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03-25-19 10:33 #16317
Posts: 251Interesting
Congrats on getting that far.
I agree with the advice of the others on here mentioned on two fronts, one you can't sign for it or anything like that, and the no roomie thing is a red flag. She's either got issues, or just as likely playing you as really not in all that bad a situation, more looking for sort of a perfect situation if she can get it. If you'll take care of getting her own place, why not? But if she has to risk a shitty roomie, forget it, she'll stick where she is.
I probably wouldn't quite move on, if only just b / c I hadn't hit it tbh, and the BJ tells you that she's going to get there imo. I'd say this is something you'd like to help with, and probably could figure out a way to do so if this was going to be an ongoing arrangement (partially true). But you haven't established that there is the type of chemistry that you can both be confident that it would make sense (I. E. Need to do a full FC or two). Don't make any promises, but still provide her generous sugar for those meetings. If she blows your socks off, an don't want to lose her, look on CL for sublets or the like where she can do it personally and you just put up the cash.
Originally Posted by DrSummer [View Original Post]
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03-25-19 10:20 #16316
Posts: 420Sob Stories
Originally Posted by ErnestLl [View Original Post]
One SB was getting divorced, couldn't stand being with her hubby even one more day and needed a place to stay. Like semi-permanently. She was willing to clean and cook and let me have my way with her any time I wanted. I thought better of that and all the potential problems, so I alternatively suggested 100 a meet to help with expenses. She jumped at it and I had the best times with her for several months before I moved on to the inevitable variety of pussy out there for hire.
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03-25-19 09:53 #16315
Posts: 880Yes, but no
Originally Posted by DrSummer [View Original Post]
Its the sob stories that separate the ass worth having from the crazy chaff.
As for advancing, I've only done it for two Long Term SBs and it was well worth it. Never more than one allowance -- and for one of the gals in particular, after about 6 months we stopped keeping track of allowances / orgasms. She'd just tell me what she needed help with -- pet deposit for new apartment, new tires -- and then we'd meet and she'd arrange for a pay the hotel and pretty much tie herself up for me to have my way with her. She liked that it did not feel transactional which really made her feel comfortable and totally uninhibited. She literally dripped with gratitude.
Granted such situations are quite rare -- takes time and a non-crazy SB to get there, but the pay off is pretty amazing.
But one thing Ill second -- giving advice on how not to be a financial train wreck can also be a strong aphrodisiac. These gals are looking for a father figure to help them navigate adulthood. Whether its helping them find renter's insurance, getting a better / cheaper cell plan, evaluating job options, reviewing grad school applications or feeding them job leads (the aforementioned gal now has a much higher paying, FT job she loves thanks to my finding a lead and encouraging her to apply) -- and it helps them see you in a non-monger light -- "he's helping me and I did not HAVE to blow him" -- which leads to some great thank you sex.
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03-25-19 09:41 #16314
Posts: 880Probably worth the splurge.
Originally Posted by PeteMc [View Original Post]
Depending on the kind of POTs you are targeting, the nicer digs can facilitate nakedness. I don't like seeing pros who stay at the No Tell Motels, so chances are an SB would rather be near a cool bar and then be banged in a nicer establishment. Plus they tend to have better furniture, bathrooms and other accoutrements for creativity.
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03-25-19 07:55 #16313
Posts: 420March Madness SB
Took her to a big basketball watching party for the games narrowing to the sweet 16. She dressed appropriately in a dress that looks uncannily like she's a sexy referee. A good time at the party and lots of alcohol led to the hotel room where she showed me how much she enjoyed herself by having me enjoy myself immensely. She can suck for hours when she is high on booze and so she did. Then we proceeded to try every position I know. Reverse cowgirl up the ass was the conclusion the third time and it was my favorite because her ass is awesome to watch bobbing up and down on me like a sensual merry go round.
Life IS good my brothers.
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03-24-19 21:34 #16312
Posts: 131Originally Posted by Cabsauv1997 [View Original Post]
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03-24-19 18:21 #16311
Posts: 137No roommates equals mental health issues
Originally Posted by Cabsauv1997 [View Original Post]
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03-24-19 17:30 #16310
Posts: 138Bella3252
Was having a fantastic conversation by text with this one, and then she ghosted. Anyone have any luck with her?
https://www.seeking.com/member/08cbb...9-6aaf2f194a92
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03-24-19 12:55 #16309
Posts: 18Originally Posted by DrSummer [View Original Post]
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03-23-19 15:57 #16308
Posts: 454Update on Platonic Experiment
Good news, and unexpected twist.
Week 6: She agreed to go to a movie again on a Monday. Again, no one else in the theater for that show (lucky me). This time, one more step ahead. She gave me a blow job (showed inexperience, but a good experience nevertheless). She allowed me touching her under the panties while we was working on my jr. Didn't swallow, spit it out. All good and happy. I upped the allowance to 150.
