"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[Ernest Ll]

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...0-be3d6e22ee0a -- yeah, chicks that look like this in RVA are on seeking. And the nearest Soul Cycle is. Arlington.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...2-85244a29e123 - 9 bod, 8 face, marginal comms. Seems too busy with work to ever meet.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...b-2d52e393a3a1 - sassy, sarcastic but missing the big S -- Silent. Can't get a word otu of her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...8-642d64df856a - not her first rodeo, but can't get her to text. She keeps deactivating when she takes breaks so she doesn't get bombarded with messages.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...3-055fd4ba8e55 - initial engagement that seemed legit. Silent for days but active anyone get anywhere?

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...e-0585f4e9e32e -- she's back, but seems to have taken platonic references off her profile. But still can't get anywhere.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...9-ad15ca2f6cbf -- seems real, b ut limited replies and activity.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...d-6f6a0b0f567b - totally flaked on meeting, lots of excuses, 1030 am "I'm in the shower getting ready" Noon "waiting on my sister to get back with my car".

[Shampoo55]

Was banned myself recently. So far everyone has pretty good ideas of how to log back in. Things that worked for me:

1.) Completely uninstall the seeking app on my phone.

2.) Cleared my cache on my phone using the manual reset. Depending on the model of your phone will probably be different. Here is a youtube link that I followed with my Samsung phone (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kbIepmawxmg) 1 min into the vid was the manual reset.

3.) Downloaded a VPN on my phone (cyberghost, surfshark, nordVPN etc.) will need to get a subscription. Which having a secure VPN is ideal anyways.

4.) Login attempt: After cache cleared you possibly use a new google account, but I decided to open with a proton account.

5.) As some of the other lad's mentioned on this topic. Everything on your profile has to look and sound different.

6.) Subscription: I used google pay, but used a different CC and had to change it in my phone account settings.

I've been on since yesterday so I am hoping that the bot parade doesn't learn a new algorithm or anything. Good luck!

Wouldn't you be able to avoid step #3 and the associated cost if one just used the Tor Browser? Quadruple redundant VPN protection? Or on the phone isn't the equivalent the Orbot always running in the background?

[GiveItRaw10]

I was banned 2 weeks ago but I now have a new profile w / no pic but I have not yet paid for a premium membership. If I use a different credit card from the card I used before banned will I be ok, or get banned again because the card will have my same name and address as the old card. What advice do you guys have?

Was banned myself recently. So far everyone has pretty good ideas of how to log back in. Things that worked for me:

1.) Completely uninstall the seeking app on my phone.

2.) Cleared my cache on my phone using the manual reset. Depending on the model of your phone will probably be different. Here is a youtube link that I followed with my Samsung phone (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kbIepmawxmg) 1 min into the vid was the manual reset.

3.) Downloaded a VPN on my phone (cyberghost, surfshark, nordVPN etc.) will need to get a subscription. Which having a secure VPN is ideal anyways.

4.) Login attempt: After cache cleared you possibly use a new google account, but I decided to open with a proton account.

5.) As some of the other lad's mentioned on this topic. Everything on your profile has to look and sound different.

6.) Subscription: I used google pay, but used a different CC and had to change it in my phone account settings.

I've been on since yesterday so I am hoping that the bot parade doesn't learn a new algorithm or anything. Good luck!

[RomanRich]

Title says it all. I have a conference near Seattle this coming week. I have only one interest so far with my request for some discreet adult fun while out there. I was thinking with 5. 86 gas there, some East Coast cash might look nice in some babe's wallet.

I know this post is a couple days old but I'm not sure how often you travel to the PNW. Cost of living there is out of control and we should want their money. Lot of tech companies call it home and salaries are high. They won't be impresssed by a Richmond income. Seattle is probably comparable to NOVA at this point.

Stay safe.

RR.

[PoonHound1969]

Title says it all. I have a conference near Seattle this coming week. I have only one interest so far with my request for some discreet adult fun while out there. I was thinking with 5. 86 gas there, some East Coast cash might look nice in some babe's wallet.

Seattle, 4-5 bills will get you most SB's to jump in the sack.

When, I travel I just PM them and say I am in town for business, are you interested in a short term agreement.

Always find a lady wanting to play.

[Jcn1965]

Catching up on the posts here and this one made me laugh because reminded me of a funny story that's just one of thse things when you get older. I have the same problem periodically with my hammies. What helps me is daily stretching, eating bananas and avoiding excess sodium in my diet. Also light workouts, ham curls, at the gym. These help a lot, but sometimes I still have issues with hamstring lock up, and it's almost always in the sack. Never gardening or playing with the dog. Ugh. Last time it happened I was receiving a kneeling BJ. And my hammy locked up right at the most inopportune time. Like one those porn blooper clips I had to stop everything and get up and stretch, which of course, um was a very unwelcome interruption.

Otherwise, I'm pretty contortive (if that's a word) and bedroom-agile for my age.

I think most guys here know that taking care of one's health helps extend this game dramatically, but not without some issues here and there.

Try Advil before and after. Sometimes knowing your limits and what you can and can't do. Nice hot shower prior helps limber it up. Be safe.

