Korean Bar Reports

[Getting Old]

Had good fun with the bros last night in town as we hit every KB and EG till closing. Ow, my head hurts bad, LOL. They must be dieing today, LOL. Every bar was slow but drinking with the Dragon king, Chibi, and Ninja bro always good fun. Chibi and and Ninja sat with thier hunnees making LVB when not with the rest of us and think they were happy. Looked for Getting Old but the bugga wasnt at Ellies which was slow and junk bartenders night time. You sure daytime bartebders good? Junk mama usually have junk staff. 74 not that slow but not enough girls. Casino and Butts slow and Chibi miss his chance with the young one because he no listen to me, LOL. Twilight same thing. International mostly older ones Sunday but Chibi had fun with a youngun. Checked out Camelot where Chibi is VIP for the wrong reasons and decided to run when the KBGs got excited to see Chibi, LOL. Splash slow and I asked if get young crazy LVB types who frequent there and was told yes. EG slow and I was drunk already by then and forget alot of what happenned. Make your reports bros. Got to say good fun with the 3 of them young studs who put up hanging with the old fun. Eh TT, Ninja like meet you because he tink you interesting.

Lot of good advice here on relationships bros. However I think my second "guess" in the tactics thread was the wrong word and an understatement. Still very good advice for LVBs in general by all you cool nice guys.

You right about the second shift at Ellie's on Sunday. I stand by my review of the 2 daytime bartenders (Seji and Miki) they on Friday to Monday from 1 PM-8 PM if any of you guys check it out let me know by posts if they ok or not, but please don't stiff them, bars have changed, so the pupu you getting is out of their pocket so leave some! This for the youngsters if they ask if you like eat no get wise and say it's not on the menu, just tell them yes and what do you have? Food is out of pocket so leave some tip!! Those of you who speak a little Japanese this will help anyway go check it out and let me know been awhile since been going back to the KB.

I was there Oldee if you stuck your head in next door 74 an old friend is the manager there so was there after shift change the four guys taking 2 booths was us. Some other time Oldee.

I getting old so I don't think 4 AM is a feasible action boy you sure are a glutton for punishment. You the man! LOL.

[John Ross]

I have no idea how you guys can go out every night and drink the night away! In my younger days, maybe once or twice a month, I would stay out until 4 am and get to my office by 9 am or 10 am. My brain was really fuzzy and I had to have the strongest coffee known to man to survive the day.

[Dragons76]

Man I was hurting also today. I ended up only working half a day because I was feeling sick. I started off the night at Neco's in McCully shopping center the old Auon's. Nice chill place with Japanese food and iichiko bottles for $40 they also serve sake, mixed drinks, and beers like any other bar. After drinking there headed to the Kbars and found some familiar faces out and about. First saw Ninja at Butts and walked over with him to International where Oldee and Chibi was. After getting a couple of drinks at International went over to Ellie's for bit and also checked out 74. Most of the bars were pretty slow then again I didn't go out till about 11 pm which on a Sunday is when the usually start emptying out. Then ended up at EG to end the night drinking and talking tactics with Oldee, Ninja, and Chibi till closing time which like Chibi isn't a good idea when you work the next day. It was fun night but I will need a couple days to recover so won't be going till maybe Wed or later this week.

[ChibiMonger]

Well took oldee up on the offer to see what Sunday had to offer. Started off at splash, sat very briefly to drink a beer and take a look around. Bar pretty full, looked busy enough for a Sunday. On our way back down to kapiolani bars, quickly took a look at camelot and international before stopping at casino. Told oldee camelot the one bar I made a questionable reputation for myself and I would get instantly recognized LOL. Not much at casino, but we had a drink and soon took off. Stopped briefly at ellie's, twilight, evergreen, butterfly and then headed back up to international. Bought a few drinks here for one of the girls and also saw some familiar faces. Stayed till last call then headed to EG to try and find oldee, dragon and ninja. Got to listen to the experiences and advice of guys much more successful than me. So what did I learn this Sunday? I am terrible at guessing women's age, take care of the bartenders, and to not stay out till EG closes when I have work the next day. Recovering today, but will be ready to go out again this week.

