"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[DWinthrop]

Anyone seen her? I'm trying to set something up. She seems open to a lot but also very green.

https://www.seeking.com/member/30007...b-f65518272014

[DWinthrop]

What do you guys do when a girl asks for your papers? I almost never have this issue, since I do mostly 18-21 and they just seem to be down for raw. But I've been seeing this VCU student who is a smoke show and she won't let me go bare without an std test, there is no way she is getting my real name etc. Any suggestions on generating a believable one to a fake identity?

[DWinthrop]

Even been to her place in shockoe bottom. Meetings were fun but recently she's been real flakey. I got the car accident story too. I got stood up a few times and have had to just cut my losses. She's definitely open to meeting up but also pretty high volume. Wrap it up!

She hosted me, I've posted and shared that she has a terrible body. Tons of extra skin flapping around the belly. But yes, she is eager and high volume. I barebacked her a dropped a load inside, she didn't once mention a condom or even finishing outside. I had to get her in mish real quick because I wasn't going to be able to stay hard with her blowing me, that stomach was too gross. I think she has a serious substance abuse problem, judging from her rap sheet and behavior the one time I saw her. I regretted BBFSCIP as soon as it was over, got tested soon after and thankfully didn't have anything.

She's a hard pass in my book. Too bad, since she has a nice apartment in Shockoe and is willing to host which is nice since she is a flaky junkie.

[Skins755]

SATraveler,

Good tip for sure.

And also a great reminder for all of us to include the SA link copy in the body of our posts looking for intel or doing quick non detailed reviews, best to share that intel in PM.

Skins.

Just a little tip here -- as most of us on here put the URL for the SBs profile when we do reports on them.

https://www.seeking.com/member/0172d...f-380a6d336e42

If you want to search a thread for that girl to see what others have reported -- you can search using the end bit of the URL AFTER the dash.

So. For say Amberrvaxo shown above -- search the USASG thread for just 380 a6 d336 e42.

It works!

SA.

[Dimples572]

I did a quick search and didn't find anything on her which kinda surprised me and tbh, but does anyone have any information on her? Seems like I've seen her profile for quite a while. Thanks.

https://www.seeking.com/member/dfe2e...a-1d213e7c089f

[WaterBoi]

Anyone have any experience with this one?

https://www.seeking.com/member/0172d...f-380a6d336e42

Had a strange encounter just now. IDK if she was trying to rip me off or if she chickened out or if it was real but 10 minutes after getting to my place she answered her phone and got emotional. Said her grandfather had a stroke and she had to go to the hospital and left. Still asked for the donation though.

I feel like the number of SBs on the site has dwindled and we're all meeting up with the same girls.

I've met up with her a few times. Even been to her place in shockoe bottom. Meetings were fun but recently she's been real flakey. I got the car accident story too. I got stood up a few times and have had to just cut my losses. She's definitely open to meeting up but also pretty high volume. Wrap it up!

[FreeSpirit2763]

Travel to Richmond once or twice a month. Looking at trying to meet some new friends while up there.

Any information available on these?

https://www.seeking.com/member/a8c0b...2-4a9973595b51

https://www.seeking.com/member/bc21d...e-9fb84e50fa22

Thanks in advance and stay safe.

[Member #6575]

Just a little tip here -- as most of us on here put the URL for the SBs profile when we do reports on them.

https://www.seeking.com/member/0172d...f-380a6d336e42

If you want to search a thread for that girl to see what others have reported -- you can search using the end bit of the URL AFTER the dash.

So. For say Amberrvaxo shown above -- search the USASG thread for just 380 a6 d336 e42.

It works!

SA.

[Mike77]

Anyone have any experience with this one?

https://www.seeking.com/member/0172d...f-380a6d336e42

Had a strange encounter just now. IDK if she was trying to rip me off or if she chickened out or if it was real but 10 minutes after getting to my place she answered her phone and got emotional. Said her grandfather had a stroke and she had to go to the hospital and left. Still asked for the donation though.

I should have listened to Kevin, but despite his warning, I decided to meet up with her. She has a very cute face but her body is pretty messed up. She lost a lot of weight and her skin is extremely loose all around her body. Started chitchat and she started giving a BJ for like 30 seconds then tried to ride me even before I got hard. No protection and she would pretty much let you do whatever you want, but tried to rush you and since I didn't finish in 15 minutes she made up some excuse that she had to go somewhere. It was so wacky I didn't know what the hell was going on. She asks for the full amount (which I negotiated to be pretty low) and said that what she was doing would only take about an hour and to come back to hang out later. I offered to give half then and half when I saw her later, but she started begging and said she would take care of me later. I probably should have just given her half and left to never see her again but blue balls got the best of me. Of course, she texts back and says her meeting is taking too long and she would see me another day. She then tries to reschedule a few times and claims that she got in a car accident and asked if I could give her a prepayment for the next meet. I should have just blocked her but she started a sob story.

So she is definitely a scammer but you could probably deposit a load or two into her. I recommend very far lighting though a her loose skin is quite the boner killer.

[CandyMan555]

I did a quick search back for posts that quoted her profile on SA -- except for KevinCalormis. Not one had actually seen her or got her into bed! Her MO seems to flake! I am thinking the phone call was planned.

