"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**LikeMike1963** · 05-15-13 07:49

She is HOTT. But what I can't stand with many babies is. They are F'nd slobs. My current baby is not, hell....she even cleans my house sometimes. DAMN I am going to miss her when she moves back home.

Originally Posted by HollywoodGuy [View Original Post]

I just checked my stats on SD4me and I messaged 592 girls in the last 6 months. I got one new regular for my efforts. That works out to about 3 messages a day. And damn is she worth it. And I did do maybe 20+ face to face interviews. Rejection doesn't mean shit. Every no just puts you one step closer to a yes.

**PartyTimeGuy** · 05-15-13 07:28

I reported on this excellent new find earlier. Usually strippers do not make good SBs for all sorts of reasons we know about. This one is the exception that proves the rule. She is compactly cute, sweet, sexually worships me and is happy with $ a visit. Plus I get to hear all about the guys she encounters stripping. That is entertaining between cups. It doesn't get too much better than this my brothers!

**John G Smith** · 05-15-13 03:16

My Advantages.

- I'm a relatively young SD (mid 30s). This makes it easier to attract and somewhat relate to 18-21 year-olds because I'm more or less still in their generation.

- I'm in good shape. While I don't have a six pack, I have a good athletic physic. Unless the girl is used to dating Calvin Kline models, my body won't be turning anyone off.

- Nice persona. I naturally give off a nice vibe whether it's digital communication or face-to-face. I never give girls an aggressive or creeper vibe.

- Decent income. I'm not rolling in it. But I make enough where I can treat a low middle income girl to nice things and she'll be very appreciative.

My Disadvantages.

- I'm a relatively young SD (mid 30s). This makes it difficult for me to attract girls over the age of 27. In fact, I've never had a SB older than 24. So there's a large segment of SBs (the MILF SBs) that I simply don't have access to. Not until another 10 years or so.

- I'm African American, so it makes it almost impossible to get Asian SBs. I don't have too much problems with other races, but Asians have been very difficult just to get conversations going. They tend to want white SDs almost exclusively. This wouldn't be such a big deal if Asian girls weren't one of my favorites.

- I'm married. This is probably the biggest hindrance. I just don't have a lot of free time to go on a ton of meet and greets. I also have very few slots available in the week for SBs, so I have to plan very carefully. Also flying in SBs is not really an option.

- I don't travel. My business does not have any travel, so I don't get to enjoy the out of town excursions that many you guys get to enjoy. My range of SBs is pretty much limited to a 2 hour radius of where I live.

**HollywoodGuy** · 05-15-13 01:43

Originally Posted by Dog Rice [View Original Post]

Shame to me comparing to you, HG. I am 38 and in good shape (flat stomach, muscle). Still getting shit.

Well then just try the haircut. But don't change your aftershave. Your SO might get suspicious. LOL

**HollywoodGuy** · 05-15-13 01:39

I just checked my stats on SD4me and I messaged 592 girls in the last 6 months. I got one new regular for my efforts. That works out to about 3 messages a day. And damn is she worth it. And I did do maybe 20+ face to face interviews. Rejection doesn't mean shit. Every no just puts you one step closer to a yes.

**Dog Rice** · 05-15-13 00:12

Shame to me comparing to you, HG. I am 38 and in good shape (flat stomach, muscle). Still getting shit.

Originally Posted by HollywoodGuy [View Original Post]

I don't know your age. But as far as I can tell at 59 I am attracting more girls than ever. And its not the dollars, because I got less of them than before. Way less. Confidence is a huge factor. I lost 20 lbs, started working out and got a better haircut. It works

**HollywoodGuy** · 05-15-13 00:07

Originally Posted by FredMoore [View Original Post]

SBs are attracted 1st to the best looking guys in their proper designated age group who have the most intriguing profile. We do the same thing with them except we men are more equal opportunity carousers. Have pussy will travel.

So Dog Rice, the difference between you and Hollywood for example, might be appearance or profile writing style. There's nothing you can do about your looks other than present your visage in the best possible light. (I'm nor saying you aren't dashing and debonaire, but it's presentation that counts.

For me personally I know my age is a huge limiting factor and accept it. Usually if I can get to the meet I can overwhelm her with my $incerity.

I don't know your age. But as far as I can tell at 59 I am attracting more girls than ever. And its not the dollars, because I got less of them than before. Way less. Confidence is a huge factor. I lost 20 lbs, started working out and got a better haircut. It works

**Dog Rice** · 05-14-13 23:22

Can't agree more about presentation. Also, my status, married, does reduce chances. Search continues.

Originally Posted by FredMoore [View Original Post]

SBs are attracted 1st to the best looking guys in their proper designated age group who have the most intriguing profile. We do the same thing with them except we men are more equal opportunity carousers. Have pussy will travel.

So Dog Rice, the difference between you and Hollywood for example, might be appearance or profile writing style. There's nothing you can do about your looks other than present your visage in the best possible light. (I'm nor saying you aren't dashing and debonaire, but it's presentation that counts.

