"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[Rouleur]

I woke up this morning to find that a SB I had over the other day stole a checkbook and tried cashing a 5 k check that she forged. I had to close my account. The money was not paid out. And the girl didn't even deny it. Thank you bank of america for saving my ass.

Was she someone new or a SB you had seen for a while? How on earth did she rationalize trying to steal from you? Glad you didn't get taken and that BofA was on top of there game.

[JZLizard]

I woke up this morning to find that a SB I had over the other day stole a checkbook and tried cashing a 5 k check. I had to close my account. The money was not paid out. And the girl didn't even deny it. Thank you bank of america for saving my ass.

Report her to the site you met her on (not that it will stop her completely, but it might inconvenience her at least to the extent you were inconvenienced). I would say press charges, but in this hobby I'm reluctant to recommend that. If she is stupid enough to show cops evidence of a promise for a money / sex transaction they could put charges on you too. There was a recent thread in I think the Ohio forums of exactly that happening, although in that case the SD was an off duty cop.

Also keep your old checks with the now invalid account laying in a conspicuous place as bait for future thief-babies. Maybe even pre-sign a couple of them and leave them blank.. hehe.. it will keep her from foraging around through other things and she'll think she hit paydirt

[HollywoodGuy]

I woke up this morning to find that a SB I had over the other day stole a checkbook and tried cashing a 5 k check that she forged. I had to close my account. The money was not paid out. And the girl didn't even deny it. Thank you bank of america for saving my ass.

[DirtyDeeds38]

I ask because, so far, many of the SB's I've seen and gone to the FC with have asked to be spanked, slapped, pushed around, thrown around, "hurt me" , "bite me. Harder!" I spent the better part of my 56 years treating women like Princesses while all along perhaps they wanted to be treated more like a slave. While I try to accommodate their requests as best I can, it is a very new experience that is taking a bit to get used to. Just wondering if it is me or if it is the realm I play in now.

Yes, that has been my experience to this point. Most like and are into some aspect of rough sex. It was a real eye opening experience for me. I'll admit I'm more of a "sensual" type with my flow sexually, so stepping up into the biting, spanking, face fucking, type stuff has been a real challenge for me, but an enjoyable one at that. All the women I've been with thus far, have been somewhat kinky. Even my now regular 21 YO true first SB. Each time we have sex, she shocks me what she gets into. The other night I was nibbling on the back of her neck and she starts moaning and than tells me to bite her and then came the, "harder baby, make it hurt" So I did and she turned around and pushed me on my back and started riding me cowgirl hard, grinding with all her might, then she stopped, and put two fingers up inside her dripping wet self, stuck her fingers into her mouth to taste herself and leaned down and DFK me. I thought that was hot, but I totally did not expect this from a 21 year old little naïve looking girl. LOL.

Another I wrote about here early was full on into being completely dominated and into almost no limits. That one I dropped as going that far is not my style. I think these girls now days have a lot of experience and actually are bored with vanilla sex.

[JZLizard]

I ask because, so far, many of the SB's I've seen and gone to the FC with have asked to be spanked, slapped, pushed around, thrown around, "hurt me" , "bite me. Harder!" I spent the better part of my 56 years treating women like Princesses while all along perhaps they wanted to be treated more like a slave. While I try to accommodate their requests as best I can, it is a very new experience that is taking a bit to get used to. Just wondering if it is me or if it is the realm I play in now.

Some women do, some don't. Younger girls these days have had a lot of exposure to porn that girls didn't really have 20 years ago, and to some extent I think they like to act on some of the media influence and do the things they've learned from watching. I get mixed reactions from spanking, sometimes I'll give their ass a test slap to see how they respond and I can usually read their vibe.

Some girls love to be pounded hard and fast, and cannot seem to come any other way except maybe good oral. In moderation I like hard pumping too, especially when they're trash-talking throughout, but I find it has kind of a "numbing" effect that makes it harder for me to come if things get too mechanical. So usually if I find myself needing to be a rough-fucking machine to get them off, I expect to be able to roll over on my back and get a nice BBBJ to completion as a reward for job well-done. Then again I've known some that like to just get on top cowgirl style and grind, finding their own rhythm.

As far as slapping their face or whatever I just don't go there at all. It doesn't do anything for me and even if they did ask me to do it (they haven't) I'm not going to go there.

[Rome400]

I want to thank all of you for posting and hope to start posting my successes. Been a member of Sugardaddy4 me for 2 weeks and am about to go on a m / g with my first choice a nice 25 yr old asian. We haven't talked money at all, just I like her pics and she likes mine. Her profile is very vague says she's looking for new friends. I hope to have some success based on my hours of reading your reports. Hollywoodguy is my idol and I wish I could move to Cali, LOL.

[Zhuxi]

Looks like a win. Don't forget pot 2, you lucky bastard.

Zhuxi.

[Rouleur]

I ask because, so far, many of the SB's I've seen and gone to the FC with have asked to be spanked, slapped, pushed around, thrown around, "hurt me" , "bite me. Harder!" I spent the better part of my 56 years treating women like Princesses while all along perhaps they wanted to be treated more like a slave. While I try to accommodate their requests as best I can, it is a very new experience that is taking a bit to get used to. Just wondering if it is me or if it is the realm I play in now.

[HollywoodGuy]

So I went to meet this POT and she turned out to be a real life barbie. 5'8" 120 and perfectly groomed. The feel of her soft velvety skin on that tight spinner body was almost too much to handle. I was in shock, as she is, the one out of 10 girls that I could see myself having insane chemistry with.

One twist I wasn't expecting during the date. In the middle of our in the booth makeout session at the restaurant, I asked if she wanted to follow me home so we could make it official. She said she thought that the M & G was official. And as I have heard so many times on this board I had to tell her it would take a trip to the FC to make that happen.

