Thread: "Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?
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09-10-18 20:27 #15522
Posts: 454Turning Down Pussy
I know it was a stupid move from me. I thought she was bull shitting me about being pre-med etc, I didn't think all add up. I asked her for a confirmation of her age, she handed her drivers licence to me. Very unique name, I found all her info through social media etc, and all she told me turned out to be true. Good news is that I took her to FC after few days, she turned out to be an energizer bunny in bed. So, I didn't loose out. She is still little too big for my liking though.
Stay Safe.
Dr. S.
Originally Posted by InTight [View Original Post]
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09-10-18 20:16 #15521
Posts: 454Confession of a SB
We all know that (at least the members here), and has been discussed here numerous times. The chances of success for girls looking for on-line, or "platonic" are slim and either they drop out of the scene or learn how to spread their legs little bit more to stay in business. I have about a year of experience with SA, and met at least 50 potential SB's in person. For the first time, I met a girl two days ago who confessed to that fact. She is a 20 year old college junior (exchange student). We got comfortable with each other very quickly. She told me she tried "online" first with no success at all. Then changed her profile to 'platonic', still very little interested parties. Only when she offered "intimacy", there were serious interest from SDs.
Fast forward, this girl is model quality (at least 9. 5 out of 10 in my scale), slim girl with curves at the right places, cute face and flawless body. Spent 2 hours at FC yesterday, the best erotic experience in my life. Not just the sex, the whole experience was far beyond what I expected. There are few gems out there if you are patient enough to find them.
Stay Safe.
Dr. S.
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09-10-18 20:09 #15520
Posts: 213Feelingfriendly
Originally Posted by BStreet [View Original Post]
"I ask that on the first date we get to know each other & determine if we want to pursue an arrangement. By the end of the 1st date, if & ONLY if we both want to move forward I do ask 300 allowance which goes towards the monthly 600 that I ask for. This provides me with safety and comfort knowing you are genuinely interested in an arrangement and my value is not equated to simply sex=money. Otherwise I would just feel like a hooker. This is NOT upfront, it's only if we both decide to have a 2nd date".
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09-10-18 19:44 #15519
Posts: 454Single Photo Profiles
In general, your statement on single photo profiles is correct in my experience. But, I can give you two examples where it turned out to be wrong. The SB I have found from SA that I dated for the longest had a single photo in her profile. It was my early days on SA, I was just sending messages to all. But I asked her more photos after few messages, she texted me. She turned out to be a great find. The key is to ask for more photos very early in communication, and see if they do it. I usually read the profile anyway even if she has a single photo. You can get some clues. Most recently I messaged a 19 year college girl who had a single face photo and profile said "curvy", a sure shot case of a fat girl. She texted me an additional photo, but it was not conclusive either, but the profile seemed genuine and communication was good. So, I took a chance for a "no obligation" meet. She turned out to be a well figured cute girl (I would call her "slim" actually). The arrangement didn't work out due to other issues (allowance etc) though. With 18-22-olds you never know what they think.
Stay Safe.
Dr. S.
Originally Posted by Ripvan12 [View Original Post]
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09-10-18 19:13 #15518
Posts: 2790Originally Posted by Madaboutmax [View Original Post]
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09-10-18 18:21 #15517
Posts: 10SA rarity
I dreamt of the absolutely most exquisite sb. 24. Body won't stop. Wet kitty. Expensive. But compared to broke crack hoes worth every penny. Got to catch myself. She's not into me. Just that $$. But she's a gen.
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09-10-18 16:20 #15516
Posts: 18Did you read her profile?
Originally Posted by TheMarto1 [View Original Post]
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09-10-18 12:39 #15515
Posts: 114Famous sugarbaby
Originally Posted by TheMarto1 [View Original Post]
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09-10-18 12:30 #15514
Posts: 49Originally Posted by Ripvan12 [View Original Post]
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09-10-18 10:18 #15513
Posts: 166SA being invaded with flakes, scammers and time wasters
Hey brothers. I also posted this in the Atlanta thread, but curious to hear your thoughts as well.
Let me be clear. There are plenty of gems still on the site, but the amount of time I have invested this go round weeding out flakes and scammers has been insane. By now most veterans know the rules to spot the spammers and old BP pros (talk of time limits, in town for only one night, send me money before meeting, can you cover my gas money, my mother is having a major surgery, blah blah).
But what are some other methods you guys are using to weed out the flakes and scammers?
For me. I have started to ignore females with only one picture on their profile! Sure I might be missing out on some goodies. But what woman you know is comfortable with just ONE pic of themselves. On a dating app with plenty of competition? My experience has been. Mostly. That these one-picture girls have one foot in and one foot out. Not really seeking anything quickly and prefer a lot of back and forth dialogue over 5-6 days.
Be safe. Ripper.
