"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[Bill Cullen]

I use IHG, which serves Holiday Inns and others, racking up points leads to things like 10 am check-ins or 3 PM checkouts, along with free / discounted stays. I use one CC that only does online statements and uses a fingerprint to unlock the app. I might change the CC to one that I can maximize other benny's like miles or other purchases, makes sugaring a little more manageable financially.

If any of you guys sugar in DC, Kimpton is now part of the IHG family and they've got some amazing hotels in DC. All boutique hotels, each one different & quirky, all with bar / restaurant and on off times they're on Hotwire dirt cheap (for DC that is). The SB's seem to really like them.

[ChrisCarr]

I stay primarily at Choice Hotels for work because they have so many different brands & I feel the quickest program for free nights. If I can't justify staying at a hotel for work & have a SB / provider make a visit, I can always use points.

My second most used chain is Hilton but it's a lot of points for a free room, often 30,000 vs 8,000 at a nice Comfort Suites vs say a Hampton Inn.

Surprisingly, I've been Sugaring lately with a new Baby in Roanoke and the Mainstay Suites is really nice. Two room suite with a king size bed, at end of hall, which is my preference. The only downside is a very chatty, nosy lady at the front desk on days.

No one has my log on for my accounts so no worries about privacy. If your trying to stay UTR with your bookings is pretty tough.

Most places I stay require an I'd & credit card. Any places that accept cash are nasty & I won't stay there.

Of my three current SBs one has her own place which is a big plus, but a four year old daughter that makes it tough to spend very much time there.

I use IHG, which serves Holiday Inns and others, racking up points leads to things like 10 am check-ins or 3 PM checkouts, along with free / discounted stays. I use one CC that only does online statements and uses a fingerprint to unlock the app. I might change the CC to one that I can maximize other benny's like miles or other purchases, makes sugaring a little more manageable financially.

[DoggieFan]

I agree with most of the above. The only thing I will add is that if you travel a lot for work, and you don't plan on letting her stay overnight, it pays to pick a brand and stick with it.

if you get high enough status you get free upgrades. Suites = more places to play.

- booking directly through the site and using its app allows easy check in and check out.

- you can use points if a room is otherwise prohibitively expensive (downtown and midweek).

- they usually have a wide range of hotel types across many price points depending on who you are trying to impress.

However you also need to keep in mind they will keep records of all those local stays on your profile so you need to lock that shit down. Or have a decent excuse if it is ever uncovered.

I stay primarily at Choice Hotels for work because they have so many different brands & I feel the quickest program for free nights. If I can't justify staying at a hotel for work & have a SB / provider make a visit, I can always use points.

My second most used chain is Hilton but it's a lot of points for a free room, often 30,000 vs 8,000 at a nice Comfort Suites vs say a Hampton Inn.

Surprisingly, I've been Sugaring lately with a new Baby in Roanoke and the Mainstay Suites is really nice. Two room suite with a king size bed, at end of hall, which is my preference. The only downside is a very chatty, nosy lady at the front desk on days.

No one has my log on for my accounts so no worries about privacy. If your trying to stay UTR with your bookings is pretty tough.

Most places I stay require an I'd & credit card. Any places that accept cash are nasty & I won't stay there.

Of my three current SBs one has her own place which is a big plus, but a four year old daughter that makes it tough to spend very much time there.

[GuyInTheCorner]

I agree with most of the above. The only thing I will add is that if you travel a lot for work, and you don't plan on letting her stay overnight, it pays to pick a brand and stick with it.

- if you get high enough status you get free upgrades. Suites = more places to play.

- booking directly through the site and using its app allows easy check in and check out.

- you can use points if a room is otherwise prohibitively expensive (downtown and midweek).

- they usually have a wide range of hotel types across many price points depending on who you are trying to impress.

However you also need to keep in mind they will keep records of all those local stays on your profile so you need to lock that shit down. Or have a decent excuse if it is ever uncovered.

[Ernest Ll]

To give you some context, I'm a consultant to the hospitality industry and was a top level frequent guest at Hyatt and Starwood for years and 99% of my Sugar fun has been in hotels.

My issue is that my "cray-dar" is going off a bit. I think she has the potential to be high drama and possibly cause issues. For this reason, I don't want to take her to my place straight away. So I'm thinking hotel.

Go to SamsClub and buy Hotels.com gift cards -- $100 for $95. Have her book the room in her name, but you give her the GC -- or can even text her the GC # and she can enter it on the site. She will need to show her I'd and usually has to give a credit card for incidentals (like damage to the room when her baby daddy tracks her down and beats you with the lamp) If she wants to stay the night she can. Your personal info is safe, you are financially protected. you may have to reassure her that providing a credit card at check-in does not result in any charges, the hotel just need to issue orders a shift on the room service or dirty movies.

