"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**ThrillHouse** · 12-27-23 22:56

I get the impression her and the boyfriend watched Natural Born Killers a few times. No need stories about the arrest yet.

Originally Posted by DWinthrop [View Original Post]

https://www.wric.com/news/local-news/richmond/police-identify-man-shot-killed-on-floyd-avenue-in-richmonds-fan-neighborhood/

Police booked Vivian Lumpkin AKA Victoria and her boyfriend for this murder. There was a reddit post that got deleted earlier today. Rumor is the guy was her SD and she had her boyfriend kill him.

Her profile: https://members.seeking.com/member/d01cdb45-c282-438a-8dd0-aa220fb113e8

She's been on and off seeking around here for a few years. I'm sure many members have communicated with her.

**DWinthrop** · 12-27-23 21:09

https://www.wric.com/news/local-news/richmond/police-identify-man-shot-killed-on-floyd-avenue-in-richmonds-fan-neighborhood/

Police booked Vivian Lumpkin AKA Victoria and her boyfriend for this murder. There was a reddit post that got deleted earlier today. Rumor is the guy was her SD and she had her boyfriend kill him.

Her profile: https://members.seeking.com/member/d01cdb45-c282-438a-8dd0-aa220fb113e8

She's been on and off seeking around here for a few years. I'm sure many members have communicated with her.

**Tidad** · 12-19-23 06:35

I love a girl who knows what's working for her. Now if I could just get her to reply.

**Automatic2015** · 12-17-23 19:37

Originally Posted by Vince2000 [View Original Post]

Need some advice. How does WYP work I recently signed up. Do I need to offer $$$ upfront to get a date?

Yes, you make an $$$ offer( 3 $ signs here do not mean 300, just so you know) for a date but you only have to pay it in person upon meeting. Make sure that you don't fall prey to upfront paymentm It is with the assumption that it is not PPM. It is just for the platonic dinner / lunch date. So you can go with a reasonable number that you are comfortable to meet and hang out for 1-2 hours. Sometimes, the girls are pretty seasoned and profiles have been ported over from SA. In that case, they may ask you if you are just looking for a platonic first public meetup. I typically ask them if they are open to a private date with fun or FC and then ask them to quote the PPM which is typically higher than the the WYP incentive. If we mutually agree on the number then you just do the PPM amount and you get what you want.

If she wants the first meetup in public then you stick to the WYP incentive amount and work out the details for what you want when you meet in-person

I have had instances where it ended with just a couple of platonic public dinner dates and she was not ready for FC.

But 80% of the times they are looking for higher PPMs rather than the much lower WYP incentive so both parties get what they want if the numbers are mutually agreeable.

Hope this helps!

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**Vince2000** · 12-17-23 08:47

Originally Posted by Automatic2015 [View Original Post]

I agree 100%. SB is there to suck away your money but I did meet some nice SBs there. Not that many, though.

Surprisingly, Whatsyourprice has worked well for me so far the best as I got around 70 odd date acceptances and did actually meet about 10 SBs thru there.

But again, I was fortunate to buy the points around Thanksgiving for 20 cents per points. Each date costs around $2 to $8 depending on how much you offer for the date. I expect that they would do that promotion around Christmas again.

At WYP as well, there are lot of scammers and bots looking to suck up your credits / points. Just don't be too eager to chase SBs over there. The way, I did it was, just go and favorite the ones who you want to pursue and see if they come check your profile and if they do then you make the offer or let them make the offer.

I just do it selectively and passively. My philosophy is if they need the money, they will reach out.

If you need to know which ones are real, local and the date incentive and PPMs for each of them for FC, just hit me up via PM.

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Need some advice. How does WYP work I recently signed up. Do I need to offer $$$ upfront to get a date?

**Eagle7415** · 12-16-23 19:14

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...f-737179781a6c

Been messaging back and forth anyone have any experience with this lady? Seems cool.

**Automatic2015** · 12-15-23 19:08

Originally Posted by Xaxado [View Original Post]

I joined Secret Benefits for a while and had a small amount of luck, but I don't recommend them. On that site there's no monthly fee, but you have to purchase "points" and in order to send a message you have to spend 10 points, which comes out to $4. 50 Per message on their basic subscription. You'll get tons of messages from SBs, but most are scams, so you waist a ton of points responding to scam accounts that don't respond back.

I agree 100%. SB is there to suck away your money but I did meet some nice SBs there. Not that many, though.

Surprisingly, Whatsyourprice has worked well for me so far the best as I got around 70 odd date acceptances and did actually meet about 10 SBs thru there.

But again, I was fortunate to buy the points around Thanksgiving for 20 cents per points. Each date costs around $2 to $8 depending on how much you offer for the date. I expect that they would do that promotion around Christmas again.

At WYP as well, there are lot of scammers and bots looking to suck up your credits / points. Just don't be too eager to chase SBs over there. The way, I did it was, just go and favorite the ones who you want to pursue and see if they come check your profile and if they do then you make the offer or let them make the offer.

I just do it selectively and passively. My philosophy is if they need the money, they will reach out.

