"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[BamBam]

There is always some chance that any profile could be fake but this one has characteristics that lead me to think it has a good chance of being real. It is long and wordy. That takes time. It is also in good English and topical. Finally, the profile has several blue verifications. It could be a catfish but that is a lot of effort for a scammer. They have to assume their profiles will only last a short time before needing a new one.

Bam.

So I don't have a subscription and while I don't I like to favorite profiles so that when or if I do go back on I have a list of women I can quickly hit up. I favorited this profile and I see that she instantly sent me a message. I can't read it cause I don't have a membership. Has anyone actually chatted or seen this girl. I get a fake profile vibe.

https://www.seeking.com/member/3c49d...4-825608976d55

[TheHobbyLobby]

So I don't have a subscription and while I don't I like to favorite profiles so that when or if I do go back on I have a list of women I can quickly hit up. I favorited this profile and I see that she instantly sent me a message. I can't read it cause I don't have a membership. Has anyone actually chatted or seen this girl. I get a fake profile vibe.

https://www.seeking.com/member/3c49d...4-825608976d55

[FarFarAway]

There are different opinions on here about the prevalence of fake profiles on SA. I haven't run into a lot myself. Here's a new data point. I've been on there 4+ years and have 500 contacts in my phone that I got from there. I just installed the FB messenger app on my burner phone, set up an account w / my sugar identity, and I let it try to find friends in my contacts. The vast majority of those suggested were not women profile photos, or not of women I would have connected with on SA, or they had some odd language in them (Cyrillic, Japanese, Arabic). I did find a few people who I recognized / recalled from being in touch on SA. So, I got their real name this way. I wouldn't think it would be too efficient a way to do that, however. I don't know for a fact that these people were suggested because they were really in my contacts, they could have been friends of just a few people who had been working fake profiles.

[TattdBarbiie69]

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[HappyHunter44]

I got one of those discount links in an email. Here it is if anyone wants to get 33% off:

http://links.email.seeking.com/ctt?m...NgS2&mt=1&rt=0

[DoneThatOnce]

One of the betas on this board informed her of my report and has already changed her profile name to SeductiveItGirl. Dumb girl decided to defend her pathetic BJ instead of explaining why she has scammed people. When I asked her about it she said, "well, I didn't scam you. " smh.

She hasn't shown up on the Blacksburg Seeking yet. Nor has any of her girlfriends at VT that had profiles up last semester. Of course they might be smart enough by now to get a premium account and hide. Fall fashion and drug money will get her back duping guys one way or another.

[Flash Lidar]

https://www.seeking.com/member/bcf57...d-5948ec6413d4

I was in Richmond for a work meeting and decided to meet up with this hokie coed for some fun. She needed some back to school items so we went to the local shopping centre. I told her that I wanted a mutually beneficial date before spending a penny. She agreed. We grabbed lunch after shopping and then went to my hotel room. I kept the shopping bags in my car to prevent any funny business. She all of a sudden wanted to take it slow, but BJ was ok. Hands down, top 2 WORST ever! I can't imagine her being good at anything else sexually. I ended the date and blocked her number. Why do the hot ones have to be so disappointing! LOL.

Good move on your part with the shopping bags. At least you got a BJ out of it. IMHO, the really hot ones sometimes just think their looks alone can get them by, and the average ones try harder.

One of the betas on this board informed her of my report and has already changed her profile name to SeductiveItGirl. Dumb girl decided to defend her pathetic BJ instead of explaining why she has scammed people. When I asked her about it she said, "well, I didn't scam you. " smh.

[DickLongwood]

It's also possible to get banned (for no reason, refund or recourse) 2 days after you just paid them for 3 month's. I won't risk it.

A buddy joined for 3 months at the Memorial Day sale, and it worked for him. I agree with you though--I don't trust SA. If they ban me, I'll leave the site permanently.

[ChrisHansen92]

It's also possible to get banned (for no reason, refund or recourse) 2 days after you just paid them for 3 month's. I won't risk it.

Two additional thoughts on the SA discounts: (1) Wade has raised his prices, even though the website performance has deteriorated and it is full of fakes, flakes, and scammers. The occasional sale "feels" like a bit of a break. (2) The discount also works on the 3-month membership. It is typically offered around several holidays. If one books 3 months at the discount, it is possible to pay the sale rate for almost the whole year. Saving $360 per year equates to about one free date per year for some of us. Considering that most of us spend 4 figures or 5 figures in the sugar bowl, $360 is not a big deal, but every little bit helps.

