"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[GassedUp1]

So it's complicated. I'd say that for me a good sugar arrangement is better than an escort. One big reason is the time. Most SB's don't bill by the hour. That $500 might be good for a 4-5 hour date with 3 pops. There also tends to be more connection and interaction between dates in my experience. My SB's have all been like really good friends, but with benefits. I'm still friends with most of them, and count them as close friends. But a good arrangement can be hard to find. Takes more leg work. Maybe in some ways more risky as the girls haven't been vetted as thoroughly, and could be crazy and ruin your life. But overall I've had good experiences.

I think you hit the nail on the head. I have two SB's I still keep in contact with that I've known for awhile now that I found on SA. Neither have I ever paid more than 350 per meet and now it's incredibly less and sometimes both hit me up to meet with no compensation involved at all. I will say the one I like the most I've always had to host so that cost does add up but she's definitely worth it. I consider her a very close friend with benefits, and the benefits are so damn good cause she is amazing at what she does and knows my body and likes to a tee. The other comes off a bit needy at times but she never asks for more than 50 bucks here and there, don't see her as often but in a pinch she's there. I've never had to deal with a time limit either vs what you expect with an escort, and at this point the menus are wide open with them. All in all a good arrangement takes some work, time, and consistency but if you manage to get a good one treat her right because most likely the guys her age aren't treating her the way she wants anyway.

[CarpenterP2017]

Just curious I have dipped toes in the sugar bowl with not alot of success. My experience has been bad communication high prices and can't host asking from 500 and up per meet where as high end escorts good communication money about the same and most do incall. One SB shot me a number to be exclusive now how would you know what she is doing when you are not around just curious what others have to say most I have talked to seem to be only concerned about $$$ and what they can get from you. Where as escorts both of you know what you are there for.

So it's complicated. I'd say that for me a good sugar arrangement is better than an escort. One big reason is the time. Most SB's don't bill by the hour. That $500 might be good for a 4-5 hour date with 3 pops. There also tends to be more connection and interaction between dates in my experience. My SB's have all been like really good friends, but with benefits. I'm still friends with most of them, and count them as close friends. But a good arrangement can be hard to find. Takes more leg work. Maybe in some ways more risky as the girls haven't been vetted as thoroughly, and could be crazy and ruin your life. But overall I've had good experiences.

[Cowboy1964]

Just curious I have dipped toes in the sugar bowl with not alot of success. My experience has been bad communication high prices and can't host asking from 500 and up per meet where as high end escorts good communication money about the same and most do incall. One SB shot me a number to be exclusive now how would you know what she is doing when you are not around just curious what others have to say most I have talked to seem to be only concerned about $$$ and what they can get from you. Where as escorts both of you know what you are there for.

[Happtrav]

So the Prepaid CC from giftcardmall that used to work, to buy membership on Seeking, is no longer being accepted by Seeking.

Can anyone recommend any other Prepaid CC that works to buy a membership on Seeking?

Sorry, I have been reading the forum for hours. And still have not found an answer.

Any help is appreciated.

[Shampoo55]

I noticed most of you all are on seeking but has anyone ever tried a different site like sugardaddy.com? Or is seeking the best bet?

If you read other blogs one will see that there are many frustrations with SA as a site. That said, the general consensus is that in spite all of its obvious and persistent flaws, Seeking is still the best bang for the buck and best place to be. It does take a BUNCH of time to be on there, requires patience to sift and sort through the rinsers, scammers and prostitutes, but it can be done!

Oh there will be those that have had success on Secret Benefits and SD4M and other sites, but the best bet is still SA

[TwistedMetal]

I noticed most of you all are on seeking but has anyone ever tried a different site like sugardaddy.com? Or is seeking the best bet?

[CarpenterP2017]

Damn! LMFAO!

Thinking if this is one of the following:

A. a sign of desperation.

B. living on the edge daredevil attitude.

C. an act of service; contributing to his bail money.

Sounds like all of the above answer LOL.

Haha mostly curiosity and a little bit of B. She didn't message back though, so womp womp. I probably wouldn't have gone through with it anyways. I'm far too concerned about OPsec stuff to risk it most likely.

[Automatic2015]

I'm pretty sure she's been reviewed before, but a few of those pics are new. Regardless, she seems a bit cray cray to me.

I did message the murder girl too. We'll see if she writes back LOL. I figure murder boyfriend is locked up so we should be safe right? Right? LOL.

Damn! LMFAO!

Thinking if this is one of the following:

A. a sign of desperation.

B. living on the edge daredevil attitude.

C. an act of service; contributing to his bail money.

Sounds like all of the above answer LOL.

[CarpenterP2017]

Somebody help me out. This chick looks very familiar. Seems like I've seen her somewhere before.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...c-90a884cc4312

I'm pretty sure she's been reviewed before, but a few of those pics are new. Regardless, she seems a bit cray cray to me.

I did message the murder girl too. We'll see if she writes back LOL. I figure murder boyfriend is locked up so we should be safe right? Right? LOL.

[RegularJoe1985]

Just a follow up -- she was charged with "CONSPIRACY. MURDER: 2ND DEGREE" . However at the Preliminary hearing in early January they "Nolle Prosequi " and dropped charges.

"Boyfriend" if true is charged with Murder in 2nd Degree .. set for trial in May .... who knows !

So who knows if the rumors were true -- her seeking is still active and she was logged in Jan 27th -- so if anybody does make contact approach with some caution.

(and let us all know here).

Saw that she's logged in today.

[Geechie Dan]

Somebody help me out. This chick looks very familiar. Seems like I've seen her somewhere before.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...c-90a884cc4312

[Automatic2015]

I can't find her, I looked on SB but not there.

I made a typo. She profile name is Uvagirl23 and not Uvagirl13 as I mistyped. Try with that!

Auto.

[Automatic2015]

The website doesn't make it too clear.

Yeah. Just checked with a couple of my SBs and confirmed they can still send messages on SA and SB without a paid subscription.

Auto.

[ILikeHotWomen]

The website doesn't make it too clear.

[IbDaddy]

Has anyone had the pleasure she is on SB.

I can't find her, I looked on SB but not there.