Thread: "Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?
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02-18-19 11:09 #16249
Posts: 353Hotel logistics?
How do you guys handle hotel meets, logistically. As in booking the room and checking out and all that? I know some of you use prepaid credit cards and such, but I'm not quite as concerned about that as I'm single.
Here's my deal. I met a civvy in a bar last week and we hit it off. She's a single mom and about 12 years younger than me, thin and cute and with a fun personality. She isn't married, but lives with the baby daddy and has for some years now. She came right out and said sex in her relationship is non-existent and that she and BD sleep in separate rooms, and that her "needs" aren't being met. I'm thinking this one is mine to lose.
My issue is that my "cray-dar" is going off a bit. I think she has the potential to be high drama and possibly cause issues. For this reason, I don't want to take her to my place straight away. So I'm thinking hotel.
How do you guys handle the logistics of checking in? I'm sure the front desk clerk knows what's up if a couple turns up in the evening without a reservation and asks for a room. If you're in a bar with a POT and you both decide to get a room, do you book online on your phone and then show up 15 minutes later and check in?
What about checking out? She won't likely be able to spend the night, so how do you handle only using the room for a few hours? Do you check out? Just leave and let the hotel realize you left the next day? Both check out together looking disheveled and freshly fucked, and just own it?
Love to hear your tactics, gents.
Kwag.
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02-18-19 10:26 #16248
Posts: 65Originally Posted by FeelGoodMd [View Original Post]
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02-18-19 09:24 #16247
Posts: 174Originally Posted by JohnRichard [View Original Post]
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02-18-19 08:29 #16246
Posts: 454Very Good Deal
Here is a response to my initial message from a supposedly 20 yr old college student on SA. I can't make this up.
"Hello! I just joined this site. A little nervous. I am looking to meet up with potential sugar daddy's but for right now, just wanting to chat online. I am looking for mutual respect as well, and hope we can both enjoy our conversations together. For each hour long conversation I charge $200, for a single picture I charge $75-100 depending on what I am doing in the picture and your demands. I am a college student who also works so my schedule can be a little limiting at the moment. How was your day?
I responded "Are you kidding me? She may report me and I might get banned from SA. LOL.
Stay Safe.
Dr. S.
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02-17-19 19:44 #16245
Posts: 2630Dang
You single SDs have an advantage on us w / SOs. On Wednesday, I contacted a very sparse profile, 24 YO slim beauty, college grad. Wants ultimate discretion, I. E. , no public meeting. Listed an upscale city in a nearby county, but her first message gave me her # so I texted. I questioned this, turns out she is in my city. We spoke, she is a grad student, very intelligent and ready. Alas, she is departing on the weekend for an internship, and must pack, etc. , so Thursday is her only day available. I asked point-blank, 'you just want to meet me privately?' and she replied yes. Right to the FC off the site! No ask for sugar. However, given it was Val Day and I was working, I could not just drop everything to meet her, so I had to let her go. Good messages of followup, and an intention to meet when she returns from NY in 2 months, but we'll see.
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02-17-19 07:00 #16244
Posts: 296Originally Posted by NeoDude [View Original Post]
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02-14-19 22:13 #16243
Posts: 115Screening out farmv.
Originally Posted by SandPiper540 [View Original Post]
Look at the joined date.
This one has been on SA for almost 2 years and claims 22 yo. I see this is either a pro that is p2 p or part time scammer that will rope someone in for money for nothing.
A more advanced techique is I use is to download 1000 profiles and pictures ever once in a while and compare sets which show me which ones create new profiles to avoid my 1ST technique. Then with this info I approach accordingly.
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02-14-19 17:41 #16242
Posts: 304Originally Posted by FeelGoodMd [View Original Post]
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02-14-19 16:45 #16241
Posts: 2630Opportunity.
OK, SDs, today is your opportunity / obligation to get in touch w / every POT you have on a string, and every SB you've taken to the FC. Give them the fantasy that you're really pining for them. They probably need the ego boost. I have sent texts w / little image attachments to dozens, and have already gotten several nice replies, reviving message chains that have gone stale.
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02-14-19 16:37 #16240
Posts: 86In Farmville?! BULL*T
Originally Posted by SandPiper540 [View Original Post]
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02-14-19 13:43 #16239
Posts: 304YourDuchess, on Seeking Arrangements.
I got in touch with this one. She's cute but she wants $500/ wk for pictures or $750/ wk for text, dinner and movie dates. Here is a text from her. "So I was new to SA when we first met. But since then my arrangements have typically worked out as we would meet once a week for dinner or a movie. Basically have a date. And my allowance was typically 500- 750 a week. Of course that also included texting every day and on some occasions a picture or two. " I did manage to get some nice pics, but I promised I wouldn't share. She's got a stone cold personality, she also stated she had never been to FC with anyone. https://www.seeking.com/member/885a3...6-1f1d8401b7d1.
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02-14-19 13:20 #16238
Posts: 420Screamers
Originally Posted by DoggieFan [View Original Post]
One time I had a screamer in her own bedroom. The windows were open and when we finished a group of concerned neighbors had gathered on the lawn below the window, worried that she was alright. She was cool about it and told them while trying to stifle a laugh that she was quite ok. We closed the window and had a good belly laugh about that one.
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02-14-19 11:10 #16237
Posts: 880Beware the social aspect of it
Originally Posted by FScott [View Original Post]
If they suspect you are using it for "prostitution" some do gooder -- who doesn't see a problem with dodging lodging taxes or safety requriements hotels are required to pony up -- might report you to the cops, or at least get you banned from the platform.
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02-14-19 08:48 #16236
Posts: 72And this is why
Originally Posted by PartyTimeGuy [View Original Post]
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02-13-19 11:02 #16235
Posts: 81Check for bugs.
Originally Posted by DoggieFan [View Original Post]
The thing that would highly concern me using an Air BnB would be the off chance that the guy or lady renting the room out was secretly recording the whole deed. Could be some whack job with hidden cameras everywhere watching live or for later (blackmail? Prob just paranoid but if it can happen in a hotel room (Erin Andrews-ESPN Marriott), it can def happen in someone's house. An on line search of hidden recording devices will bring up a mind boggling variety of various devices that look like everything from normal clock radios to fake flowers. About six months ago, there was a guy in South Carolina arrested for doing that very thing at a Air BnB he rented out. Think he was in his late 50's. Air BnB said they were looking into it as was the local Five O. So while saving on $, be sure to check for bugs. And not those found in shitty hotel / motel beds. Just my two cents from a fellow monger. Be safe and happy trails!