Thread: "Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?
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03-26-19 19:24 #16329
Posts: 95DC sugar
Originally Posted by Skidxxx [View Original Post]
NOVA also has it's own relatively active SB thread.
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03-26-19 19:11 #16328
Posts: 13It works
Originally Posted by Hal1957 [View Original Post]
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03-26-19 15:31 #16327
Posts: 477Reading SA Messages.
Is it just me, or has SA changed the way they present messages? The old trick to read after your membership expires doesn't seem to work anymore.
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03-26-19 14:55 #16326
Posts: 373Rew_33 Norfolk.
This one is good to go with giving head only. That was her first message to me when I sent out my generic greeting. Probably caught her when she tired of guys asking stuff so she put it out there. That's all I know as she blocked me when my reply to that wasn't to her liking.
https://www.seeking.com/member/f4cf3...1-f7cbda5bcb1d
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03-26-19 14:30 #16325
Posts: 5444Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]
But in retrospect (as far as the dinero), I stopped counting at 200 girls a long time ago. But I am sure all of them combined was less that a third of what I spent on my last wife. Which is why there will never be another. lol
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03-26-19 14:17 #16324
Posts: 880I've had SBs be the shutter bugs!
Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]
One 20 yo I saw would take selfies of herself while I plowed her ass doggie style. Basically her contorted face with my headless torso mounting her from behind. She later gave me the phone and I videoed her expressions while I drilled her mercilessly in Mish and she came buckets. She then sent them too me.
I own my own small business and filed them on a corner of my workplace server only I have access too and buried them several folders deep under innocuous names. Sherlock Holmes would have trouble finding them.
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03-26-19 06:58 #16323
Posts: 420Archive?
Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]
I find my photo collection a terrific way to walk down sensual and sexual memory lane. And obviously excellent spanking material.
I don't have a SO to hide my photos from, but, if I did, I would simply encrypt the photo file to keep it away from prying eyes.
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03-26-19 00:53 #16322
Posts: 131Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]
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03-26-19 00:45 #16321
Posts: 137Secure USB stick
Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]
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03-25-19 19:47 #16320
Posts: 2699Archive
I presume, like me, all of you SDs have a 'life list' that you are updating with each score of a SB. Please dish, exactly how are you saving up those memories? And doing it safely, away from prying eyes? FFA.
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03-25-19 10:56 #16319
Posts: 58Hello from Wisconsin!
I will be traveling to your state this Thursday. Staying in Reston VA. I'm looking for advice on what towns to search on SA. Also if anyone knows any babies that are traveler friendly in that area?
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03-25-19 10:54 #16318
Posts: 251Wise words
Agree, many of the sob stories are true, it's usually why they're doing this. But yes, falling for it as a reason you should provide something over and above the agreement / norm or an advance is literally insane. If it's an advance, she'll ghost, and if it's extra sugar the stories will keep on coming and if you don't continue the additional help, then she ghosts in search of the next sucker.
I say no always, and almost always they keep seeing me (though sometimes the request turns me off and I move on). But the reality is usually they are seeing more than one guy and I suspect the others are not saying no, even had one tell me as much after one of our 2+ hour FC visits for 200. The way she talked about the other daddy was almost contemptuous BTW, wasn't even a hint of gratitude. My guess is that they on some level look at guys who fall for it the same way I do, as a sucker or a mark.
Originally Posted by DogBert77 [View Original Post]
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03-25-19 10:33 #16317
Posts: 251Interesting
Congrats on getting that far.
I agree with the advice of the others on here mentioned on two fronts, one you can't sign for it or anything like that, and the no roomie thing is a red flag. She's either got issues, or just as likely playing you as really not in all that bad a situation, more looking for sort of a perfect situation if she can get it. If you'll take care of getting her own place, why not? But if she has to risk a shitty roomie, forget it, she'll stick where she is.
I probably wouldn't quite move on, if only just b / c I hadn't hit it tbh, and the BJ tells you that she's going to get there imo. I'd say this is something you'd like to help with, and probably could figure out a way to do so if this was going to be an ongoing arrangement (partially true). But you haven't established that there is the type of chemistry that you can both be confident that it would make sense (I. E. Need to do a full FC or two). Don't make any promises, but still provide her generous sugar for those meetings. If she blows your socks off, an don't want to lose her, look on CL for sublets or the like where she can do it personally and you just put up the cash.
Originally Posted by DrSummer [View Original Post]
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03-25-19 10:20 #16316
Posts: 420Sob Stories
Originally Posted by ErnestLl [View Original Post]
One SB was getting divorced, couldn't stand being with her hubby even one more day and needed a place to stay. Like semi-permanently. She was willing to clean and cook and let me have my way with her any time I wanted. I thought better of that and all the potential problems, so I alternatively suggested 100 a meet to help with expenses. She jumped at it and I had the best times with her for several months before I moved on to the inevitable variety of pussy out there for hire.
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03-25-19 09:53 #16315
Posts: 880Yes, but no
Originally Posted by DrSummer [View Original Post]
Its the sob stories that separate the ass worth having from the crazy chaff.
As for advancing, I've only done it for two Long Term SBs and it was well worth it. Never more than one allowance -- and for one of the gals in particular, after about 6 months we stopped keeping track of allowances / orgasms. She'd just tell me what she needed help with -- pet deposit for new apartment, new tires -- and then we'd meet and she'd arrange for a pay the hotel and pretty much tie herself up for me to have my way with her. She liked that it did not feel transactional which really made her feel comfortable and totally uninhibited. She literally dripped with gratitude.
Granted such situations are quite rare -- takes time and a non-crazy SB to get there, but the pay off is pretty amazing.
But one thing Ill second -- giving advice on how not to be a financial train wreck can also be a strong aphrodisiac. These gals are looking for a father figure to help them navigate adulthood. Whether its helping them find renter's insurance, getting a better / cheaper cell plan, evaluating job options, reviewing grad school applications or feeding them job leads (the aforementioned gal now has a much higher paying, FT job she loves thanks to my finding a lead and encouraging her to apply) -- and it helps them see you in a non-monger light -- "he's helping me and I did not HAVE to blow him" -- which leads to some great thank you sex.