"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[FarFarAway]

Looking for some thoughts form anyone that has met a bartender. Waitress etc and how they may of approached with them if they would have an interest in a mutually beneficial scenario?. I appreciate your thoughts and experience!

IK of some single guys here who have related their experiences. Some have even mocked up a 'business card' that has their sugar info on it. To give to POTs once the groundwork has been laid in conversation, flirting, etc.

If you are like me, w / an SO, you can't really be having cards like that made up. Discovery would be fatal. However, you can do this. You've had a great time flirting w / a bartender, these girls do get hit on a lot of course, but not usually by someone twice their age and way higher net worth. If it seems possible there is interest, take a sugar packet and write your burner number on it. As you depart, hand her the packet and say something witty, ala a pickup line. Something along the lines of 'there's more sugar where that came from'. She knows exactly what that means. If she doesn't, she's too dumb to bang.

[American314]

Looking for some thoughts form anyone that has met a bartender. Waitress etc and how they may of approached with them if they would have an interest in a mutually beneficial scenario?. I appreciate your thoughts and experience!

This is my wheelhouse! One reason that I don't post much on this site is that I don't care all that much for the pro's. I am extremely discreet as I have much to lose. I have garnered much fantastic info from this thread! I am probably much older than most on here and was married for over 30 years. No S / O now, and have been "wilding" throughout most of it. First thing is that you cannot be repulsive in your appearance or manner! I am NO Richard Gere but Have done very well. It does take effort and usually some time and a couple of really good tips " I have had great success with store clerks, waitresses, social gatherings and even grocery stores. Don't be shy but not aggressive. If you try to be too quick to suggest your intentions and she agrees, 90% she will probably already be a pro! I love the chase almost as much as the Catch! I will try to write up some suggestions for you and post some soon. I have an engagement and not the time right now. I will give you one of my all time favorites though. Walking in a low rent chain grocery store, saw an early 20's slim, beautiful dirty blond girl that appeared to be looking for a few items. She had no makeup, sweat pants and a white button down shirt without a bra. I said hello and told her she had to be the most naturally attractive woman I had ever had the pleasure of meeting and just needed to relay that to her. She replied "how can you say that with the way I'm dressed? Her response started the conversation. Ended up with a lunch meet the next day. Nothing "arrangement" suggested at that time. I told her a little about me and she wanted to hear more than just a few quick stories. Later on in our arrangement when I asked her why, she said she found me very interesting! Even though I was 3 x her age, it lasted several months! It DOES take some work sometimes but the rewards, like this one can be phenomenal! More to come when I have more time.

PIE.

[LikeMike1963]

Looking for some thoughts form anyone that has met a bartender. Waitress etc and how they may of approached with them if they would have an interest in a mutually beneficial scenario?. I appreciate your thoughts and experience!

[Mazvid]

This is my first SB been seeing her for about 3 months all was great to start with she told me I was exclusive (bs) didn't bother me so the meeting have slowed down and last week she tells me bf has moved in but still wants to see me first instinct is to punt any input dm me please.

Your regular having a live in bf is a problem for her alone unless:

1. You were banging at her place and don't want the expense of a hotel.

2. You thought / hoped you were more than a customer.

That you have a question at all makes me think both conditions apply. If so, #1 is just math. #2 is where the work is: if it applies and she is not on the same page (see "bf has moved in") you need to get your head straight or move on.

Likewise, I don't see what the problem is here with her bf moving in or how that pertains to you.

[Gobig2]

Ton of Ai fake chics now on that site. I cancelled my membership.

What the hell is up with all of these chinise chicks showing up on SA? I am sure they are all fake but come one this is too much.

[TheHobbyLobby]

What the hell is up with all of these chinise chicks showing up on SA? I am sure they are all fake but come one this is too much.

[GolfMan57]

Seems like everyone's luck must be running dry like mine. Where is everyone. No Posts in over 2 weeks.

[FarFarAway]

Do you recall what bank issued the Lowes's gift card? Different locations carry different cards from different banks. Ty.

I have posted off and on about a card that is issued by Blackhawk, you can search for that. It is available on the west coast at a fancy grocery, there are some people who have said it is at Lowes and / or Home Depot.

[JWalker350]

I just used one from Lowes yesterday and it went through without any problems. Be sure to wait a few hours or a day after registering it before you use it on SA. This may not make any difference but it's the way I did it.

Do you recall what bank issued the Lowes's gift card? Different locations carry different cards from different banks. Ty.

[Tidad]

This is my first SB been seeing her for about 3 months all was great to start with she told me I was exclusive (bs) didn't bother me so the meeting have slowed down and last week she tells me bf has moved in but still wants to see me first instinct is to punt any input dm me please.

Your regular having a live in bf is a problem for her alone unless:

1. You were banging at her place and don't want the expense of a hotel.

2. You thought / hoped you were more than a customer.

That you have a question at all makes me think both conditions apply. If so, #1 is just math. #2 is where the work is: if it applies and she is not on the same page (see "bf has moved in") you need to get your head straight or move on.

[Cowboy1964]

This is my first SB been seeing her for about 3 months all was great to start with she told me I was exclusive (bs) didn't bother me so the meeting have slowed down and last week she tells me bf has moved in but still wants to see me first instinct is to punt any input dm me please.

[Curious Babu]

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...9-f3f5d39ae91d

This one is a scam. Set a time to meet then 30 minutes prior needed money for babysitter and would not come out unless I sent money. Oh well. There are way too many scams on SA now.

Same experience. So many scammers nowadays to deal with on SA.

[GoodNightBalt]

Has anyone ever talked to this woman? https://members.seeking.com/member/5...5-de8aa54e35ca.

I couldn't find anything but she's been around for years.

[SolRayode8]

Chatted with this one for a while and scheduled a breakfast M&G; knew it was a scam when she sent a couple of 'to good to be true' pics; did a google image search of the pics she sent and matched them with a hottie who's Instagram has her currently in Canada, not Richmond.

[FarFarAway]

I have had a couple of dates w / "SB"s who really strongly preferred doggie. Both were really skinny, and both ultimately turned out to be more like UTR escorts, not SBs. Didn't want to have a whole lot to do w / my life outside the FC. Anyway, I wondered if others see a connection between a girl liking doggie and wanting a more transactional relationship. In missionary, you are face to face, you can kiss, etc. , it's more intimate. They don't have to really come to grips w / you if you are banging them from behind.

The most recent example of this for me is a Russian gal, they already have a reputation for being sorta mercenary.