[Oldee]

Had good fun with the bros last night in town as we hit every KB and EG till closing. Ow, my head hurts bad, LOL. They must be dieing today, LOL. Every bar was slow but drinking with the Dragon king, Chibi, and Ninja bro always good fun. Chibi and and Ninja sat with thier hunnees making LVB when not with the rest of us and think they were happy. Looked for Getting Old but the bugga wasnt at Ellies which was slow and junk bartenders night time. You sure daytime bartebders good? Junk mama usually have junk staff. 74 not that slow but not enough girls. Casino and Butts slow and Chibi miss his chance with the young one because he no listen to me, LOL. Twilight same thing. International mostly older ones Sunday but Chibi had fun with a youngun. Checked out Camelot where Chibi is VIP for the wrong reasons and decided to run when the KBGs got excited to see Chibi, LOL. Splash slow and I asked if get young crazy LVB types who frequent there and was told yes. EG slow and I was drunk already by then and forget alot of what happenned. Make your reports bros. Got to say good fun with the 3 of them young studs who put up hanging with the old fun. Eh TT, Ninja like meet you because he tink you interesting.

Lot of good advice here on relationships bros. However I think my second "guess" in the tactics thread was the wrong word and an understatement. Still very good advice for LVBs in general by all you cool nice guys.

[BeerAddict]

This story WILL NOT have a happy ending. Personally, I can't tell if this story is just a load of crap or on the level. There are several inconsistencies and some things don't add up.

Totally agree with you bro. Gone are the KB reports and our primary topic of conversation is now like a never ending crappy K-Drama. One where valuable advice is being given everywhere but falling on DEAF ears! Wishing DT the best but damn this is getting old.

[Shipshape]

I've been following this little drama for a few weeks now and have come to same conclusion as everyone else. This story WILL NOT have a happy ending. Personally, I can't tell if this story is just a load of crap or on the level. There are several inconsistencies and some things don't add up. But in the crazy world of K-Bars, nothing surprises me.

Mr. WW has pretty much hit it. Plus DT posted his Saturday foray so maybe he is on the road to recovery. There have been tons of opinion and advice on this particular subject that always makes me wish I had read it several years ago and saved a lot of money and heartache.

To the younger guys "Read it and Believe it". DT, and whomever else of the younger crowd, look around at any KB or VB. See the older guys sitting at the bar? Pretty much guarantee they have been there and done that and now and then still go down that road. So you followed the girl and she got busted but you accepted her lame excuse, well, been there done that. So you don't want to reveal her name 'cause maybe "we'll get back together", well, been there done that. Or maybe she needs something from you, a ride, money, help, anything. Well, been there done that. Used to be the KBG's didn't give out their phone numbers because they didn't have cel phones so it was a bit of achievement to get their number (plus, it revealed a possibility that they were living without an SO). Today, getting a cel number is no big deal. KBG's shoot out mass "I miss you Honey's" all the time.

Been "on the wagon" for a bit and hope to stay there. Mr HM knows of my last downfall (Lily Hong) back in Moonflower days and I could tell a lot of stupid stories about myself, however, they've all been pretty much told by others on this forum over and over again. Hey Mr Young Guy, you're going to, or are, getting played. And what the heck are you doing in a KB anyways? Back in the days of $5 dolla drinkees it was actually about the same to go cruise nightclubs vs KBs and so why not since the girls all came to you. Today at $20 a pop, what are you young studs doing? Is it a self-image issue? Work on it. Just because when you walk into some KB and the KBGs make you feel "all that" is not reality. It just isn't and you're going to wind up just like me, sitting at the bar. Jeez!

Ss.

[WillieWillie]

She's playing you, just like her other customers.

I've been following this little drama for a few weeks now and have come to same conclusion as everyone else. This story WILL NOT have a happy ending. Personally, I can't tell if this story is just a load of crap or on the level. There are several inconsistencies and some things don't add up. But in the crazy world of K-Bars, nothing surprises me. If it is on the level, I hope that when you acknowledge that denial is not a river in Egypt, you don't move from the "pathetically desperate phase," which you are clearly in now, to the "I have to teach her a lesson phase. " That will not be good for you, her, or anyone.

