Thread: "Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?
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07-31-22 13:17 #21756
Posts: 2697Originally Posted by Zerry [View Original Post]
I likewise won't tolerate a SB who is chronically disorganized / late, I had a POT I was supposed to see just a couple of weeks ago, for our first two meetings, the M&G and a putative FC, she was 45 minutes late, without explanation, texting excuses, etc. , I can't deal with that and stay safe regarding the SO, I need to know when we're going to meet.
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07-31-22 07:04 #21755
Posts: 110Why
Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]
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07-31-22 06:24 #21754
Posts: 13Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]
Not all, but a good amount of SBS are SBs because something didn't go well in life and they can't get their shit together and end up with dependencies. Again not all, some just like mature guys and the extra income, but in my experience that has been about 25%, maybe even less as I reject alot of potentials.
I wouldn't care about pot use as that is pretty common now. I'm suprised when I find somebody under 30 that isn't using pot at least recreationally.
A mom that loses custody is a warning sign as courts usually favor kids. An exception might be boys living with dad, but if she lost custody of a girl, that's exceptional.
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07-30-22 17:25 #21753
Posts: 2697Hmm?
I have a couple of SBs I have seen this year, their teeth look pretty good but just off, like maybe their two front teeth (and perhaps more) are caps. Since I understand some people w / drug problems lose their teeth, should I take this as an indicator that there was drug use in their past (and be concerned about the present)? The most recent, a 29 year old single mom, admits she likes weed, and I said I wouldn't be around it at all, she backed down by saying she liked edibles. The other one has two early teenage kids, but ex has custody of them.
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07-30-22 01:35 #21752
Posts: 420SB "Friends"
Originally Posted by TheHobbyLobby [View Original Post]
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07-27-22 19:11 #21751
Posts: 213Update
Originally Posted by EasyeOne [View Original Post]
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07-27-22 10:27 #21750
Posts: 448My experience
Originally Posted by PartyTimeGuy [View Original Post]
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07-27-22 09:50 #21749
Posts: 880Travel Sugar
I'd start at least a week in advance, especially if you are trying to meet a more traditoinal SB type vs. UTR / Semi Pro. The UTRs won't care, but they also have a lot more options and are more likely to bail same day when they get a better offer.
I've had most of my best sugar adventures on the road and several slumber parties over the years.
First, like them stretch the truth. I tell them I visit every month or so as work dictates, so it doesn't feel like a one off even if it is.
Second, set them at ease. I usually say something like "So if meeting a visitor on that frequency isn't too far out on the NSA end of the Sugar Spectrum for your sensibilities, I hope to hear from you".
Third, be clear on your expectations. Can't really spend time on M&G when on the road, which is why I start early. Message them frequently and get them to text ASAP so you can filter by damage and menu. But let them know you want to get to know them before landing so our time together doesn't feel so transactional. And reinforce this in your discussions, both tone and expectations. "hoping we can meet for drinks, dinner and adjourn for dessert and a midnight snack. And maybe even breakfast in bed".
Fourth -- have back ups. Schedule your preferred POT first -- 6 pm or as early as you can, your 2nd for 730 and tell her you you have to go out for drinks with client. If 6 pm shows, then discretely text your back up to cancel. "Dog / kid is throwing up and wife is freaking out, blowing up my phone all night, won't be fun to meet with all the drama / calls / texts". If not, then you have a back up. Once, my back up I cancelled texted me the next morning since she was at the gym not far from my hotel and said she still wanted to meet me. Ended up in my room for a quickie not an hour after my preferred gal left after our slumber party!
Fifth -- if you are married / involved, don't hide it unless you never get check in / good night calls from home. Nothing worse than some gal getting pissed you have to stop eating her to talk to wife if she thought you wouldn't be uninterrupted. Plus the good ones will understand and either blow you or play with themselves for you to watch while you are on the phone.
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07-27-22 09:46 #21748
Posts: 420SB vs Escort
Originally Posted by BamBam [View Original Post]
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07-27-22 08:27 #21747
Posts: 448Looking for some info
Going to see this one pretty soon. Does anyone have any experience with this one.
https://members.seeking.com/member/a...3-f1ce20a94aac
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07-27-22 07:31 #21746
Posts: 448Update
Originally Posted by EasyeOne [View Original Post]
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07-26-22 23:09 #21745
Posts: 213Similar experience
Originally Posted by TheHobbyLobby [View Original Post]
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07-26-22 20:35 #21744
Posts: 448Third time LOL
Jesus, not sure what is wrong with me today. Ok third time is a charm. Does anyone have any info on this one. I finally made contact via text but she is slow playing me. Spidey senses starting to get actived.
https://members.seeking.com/member/a...d-b2b66ccd2c7d
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07-26-22 18:29 #21743
Posts: 2697Originally Posted by GutterMind4 [View Original Post]
Awesome insight. But what do you mean by 'better prepared'?
Yes, those principles are similar to some I have seen in the past.
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07-26-22 17:34 #21742
Posts: 481Yes but
Time is your friend. As mentioned earlier, it's a numbers game. I have done this each time I've have a few days out of town in a major market. A few days or weeks even before your trip, blast as many messages to girls as you can. Move them off site to discuss terms, screen out as many fakes and scams as possible, and the day or two prior to landing, line up the ones you really like or land in your budget. Keep in mind, even with 3 or 4 lined up, statistically, only one or two will be show. Also, Chicago is expensive so be prepared to pay premium for premium. I've scored pretty well when I did this in Atlanta, Orlando, and Vegas. And don't understand estimate the time it will take. Orlando was my first trip with SA and learned the hard way to be better prepared. The Atlanta trip I f*cked two the first 5 hours I was there, another the next day, and had to cancel another because I was too beat up. I'm getting too old for this shit.
Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]