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12-05-12 11:41 #286
Posts: 69I
Originally Posted by TMaxxx5324 [View Original Post]
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12-05-12 11:29 #285
Posts: 69Not speaking for all!
Originally Posted by Thorbane [View Original Post]
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12-05-12 01:18 #284
Posts: 21Quiz from cosmo lets have some fun
The no-fail move that immediately gets you ready for sex is usually:
A really long, steamy kiss:
When she grabs my crotch:
When she brushes her breasts against my chest:
When she licks my nipples:
What over-the-top move would you like to try?
A threesome:
Getting it on in a public place:
Videotaping the two of us together:
Role-playing:
Talking dirty:
Where's the sexiest place a girl can ambush you for a hot quickie?
In bed, first thing in the morning, even if I'm half asleep: 41. 7%
In the shower:
The doorway, just as I walk in:
While we're in the car:
Finish this sentence: When we're done with sex, I would love if she:
Cuddled up with me in bed:
Pulled me into the shower with her:
Begged for round two:
Told me how amazing it felt:
Rolled over and left me alone:
Approximately how long do you like an entire sex session to last?
30 minutes:
15 minutes:
60 or more minutes:
10 minutes:
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12-04-12 16:59 #283
Posts: 99Hmm
Originally Posted by Lugnutz [View Original Post]
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12-03-12 23:00 #282
Posts: 21Provider References
That my dear, is why I stopped taking Provider References as screening 2 years ago. So much drama involved in asking another provider for a ref. When I started providing in GA & AL in 09 (very young and inexperienced) I asked a client for a ref from a well known girl. Called her to confirm everything was a ok, she denied she EVER met him not once but twice. I told said client his reference denied knowing him. He called her on 3 way with me an hour later & told her thanks for the wonderful session, low and behöld she starts talking about how much fun he was and how she enjoyed his company AFTER DENYING she'd ever seen him. I learned that day. PhoneRegistry, Spokeo, Intellius, and Google are all I use for screening now.
Originally Posted by HelpMeRhonda [View Original Post]
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12-03-12 13:56 #281
Posts: 146Also Agree
Originally Posted by MollyDaniels [View Original Post]
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12-03-12 11:42 #280
Posts: 215Molly / Rhonda / All Others.
Both of you ladies are right.
Desperation does not get you business. It clearly shows exactly what Molly stated. It is Christmas time, things will get slow. If a client wants to come see you, he will. Bugging someone, blowing up their text, etc won't bring them to your door. Advertisement, creativity, sexiness. Those are just a few things that will bring a client to your door. Also, think about traveling a bit. Get some variety in your life as well. Perhaps even get a real regular part time job to supplement your income. There are certain times of the year when hobbying is slow. All of us ladies go through it.
Such as when a new lady hits the scene, everyone wants to try her. It's expected and natural.
Never nag a gentleman. They sometimes get enough of that at home or in the committed relationship that they might be in.
Also, they do NOT have to explain why they are seeing a new lady. Variety is nice. IF they really enjoy you and their time with you, they will come back to you. No worries. They see ladies like us so they don't have to deal with us outside of the bedroom. Nagging them or questioning them about seeing someone else will only do one thing, scare them away.
I've noticed that some providers will make comments as to how things should be done, etc. What's the best approach for one provider might not be the best approach for another. Downing another provider or making comments about how another provider runs her business is just cattiness and uncalled for. We all do what works best for us and if we happen to do things a little differently than another, who cares. It's not effecting your money or business so don't worry about it.
The drama is at times ridiculous. Sure, there are times when I would like to pipe in and say something in regards to someone posting childishness or negativity, but I don't. Why? Well, because it only leads to more drama. It does effect how gentlemen view you and it can be the deciding factor as to if someone will choose to see you or not. So, in the end it's best to just shut up. I've learned that. Or maybe I am just becoming more mature with each passing year. LOL.
Same goes for the gentlemen, if a lady sees you post drama, or unneeded remarks regarding or towards another, we may decide that you are not someone we would like to share our time with. There are a few guys here at usasg that post and based on what I have read by them, if they were to contact me regarding an appointment, I would decline. If you lack respect, or if you are a guy who likes to post anything and everything, you aren't someone I wish to see. Yes, sometimes money just isn't worth it.
Let's all be nice and enjoy the time of giving and happiness.
In the season of giving:
There is a giving tree in the mall for the salvation army. The next time you are there, grab one and go buy something for a child who needs it. Or just drop a small gift / toy into one of those boxes at the department / grocery stores.
I sometimes spend money on ridiculous things and I'd much rather give a few bucks or a toy to a child. I'll feel good knowing I am helping to provide smiles to that kid at Christmas time.
