"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**EvilTmp** · 11-15-17 15:36

See my post a couple of days ago. I believe the balance has recently shifted on SA in favor of the girls. You get the run-around because she's talking to a hundred SD at once and she couldn't care less to blow you off.

And don't tell me "there are xx SDs in my area and yy SBs". Most guys hide their profile from the public search and only reach out when they see something they like. For every public SD there are 3, 5, or 10 that are hidden.

Originally Posted by PauFord [View Original Post]

I'm seeing a lot of this too. More so than in the past. Particularly odd to me too because usually they are the aggressors, pushing to trade digits and set up a meeting then they give you the run around.

Had one that this went on for over a month and she started hitting me up for stuff. Needed a tow truck, order her food delivery, etc. (of course I didn't oblige, if she can't bother to show up, eff her!

I think it's in part because word of mouth is spreading about SA. More and more girls are on it because their friends told them about it or whatever. They aren't serious about doing and they have no idea what it really entails.

So yes. SA is good but it's a lot of work, far more than expected or should be.

**FanRat** · 11-15-17 15:24

Has anyone noticed how many new SB profiles there are the last few days on SA? Seems like 10 or 12 a day in the RVA. Is it just becoming more acceptable? Are they fakes bc I haven't paid for premium in the last couple months? Is it a holiday thing?

What do you think?

**FanRat** · 11-15-17 15:22

Originally Posted by EvilTmp [View Original Post]

FinDom is a sad joke on stupid girls. It's an urban legend. And please don't point me to some internet article done by someone that gets paid pennies per piece to write click-bait all day.

Imagine that, a girl reads this crap and instantly thinks "I love to treat people like crap and I love money, cha ching". Doesn't it sound just too perfect for any vapid, talentless girl out there? It's almost as if someone sat down and thought "what could I come up with that would make any stupid girl giddy with excitement". There's a reason those girls never post for long: there's no takers for this non-sense. Think about it, these girls posting that stuff get all these messages saying "haha, you're dumb". If they even got a real 'findom pig' once in a while they would stick around for the payoff. But in the end all they get is mild abuse and eventually just go away.

I've seen that on the Interests part of SB's profiles and have wondered what does it mean?

**Pau Ford** · 11-15-17 13:23

I'm seeing a lot of this too. More so than in the past. Particularly odd to me too because usually they are the aggressors, pushing to trade digits and set up a meeting then they give you the run around.

Had one that this went on for over a month and she started hitting me up for stuff. Needed a tow truck, order her food delivery, etc. (of course I didn't oblige, if she can't bother to show up, eff her!

I think it's in part because word of mouth is spreading about SA. More and more girls are on it because their friends told them about it or whatever. They aren't serious about doing and they have no idea what it really entails.

So yes. SA is good but it's a lot of work, far more than expected or should be.

Originally Posted by JackCat58 [View Original Post]

I love this thread and have gained valuable knowledge and the bowl has been good for me as I have experienced on average 19 to 25 yr old women and you can never tire of that. The recent bullshit lately though from these SBs is getting on my last nerve. Just last week in making arrangements for meetings this week: SB Yes Tuesday works, about 7:45, confirm over the weekend and she says yes as long as she can find someone to watch her dog. WTF?? Needless to say it's Tuesday and never heard back from her. Another SB: Yes Wednesday is great, look forward to meeting you! Gave me her # and we texted all afternoon one day and then try to co firm with her over the weekend. Crickets are still chirping! Yesterday, another SB: yes I can probably meet this evening for a bit. Me: Great, I can meet anytime after 7:30. Reads it in a few minutes after sent. Crickets there too! . Today is the Kicker. Going to meet 19 yr old at Starbucks at 6:30, messaged at 4 pm to set up, she says that works. Get there, 6:45 still no cute 19 yr old SB showing up, messaged her. SB Oh I at last minute went to dinner with my family, be back at my car soon. Then she asks are you there? Me: yes but if it's going to be a bit, let's do another day. SB I am so sorry. Me pissed and I proceed to ask why a message from her would not have been the nice thing to do to let me know what was going on so we could have met later or another day and basically told her I was tired of SB's crap. Then she says: honestly, I was real busy all day with lots to do and I forgot. I reminded her that she just confirmed at 4 pm and that was 2. 5 hours ago, not all day. Anyway, seems to be getting worse with many of them. It's a numbers game I know, just don't get how interested they are one minute then blow you off the next. Anyone else experiencing this?