If you need to know which ones are real, local and the date incentive and PPMs for each of them for FC, just hit me up via PM.

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**Tidad** · 12-15-23 19:03

Originally Posted by JaJunk [View Original Post]

What about WYP or SB? Those mostly scams? I briefly looked at them, but wasn't willing to pay when already paying for SA.

I've met a few (fewer than 10 in over 4 years) from WYP but SB has by far been the best for me. Met my current weekly regular there; been helping her pay rent since her freshman year and it's the best $$ I spend every month.

**DarkStar58** · 12-15-23 18:38

I found this recent article and thought it was interesting https://chicagoreader.com/reader-par...r-daddy-sites/ . Not sure why SA is not mentioned. I'm not recommending but I have used SugarDaddyForMe before with very limited success. As mention you will weed through ton's of scammers trying to contact you. I did meet off of SDFM a 40 something non-pro unfiltered blond MILF type from Charlottsville / Keswick area in 2018, after the initial M&G, cost me $300, plus dinner and an overnight at the Westend Hilton. Had unforgettable priceless conversations with the bar tender and two other couple sitting at the Bar having drinks while waiting for dinner. It was an expensive evening but I (we) had a great time.

**Xaxado** · 12-15-23 08:30

Originally Posted by JaJunk [View Original Post]

What about WYP or SB? Those mostly scams? I briefly looked at them, but wasn't willing to pay when already paying for SA.

I joined Secret Benefits for a while and had a small amount of luck, but I don't recommend them. On that site there's no monthly fee, but you have to purchase "points" and in order to send a message you have to spend 10 points, which comes out to $4. 50 Per message on their basic subscription. You'll get tons of messages from SBs, but most are scams, so you waist a ton of points responding to scam accounts that don't respond back.

**JaJunk** · 12-14-23 12:31

Originally Posted by Shampoo55 [View Original Post]

Yes, SA is more of a challenge these days as it seem like the "history" of a few years ago is lost. With the rebranding (cough) many don't know it is a SD-SB site and try to use it for strictly dating purposes or hook-ups like Tinder use to be. While SA does take more time to sift through the clueless, idiots, scammers and content sellers it is the best game in town.

Have seen many of the same complaints about SA on other forums, so it looks like that's the way things are.

True SDs and SBs will find each other, just takes more time now.

What about WYP or SB? Those mostly scams? I briefly looked at them, but wasn't willing to pay when already paying for SA.

**Shampoo55** · 12-14-23 12:21

Originally Posted by DickLongwood [View Original Post]

Many attractive women are on * They charge a monthly fee and / or content fee. Some women make only a few hundred per month. Some make 5 figures per month. They don't have to leave home or engage in intimate activities.

Yeah, the average girl on OF gets 158/ mo. I think to be successful one has to post EXPLICIT content and / or be active all day long. Have had girls chat back & forth at all times of the day on OF, so much so I suspect a BOT is responding. Followed one girl on OF who had <100 subs, but she posted one days she was in the top 20% of creators. I suspect she was making 1 K / mo, but it was a lot of BG hardcore stuff including creampies.

How many OF girls have you converted from pay-per-view to actual IRL SB meeting?

Yes, SA is more of a challenge these days as it seem like the "history" of a few years ago is lost. With the rebranding (cough) many don't know it is a SD-SB site and try to use it for strictly dating purposes or hook-ups like Tinder use to be. While SA does take more time to sift through the clueless, idiots, scammers and content sellers it is the best game in town.

Have seen many of the same complaints about SA on other forums, so it looks like that's the way things are.

True SDs and SBs will find each other, just takes more time now.

**Shampoo55** · 12-14-23 12:11

Originally Posted by Bugs2455 [View Original Post]

I've previously done 3 month one time payments on seeking with prepaid cards. Do prepaid cards also work for subscription payments? Seeking has one month options available for subscription but only 3 months for one time payment.

Yes. I always sign up for a 1-mo recurring "subscription" on SA and pay with a prepaid gift card. When it runs out, SA hounds me with reminders to subscribe again.

Of recent, I have had to call CS using my burner phone to have them push the payment through. But it's a minor inconvenience. Process even works if you have a discount code. You have to remind the person on the phone about the discount code, however.

**OriolesMagic** · 12-13-23 20:06

Originally Posted by SBmidlo [View Original Post]

Chatted on the site for a while today and all was going well. Switched to text and she very quickly let me know that I needed to Cashapp her $50 to show that I'm serious about wanting to meetup. Told her hell no and then she offered to send pics and videos for the 50. Still declined. Surprised she hasn't blocked me yet. Very shallow pool on SA right now.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...a-97c10063e49b

She looks like a girl you might find on Chamberlayne. Hard pass.

**DickLongwood** · 12-13-23 18:24

Originally Posted by JaJunk [View Original Post]

Been an hiatus awhile. Looks like SA is really bad these days. Are the good-looking college chicks using another site now or something?

Many attractive women are on * They charge a monthly fee and / or content fee. Some women make only a few hundred per month. Some make 5 figures per month. They don't have to leave home or engage in intimate activities.