"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**FarFarAway** · 10-26-17 16:17

I am not a SA member right now and don't really plan to go back on, so am trying some other ways to find them. Searching on CL for girls selling their panties, I have been contacting them and saying I was interested, but also that they ought to consider the sugar bowl. I don't waste time on a girl who is only interested in mailing them to you. Anyone else have experience with this, or pointers? I do have some replies so far, but haven't gotten any to agree to meet. I have a couple of fish on the line I am trying to reel in who posted looking for modeling gigs, or just posted for a job, w / a hot photo. That is in the resumes section of CL.

**EvilTmp** · 10-26-17 11:09

Originally Posted by Luvyounger [View Original Post]

Wow I just joined SA one more time and all I can find is GPS! Wow crazy.

Similar in my region. All these average girls, who don't have two dollars to rub together, think that a couple of hundreds is too little to bother getting out of the house. Are there that many lonely, sad, desperate guys joining the site throwing money around like candy? Plain, plump girls asking $4-500 a meet. Come on.

**Luvyounger** · 10-25-17 15:13

Wow I just joined SA one more time and all I can find is GPS! Wow crazy.

**Luvyounger** · 10-25-17 15:11

She has messaged me as well and seems to be always busy.

Originally Posted by Fubar69 [View Original Post]

He guys recently got back into the bowl and got hit up by this one but she talks like a pro. Any of you guys had any dealings with her? I've asked for a pic several times and she still hasn't sent me one. The one on her profile looks like she is in a notel.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...3-4bda6f26141e

**JZLizard** · 10-24-17 19:43

Originally Posted by RappaHannock [View Original Post]

So I tend to not really look very closely at other expectations beyond negotiable due to budget constraints. My question is am I leaving possibilities on the table. In general, how the SB rates herself in terms expectations, in your experiences is that really what their expectations are? I don't want to waste anyone's time nor my own.

I haven't found a great deal of correlation between what they list as their expectation and how happy they are with the gift I give after my needs have been met. I say this because I don't spend much time reading their profile, initially. I'm often sending out initial contact to girls across many cities, so I have to minimize the initial investment of time. If the contact materializes into something, then of course I read in detail, but from that point on it's hard to make a connection between their listed expectation and how they react to my gifts.

I guess I could say, all things being equal, that girls with ridiculous expectations are perhaps somewhat more likely to turn out to be a PITA or GPS? If they are that bad, the texts usually don't advance very far with me, I've managed to avoid the real crazies so far. But this observation shouldn't be confused with saying that high expectations necessarily equals GPS -- I've met a lot of girls that listed their expectations as through the roof (presumably based on their self-assessment of their looks), but in person they turned out to not be that way at all. Perhaps for some of them, listing ridiculous expectations helps them save face (some of their friends know they are listed there, or might see them at some point, so it doesn't help their reputation or ego, to list themselves as a bargain).

My opinion is that its best to just ignore expectation listings, but YMMV.

**Fubar69** · 10-23-17 17:05

He guys recently got back into the bowl and got hit up by this one but she talks like a pro. Any of you guys had any dealings with her? I've asked for a pic several times and she still hasn't sent me one. The one on her profile looks like she is in a notel.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...3-4bda6f26141e

**Madaboutmax** · 10-23-17 03:45

This question has come up several times in the past. The consensus seems to be not to write them off just because of the expectations they pick, but don't completely disregard it.

So many of the girls don't understand the dollars or haven't put much thought into it. Others think of it as a negotiation where they aim high, but will accept much less.

For girls with moderate to high expectations, I indicate in my first message that their expectations are above my budget, but I would still be interested in chatting. Some don't respond, but most do. Most don't mention dollars again or say they just put high or substantial to scare away the low ballers, but are very negotiable.

I know the ones that focus too much on nailing down the dollars at the start aren't a good match for me for a number of reasons. They usually either have GPS, are escorts or are UTR's. I look for less hardened girls with a genuine interest in a connection.

I've found several girls in the "Moderate to High" lifestyle expectations that were ultimately very reasonable.

Originally Posted by RappaHannock [View Original Post]

So I tend to not really look very closely at other expectations beyond negotiable due to budget constraints. My question is am I leaving possibilities on the table. In general, how the SB rates herself in terms expectations, in your experiences is that really what their expectations are? I don't want to waste anyone's time nor my own.

**RappaHannock** · 10-22-17 09:21

So I tend to not really look very closely at other expectations beyond negotiable due to budget constraints. My question is am I leaving possibilities on the table. In general, how the SB rates herself in terms expectations, in your experiences is that really what their expectations are? I don't want to waste anyone's time nor my own.

**NeoDude** · 10-22-17 01:03

Originally Posted by CandyMan555 [View Original Post]

I cannot use my credit card my wife sees the statements,Any advice? Thanks CM.

Get a totally different card in just your name.

Make sure links to clean private email and phone and use priceline for best hotel prices in a hurry.

**NeoDude** · 10-22-17 00:56

Originally Posted by CandyMan555 [View Original Post]

How do you search?? Thanks CM.

On android just press on pic till menu opens.

Or upload to google image search directly.

I do not think tineye site is any good.

**John HandCock** · 10-20-17 23:46

Originally Posted by CandyMan555 [View Original Post]

I cannot use my credit card my wife sees the statements,Any advice? Thanks CM.

If you would do some research on this thread you would find every question you have asked answered in detail several times over. Lots of info just need to read the threads.

**GuyInTheCorner** · 10-20-17 22:13

Originally Posted by JohnHandCock [View Original Post]

No you don't have to. If you want post one, make it private and only share to the ones your interested in. Make your profile interesting and you will get all the inquiries you want. The other which I do is when they request a puc I send it by text.

Agree with this. I find most girls want to see what you look like and so they are willing to move to text quickly. Many of these girls are careless with their identities and you can often track to their real identity. I don't use that for anything nefarious, but it is nice to get to a Facebook profile to verify whether she is real, age and backstory line up, etc.