How do you guys handle the logistics of checking in? I'm sure the front desk clerk knows what's up if a couple turns up in the evening without a reservation and asks for a room. If you're in a bar with a POT and you both decide to get a room, do you book online on your phone and then show up 15 minutes later and check in?

A) Clerks don't care, unless she is totally smokin hot and they have a peephole in the room. B) reason #2 for her to book in her name -- allows you to enter separately and gives her time to freshen up / change into lingerie. She can text you the room # once she is in and ready for your dick.

What about checking out? She won't likely be able to spend the night, so how do you handle only using the room for a few hours? Do you check out? Just leave and let the hotel realize you left the next day? Both check out together looking disheveled and freshly fucked, and just own it?

No need to check out. If you leave, they will turn the room at Noon the next day unless you extend your stay or leave luggage in the room and then they will call the # on the reservation and ask your intentions. your intentions. You should also suggest to her meeting again the next morning. You have the room overnight, when I meet at 930 for another round before 11 o'clock check out? I've always taken the second room key with me so I can either get in the room before her, where she does stay over the night I can let myself in to the room -- and nudge her awake with my hard on. I've also set up morning-after dates with a different SB if I have the room key. Just make sure you tell her not to check out and you check the room for cum crusted towels or condom wrappers or other signs of the previous day's activities.

NEVER leave a strange woman alone in a hotel room booked in your name. Don't give her the key to go up ahead of you. Too many hotels have video checkout, and just turning on the TV will reveal the name the room is registered to. Or she can call them at the front desk and they will greet her by the name the room is registered to. Or if you are traveling and meet someone on the road, chances are your luggage is in the room with a tag on it.

If some nervous clerk tries to make conversation and asks why are you staying at a hotel if you live in town, tell them you're having some plumbing work done, houses getting fumigated, you've moved away and are just back in town for a couple of days but haven't updated your driver's license. Lots of plausible reasons to deal with innocuous inquries / small talk. The clerks don't care if you're banging someone so long as it's legal.

[Ernest Ll]

Found this amusing post on the PHL forum.

Yesterday morning I woke up early and decided to hop on the site for a few hours. I sent out around 40 messages, no cut & paste, all unique. I got a few responses, four if my memory serves me correctly.

The responses are a game in and of themselves. Weeding out the scammers and spammers. It takes some due diligence, but in the end the hard work always pays off.

So far, I have completed my first several "steps":

1) Login and send messages to attractive girls 18-22.

2) Sit back and wait for the responses.

My first two responses tonight wanted me to send them money. These messages were probably sent by some Nigerian man. But the third response was the gem.

The third response came from a beautiful, 20 year old coed from LaSalle named Nicole. We text throughout the day.

Here is something else. I have all young ladies send me a copy of their drivers license. They can black out the address, but I want to see date of birth. I am not taking any risks with minors.

Nicole sent me her license after we had built a rapport. I agreed to pay her $300 for three hours of her companionship, with the promise that if things went well it would lead to more dates. She agreed to swallow, BBFS, no anal but I could finger her butthole.

Today (12 pm) I went to pick her up. My heart was racing. Nicole lives in college apartments near the LaSalle campus, which is in a pretty ghetto area.

When Nicole walked out I knew my trip had been worth it. Her pictures were all legit. 5'7, 110 lbs, perfect body and complexion. She has the cutest dimples, deep blue eyes and dirty blonde hair. She wore a demin dress with a green tube top.

We made small talk in the car on the way to the hotel. I got a suite at the Feathnest Inn, in Bensalem. I checked in before picking Nicole up so I could have porn on the tv and some flavored lube next to the bed. The Feathernest has a very reasonable day rate.

From the moment I picked her up Nicole seemed nervous and shy. She confided in me that this the first time she had done this. She also told me I was only the third man she had sex with.

We spent the next three hours banged like college kids. I ate a viagra so I could keep going. I left her so sore she could barely sit down or talk. We did it in the jacuzzi, shower, bed, desk. What an amazing experience.

Afterward I dropped a Nicole back at Temple and went back to work. Not a bad midday treat!

[FarFarAway]

How do you guys handle hotel meets, logistically. As in booking the room and checking out and all that? I know some of you use prepaid credit cards and such, but I'm not quite as concerned about that as I'm single.

Love to hear your tactics, gents.

Kwag.

