"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**Shampoo55** · 07-18-23 10:10

Originally Posted by GeechieDan [View Original Post]

I agree totally with you and Doggie. I have been lobbying for a long time and this was a first for me. What you said is the exact phrase that's been going through my mind, "no sugar until the panties hit the floor". If I'd realized she was the same chick with the ankle monitor I would never have met her.

It stinks when it happens and we all have been there at one time or another. I feel for you.

Most of the time stuff like you experienced happens after a few dates, when there is familiarity and one's guard is down. So your experience was a bit of an anomoly The comfort level or relationship gets one setting aside what they know to be true or the rules.

It sounds so jaded to be so rule specific and apparently rigid and uncaring, but it only takes once for the hobby to reiforce 'the rules' and teach a lesson.

My hope is that, through your kind recitation of the unfortunate incident that others will "book learn" or see themself in that situation and learn to avoid any mis steps. At least we can hope!

Any good monger is always learning, revising, editing, changing one's approach.

Thanks again for sharing your experience and teachable moment!

**Geechie Dan** · 07-17-23 17:30

Originally Posted by Shampoo55 [View Original Post]

Golden Rule of the Sugar Bowl: No Sugar until the panties hit the floor!

But as DoggieFan rightly points out, you HAVE TO be willing to walk away or you're gunna get scammed.

Alternatively one can lay the sugar out on a counter, table or TV stand and say, "there it is, it's yours when we are done. " THEN keep yourself between the Sugar and the girl at ALL times.

I agree totally with you and Doggie. I have been lobbying for a long time and this was a first for me. What you said is the exact phrase that's been going through my mind, "no sugar until the panties hit the floor". If I'd realized she was the same chick with the ankle monitor I would never have met her.

**Shampoo55** · 07-17-23 16:40

Originally Posted by DoggieFan [View Original Post]

Now if a Baby asks for the cash before playtime I shame them by saying, no, your a Sugarbaby, not an escort. If they walk, they walk. Actually haven't had another ask you front, now that I think of it.

Golden Rule of the Sugar Bowl: No Sugar until the panties hit the floor!

But as DoggieFan rightly points out, you HAVE TO be willing to walk away or you're gunna get scammed.

Alternatively one can lay the sugar out on a counter, table or TV stand and say, "there it is, it's yours when we are done. " THEN keep yourself between the Sugar and the girl at ALL times.

**DoggieFan** · 07-17-23 07:50

Originally Posted by GeechieDan [View Original Post]

Lysjacks on SA just got me. I gave her the money, and she came up with a BS excuse about needing her phone charger. Took off in vehicle. Hopefully attachment uploads. First time in all my years in the game this has happened to me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/ae295162-64d8-4ab6-9126-bb215da1b0c3

Not throwing shade because it happened to me a few years back in Greenville, NC. What's worse it was my fault. This Baby was on fire texting and sending hot pics days before the meet. I drive down there, get a room, a bottle of the vodka she requested. She texts me that she's about 5 minutes out and get ready for the blowjob of my life!

First warning sign, she comes in, I hug her and she recoils. WTF? Then asked for the PPM upfront, says she recently got scammed, sex but no cash. I figured maybe that's why she was acting weird. Then I totally mess up, go to get ice, yup, she's gone.

Now if a Baby asks for the cash before playtime I shame them by saying, no, your a Sugarbaby, not an escort. If they walk, they walk. Actually haven't had another ask you front, now that I think of it.

**EasyeOne** · 07-15-23 20:35

Originally Posted by Vince2000 [View Original Post]

Just checking. Is this something happening to my account or everyone is facing issues. When ever I click on the links it says find better match and doesn't show profile?

Is their any setting to be changed. Any help appreciated.

She probably blocked you. The profile works.

**Vince2000** · 07-14-23 10:57

Originally Posted by TheHobbyLobby [View Original Post]

Has anyone had the pleasure of meeting this lady?

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...d-3b33ad3241a3

Just checking. Is this something happening to my account or everyone is facing issues. When ever I click on the links it says find better match and doesn't show profile?

Is their any setting to be changed. Any help appreciated.

**TheHobbyLobby** · 07-13-23 19:39

Has anyone had the pleasure of meeting this lady?

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...d-3b33ad3241a3

**BlueDrive** · 07-13-23 14:33

Anyone had dreams of this duo? One looks like she has a little methmouth going on.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...2-b0d5c3949290

**Tidad** · 07-12-23 18:44

Originally Posted by KevinCalormis [View Original Post]

I've made a couple runs at her, and she's been adamant she won't hook up. As always, YMMV.

She is not NEARLY hot enough for me to pay her to not fuck me. She's already not fucking me and porn is free.

**DWinthrop** · 07-12-23 16:55

Originally Posted by Whisper007 [View Original Post]

FoxyDancer on SA. Anyone get pass just want someone to pay for her nails. Feel free to send me a private message. Would like to link up with her for a nice dream.

I've made a couple runs at her, and she's been adamant she won't hook up. As always, YMMV.

**TopGun9** · 07-12-23 16:47

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

I mostly use been verified. If you give them a new email address for the login, you can get a week worth of searching for $1. I have a few prepaid cards laying around from past purchases on SA, it is a good way to burn off those last few bucks.

Thanks. Will give them a try.

**FarFarAway** · 07-12-23 14:08

Originally Posted by TopGun9 [View Original Post]

What's the best paid service for phone number search?

I've been using TruthFinder but it often can't find phone numbers info. I even enter my own personal number and it can't find anything.

I mostly use been verified. If you give them a new email address for the login, you can get a week worth of searching for $1. I have a few prepaid cards laying around from past purchases on SA, it is a good way to burn off those last few bucks.

**Whisper007** · 07-12-23 12:21

FoxyDancer on SA. Anyone get pass just want someone to pay for her nails. Feel free to send me a private message. Would like to link up with her for a nice dream.

**TopGun9** · 07-12-23 12:20

What's the best paid service for phone number search?

I've been using TruthFinder but it often can't find phone numbers info. I even enter my own personal number and it can't find anything.