"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**HappyHunter44** · 06-18-13 19:10

Originally Posted by MathMan [View Original Post]

Hello all.

Today was my first day reading past threads. I started at year 2011 and am about half way through THAT year in catching up. Please welcome me to your thread. Today was one of those life altering moments when I stood at the intersection of Monger & Sugar Daddy. Today is day one.

Hello,

My name is Mathman and I'm a recovering monger.

Welcome! Great post and I read your other one as well. I am doing the same. Changing over to the SB world. I just got tired of the monger game too. Rather dinner and then the FC.

**MathMan** · 06-18-13 18:47

Hello all.

Today was my first day reading past threads. I started at year 2011 and am about half way through THAT year in catching up. Please welcome me to your thread. Today was one of those life altering moments when I stood at the intersection of Monger & Sugar Daddy. Today is day one.

Hello,

My name is Mathman and I'm a recovering monger.

**F Scott** · 06-18-13 18:32

Originally Posted by Just757 [View Original Post]

How do you feel about the emotional attachment?

This has been discussed since the inception of the Clubhouse, and I personally believe that there is no right or wrong position on the subject, just what feels good for you personally. For me, emotional involvement is crucial to a long-term situation, which is my personal goal, but I also know that sooner or later it will end and I will be miserable for a while. It is the price I agree with myself to pay for the added intensity of the connection. I am not saying that I don't knock off an occasional Temporary Baby (TB) now and then, as I'm sure we all do, but I'm talking about the Wake Up In the Night and Think of Them babies, the ones you Might Possibly Imagine Ruining Your Life For babies.

In the end, we all must decide what is our cost / benefit analysis. Cost = heartbreak down the line; Benefit = intense relationship, while it lasts. There is no single answer here.

Go with your gut,

Scott

**BigTigger** · 06-18-13 18:06

I'm going to keep my movie date with the MsBackup. I'm going to move the new POT (MsSlimEasy) to later in the week, not sure where to squeeze her in, but it's looking more and more like Saturday night. I'll try to have lunch with her tomorrow, get in some free feels and gauge her affection level. Once that is done, she'll know the next date will end with her naked and legs in the air. Plus she's not driving, so it makes it easier to bring her here.

MsTallnDeprived is meeting me tomorrow around 4:30pm, we are doing bowling first. Then back to my place to change for a nice dinner date. My plan is to have some hot passionate Tiggabouncing before the dinner date. Get cleaned up, do the date and then come back and do it again that night and the next morning.

Then I'll Tiggabounce MsSlimEasy Thursday afternoon before the date with MsBigBoobs. Have the date and if she's not giving it up, go back and pick up MsSlimEasy for an overnight into Friday. MsTallnReady is on for Friday night, probably another overnight. I have the full day free on Saturday, that will be showtime for MsBackup, we'll spend the day together and I'll Tiggabounce that booty Saturaday evening.

Are ya'll keeping up, because I lost track, LOL.

Day3: MsBackup. Movie.

Day4: MsSlimEasy. Lunch.

Day4: MsTallnDeprived. Overnight Tiggabounce.

Day5: MsSlimEasy. Tiggabounce in Afternoon.

Day5: MsBigBoobs. Dinner Date.

Day6: MsTallnDeprived

Day7: MsBackup

If I can pull this off, this will be 5 different women in 7 days. 4 of which I did not know 3 weeks ago.

Wish me luck.

BigTigg

**F Scott** · 06-18-13 17:49

Originally Posted by BigTigger [View Original Post]

...she is now living out of her car, no real job and pressing me for funds.

Tigg,

Wise move, my brother. Keep up the great field reports. I feel like I'm right there next to you, but not in an icky way!

Tally ho,

Scott

**BigTigger** · 06-18-13 17:45

Just dropped the MsLifeguard, she is now living out of her car, no real job and pressing me for funds. Now she's ready to have sex. She cancelled a date earlier and just cannot provide anything other than what I'm sure is a bad lay. Moving on.