Week 7: Here is the twist. Two days after the movie date, she texted me asking if I could help her renting an apartment. Either I have to get it on my name or co-sign the lease. She has no credit rating and has no one to co-sign. She told me earlier when we first met that she doesn't like the situation at home and trying to find her own place. According to her, her dad is an asshole. He does contracting, building, construction type of work. He expects her and her brothers to do all the work related to his construction (carpentry etc) at home and pays nothing. And she doesn't have time to do a job. Also her dad seems to be bitching about that she is 19 and not paying rent to him. Her mom is not in a capacity to help her out either. She told me at least twice before that she was looking for places to move out, but never asked my help. In fact she has never asked any help or told me any sob stories. It is possible she planned this all along and waiting for the right time to tell me. I asked her other options like moving in with a friend etc. She is not keen to have a roommate. She has found this apartment very close to her nursing school and reasonable rent etc, The rent per month is well below 1000 which is fine with me given the allowance I would give someone for about 4 meet per month. But, I am not comfortable with getting into such situation where I am connected to her with a paper trail and this is too early to reveal my identity. I have not committed to her yet although I didn't say no either. We haven't met after that. I see the frequency of texts from her is going down. I think I am at a crossroads here and tell her what I choose. I will most likely let this go. Yes, I like her and she could be a great SB if I help her out here. But, still out of my comfort zone.
Stay Safe.
Dr. S.
Originally Posted by DrSummer [View Original Post]
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03-23-19 15:18 #16307
Posts: 454Damage
For first two meets it was 300 per meet. Then we agreed for 250 per meet for 4 meets per month guaranteed. I dated her for about 3 months. Absolutely great time until the tragedy struck. She was an exchange student from Europe, her family had a tragic situation back home, she decided to move back home earlier than expected. I know it was true, I drove her to the airport when she left the country. I don't get emotionally attached to these girls, but I must confess I was heartbroken for sometime. She took out the SA profile before she left. She contacted me via e-mail a couple of times after that. But no chance that she is coming back. I may see her in my next trip to Europe though.
Stay Safe.
Dr. S.
Originally Posted by BuffBill75 [View Original Post]
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03-23-19 15:07 #16306
Posts: 454I totally Agree
I follow the same. Almost all the girls you find on SA are financially irresponsible. I do try to advise them, but I have no huge expectation they are going to change. Whether I give an allowance or how much is solely dependent on what she delivers (only after the delivery is done). I have done "monthly allowance", but it is just a guarantee from me that how many meets per month from my end, but not advancing money beforehand for the month. Whatever the sob stories they tell (some may actually be true), I try to help them with advice, but not advancing money.
A good example is a 20 year old I have been seeing for about 4 months now. She has a very stable and nice job at an accounting firm. I know that she works there for sure (I picked her from her work place couple of times and I saw her inside the office). She says she gets paid very well and do lot of overtime. She is single, no kids, no responsibilities, don't see any demons or addictions. But she is always in debt and complains that her bank account is in red all the time. First time I met her she asked for 300 to make back payment for car insurance. I said my allowance was 200. She accepted and apologized for asking allowance beforehand. We had absolutely great time, and I gave 200. The following week she texted me wanting to meet but she was on her period. She offered just hanging out, but wanted 200 to pay back a loan she got from mom. I told her that I don't prefer to do dates when a girl is on period and proposed meeting week after. She asked whether I could cashapp money, I said no. After a week I contacted her and she was happy to see me, again we had great time. 200 at the end of the date. I have had about 4 more dates with her last 4 months. Very difficult to schedule, gives some type of excuse and bail out at the last minute. But, boy when I catch her, it is always a blast. Very submissive, cute girl. Almost all options on table, multiple rounds, multiple hours. Very nice personality, gets along with me very well. She once in a while comes up with sob stories, but I never advance money or more than my typical allowance of 200. We go to dinners etc. But no extra money. By now she clearly understands how I operate. I have couple of other regulars, so I always have other options if she is not available.
Stay Safe.
Dr. S.
Originally Posted by DogBert77 [View Original Post]
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03-22-19 12:43 #16305
Posts: 33Richmond. Recommend an area?
What's a good location to stay in RVA area if in town for a few days and want to meet some POTS?
(Hotels downtown seem expensive -- looking for nice rooms and things to do nearby but better value than downtown Richmond).
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03-22-19 00:17 #16304
Posts: 131Originally Posted by Missingcr1 [View Original Post]
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03-21-19 20:04 #16303
Posts: 72LOL, it was closer to 3 x 1 with her.
I shoot for 3 x 1 too, though it was 2 x 1 when I started enjoying these girls.
These girls do make bad decisions, but since she always treated me right, when I told her I was not going to text her after she got married I was not going to text her. Plus, who has time for old married woman when your juggling college students, LOL.
Originally Posted by DogBert77 [View Original Post]