I have two suggestions. First, go to the KBD&T thread and read the last two or three years of posts. You will find dozens of stories similar to your own. Join in some of these discussions, and even PM the authors to learn how they dealt with the VERY SAME problems you are facing now. Don't reinvent the wheel. Instead learn from them and their mistakes and discover how they learned to cope with the same feelings of anger, shame, embarrassment, self-pity, etc. I think you will find this very therapeutic.

Secondly, make an appointment with Dr. Oldee (and few of the other senior bros here like John Ross, H Mob, et al who have seen dozens of tragic relationships just like yours and won't sugar coat what you have in store for you if you continue this tack). He's a lot cheaper than a shrink (2 beers), and it will do you wonders to sit at the bar or in a booth and share stories with guys who know exactly what you're going through right now. Being right back there in the environment with guys who are on your side will be the first step in helping you regain control of your life. Because that is what this is all about control.

[John Ross]

It sounds like she is the one obsessed with me. I am saving all of her text, still now. Like I said the line is cut by me, I am not seeing her. But I am still getting "I love you honey" text from her.

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She's playing you, just like her other customers.

[Uki Eater]

Actions greek louder then words, oops! Sorry DT but Indusixtyning's post caught me off guard.

Actions SPEAKS louder then words, it doesn't matter what the hell she says to you, if she doesn't prove it to you by action, then half the battle is won, the girl needs to follow that up with action, since your in a good spot, it's best to cut her off NOW, while you still have some sorta hand left, if not, your the one that's still not over her yet, and probably still deeply in with love her, Gosh I know the heart can influence your thoughts cause you seem to not be able to make up your mind, you wait to long, she'll make it up for you!

Heh, it's like that song "Prove Your Love" from Taylor Dane back in the late 80's.

[Kolohe1]

You're a little confused. If she were a normal girl then maybe she would be the obsessed one. However, here in the real world she is actually just a savvy businesswoman. What's better than 1 guy willing to spend 10 k on you? Probably 10 guys with fat wallets. You're not the only one she sends those texts to. The fact that you're still talking about her and saving her texts while she's doing takeout with her other customers clearly shows who is more obsessed.

It's just business.

[H Mobius]

Most of these girls don't care about the guy. They only care about what we buy for them. She is probably still talking to him to keep I'm lured in and keep him buying things for her. It's truly sad but that's just how these girls are.

Correct. She will solve his problem for him once she sees he is out of cash and credit.

JR is correct about getting into trouble with the law. It is not uncommon for bargirls to have cop friends, nor is it unusual for the girl to embellish in her report just to fuck the guy that much harder.

Even aside from that, she will never respect him as she continues to succeed with the excuses when confronted.

[ChibiMonger]

It sounds like she is the one obsessed with me. I am saving all of her text, still now. Like I said the line is cut by me, I am not seeing her. But I am still getting "I love you honey" text from her.

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You're a little confused. If she were a normal girl then maybe she would be the obsessed one. However, here in the real world she is actually just a savvy businesswoman. What's better than 1 guy willing to spend 10 k on you? Probably 10 guys with fat wallets. You're not the only one she sends those texts to. The fact that you're still talking about her and saving her texts while she's doing takeout with her other customers clearly shows who is more obsessed.

[Ichigo808]

It sounds like she is the one obsessed with me. I am saving all of her text, still now. Like I said the line is cut by me, I am not seeing her. But I am still getting "I love you honey" text from her.

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Oh shit forgot to ask. Did you used to cook and clean for her and clean up after her and clean house too? Ooops. That was meHahahaha.

[MessiahComplex]

It sounds like she is the one obsessed with me. I am saving all of her text, still now. Like I said the line is cut by me, I am not seeing her. But I am still getting "I love you honey" text from her.

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Actions greek louder then words, oops! Sorry DT but Indusixtyning's post caught me off guard.

Actions SPEAKS louder then words, it doesn't matter what the hell she says to you, if she doesn't prove it to you by action, then half the battle is won, the girl needs to follow that up with action, since your in a good spot, it's best to cut her off NOW, while you still have some sorta hand left, if not, your the one that's still not over her yet, and probably still deeply in with love her, Gosh I know the heart can influence your thoughts cause you seem to not be able to make up your mind, you wait to long, she'll make it up for you!