**Revvo** · 06-18-13 17:33

I have encounterd my first baby that says she does not kiss. She told me this right after I booked the room. Not too happy to hear that.

We talked about it extensively and she seems to be coming around. We did do some light kissing and she was a good fuck. 21 YO I will be doing a report on her tonight. Interesting girl, beautiful. But I need to work on training her all around.

She may be worth the trouble and time. Not a big fan of spending endless hours trying to train a youngster to act like a mature woman. While I am paying her. But this one does seem a bit more mature.

More to come.

Revvo

**WoodSlinger** · 06-18-13 17:23

Originally Posted by BigTigger [View Original Post]

So this other POT (8. 5/9/unk / unk) in STL who has sporadically emailed me, sporadically text, but is down for anything is available tonight. So I'm trying to decide whether to move the chubby one to a later date and take out this one tonight. If her body looks like the picture, then she's golden and will be good to go. I'll have to get a room as the car is just to small to even have a car date and flyin is still here. Getting a room could be tricky to explain, but I don't think she really cares.

On the flip side, the young 21 year old seems to be cool just moving the date and I'm not convinced I'm going to enjoy the sex with her anyway. Or better put, If we didn't meet again, I don't think I'll be sitting around wondering about a missed opportunity. I'm just leery of this one because of the lack of communication and overt willingness. I think she's in nando 1 category as she requested to be picked up.

Decisions. Decisions.

BigTigg

Send the flyin one to the mall / movies / spa. Whatever, make the bed (s) and take the POT to the FC screw two rooms. That is what I would do.

**Pats Fan1** · 06-18-13 16:58

So nothing much has changed for me. I have a steady SB HCB age 23 8/8/8/8. She is fun in the rack and nice sweet young girl who loves sex. She's still more detached between meets then I would like but she is consistent and reliable and fun.

I have been crazy busy at work 70-80 hrs a week. So filling spot two has been tough. Just don't have times for M&G. BUt since my research I revamped my profile and just by doing that. I'm getting on avg 2 emails a day from local SB's wanting to meet me. So thing are looking plentiful for next month when I'll have more time.

My question is this. I have a POT SB that keeps emailing me. She is old. 50 yrs old. She has lots of pics and has a very nice bod for her age and she's pretty good looking. Huge rack. Which isn't my high priority. But still nice. I would like to bone her but I have no interest in giving her any sugar. I'd pay for drinks and hotel maybe. She keeps asking me if I'm interested? I have been putting her off. Basically I pursue SD / SB to get me in a poll of young hotties that I would have a hrad time getting without it. Frankly I can pick up over age 35 chicks no problem without having to be a SD to them. Meanwhile, I've got lots of young girls 19-23 that are contacting me. So I'd rather invest there. What would you do? Be really blunt with her or just forget about it and tell her ther is no interest?

**BigTigger** · 06-18-13 16:36

So this other POT (8.5/9/unk/unk) in STL who has sporadically emailed me, sporadically text, but is down for anything is available tonight. So I'm trying to decide whether to move the chubby one to a later date and take out this one tonight. If her body looks like the picture, then she's golden and will be good to go. I'll have to get a room as the car is just to small to even have a car date and flyin is still here. Getting a room could be tricky to explain, but I don't think she really cares.

On the flip side, the young 21 year old seems to be cool just moving the date and I'm not convinced I'm going to enjoy the sex with her anyway. Or better put, If we didn't meet again, I don't think I'll be sitting around wondering about a missed opportunity. I'm just leery of this one because of the lack of communication and overt willingness. I think she's in nando 1 category as she requested to be picked up.

Decisions. Decisions.

BigTigg

**Walruscl** · 06-18-13 14:17

Originally Posted by Walruscl [View Original Post]

The credit card issuer's response was that "due to the type of establishment" where I was booking a room, Visa insists on the $500 hold. This was just a middle-of-the-road Holiday Inn! Again, WTF?