For me personally I know my age is a huge limiting factor and accept it. Usually if I can get to the meet I can overwhelm her with my $incerity.

**FredMoore** · 05-14-13 15:14

SBs are attracted 1st to the best looking guys in their proper designated age group who have the most intriguing profile. We do the same thing with them except we men are more equal opportunity carousers. Have pussy will travel.

So Dog Rice, the difference between you and Hollywood for example, might be appearance or profile writing style. There's nothing you can do about your looks other than present your visage in the best possible light. (I'm nor saying you aren't dashing and debonaire, but it's presentation that counts.

For me personally I know my age is a huge limiting factor and accept it. Usually if I can get to the meet I can overwhelm her with my $incerity.

**HollywoodGuy** · 05-14-13 11:33

Originally Posted by Dog Rice [View Original Post]

After idle for several months, I signed up for SDFM again. After 2 days, all I got are either GPS or naive gal asking to hang out but with $$$ per date. San Diego is definitely not a good playground for our sugar daddies (after comparing others' experience in other cities such as LA, LV, Richmond)

One noticeable GPS (32 yrs old white with 6 face and 6 body) gave me 10+ email lecture after I offered $ per date. Kept telling me that $$$$$ per sexual encounter is the norm, blah blah. Definitely not a good bowl in San Diego.

I dis-agree. I do not know your type. But I have messaged lots of girls there when I had to go visit my mom. No problems. Less girls. But good ones. Pm for more details

**Dog Rice** · 05-14-13 09:27

After idle for several months, I signed up for SDFM again. After 2 days, all I got are either GPS or naive gal asking to hang out but with $$$ per date. San Diego is definitely not a good playground for our sugar daddies (after comparing others' experience in other cities such as LA, LV, Richmond)

One noticeable GPS (32 yrs old white with 6 face and 6 body) gave me 10+ email lecture after I offered $ per date. Kept telling me that $$$$$ per sexual encounter is the norm, blah blah. Definitely not a good bowl in San Diego.

**PartyTimeGuy** · 05-14-13 09:08

This SB is 20. Likes to dress-up for me. That part is great but the overall attitude is not as good as it could be. Sucking and fucking is ok but it usually seems like she is putting on a big act. That is not always so bad. It's like doing an actress. But on a regular basis it gets old. I would prefer a SB who is actually enjoying herself. This one used to be happy with $ but is getting greedy. If she was absolutely terrific that might be fine but this one is so-so. Time to think about replacing her.

**HollywoodGuy** · 05-13-13 16:57

Face / body / attitude / skills.

I am now in the process of just solidifying my best girls by giving them all my time.

1. Wifey. Hot MILF (46) AA . 8/9/10/10+. Seeing her once a week. She claims that starting on the first there will be no more allowance and I can just buy her the occasional gift with no expectations. Been seeing her for 18 months. Will spend about $$$$ a month on her. Best sex of my life bar none.

2. New Girlfriend (19) AA . 10/10/10/8. The Little Princess. Helping her launch her modeling career. She now stays here every weekend and comes over at least one weekday as well. Been seeing her for about 10 weeks. Spending about 1k a month on her. Could keep my face buried between her legs forever.

3. The Friend (22) Asian . 8/8/10+/9. My Live In. We hook up at least once a week. She as been living here for about 6 months now. She is costing me nothing but free rent at this point. So lucky to have a real friend like her.

4. The Stalker (26) 9/7/6/? White . Civi girl I met on SD4ME. Stopped spending money on her. She visits me once a week. No sex at this time. Says she is going to marry me. Spoiled rich girl with a quirky personality.

I am still searching on SD4ME but only came across one or 2 interesting profiles in the last 6 weeks. No urgency to date as I am fully booked in the FC if I want, with girls 1, 2 and 3. I will have done all 3 in the last 36 hours by tonite. I have one other random girl but she has been gone for over a month on vacation.

**FredMoore** · 05-13-13 12:04

Re: SDFM I woke up to read my "new babies " report for this week sent by SDFM in my 100 mile search area. There are 22 new SBs mostly 18 to 28 and ALL of them put 35 or under as their target SD goal.

So gents over 40 and certainly over 50 should not feel unattractive when rejected by a SB. These youngsters prefer a guy closer to their own age. Obviously many of us have success with the young ones but if you are closer to that 30 to 40 your options will be greater.

**PartyTimeGuy** · 05-13-13 09:20

Overview: 6 SBs currently in the stable; 5 Pots.

My nerdy librarian. She is 19, studious, curious and sweet. Small tit spinner with a great bubble butt. Underneath that cute innocent face lie kinky desires to be tied up and spanked. Most girls her age that I have encountered cum once and done or at most a few times. This one cums endlessly, screaming the whole time. I always have to get a hotel room as far removed as possible from everyone for fear that all the noise attracts too much attention. Most cuties like her have small mouths and have difficulty with DT. Not this one. She swallows me whole to my balls. $ a visit keeps this one very happy because she is a shopper who loves sex. Life IS good my brothers.