**EvilTmp** · 11-15-17 12:08

FinDom is a sad joke on stupid girls. It's an urban legend. And please don't point me to some internet article done by someone that gets paid pennies per piece to write click-bait all day.

Imagine that, a girl reads this crap and instantly thinks "I love to treat people like crap and I love money, cha ching". Doesn't it sound just too perfect for any vapid, talentless girl out there? It's almost as if someone sat down and thought "what could I come up with that would make any stupid girl giddy with excitement". There's a reason those girls never post for long: there's no takers for this non-sense. Think about it, these girls posting that stuff get all these messages saying "haha, you're dumb". If they even got a real 'findom pig' once in a while they would stick around for the payoff. But in the end all they get is mild abuse and eventually just go away.

Originally Posted by FScott [View Original Post]

Brothers,

I am seeing more and more of this kind of thing. FinDom bullshit! Is it just wishful thinking on the SB's part, or is this a real perversion that is slowly going to spoil the Bowl? Any of you poor bastards out there who want to pay to be verbally humiliated, whatever you're quoted, I'll do it for half!

All the rest, keep up the good work!

Scott.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...c-84c1fa4250db

**Fubar69** · 11-15-17 00:19

Originally Posted by JackCat58 [View Original Post]

I just looked a that profile and makes me throw up in my mouth a little, never meet, geez if there are any guys who have that much money and get off by being financially dominated, then your just stupid is all I got to say.

I've seen several saying the same thing but here is one in VA if any of the local guys want to be dominated. LOL, not my cup of tea.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...2-a1760601067e

**JackCat58** · 11-14-17 23:53

I love this thread and have gained valuable knowledge and the bowl has been good for me as I have experienced on average 19 to 25 yr old women and you can never tire of that. The recent bullshit lately though from these SBs is getting on my last nerve. Just last week in making arrangements for meetings this week: SB Yes Tuesday works, about 7:45, confirm over the weekend and she says yes as long as she can find someone to watch her dog. WTF?? Needless to say it's Tuesday and never heard back from her. Another SB: Yes Wednesday is great, look forward to meeting you! Gave me her # and we texted all afternoon one day and then try to co firm with her over the weekend. Crickets are still chirping! Yesterday, another SB: yes I can probably meet this evening for a bit. Me: Great, I can meet anytime after 7:30. Reads it in a few minutes after sent. Crickets there too! . Today is the Kicker. Going to meet 19 yr old at Starbucks at 6:30, messaged at 4 pm to set up, she says that works. Get there, 6:45 still no cute 19 yr old SB showing up, messaged her. SB Oh I at last minute went to dinner with my family, be back at my car soon. Then she asks are you there? Me: yes but if it's going to be a bit, let's do another day. SB I am so sorry. Me pissed and I proceed to ask why a message from her would not have been the nice thing to do to let me know what was going on so we could have met later or another day and basically told her I was tired of SB's crap. Then she says: honestly, I was real busy all day with lots to do and I forgot. I reminded her that she just confirmed at 4 pm and that was 2. 5 hours ago, not all day. Anyway, seems to be getting worse with many of them. It's a numbers game I know, just don't get how interested they are one minute then blow you off the next. Anyone else experiencing this?

**John HandCock** · 11-14-17 23:33

Originally Posted by JackCat58 [View Original Post]

I just looked a that profile and makes me throw up in my mouth a little, never meet, geez if there are any guys who have that much money and get off by being financially dominated, then your just stupid is all I got to say.