So I tried calling the 800 number myself, and got the same story about VISA deciding to add the onerous hold on the card, but only for specific places. The gotcha is that the card issuer can't tell me what criteria is being used to make this decision, and of course there's no way to contact VISA directly.

The only advice he could give me was to try through an agent (I. E, hotels. Com) which would at least run an authorization on the card ahead of time. I'm loathe to do that given how my schedule can whipsaw wildly from minute to minute, so even paying extra for the free-24-hour-advance-cancellation can still backfire on me quite easily.

Anyone have any mileage with this problem?

**Magic Rat** · 06-18-13 11:55

I'm sure you are not alone in this Slinger, but kissing is very important to me. My most recent baby was a reluctant kisser and I am not sure if she gets a repeat performance from little 'Rat.

Originally Posted by WoodSlinger [View Original Post]

It seems that a lot of the guys in this thread are kissing afficionados. I try to avoid this with anyone but my SO. It is just too personal for me to be passionately kissing someone I am just casually fucking. Don't get me wrong I like the act, but only with someone I have an emotional connection with. With the SB and UTR girls, I avoid the emotional attachment like the plague.

Am I alone in this? Doubt that, but would love to hear some more opinions.

**FredMoore** · 06-18-13 11:41

This sport is up or down. Just about the time I get discouraged about finding someone I get over subscribed.

ATF #3 dumped me then agreed to rethink and let me know soon. Well that was 2 days ago and not a word and she is nonstop on the SA website. I don't even know when she works, so I don't really get that one. So I'm letting her go emotionally

SB 1 is my only actively functioning SB is scheduled for the FC tonight. She is inexperienced and tubby but has a nice juicy pussy so I'm going to hit it.

Pot #1 18 yr old hottie white size 0 is corresponding regularly and on the schedule for a M&G tomorrow night. She has already agreed to spend the night in the FC if things go well. Prelim rating is 9/9?

Pot #2 M&G last PM is a 22 yr old size 4 8/8/8 and seems ready for the FC but wants one more M&G. I don't know why another meet but she probably doesn't want to give it up too easily.

Pot # 3 is an AM hit I have been chatting with this morning. She seems open to a M&G next week. I'm skeptical because of my dismal history there. She is 41, caucasian, size6 athletic looking "older " woman. But free is free.

**WoodSlinger** · 06-18-13 11:39

It seems that a lot of the guys in this thread are kissing afficionados. I try to avoid this with anyone but my SO. It is just too personal for me to be passionately kissing someone I am just casually fucking. Don't get me wrong I like the act, but only with someone I have an emotional connection with. With the SB and UTR girls, I avoid the emotional attachment like the plague.

Am I alone in this? Doubt that, but would love to hear some more opinions.

**Magic Rat** · 06-18-13 09:40

After a bit of a sabbatical, I have put on the full court press trying to find some new local Babies out there. It seems the Babies I am least interested in have the most interest in me and, of course, vice versa. The HYB's in the Bowl are sporadic at best with communications, and seemingly hesitant to meet while the high mileage MILF's want to meet ASAP and get the sugar rolling.

I had a request from one said MILF to set something up soon because she had a bill coming due in a couple of days. Just what I like. Someone I don't really want to pursue attempting to pressure me into an "arrangement", even before a M&G! Also a MILF I have met once whereby there was a POTF evening asked me if I could advance her funds for our next time. This Baby was in the "just ok" category and certainly not one on whom I'm anxious to waste some sugar.

I'm beginning to think I've lost my touch but as my friend Scott says maybe I need to stretch my Baby muscles to get back in the saddle.

Good for you guys who are successful with the young babies, especially the older guys like me. I've enjoyed reading your stories. The pool for the young minnows in my area seems to be small and somewhat barren, but the 'Rat keeps casting.