"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?
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03-04-21 17:28 #19872
Posts: 1421Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]
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03-03-21 13:54 #19871
Posts: 2696SA gift wish list
When this appeared, it seemed an obvious way to extract more moolah from us SDs. I have found some use for it, in revealing more about a POT. I've seen some profiles with 100 items. That's pretty obviously golden pussy syndrome. Likewise those that include lotsa expensive jewelry, etc. I have seen some that are just flowers and chocolates. These are likely girls who are sincerely looking for an ongoing relationship that doesn't feel like a transaction / make them feel like a hooker. I came across some recently that were exclusively sex toys. I even commented on that in my messaging to the girl. Of course, it's well known that a lot of girls on the site are submissive, not all of them come out and say that in their profiles, but if their wish list includes handcuffs, blindfolds, paddles, etc. Well heck, tap into that when you message her.
Another thing. If I have looked at a girl's wish list, when she changes it, I get an email from SA. I don't really care, but I was told by a girl that every time I view her wish list, she gets an email notification (this was the one w / just 4 sex toys. She asked me to stop teasing her). I like to try to use things on the site as signals to a girl. For example, I don't reveal my hidden photos on a first message. If she has read that message and not responded, I can 'put' something new in her inbox from me by opening my pictures. I specifically like to message a girl while she is online. I think this has a greater chance of getting her attention. Some of these girls are getting literally hundreds of messages per day, it is easy for them to forget about one, even if they liked it. Anyway, look at the gift list if you want to remind her without being a pest. I'd bet UTR escorts never bother to make a wish list.
Of course, I am sure all the items are highly marked up, even if I wanted to get a girl something on her list, I'd go myself and get it from a discount web vendor.
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03-02-21 11:11 #19870
Posts: 435Chloexvalantine
Has anyone met her?
https://www.seeking.com/member/3145d...8-fee61b8f60bb
She sounds likes she is DTF and does this kind of regularly.
Thanks!
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02-27-21 23:31 #19869
Posts: 399Old thread but great advice
Veteran on this site, but new to the Sugar Scene and the below is great advice. I had a girl tell me she wanted $750 for gas to meet me (mind you, she lives 5 miles away) I told her what the hell are you driving a 53 ft truck? Of course, I said good luck with that.
I know they can report you for talking ish so I been biting my tongue and just using the block feature on the pros and sharks.
I already got suspsended for copy / pasting too many fishing lines in one day LOL. I had to email to let them know it was me, not spam and they unlocked me. Haha.
Stay safe.
AD.
Originally Posted by FanRat [View Original Post]
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02-27-21 23:26 #19868
Posts: 399Questions / Advice on SA
Hello Gents,
Long time USASG member but a month into the Sugarbaby Seeking Arrangements game. A rookie for sure.
In reading the LA SB section apparently, Richmond is the holy grail for advice haha, so coming to the source. Met a few girls already in the 1 month, all fun times.
Random questions not sure if anyone knows the answer. Met a SB last Saturday night, had a bottle of wine at the beach, got a BBBJCIM cute 20 yr old. Got some food after, all good. Have not talked to her since but when I look at her profile shows her last log in Feb 22nd. Does that mean if you can't see their last log-in date change, they blocked you? Or simply she's not been online all week.
Other question, I posted a few pictures in my profile with me and past girls I dated in other countries. Just figured that would disarm them even more if pics with cute girls, a bad idea? Anyone else has that? Maybe I'll delete them.
The last question is one I get the most, "what are you looking for"? I usually say a girl to meet up with to see if we vibe / connect and if so, someone to take on day trip adventures, spoil and make her life a little easier. Curious if you guys can share any better comebacks for the main question most of them always ask. Then comes the PPM talk, etc. I tell them I won't discuss money until we meet, but I'm open to new advice. Definitely takes time to weed through the scams and pros, and also taking it to text and talking, etc. Definitely I agree in all the posts I've seen here where you guys say it takes some work. I had a few girls flake really good. They call, talk on the phone, sound hot, nice pics, agree to meet in a day or two, then boom, silence LOL!! The crazy world this bowl.
Any advice for a rookie is appreciated.
Stay safe.
AD.
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02-26-21 12:18 #19867
Posts: 435Really
SA is $99 a month now? I haven't been on in about 6 months. Last account got shut down. I was going to set up a new one until I saw the price. Anyone have a discount code?
Thanks and be safe!
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02-26-21 01:22 #19866
Posts: 105Originally Posted by Snake27 [View Original Post]
How you pay to access those sites (vanilla card. Ect) to figure out how to hide your expenses from the SO is your deal. Good luck with that. I'm SO less so I don't know that angle. If a SO is in your life watch closely what ya doing; pretty much track your bank account finances (cash is king to get those cards) and don't get "secret" bank account and or "secret" credit cards because those will show our on your credit report and will divulge your finances. Duh.
I basically look at those web sites as a dating option; I don't even get into the allowances at first, start off as being genuine, offer the fun SD experience, (wine, dine, shopping. Ect) and hopefully that will get ya lots a trips to the FC. It's worked for me half dozen times.. And I'm not talking getting it free. For instance; my favorite challenge is the GPS ones, you usually can tell if they are a want to be pro or not. I did hook up with the Baroness (YMMV $$ PRO) from SBFM and one non-pro from SA at the time and now on Tryst I recommend, she's top shelf sweetheart $$.