Happy Holidays to All,
Dawn
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12-03-12 11:02 #279
Posts: 69I have to disagree
[QUOTE=HelpMeRhonda; 1611273]Ok I do not normally post alot, but this is something that I feel needs to be addressed. Upon scheduling a client, I asked for a ref, was given a few names, after contacting the women given, I decided to schedule the gentleman to find out later he was contacted by the provider questioning him as to why he was seeing someone else? I have no
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I don't "completely agree". I DO agree that the client should never be called or questioned! That is an absolute! Also I don't think it's ok to contact a client first anyway, only in reply! With that out the way I don't agree with variety being the main reason here or that we should except it in anyway, the only reason I say that is because of health reasons, safety reasons, etc. Personally if I see a client has left a review for every Asian massage parlors grand opening, he will always be told I'm booked, if I see a client has left more than 2 reviews on seperate girls after seeing me, I will also sit him on the back burner. Most client don't give you their handles out but I can usually tell if good detail is givin on a review of me whom wrote it, I also have had clients on this site mention at their nxt visit that a client on here wrote things that he has done in a very unsafe way, they will suggest I not see that client and also thro in there that they won't see a girl who sees the guys who play dirty. Even for girls like me who don't offer full service or massage with no extras, you can't give a massage with rubber gloves on an hand sanitizer only goes so far. But like I said! Every client has a right to choose, an no provider should EVER question a client! I am only saying for myself, an a few clients who have mentioned other clients that there is ALOT of us who don't like the idea of those who can't find a good one an stay there, if the clients needs change or the provider stops delivering the required results, or for clients who have a favorite girl in each field, I do hav a client or few whom I'm their masseuse yet they have a girl they see for needs I can't fulfill, they have a girl in different states they frequent, now obviously this is different. They are welcome to see others on that issue, I also never tell the bouncing client that I'll nvr see thm I only say I'm booked. I would nvr hurt anyone's feelings or make them feel judged because its not for those reasons, it's purely for safety on my self an my other clients. If a client bounces too much in one field an gets HOT, or starts being watched, he could lead LE to a girl who was UTR simply by playing the field too much. But again, nvr question them, nvr judge them, but do look out for yourself. Hope this opinion won't offend no one.
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12-02-12 03:43 #278
Posts: 445Agreed.
Originally Posted by HelpMeRhonda [View Original Post]
Just my rant for the day. Maybe after two rants, I need to STFU LOL.
Thanks for listening.
Kisses,
MMD
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12-01-12 15:25 #277
Posts: 91References?
Ok I do not normally post alot, but this is something that I feel needs to be addressed. Upon scheduling a client, I asked for a ref, was given a few names, after contacting the women given, I decided to schedule the gentleman to find out later he was contacted by the provider questioning him as to why he was seeing someone else? I have no issues with my clients seeing someone else, variety is what this is about. We are not married and our clients shouldn't have to explain why they are seeing someone new. I have never came across this before, everyone I have ever contacted has been very good about giving a ref, as it should be. No need for our clients to get questioned, if they want to try someone else, in my mind there shouldn't be a problem. Ok my rant for the day.
Happy hunting everyone, stay safe and keep it fun!
Rhonda
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11-30-12 18:31 #276
Posts: 445Rant!
So are we going back to provider vs. Provider antagonism?
If one provider chooses to run her enterprise in a way that is different than yours, it shouldn't matter. It's their choice.
So many caustic remarks makes me think that business must be slow, and the aggravation is showing on the forums.
Never fear-hopefully we will all be nicey-nice after the strain of the holidays is over.
Until then, happy holidays to all, gent's-go bust some nuts, and ladies, rack in that cash!
Kisses,
MM
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11-30-12 18:31 #275
Posts: 254What I am still waiting for
Originally Posted by SmlqqKing [View Original Post]
And just to be clear here, I do not mean to validate the original accusation regarding herpes, because I have no idea whatsoever whether it's true.
The other question that comes to mind is why smlqqking at times in the past appeared to be semi-literate at best and now suddenly has discovered the ability to write intelligibly.
These are all frankly mysteries to me, but I'm pretty sure he hasn't personally added much to the quality of discourse on this board.
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11-30-12 15:04 #274
Posts: 99Only a Jim Rome follower would keep replying to his own post.
Originally Posted by SmlqqKing [View Original Post]
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11-30-12 05:48 #273
Posts: 99Additional info
Thoughts this may help newbies
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11-30-12 03:19 #272
Posts: 99Another analogy
Originally Posted by SmlqqKing [View Original Post]
Look, if you had one shot, one opportunity.
To seize everything you ever wanted in one moment.
One screw up on this board, capitalist or consumer the forum any possible trust diminsishes.
The reason is as honest and straightforward, USA is at its core is about great content combined with earning great references. Sharing openly, honestly and adding value to our experiences with content is far more likely to produce happy returns on our investment in the form of networking, reputation, references and customers than staying closed and secretive. Participation in a ecosystem almost always yields more value than hoarding secret discoveries, particularly when those same secrets are being shared elsewhere on a gigantic, relatively level playing field.
But let's say you're completely unfamiliar with the field. You need secondary cues signals that help you sort the wheat from the chaff. I love watching patterns, this site follows a marvelous statistical pattern which is called a confidence curves, yeah google it if you wish but I will give you the cliff notes version. It basically shows that the longer you are in a group the higher your confidence with members thus potentially the higher the number of referrals.
To boil it down two thoughts trustworthy and untrustworthy. Deception as a rule always leaves clues behind of its true nature. Deceptive self-presentations online will leave linguistic traces in the textual portion of the your messages. These traces include both nonconsciously leaked cues and strategic cues; however, they are largely unavailable to people trying to detect deception, you wasnt to believe in the myth. Where do I think I fall on the confidence curve? Not everyone does and they should. It's just like looking in the mirror or being able to lay your head down on the pillow at night with a clear conscience.
It begins with treating your members as the most important person on this forum. Yet this past day I have had had two cancel meetings with me for today and tomorrow. Yes, the first thing I checked was my breath and BO! Some did not even bother to call they just sent an email. I guess my time is not worth as much as theirs. The time I set aside for these meetings is time that I can be doing real work. So instead I did paperwork today and got on the phone to set up some more appointments for tomorrow.
The best part is that two of these that cancelled have been after me to get them into new clients, tell my fellow members about them Now I ask you, can I honestly refer them in good faith to anyone? I mean honestly! Each time they cancel or reschedule a meeting don't they know they are losing creditability with me! Or don't they care?