[SBmidlo]

Avoid. Sends you her Snapchat link when replying to messages. Same old song, rent is due, you help me I'll help you blah blah blah.

https://www.seeking.com/member/2b8a7...a-6c8d54f459ef

[RVASpider]

Asking $$ https://www.seeking.com/member/9eb70...9-b9a945787e57.

Did you ever meet up with her? How was it if so?

[RVASpider]

Anyone else talking to her? https://www.seeking.com/member/1085c...c-db107cded09d.

Have a M&G setup for this week. So far text conversations and messages have been a little aloof about what she's looking for. At least I'll have a drink with a pretty lady but not sure what else is on the table. If anyone else has chatted and has some intel let me know. I'll update after the M&G.

Did you meet up with her? I messaged a bit but lost interest when I couldn't figure out what she would give in an arrangement.

[Lobsid]

I don't mind sharing my pics. I don't have a wife at home to worry about. Just want to avoid family members from finding out, because how do you explain hooking up with a 19 year old when you are 40 to your elderly parents. I always make it a rule to never talk sex or money on SA. I'm quick to block SBs when they get upset that I am paying them for sex. I also have 2 accounts that I take turns using. So far I haven't had problems.

One downside to a longer membership. If you get suspended, you lose the $ you spent for the whole time. This has just happened to me. I have had a profile for a couple of years. I recently posted that I had started sending my real pix through the messaging function on SA. Do not do this. Evidently, someone took umbrage that my real pic didn't match the (similar) ones on my profile. Anyway, I got suspended a week before my month ended, and lost the time to message for my Vegas trip, and of course the $. I have been through some hoops to try to get it reinstated, but where I am now is they want me to take a selfie w / my DL held next to my face. NO way in hell am I doing that. I'd have liked to have gotten access into the account to delete all my real photos I sent through the SA messaging system. At this stage, unless someone else out there has some brilliant idea, I am thinking I will simply ask them to delete the account.

I don't have to get a new one, I have an alternative one already that is also seasoned. However, I will never, never make any changes to it that would alert the pin-heads at SA to look at it, b / c they are applying very capricious and arbitrary rules to this that are also changing over time it seems.

[FarFarAway]

I normal sign up 3 months at a time. I have done the month to month, but find that there are so many girls that I had to stop working on because my premium expired. I like to go hard on M&G and hook ups during this time. Then take a 2-3 months break to enjoy the fruits of my 3 months of labor. So 33% off 3 months adds up. Not a big deal for how much I spent on this hobby, but always nice to save some money when I can. Everyone play is a little different, so just do what works best for your situation.

One downside to a longer membership. If you get suspended, you lose the $ you spent for the whole time. This has just happened to me. I have had a profile for a couple of years. I recently posted that I had started sending my real pix through the messaging function on SA. Do not do this. Evidently, someone took umbrage that my real pic didn't match the (similar) ones on my profile. Anyway, I got suspended a week before my month ended, and lost the time to message for my Vegas trip, and of course the $. I have been through some hoops to try to get it reinstated, but where I am now is they want me to take a selfie w / my DL held next to my face. NO way in hell am I doing that. I'd have liked to have gotten access into the account to delete all my real photos I sent through the SA messaging system. At this stage, unless someone else out there has some brilliant idea, I am thinking I will simply ask them to delete the account.

I don't have to get a new one, I have an alternative one already that is also seasoned. However, I will never, never make any changes to it that would alert the pin-heads at SA to look at it, b / c they are applying very capricious and arbitrary rules to this that are also changing over time it seems.

[RoughRider63]

I've seen her as well. Didn't even know she was on Tryst but I guess that does explain some things. LOL In my experience with her, she was quick to respond on SA and quick to text. Was ready to go after about an hour or so after the initial contact but I couldn't meet that night so we met up the next day. She got $$$ for the date and overall was enjoyable but it was a 1 x thing for me. Didn't try to blackmail me like someone else said. Maybe I got lucky? She still sends me messages from time to time but I don't respond.

$$ Damn bro! I got it for 80.