When I was a rookie I had a woman come into my room asked for the donation which I gave her and she said I have to go out in the hall to make a phone call and took off!!

Lesson learned Never give money up front no deposits ahead of time etc.

[Member #6575]

Anyone have any experience with this one?

https://www.seeking.com/member/0172d...f-380a6d336e42

Had a strange encounter just now. IDK if she was trying to rip me off or if she chickened out or if it was real but 10 minutes after getting to my place she answered her phone and got emotional. Said her grandfather had a stroke and she had to go to the hospital and left. Still asked for the donation though.

I did a quick search back for posts that quoted her profile on SA -- except for KevinCalormis. Not one had actually seen her or got her into bed! Her MO seems to flake! I am thinking the phone call was planned.

[EasyeOne]

Anyone have any experience with this one?

https://www.seeking.com/member/0172d...f-380a6d336e42

Had a strange encounter just now. IDK if she was trying to rip me off or if she chickened out or if it was real but 10 minutes after getting to my place she answered her phone and got emotional. Said her grandfather had a stroke and she had to go to the hospital and left. Still asked for the donation though.

Maybe she was on something but the stories tend to change with her each time. Feel free to message me but I had a few good encounters with her and some not so. She's been reviewed on here a few times.

[FanRat]

Anyone have any experience with this one?

https://www.seeking.com/member/0172d...f-380a6d336e42

Had a strange encounter just now. IDK if she was trying to rip me off or if she chickened out or if it was real but 10 minutes after getting to my place she answered her phone and got emotional. Said her grandfather had a stroke and she had to go to the hospital and left. Still asked for the donation though.

[FarFarAway]

Just because we have cover stories or hide some of our personal info doesn't mean we necessarily lie. If a girl tells you she's had covid or has been vaccinated, I would never take her word for it. Anything and I mean ANYTHING I can't verify independently with a SB is questionable. If some girl tells you you'll be ok cause she's vaccinated, I wouldn't accept that without some proof. That's all. Many guys come on here and go "my SB said this or that thing, she got this much or did nothing with other guys, etc. " and what I'm saying is "did you verify? If not, how do you know for sure? If it's not verified, it's not real.

Some things can be verified, some things we make our own assessments on. On any girl even close to 'young', I ask them to 'promise' me they are at least 18. Some offer their licenses, or promise their licenses if / when we meet. I usually just say something like 'I had to ask', which I do.

I have a CDC vaccination card, I would give a (name redacted) screen shot of that to anyone who wanted it. Maybe I would ask that in return. And, of course, right now, anyone who said they have a vaccine who isn't in one of the obvious groups (nope, I am not messaging with 65+ POTs), it's fair to ask why they are getting the vaccine. I have specifically approached several nurses and nursing students, prolific in my area, and asked if they've been vaccinated, and they have all said no, interestingly.

And you were simply incorrect about that 27 YO doctor.

I had a very pretty / hot Asian coed POT on the phone today who said she was getting 1 K per meet from her last arrangement. I responded with the polite declination I've used since I've seen it laid out in these pages. "I am sure there are a few girls on the site who get that, and you are certainly a very attractive / appealing woman, you could be one of them. However, that's not something that I would be able to do, so if I were you, I'd try to track down that guy who gave you that, if that is what you really care about. " Of course I didn't believe her. She can try to snooker me. But I have zero relationship with this girl and no reason to trust her. But even if I did I could never give her that. I said I wouldn't negotiate with someone I'd never met. Ultimately, I killed the whole conversation of mental masturbation and sent her on her way.

[EvilTmp]

I respect you and Mr. Roger, you've posted a ton and obviously have a lot of experience. Me too, however. It isn't logical to me that you can make a judgment about a situation from a simple statement I made, with no facts. We all have cover stories. With respect to that girl, she said she had a medical degree from an eastern European university, but to be licensed in the US would have to do a residency. She was spending her time studying for her boards so she could enter one. I am a professional in the biomedical field who has interacted with countless people like she claimed to be. There was nothing about her knowledge that said anything other than she really did have medical training. I enjoyed interacting with her b / c she was smart, something I like in a SB.

And then, just generally, as I have said elsewhere. Everyone gets the sugar bowl they're looking for. If you regard SBs with suspicion, you'll get the ones that deserve your suspicion. Of course, I have been mistaken about a girl, but I've never been ripped off. I have had ongoing arrangements w / girls who were Playboy models (when younger. I saw the photos. No doubt). I have had arrangements with salt of the earth types who I would trust quite a bit. But not with my actual identity. Maintaining control is always the way to go for me. My risk / reward demands it.

Just because we have cover stories or hide some of our personal info doesn't mean we necessarily lie. If a girl tells you she's had covid or has been vaccinated, I would never take her word for it. Anything and I mean ANYTHING I can't verify independently with a SB is questionable. If some girl tells you you'll be ok cause she's vaccinated, I wouldn't accept that without some proof. That's all. Many guys come on here and go "my SB said this or that thing, she got this much or did nothing with other guys, etc. " and what I'm saying is "did you verify? If not, how do you know for sure? If it's not verified, it's not real.