[HarryMcHardon]

Title says it all. I have a conference near Seattle this coming week. I have only one interest so far with my request for some discreet adult fun while out there. I was thinking with 5. 86 gas there, some East Coast cash might look nice in some babe's wallet.

Well, hopefully you filled some babe's wallet. And filled her other things LOL. IMO if you're successful in your home turf on SA, you're likely to be successful in any reasonably decent metro area. If you have trouble in your home turf, you will have trouble traveling. Although most SB types (non escorts) usually want ongoing, there are usually some amenable to a one-time traveler. Just have to work harder and deal with more flakes (even more than regular if that's possible), etc.

I rarely travel at all (which really sucks) but have had some success on the rare occasions I do and use the same overall approach I use at home. For better or worse, (Worse lately LOL) But when traveling, unlike some wrote here, I'm up front about only being a fleeting SD, blowing thru town only for a short stay. As some point out, maybe that prevents many SB's from biting, but others don't care. Likely the more transactional types I will admit, but work hard enough and some good ones will bite. Sometimes also I think there are girls that just want a one time and not have to reject anyone. Or if they have a BF or married and just want to get rando-plowed for kicks. There are all types on SA.

But suggesting you'll be back periodically, that's a good point I'll try next time.

It's key to start ahead of time though, several weeks ahead of when you will be there. And be prepared to get many messages after you have already left and won't be back for awhile. I try to harvest these contacts and chat with these as groundwork for the next visit.

[HarryMcHardon]

So, like I said, I usually see SBs once / week. Haven't had anyone regular lately though. Had a FC w / my new SB, and after, my hamstrings are killing me. Limp around for like a day or two. Not necessarily a good thing for the SO to see either. This has been my experience w / SBs I have seen since the post-pandemic re-opening. I am 'of a certain age', but like many of us older SDs, I go to the gym a lot to try to keep in shape and make myself presentable for girls half my age. But perhaps I am not doing the right exercises to keep my 'sex muscles' in top form. Do any of you have insight into this?

Catching up on the posts here and this one made me laugh because reminded me of a funny story that's just one of thse things when you get older. I have the same problem periodically with my hammies. What helps me is daily stretching, eating bananas and avoiding excess sodium in my diet. Also light workouts, ham curls, at the gym. These help a lot, but sometimes I still have issues with hamstring lock up, and it's almost always in the sack. Never gardening or playing with the dog. Ugh. Last time it happened I was receiving a kneeling BJ. And my hammy locked up right at the most inopportune time. Like one those porn blooper clips I had to stop everything and get up and stretch, which of course, um was a very unwelcome interruption.

Otherwise, I'm pretty contortive (if that's a word) and bedroom-agile for my age.

I think most guys here know that taking care of one's health helps extend this game dramatically, but not without some issues here and there.

[FarFarAway]

I've had a couple of different profiles on SA over the years. I've noticed that every time I log-on, I immediately get 2 messages from out of state. These are 100% Bots. Block them immediately. They pop up every time I log on. Can't SA do anything about that?

I always keep my profile hidden from search. The foreign / fake accounts cannot locate me to send me that crap. Every now and then I will open my profile to search, and see what shows up. And as many experience, it is different people with bad intent, not local girls looking for a SD.

If my profile is hidden from search, once I have gone to a girls profile, she can see mine and message me just like normal. This just makes things easier.

[DWinthrop]

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...8-e8f2fc32c987

Tiny, skinny thing. Almost too much. Bit heavy on the make up for my tastes, but pretty and fun.

Could see her getting very expensive. Was asking $$ and gifts.

Yes, I've seen her a few times. Super hot and great lay. Didn't say no to anything.

[CuriousVA]

I've had a couple of different profiles on SA over the years. I've noticed that every time I log-on, I immediately get 2 messages from out of state. These are 100% Bots. Block them immediately. They pop up every time I log on. Can't SA do anything about that?

[Ernest Ll]

Get your head out of the gutter. I want to know how long someone who has a SO can keep going in the sugar bowl without discovery. And, then, to what age do you think / believe / have actually stayed in the bowl?

I'm at about 7 years, been caught once and suspicious always remains, but waxes and wanes.

Ill be 60 in 2 years but slowing things down for other reasons (can pass for 10 years younger stil).

[KingKane]

Get your head out of the gutter. I want to know how long someone who has a SO can keep going in the sugar bowl without discovery. And, then, to what age do you think / believe / have actually stayed in the bowl?

I have been married for 25 years and I have been in the Sugar Bowl for 20 years and I have never been discovered. I'll be in the Sugar Bowl until I run out of money or can't get a hard-on anymore.

[FarFarAway]

Get your head out of the gutter. I want to know how long someone who has a SO can keep going in the sugar bowl without discovery. And, then, to what age do you think / believe / have actually stayed in the bowl?

[BobLobLa]

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...8-e8f2fc32c987

Tiny, skinny thing. Almost too much. Bit heavy on the make up for my tastes, but pretty and fun.

Could see her getting very expensive. Was asking $$ and gifts.