"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[DCSeeker]

It wouldn't be hard for one of these petite little babies to get my information from some dumb ass guy at the front desk of the hotels if they wanted. So far I haven't had any try. I tend to treat these girls with a ton of respect and always leave on good terms.

You said that you tend to treat these girls with a ton of respect and always leave on good terms so that they don't get your personal info from the front desk guy, but you also said that you lie and tell them anything to get their panties off. Don't they get mad when they realize you lied? That's when I would worry about them going back and telling the front desk some sob story to get your info.

[ItsAHobby45]

Most girls on the site know the score and figure automatically that your married. The longer term arrangement s where one tends to start thinking bf / gf and promising to leave the SO or other outrageous promise's are where you get into this crap. Then there is just the rotten apple who will try to cause problems, that's luck of draw. If your a high turnover monger the odds increase.

Which is exactly why I have a completely false backstory that each of these girls get. My potential Achilles heel is the FC. While I am not married I can not take these girls back to my house. I just won't do that. It wouldn't be hard for one of these petite little babies to get my information from some dumb ass guy at the front desk of the hotels if they wanted. So far I haven't had any try. I tend to treat these girls with a ton of respect and always leave on good terms.

[John HandCock]

Pretty much this. Anyone telling these hustlers they are married is asking for trouble.

Most girls on the site know the score and figure automatically that your married. The longer term arrangement s where one tends to start thinking bf / gf and promising to leave the SO or other outrageous promise's are where you get into this crap. Then there is just the rotten apple who will try to cause problems, that's luck of draw. If your a high turnover monger the odds increase.

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I only found out her real first name towards the end when she showed up to the FC with Starbucks and it had her first name on it.

That's one good way to find out a girl's real name. Take them to Starbucks and let them order.

Another is to take them to a place like Sephora and go shopping. When it's time to check out, make sure to be at the counter, with cash. The cashier will push to get her email and name for the rewards points. Few girls will lie when it comes to Sephora points. Even fewer are quick enough to lie on the fly at a checkout counter.

[DWinthrop]

If you're only planning to see these girls a time or two why do they even know you're married? I tell these girls whatever I have to tell them to get them to the FC with their panties off. The only thing I don't lie to them about is how much I'm going to pay them for their time. Everything else is a completely made up life that doesn't exist. These girls live life on the edge with all the information they share with me. I research every potential prior to meeting them and have been successful in find their social media accounts easily. All it's going to take is these girls pissing off the wrong guy and their biological Daddy is going to get pics / vids / news that he doesn't want to hear about his sweet innocent daughter. The only way I'd ever do something like that is if one of them tried to mess with my personal life. Short of that I have no desire to negatively impact these girls.

Pretty much this. Anyone telling these hustlers they are married is asking for trouble.

[ItsAHobby45]

The Tictoc finDom fiasco not only brought loads of platonic under-age girls to SA, but it also brought teenage boys and 20-32 yr old young men to SA. These guys are what the sugarbabies complain to me about the most when they are crying about SA. These kids are doing exactly what's in the post below to the girls in large numbers and it's ruining the site. That's why there are no "real" sugar babies anymore. Any teenage boy can scrounge up a measly $200 for pussy. The Chipotle drive-thru pays $15/ hour now.

What post below are you referring to? If you're talking about my post where I said that I say whatever I need to say in order to get the panties on the ground I don't see what's wrong with that in the least. 90% of these girls are evil young amateur prostitutes that will do anything for 2-3 Benjamin's and not think twice about it. They all lie and cheat to get what they want and couldn't care less about our privacy. Out of all the girls I've met in the past few months there has been one that I'd consider a true sb that was focused on my happiness more than the money. She was the most sensual woman I've ever been with in my life. I saw her several times and every time it was about me and my wants and needs. She actually taught me a lot about my sexuality. She was also very focused on discretion. I only found out her real first name towards the end when she showed up to the FC with Starbucks and it had her first name on it.

[Sterling44]

The Tictoc finDom fiasco not only brought loads of platonic under-age girls to SA, but it also brought teenage boys and 20-32 yr old young men to SA. These guys are what the sugarbabies complain to me about the most when they are crying about SA. These kids are doing exactly what's in the post below to the girls in large numbers and it's ruining the site. That's why there are no "real" sugar babies anymore. Any teenage boy can scrounge up a measly $200 for pussy. The Chipotle drive-thru pays $15/ hour now.