I was starting to sweat as she actually brought up my original intro letter to her, which does specifically state that there has to be at a minimum, some kind of happy ending to the date, to warrant any compensation.

I didn't know what was going to happen next, and she did cut it short at that point (although we were done with dinner). There was some more smooching at the car and she even suggested a car date. I declined and said I would feel awkward doing that and that we would need to be at my place to really move forward.

I txted her after when I got home and it appears that we are on for Sunday. She is a 8.5/9/9/? with amazing potential. Even if she turned out to be a pillow princess I wouldn't care, because she is so smoking hot.

[Ky Man629]

I belong to the 60 + club, but am lucky to look 50 and am slim, fit, and haired. Chemical enhancement is a wonderful thing and there is no reason why that shouldn't continue.

KyMan, your donation is $50 or $500 to your long term girl? If the former you have a steal deal my man SB#2 sounds perfect! Just keep your I. The. On the downlow and keep on trucking.

The donation for the Long term baby is $50 per visit and is always good.

[FredMoore]

I belong to the 60 + club, but am lucky to look 50 and am slim, fit, and haired. Chemical enhancement is a wonderful thing and there is no reason why that shouldn't continue.

KyMan, your donation is $50 or $500 to your long term girl? If the former you have a steal deal my man SB#2 sounds perfect! Just keep your I. The. On the downlow and keep on trucking.

[DirtyDeeds38]

Sheee-it my clock is ticking. Just wondering, how many of you guys are like me and over 60? And when are you guys going to share pictures of some of your adventures so it is not just the superstar HG and me?

I'm mid 40's most girls guess my age at 36-38, as I take fairly good care of myself, workout, still got all my hair, tune down the gray a bit and since I worked for the past six years interning college grads, I kind of am able to relate some on their level. And actually this has been somewhat of a challenge for some SB's, as they don't view me as a well seasoned SD, and many want that. But in other cases being a younger SD had paid off as I tend to get a true GFE for the most part.

I plan to engage in SB dating until I can't pitch the ole tent anymore. I already have to use an aid to assure things work at full mast. But all thing do eventually come to an end. I'm guessing late 60's for me on this career.

[Ky Man629]

Just thought it was time to update my situation on here. I read this forum almost every day and have learned so much. My financial situation has changed a lot over the years and I have to be very thrifty, and can only play in my local area.

My main SB I still see about 2 times a month, usually at a hotel that she provides. She still is a part time Stripper and is able to use hotel rooms of her out of town Stripper friends while they are working. My donation is always. 5 $ and that is just because she is married and says if I pay her then she does not consider it cheating on him. LOL She loves DATY and is usually naked on the bed when I get there in her favorite position. She is in her early thirties and very fit and vocal. We usually spend a couple of hours together. This relationship has been ongoing for about 4 years or more now. In the past I have also gone to her house to play when her hubby is away. He is trucker and is away quite a bit.

SB #2: I have had some success this year from SDT in my area. In April found a 24 year old with 2 small boys who was in need of some financial assistance. We emailed and text for a about 3 days and finally went straight to the FC at what she said was a friends appt. No talk of money at all before the deed. Spent about 2 hours there with her, great kisser nice spinner body small be cups good skills, we both left happy and gave her a $ donation as we left. She text me a couple of hours later saying she had fun and wanted to repeat at some point. Was able to get together again at the same place about 2 weeks later for a. 5 $ donation and she was happy to do it. She was fun and always everything was BB which made me nervous to be since she already had 2 kids. Just made me wander if she was trying for # 3 and someone to help out financially for 18 years, so I have not repeated or contacted her since. At that time she was active on SDT and SA but has not been on either since early May. I always use a very under cover email address and Google voice so it would be very difficult for any SB to track back to me.

POT #1: 22 year old CB from SDT. She is a true NP first timer. I jumped on her profile and started sending messages the first day she joined the site. By the afternoon we were on regular email which had her real name when she sent it to me, so I was able to Face Book verify her. She comes from middle income family in a close by town and is in collage for business and fashion. Having to move very slow with her due to she works between 60 to 70 hours at a local Mall store. In our communications she says she wants to meet at a local hotel instead of meeting for coffee or dinner and wants to spend the afternoon naked having fun but we just have not been able to work out the details at this time. I am trying to get her to take off work one day next week to celebrate my Bday with me and have an afternoon of naked fun. But she just may be having trouble pulling the trigger on doing this. We will see.

I have one other POT which is 24 and lives about an hour away, but she says she needs a little more than I am will to pay, mainly because I would also have to cover a hotel room with her. So we will see about that one.

Stay Safe Guys.

[JZLizard]

Sheee-it my clock is ticking. Just wondering, how many of you guys are like me and over 60? And when are you guys going to share pictures of some of your adventures so it is not just the superstar HG and me?

I never take pics of girls or share their profile photos, because I don't want them taking pics of me or sharing anything about me so it's only fair. Sometimes I will send a close friend a photo or two because I know them well enough to know they would never post publicly, but I wouldn't share here for all to see. I think our current society has gotten to the point of over-sharing anyway.

About the ticking clock -- maybe when I'm over 70 I will still bang UTR girls or whatever, or just scale up the age I date. Still plenty of fun to be had there as long as the important parts still function. I just don't see myself luring real SBs at that age.

[Beachesnole02]

So I do fully acknowledge that if am still doing this when I'm 70 or whatever, it is unlikely that I will be able to meet true sugar babies in their 20's.

Sheee-it my clock is ticking. Just wondering, how many of you guys are like me and over 60? And when are you guys going to share pictures of some of your adventures so it is not just the superstar HG and me?