Christmas is around the corner. I'm getting 4-5 offers a day. It's like shooting fish in a barrel. This is beyond fun and easy. They're eager to meet and willing to do about anything. I've not been told no yet for anything I've wanted. Including greek and doubles. Having a blast.

**Orbits** · 10-30-14 21:45

Originally Posted by ThermoNuclear [View Original Post]

So I got a message on SA from tantalizing nerdy gal from Nebraska asking to hook-up immediately ("shower and meet you now" wanted to only chat via email, kept asking for pics of me, and the pics she provided were TGTBT and lifted from a porn pic site. Either I missed the opportunity of a lifetime or dodged a bullet, but I am thinking the later.

I've heard of others on this site with similar experience of having girls ask for pics, with faces in them.

Sooo. Can anyone explain the angle? Is this an extortion racket? How does this play out?

The Nebraska thing and the lifted porn star pics make this odd and likely some sort of a scam. But as far as SB's asking for face pics in general, that's pretty normal. They all ask that eventually. Well, maybe not all, but all the ones I've met so far asked that at some point. They just want to know who they're meeting. I haven't had any problems because of it. Even for someone who's married I don't see that as a big risk. If all she has is an email sent from some random address with a totally wholesome and G-rated pic of you, that's not exactly a great basis for extortion. Avoiding Anthony Weiner territory is always a good idea when it comes to pic sharing though.

As far as the (likely) scam, my guess is getting face pics for extortion wasn't the end goal. Most likely there would have been some sort of follow-up regarding how she really wants to meet you and would totally travel to you if she had the funds. Followed by a request for a paypal transfer or a credit card number. Or maybe an invitation to check her out on some for-pay cam site. Just guesses, but I think these are far more likely than an extortion scam.

**ThermoNuclear** · 10-29-14 10:39

So I got a message on SA from tantalizing nerdy gal from Nebraska asking to hook-up immediately ("shower and meet you now" wanted to only chat via email, kept asking for pics of me, and the pics she provided were TGTBT and lifted from a porn pic site. Either I missed the opportunity of a lifetime or dodged a bullet, but I am thinking the later.

I've heard of others on this site with similar experience of having girls ask for pics, with faces in them.

Sooo. Can anyone explain the angle? Is this an extortion racket? How does this play out?

**Gibson1970** · 10-23-14 09:40

Originally Posted by Scapp [View Original Post]

She is very eager to talk via email but not on the phone. She gave me a financial number and wanted me to us PayPal to pay her and then we could play. After telling her I pay cash, she said she did not operate that way and we were done. I did not get a good feeling. YMMV. Stay safe --SC.

Looks like I dodged a bullet. I would never do PayPal or prepay before meeting.