Guess it falls in the category of each their own. Same for guys who have more $$$ to spend than most and spend it. Just the way of the world.

**JackCat58** · 11-14-17 23:11

Originally Posted by FScott [View Original Post]

Brothers,

I am seeing more and more of this kind of thing. FinDom bullshit! Is it just wishful thinking on the SB's part, or is this a real perversion that is slowly going to spoil the Bowl? Any of you poor bastards out there who want to pay to be verbally humiliated, whatever you're quoted, I'll do it for half!

All the rest, keep up the good work!

Scott.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...c-84c1fa4250db

I just looked a that profile and makes me throw up in my mouth a little, never meet, geez if there are any guys who have that much money and get off by being financially dominated, then your just stupid is all I got to say.

**F Scott** · 11-14-17 19:04

Brothers,

I am seeing more and more of this kind of thing. FinDom bullshit! Is it just wishful thinking on the SB's part, or is this a real perversion that is slowly going to spoil the Bowl? Any of you poor bastards out there who want to pay to be verbally humiliated, whatever you're quoted, I'll do it for half!

All the rest, keep up the good work!

Scott.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...c-84c1fa4250db

**FanRat** · 11-14-17 13:32

Originally Posted by Rvaexec60 [View Original Post]

I meet her one time and had a nice dream withe her. Go the same text message from her mother. She partied a little too much with her friends and got something laced with something that as not too cool. She is okay for a good time.

Thats her SA name.

Met her for lunch once then had her over to the house. All she wanted to do was get stoned but it didn't cost me anything.

Then I got that same text from her mother LOL. I got back in touch with her about a week after but haven't seen her. She is on SA every day so she is def active.

**FreeF** · 11-14-17 11:12

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

Well, IDK that there is anything sacrosanct about 18 - read some of the pages on the interweb about age of consent. In many states, it is 16. I believe that is what it was in Alabama when the offenses are alleged to have occurred. Amazingly, today even in liberal states like Massachusetts, with parental permission the age permitted for marriage is much lower than that.

May not be anything sacrosanct about 18, but definitely if it is non-consensual then there can be trouble, he is being alleged to have no consent from the girls at the time of his touching them whether they were below 18 or not.

**FarFarAway** · 11-14-17 03:08

Originally Posted by FreeF [View Original Post]

Allegations are that he was in his 30's and sexually harassing / assaulting / touching teenage girls under age 18, (15,16). He is in trouble for the legal claims he sexually messed w / underage girls, no crime with being older, but there is if girls are under 18.

Well, IDK that there is anything sacrosanct about 18 - read some of the pages on the interweb about age of consent. In many states, it is 16. I believe that is what it was in Alabama when the offenses are alleged to have occurred. Amazingly, today even in liberal states like Massachusetts, with parental permission the age permitted for marriage is much lower than that.

**LoriTruck** · 11-14-17 02:04

So recently I had to swith teams and download the Text Now app since the Sideline app now requires a monthly fee to continue using the service. I was using the Text now app and was in the middle of a conversation with a sugar pot when I decided to text the SO on my real phone just to check in. Instead of sending a text, my phone ended up dialing and the phone rang while I was on the phone with a potential SB. Lucky the SO didn't answer and it went to vocemail. As if that wasn't enough, it happened a second time. My phone dialed again and it went straight to voicemail. I guess my question would be; If the SO had answered, would she be able to hear our conversation?

**FreeF** · 11-13-17 19:45

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

So, are we forever giving up our chances to be elected to political office by being in the bowl? I mean, Moore is only accused of dating women half his age, whereas there are a few of us here (of course, we've reached an age where this is legal) who have reached the 'one third our age' milestone. LOL. Which part has everyone so up in arms? Just that he was so much older than those he dated? Trump is 30 years older than Melanie, right?

Allegations are that he was in his 30's and sexually harassing / assaulting / touching teenage girls under age 18, (15,16). He is in trouble for the legal claims he sexually messed w / underage girls, no crime with being older, but there is if girls are under 18.