You're absolutely right. I've had 3 SBs ask me right away if I'm a young guy pretending to be an old SD. These young guys are making the girls think that we're all fake. I think there was a guy on here that posted that he got blocked immediately because of his age. Hopefully, the girls will weed these guys out. A lot of the girls may be young and dumb, but I'm sure they have enough common sense to know that there aren't fifty 29 year old, wealthy Sugardaddies here in little olde Richmond, Va.

[FeelGoodMd]

I think she blocked you because her profile comes up for me.

I wondered about this because her profile came up for me when I looked back at our conversation. The problem is the link. TheHobbyLobby put a period after the link and it was read as part of the web address for the profile. Here's the link, with no period.

https://www.seeking.com/member/a612d...a-fbd184169ddc

As we all know, the period is not your friend. This is simply further proof.

[BookerTNelson]

I spend half my time in Richmond and 1/2 of my time in another city. Most of the girls on seeking that I have talked to want long term support. How many of you flat out lie and tell them that you're going to see them once a week when you know you're definitely not? Is it better to be completely honest and tell them that I might fuck them once or twice and move on? The girls only lower their prices if I tell them that they're going to make a bunch of money off of me every month. And then I'm dealing with irate girls once they realized that I lied to get their panties off. Some of them threaten to tell my wife.

Idk how else to say this but you need some game. You're struggling with minor hurdles in this SA game.

[BigOne73]

The Tictoc finDom fiasco not only brought loads of platonic under-age girls to SA, but it also brought teenage boys and 20-32 yr old young men to SA. These guys are what the sugarbabies complain to me about the most when they are crying about SA. These kids are doing exactly what's in the post below to the girls in large numbers and it's ruining the site. That's why there are no "real" sugar babies anymore. Any teenage boy can scrounge up a measly $200 for pussy. The Chipotle drive-thru pays $15/ hour now.

[DCSeeker]

I tell these girls whatever I have to tell them to get them to the FC with their panties off. The only thing I don't lie to them about is how much I'm going to pay them for their time. Everything else is a completely made up life that doesn't exist. These girls live life on the edge with all the information they share with me. I research every potential prior to meeting them and have been successful in find their social media accounts easily. All it's going to take is these girls pissing off the wrong guy and their biological Daddy is going to get pics / vids / news that he doesn't want to hear about his sweet innocent daughter. The only way I'd ever do something like that is if one of them tried to mess with my personal life. Short of that I have no desire to negatively impact these girls.

So your saying that the girls on seeking are angry and bitter every time I talk to them because you've already seen them first? LOL! I saw your stats in previous reports. It looks like you've sleep with every girl on there! Do you think you could leave some for us? Just kidding! Happy hunting!

[Geechie Dan]

Yes I do see that she closed her profile. Luckily I did take a screen shot.

I think she blocked you because her profile comes up for me.

[MineTooTell]

Not sure if I posted about this one. Pics are her but lots of filters used. Not as attractive as the pics would show. Also, lot heavier than you think. Super sweet girl. Once we started chatting it took about 2 minutes to find her on FB. After 2 days of texting, she drove to me, 40 minutes from her. FS was good and she really got into it. Damage was 250 and that's with her driving to my place. If you have questions you can PM, but I won't give out her real name.

https://www.seeking.com/member/d6bef...d-fc2064062a65

[TheHobbyLobby]

She already took her profile down (or she's randomly blocked both my profiles). That seems "pro" to me.

Yes I do see that she closed her profile. Luckily I did take a screen shot.

[ItsAHobby45]

I spend half my time in Richmond and 1/2 of my time in another city. Most of the girls on seeking that I have talked to want long term support. How many of you flat out lie and tell them that you're going to see them once a week when you know you're definitely not? Is it better to be completely honest and tell them that I might fuck them once or twice and move on? The girls only lower their prices if I tell them that they're going to make a bunch of money off of me every month. And then I'm dealing with irate girls once they realized that I lied to get their panties off. Some of them threaten to tell my wife.

If you're only planning to see these girls a time or two why do they even know you're married? I tell these girls whatever I have to tell them to get them to the FC with their panties off. The only thing I don't lie to them about is how much I'm going to pay them for their time. Everything else is a completely made up life that doesn't exist. These girls live life on the edge with all the information they share with me. I research every potential prior to meeting them and have been successful in find their social media accounts easily. All it's going to take is these girls pissing off the wrong guy and their biological Daddy is going to get pics / vids / news that he doesn't want to hear about his sweet innocent daughter. The only way I'd ever do something like that is if one of them tried to mess with my personal life. Short of that I have no desire to negatively impact these girls.