"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[Ronald Reagan]

No it's not. It's smart, not to mention super easy to get almost all of these girls names.

Wait until one tries to blackmail you. I had a girl contact me on several social media accounts (including some I use for work) demanding money to "keep things quiet" a few months ago. I had found her social media prior to our meet. As soon as she threatened me I sent her a video of her giving me a rim job and then sent screenshots of her parents and boyfriends facebook profiles to prove I knew who she was. Then I sent the address of her dad's company to her and asked if that was where I should mail the cash. Problem solved, haven't heard from her again.

Emily, and all these other girls are hookers and they just see us as johns. We are an easy way to make a buck. Once you understand that you'll get that it's not a hard leap for them to blackmail us. I mean why not?? I bet 50% of us could be convinced to pay something. The rest won't report it because we want to keep it quiet in the first place. I'm actually surprised more don't, it's a no-brainer for them.

Don't make the mistake of thinking that SBs are not prostitutes, they have less milage than SWs but are the same species. Take precautions and be careful.

I think I take precautions and we need to figure out how they are getting the personal information.

Do you think when you search for them on your accounts it notifies them so in return they have your information? I have zero social media accounts and if I do, like any sites I visit, I take precautions as you mentioned. What you said about us is true brother.

Be safe.

[DWinthrop]

I have had quite the different experience with her. Perhaps because I have seen her a few times. She was at GMU last spring and is doing an internship in Richmond. I saw her last week as well as another VCU that was phenomenal and wrote about.

Fortunately for me I am between DC and Richmond and am loading up on a few SA ladies and I am enjoying them. I.

Emily isn't going to sweet talk you and all that, she isn't for everyone but I really enjoy seeing her and another down there.

"Experience" or not she isn't very attractive as far as SBs go. Particularly in Richmond, where I've never had an issue getting gorgeous 18 yo VCU freshman whenever I'm there. Emily just isn't a looker, 4/10 face and untoned body with no curves. And again, she charges more than the 10/10's I've banged off the site.

If she was cheaper I would fit her in as a backup whenever I got a room for a potential flake. But she won't get cheaper because white knight's are happy to overpay for a mediocre experience.

[DWinthrop]

That you are looking them up on their personal information etc.

No it's not. It's smart, not to mention super easy to get almost all of these girls names.

Wait until one tries to blackmail you. I had a girl contact me on several social media accounts (including some I use for work) demanding money to "keep things quiet" a few months ago. I had found her social media prior to our meet. As soon as she threatened me I sent her a video of her giving me a rim job and then sent screenshots of her parents and boyfriends facebook profiles to prove I knew who she was. Then I sent the address of her dad's company to her and asked if that was where I should mail the cash. Problem solved, haven't heard from her again.

Emily, and all these other girls are hookers and they just see us as johns. We are an easy way to make a buck. Once you understand that you'll get that it's not a hard leap for them to blackmail us. I mean why not?? I bet 50% of us could be convinced to pay something. The rest won't report it because we want to keep it quiet in the first place. I'm actually surprised more don't, it's a no-brainer for them.

Don't make the mistake of thinking that SBs are not prostitutes, they have less milage than SWs but are the same species. Take precautions and be careful.

[JustLonely]

That you are looking them up on their personal information etc.

I have been doing this long enough to have run across scammers, thieves and liars pretending to be innocent little coed SBs. If they choose to use their Facebook or Instagram pics on their pages, I am going through that open door.

I also do the search thing on the District Court's website. Saved me from getting involved with it at least two with felonies. Including one with an arrest warrant out for her.

Trust but verify goes a long way when dealing with the broad cross section of people who use sites like SA. I am sure there are some fine people on both sides. I like the odds in my favor and viewing public information is not creepy.

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There are posts periodically about how to handle profile photos on seeking. This is what has worked for me. I located a guy who sort of looks like me, so I've been told. He is prominent in a sport I follow, so there are lots of photos available. His persona is also something like mine, and I view it as attractive to SBs. I crop them just at mid-face, like I was trying to show part of me but also keep it safe (I have a SO). I don't take the trouble to flip them as some do, but they aren't found by reverse image search, of course. I have heard that people have had problems with getting photos rejected by SA for being 'fake' lately. I don't think you're likely to get that with photos prepared this way, but I haven't tested it. Mine have been on my profiles quite a while. I have never had a POT make a comment about them, other than 'I can't see your face'. After I have spoken by phone w / a POT and I'd like to meet, I share a real one via text. I haven't ever been told that my profile photo wasn't me.

Good advice.

I've found that POTs who ask too many questions about photos are more trouble than they are worth.

As long as they have an idea of what I look like, and they are serious about why they are on the site, they don't need or want to see more of me until we meet.

IMO, the ones who are asking for full face pics are either catfish or doxers, or too annoying to bother with in the first place.

Anyone remember PA?

Last year, there were a lot of photo requests by the people running that site. Seeking finally sued the site operator.

https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifest...redator_alert/

The PA scam worked by them messaging you on Seeking and asking for your cell number. Once they had that, they asked you, via text, to confirm your Seeking screen name, and then asked for a photo. Once you provided them, your pic and real identity went on the PA website.

[GregRichmond]

Buy the $100 Vanilla card.


Wait about 15 minutes after registering on the Vanilla website.

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According to support from Vanilla, you may need to wait for an hour. Last time I bought one from Walmart and did follow instruction by entering a local store address, zip code. All good. But could not use it. So I called Vanilla company. And they said it takes 60 minutes after card registration before it can be used. May be this is with Walmart. And vanilla company.