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09-10-18 09:27 #15512
Posts: 448The Provacateur and The Baroness
She has been discussed several times before and used to go by "The Baroness". Crazy GPS that is really hard to understand. She has been doing the same stupid stuff for years, claims to be a keynote speaker at the Sugar Baby forum and all.
She is well below the quality of any of my past SB and an order of magnitude more expensive.
Run far, run fast!
Originally Posted by BStreet [View Original Post]
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09-09-18 19:14 #15511
Posts: 1287Originally Posted by Assaholic [View Original Post]
What I've found is that "game" is not just the art of getting a woman to spread their legs for you. Game is just a social skill of handling women -- everything from the pickup to the breakup. As long as you do that skillfully, most of the time you won't have vengeful nut jobs trying to chase you down in court. Paternity -- yes, that is another issue and yes it's true pulling out doesn't always work, but the only time I'm aware of that I did get a girl pregnant, it was when I had cum inside on multiple occasions. Never to my knowledge, even in long-term relationships, has anyone gotten pregnant by me when I pulled out. And, all of my former girls know how to reach me by phone, so I'm guessing I would know about it if it ever happened. They usually continue to ask if I want to see them for some period of time, and slowly over time I come up with a story like I've found the one I want to marry and that usually sends them packing. Remember these girls are smoking hot and have guys chasing them constantly, they are not going to sit around and just continue to brood because a middle aged guy doesn't want to see them anymore, they have plenty of options and the next distraction will be along to catch her interest in no time.
Bottom line is, dating is what it is and going back to the guys place is part of the ritual. For them to say you offered them a job or whatever, well they would need some proof so hopefully no SDs are actually doing that (if they do they are taking on unnecessary risk). There was a guy a while back who was luring would-be SBs in with help-wanted ads for various non-sexual jobs, and I remember writing about what a bad idea I thought that was. Once professional rank enters the equation, it gets dangerous due to sexual harassment laws.
If concerned about pregnancy and STDs, get a vasectomy and some condoms, or just don't stay with one for too long. The longer you are with her, the higher the chances of something taking a turn for the worst.
I'm just saying that it's not a crime to bang a girl a few times then move on to another one, and if they want to go to the court stating they were the victim of a pickup artist, and cannot provide solid evidence they were victimized, I don't think any judge (female or otherwise) is likely to take them seriously.
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09-09-18 18:54 #15510
Posts: 1287Originally Posted by RogerOver [View Original Post]
Didn't mean to veer too far from the question.
Yes it would bother me somewhat to know a specific girl was having or had my child without my prior knowledge or ability to participate in the decision whether or not the child should be born in the first place. But there lies the problem, as the man, we do not have that right -- once the egg is fertilized, the decision becomes solely the womans, and that imbalance of power is what makes it perfectly acceptable, in my mind, to fuck and run. I came to terms with this imbalance of power a long time ago. Because the decision of what to do is exclusively female, I believe the female also bears total responsibility for unwanted pregnancy in the first place, either preventing it via birth control, or doing whatever they feel needs to be done if they do get pregnant (plan B, abortion whatever). Or, if they want to raise the child, then raise the child.
I can say this -- almost every single SB I've ever known has daddy issues, a huge portion of them suffer from absent daddy syndrome from having been raised by a single mom. So, if some of my former SBs made the choice to be single moms and raise future sugar babies, wouldn't it be hypocritical of me to say that this is wrong? It's almost like I'm supporting my own habit by having unprotected sex and not sticking around long enough to worry about the consequences. Creating more single moms means more future sugar babies.. but yes I would be creeped out if I found out that one of my SBs was actually the offspring of one of my former SBs, especially if she looked a little like me.
Besides, even when they tell me they don't want money, I still gift them enough that it would at least likely pay for a significant portion of abortion costs. It's their choice what to spend the gift on, just at it is their choice whether to have the baby at all.
I should also say that I prefer not to cum inside them, my preference is in the mouth or a cum bath all over their face and body. However some of them want it inside, or some of them don't have the skill to get me off any other way.
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09-09-18 18:41 #15509
Posts: 204Info
On this one, anyone. https://www.seeking.com/member/01d1b...4-18ceafac6f68.
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09-09-18 18:38 #15508
Posts: 204I knew she was GPS but Really?
The Provocateur https://www.seeking.com/member/aa882...0-010a3153e395.
Been messaging because she kept messaging me so I decided, what the hell, let's see what she is about. I figured she is so full of herself, probably not having a lot of luck and probably wants some like the rest of us. So was going to meet this week, till she of course says my allowance is way too low and she usually gets $1000-$5000 per visit! Well that was a quick bye, but really. She acts like she is so successful, doesn't need the money, and wants an arrangement based on chemistry and respect. Sounds to me like it's about the money. Oh well, kind of figured it was going to go that way.