All are topics covered in posts in the archive of this thread. Just flip through them.

[Kwagmire]

How do you guys handle hotel meets, logistically. As in booking the room and checking out and all that? I know some of you use prepaid credit cards and such, but I'm not quite as concerned about that as I'm single.

Here's my deal. I met a civvy in a bar last week and we hit it off. She's a single mom and about 12 years younger than me, thin and cute and with a fun personality. She isn't married, but lives with the baby daddy and has for some years now. She came right out and said sex in her relationship is non-existent and that she and BD sleep in separate rooms, and that her "needs" aren't being met. I'm thinking this one is mine to lose.

My issue is that my "cray-dar" is going off a bit. I think she has the potential to be high drama and possibly cause issues. For this reason, I don't want to take her to my place straight away. So I'm thinking hotel.

How do you guys handle the logistics of checking in? I'm sure the front desk clerk knows what's up if a couple turns up in the evening without a reservation and asks for a room. If you're in a bar with a POT and you both decide to get a room, do you book online on your phone and then show up 15 minutes later and check in?

What about checking out? She won't likely be able to spend the night, so how do you handle only using the room for a few hours? Do you check out? Just leave and let the hotel realize you left the next day? Both check out together looking disheveled and freshly fucked, and just own it?

Love to hear your tactics, gents.

Kwag.

[VAvet]

I'm going out on a limb and saying she's massively constipated.

I met her in person, way back when. Just a meet and greet and maybe I caught her new but she threw out $300 to spend a night together. Never took her up on it, though. Sounds like someone ruined her LOL.

[Binder79]

As I was driving back, I got to wondering what if this girl had made a noise that I seksly assaulted her. Forget about a rape kit, these days a girl just accusing someone of an attempt would at least get you on the local news!! For many here, showing up on the local news is too much attention.

One suggestion if you are worried about being falsely accused, get a dash cam that records audio. Save the files (in a secure place) for a while.

[DrSummer]

Here is a response to my initial message from a supposedly 20 yr old college student on SA. I can't make this up.

"Hello! I just joined this site. A little nervous. I am looking to meet up with potential sugar daddy's but for right now, just wanting to chat online. I am looking for mutual respect as well, and hope we can both enjoy our conversations together. For each hour long conversation I charge $200, for a single picture I charge $75-100 depending on what I am doing in the picture and your demands. I am a college student who also works so my schedule can be a little limiting at the moment. How was your day?

I responded "Are you kidding me? She may report me and I might get banned from SA. LOL.

Stay Safe.

Dr. S.

[FarFarAway]

You single SDs have an advantage on us w / SOs. On Wednesday, I contacted a very sparse profile, 24 YO slim beauty, college grad. Wants ultimate discretion, I. E. , no public meeting. Listed an upscale city in a nearby county, but her first message gave me her # so I texted. I questioned this, turns out she is in my city. We spoke, she is a grad student, very intelligent and ready. Alas, she is departing on the weekend for an internship, and must pack, etc. , so Thursday is her only day available. I asked point-blank, 'you just want to meet me privately?' and she replied yes. Right to the FC off the site! No ask for sugar. However, given it was Val Day and I was working, I could not just drop everything to meet her, so I had to let her go. Good messages of followup, and an intention to meet when she returns from NY in 2 months, but we'll see.

[Mankind99]

If lurking for other venue, for some reason tinder seems to be very popular right now.

Almost daily making matches.

Just took a pass on an 18 yo cutie at VCU.

Was very temped but I need to stay away from the <21 crowd, and not willing to go $$$.

But maybe you are.

I've been on tinder for 2 years had about 6 matches 2 or 3 trannys and few whales. I swipe right on everyone.

[NeoDude]

Yep. Farmville. To her credit, she isn't too far from Richmond, so it's not entirely impossible. I have her Facebook info, she's cute, but not top dollar material. She has a very lovely rack, but I still couldn't or wouldn't.

So here is another approach I take.

Look at the joined date.

This one has been on SA for almost 2 years and claims 22 yo. I see this is either a pro that is p2 p or part time scammer that will rope someone in for money for nothing.

A more advanced techique is I use is to download 1000 profiles and pictures ever once in a while and compare sets which show me which ones create new profiles to avoid my 1ST technique. Then with this info I approach accordingly.

[SandPiper540]

I'm going out on a limb and saying she's massively constipated.

Yep. Farmville. To her credit, she isn't too far from Richmond, so it's not entirely impossible. I have her Facebook info, she's cute, but not top dollar material. She has a very lovely rack, but I still couldn't or wouldn't.