Anyway. I connected with this very non-pro GPS, looks a 11 out of 10 27 yo type chick from SA / WYP, we went back and forth for about a week or so; eventually she agreed to a M&G at TC in the Slip without her entry fee $$$ with the understanding she could punch out and anytime If she didn't feel comfortable or as she put a waste of time. Cocktails at the bar 7 pm and dinner res at 8 pm. I did my diligence called ahead to a few of the Slip hotels to see if there were any rooms available, yes there were. When I got there, I parked my car in the hotel deck. She shows up on time with a friend at the bar. Aughhhh, I'm thinking oh well two GPS's wanting free cocktails. Eventually her friend gives me the seal of approval and says to text for a pick her up when we are done with dinner. Dinner was awesome great conversation; she ordered a bottle of Silver Oak with dinner. Thinking to myself Yep GPS. Towards the end dinner I told her I was to buzzed to drive home and I going to see if the there was a room available across the street; did she want to join me? She Asked me what are we going to do, I told her watch SNL? She said yeh right. Made the call confirm if a room was available. She flags the waitress to bring the check and a bottle of Cake Bread Chardonnay.. Tells me we are taking with us.
We checked in as Mr and Mrs at her recommendation; wine bottle hanging out of her pocket book; no luggage; she says we got a baby sitter, then she calls her friend don't worry picking her up we are in room # she will call in in the morning to check in, poor guy behind the desk was like WTF. From the time we got to the room it was uninhibited fun until we check out in the morning.
So the conclusion: time spent trying to connect to a GPS non-pro; cocktails, dinner, wine $370.00, room $125.00, figuring out that had non rushed fun and saved about $1000.00 plus not engaging with an escort for an overnight. Priceless. Go figure. Not missing the point, was it free?
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02-23-21 13:32 #19865
Posts: 245Any Intel
MILF / GND -- seems a lot of fun, but can't get to specifics. She is new and overwhelmed -- https://www.seeking.com/member/663b9...b-cc1feba2efb9.
Super cute, smoking bod, says she has done this before. Car not reliable, so expecting a $ ask before first meeting -- https://www.seeking.com/member/a15ab...3-420896092c6f.
Can't seem to get far with this one - https://www.seeking.com/member/35d59...a-9a50827fb252.
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02-22-21 21:37 #19864
Posts: 209Hey, TheHobbyLobby. We're cool. I have no problems with guys getting it for free, I was just noting some things girls have told me (a lot). But we all know the secret life of women. They say one thing and do another (like fuck guys on SA for free). I also think that guys wouldn't try some things unless it worked at some level, and this includes the rude aggressive approach, which goes against my nature but it probably works with some women. I still think the price of joining SA is a useful filter, but that's just my opinion. Finally, I speculate that COVID-19 has a lot to do with the down turn in quality. Smaller talent pool as people are scared off.
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02-22-21 20:55 #19863
Posts: 447True but just my opinion
Originally Posted by Snake27 [View Original Post]
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02-22-21 20:45 #19862
Posts: 447Agree, but where is the quailty
Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]
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02-22-21 19:29 #19861
Posts: 209Originally Posted by TheHobbyLobby [View Original Post]
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02-22-21 15:49 #19860
Posts: 2696It can be this good
So, in my view, this is why we are in the bowl. This was long ago and far far away from Richmond, so no need to be asking for her phone #. This was a 19 YO college student I met from SA. Just trying to make ends meet, take care of a little sister, and have some fun. Very sweet and nice. This absolutely smoking body. We met up one morning in a hotel room I had checked into the night before (I am dodging my SO). She was 45 min late, of course. She had an appointment she needed to get to, of course. Not having all the time I wanted, well, that just happens sometime. The allowance? IDK specifically, it was likely 300, just b / c that was my standard back then. She was there for that of course, but she also was very fascinated by the allure / kink of an older married guy. (I am 3 x her age). Unlike your average hooker, she didn't have a menu and I am 100% sure that I wasn't the 4th guy she'd been with that day. She wasn't making a living on the 'stroll', and I haven't seen her on SA (I keep up with it intermittently) in several years. I got in touch a few years back, she said she'd moved to northern California.
The experience w / her? Top notch. I love to eat young girls like her, you can see her peach in this photo. It was that plump and juicy. She came in about 5 minutes, and then was (sadly) too sensitive for me to keep going. We hopped into bed, she had just the most incredibly soft and smooth skin. You can't see her tits too well in this photo, but they were lovely and firm. A round robin of positions, she was no virgin of course but she'd never had someone put her ankles on his shoulders for deeper penetration, that was a highlight for her. I mean, what more can you ask than totally spontaneous, mutually enjoyable fucking with someone like this for an hour plus?! Maybe guys are getting that from escorts, but I'd be surprised there is access to someone this young and cute in that pool of girls.
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02-22-21 09:39 #19859
Posts: 2696Originally Posted by TheHobbyLobby [View Original Post]
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02-21-21 20:03 #19858
Posts: 447What is going on.
Originally Posted by PghGuy2005 [View Original Post]
SA charging 100 for 30 day membership. It was 90 just last year. Before that it was something like 80.
A good and long blowjob you could get for an easy 50, at most. And I mean from good providers like Winter who didn't put any time limits. Now some of this bitches are charging 100 for QV.
Now AMPs are charging 50 for 30 min. Not so long ago a 30 min would be 30. Now it's 40 and now it's up at 50. The Massage are getting worse, the women are uglier. What the hell is going on. We cannot let this be the new normal.