[GregRichmond]

There are posts periodically about how to handle profile photos on seeking. This is what has worked for me. I located a guy who sort of looks like me, so I've been told. He is prominent in a sport I follow, so there are lots of photos available. His persona is also something like mine, and I view it as attractive to SBs. I crop them just at mid-face, like I was trying to show part of me but also keep it safe (I have a SO). I don't take the trouble to flip them as some do, but they aren't found by reverse image search, of course. I have heard that people have had problems with getting photos rejected by SA for being 'fake' lately. I don't think you're likely to get that with photos prepared this way, but I haven't tested it. Mine have been on my profiles quite a while. I have never had a POT make a comment about them, other than 'I can't see your face'. After I have spoken by phone w / a POT and I'd like to meet, I share a real one via text. I haven't ever been told that my profile photo wasn't me.

I have been doing this and it is working like a charm.

[Assaholic]

There are posts periodically about how to handle profile photos on seeking. This is what has worked for me. I located a guy who sort of looks like me, so I've been told. He is prominent in a sport I follow, so there are lots of photos available. His persona is also something like mine, and I view it as attractive to SBs. I crop them just at mid-face, like I was trying to show part of me but also keep it safe (I have a SO). I don't take the trouble to flip them as some do, but they aren't found by reverse image search, of course. I have heard that people have had problems with getting photos rejected by SA for being 'fake' lately. I don't think you're likely to get that with photos prepared this way, but I haven't tested it. Mine have been on my profiles quite a while. I have never had a POT make a comment about them, other than 'I can't see your face'. After I have spoken by phone w / a POT and I'd like to meet, I share a real one via text. I haven't ever been told that my profile photo wasn't me.

Thanks for the great tip. Do you leaves the eyes uncropped in the profile pic?

[Ronald Reagan]

She is at VCU until 2021 according to her LinkedIn profile. Was at GMU 2017-2019.

That you are looking them up on their personal information etc.

[InTight]

I get mine at CVS and you will also get a permanent one in the mail. I recently went back and added more to the card to redo my membership. Working like a champ.

I find it very ironic that we use a card by vanilla for this lifestyle.

Re-loadable cards require your SS# which makes them not anonymous, especially if they are mailed to you. Don't want that if you have a SO. My recommendation is BitCoin, everything can be done completely anonymously.

[JustLonely]

That's what she looks like. She has a lot of rules and will only go covered. YMMV but I only "splurge f*ck" with 18&19 yo first timers. With Emily, you'll get the splurge price but not the splurge service. It's about to be a great time of year in Richmond, all the 18 yo VCU girls are away from their parents for the first time and looking to experiment. Plenty will end up on SA haha.

If you want Emily you should probably act fast. Despite her profile saying "VCU" she goes to school at GMU in Fairfax.

She is at VCU until 2021 according to her LinkedIn profile. Was at GMU 2017-2019.

[Ronald Reagan]

That's what she looks like. She has a lot of rules and will only go covered. YMMV but I only "splurge f*ck" with 18&19 yo first timers. With Emily, you'll get the splurge price but not the splurge service. It's about to be a great time of year in Richmond, all the 18 yo VCU girls are away from their parents for the first time and looking to experiment. Plenty will end up on SA haha.

If you want Emily you should probably act fast. Despite her profile saying "VCU" she goes to school at GMU in Fairfax.

I have had quite the different experience with her. Perhaps because I have seen her a few times. She was at GMU last spring and is doing an internship in Richmond. I saw her last week as well as another VCU that was phenomenal and wrote about.

Fortunately for me I am between DC and Richmond and am loading up on a few SA ladies and I am enjoying them. I.

Emily isn't going to sweet talk you and all that, she isn't for everyone but I really enjoy seeing her and another down there.

[FarFarAway]

There are posts periodically about how to handle profile photos on seeking. This is what has worked for me. I located a guy who sort of looks like me, so I've been told. He is prominent in a sport I follow, so there are lots of photos available. His persona is also something like mine, and I view it as attractive to SBs. I crop them just at mid-face, like I was trying to show part of me but also keep it safe (I have a SO). I don't take the trouble to flip them as some do, but they aren't found by reverse image search, of course. I have heard that people have had problems with getting photos rejected by SA for being 'fake' lately. I don't think you're likely to get that with photos prepared this way, but I haven't tested it. Mine have been on my profiles quite a while. I have never had a POT make a comment about them, other than 'I can't see your face'. After I have spoken by phone w / a POT and I'd like to meet, I share a real one via text. I haven't ever been told that my profile photo wasn't me.

[ItsAHobby45]

Dude, never send money upfront. Also all of us should flag these type of scams on SA. Make an effort to report SA and get them blocked. Let's cleanup SA.

I knew that but "she" was extremely convincing. Lesson learned.

On a positive note, I met a 23 y / o SB for the first time yesterday and she was absolutely perfect. Her body type is exactly what I was looking for. She has a great personality. She's educated. She lives a little over an hour away which is close enough for frequent trips but far enough to have that separation from running into her in public. She gave me a great GFE and it was just a perfect visit. I had actually closed my premium SA account because I was tired of the fake profiles and scammers but luckily I had made contact with this one before. Is there a write up on how to not fall in love with a SB.

[CandyMan555]

I looked in Walmart and all the cards said use in USA only. Can you specify which exact card you used?

Thanks CM.

Thanks CM.