"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**FruitNinja** · 05-25-18 01:06

I wonder where the guys doing "Backroom Casting" movies get their talent? There's a lot that I would definitely be interested. I like a simple girl next door look.

**Cephlapod Love** · 05-21-18 22:41

Originally Posted by Madaboutmax [View Original Post]

Given all the latest focus on FOSTA and the like, SA may be forced to thin out profiles treating SA as another version of Backpage.

Have you had "Pay for Play" discussions on the site?

EXACTLY! If one looks at the "new" video Mr Wade put up since FOSTA-SESTA started gaining momentum, he states that they are being vigilent about anyone using the site for P2 P, they are NOT welcome and should be reported and will be BANNED!

In light of the new law in the USA, this move is predictable. SA is too visible and out there, and Wade an idiot promoter, so much so that I am sure he has a target on his back. So he needs to take whatever steps he can to try to claim there is no P2 P on his site and that they are actively removing accounts that do try to use his site for P2 P. Look the law makes it a crime for anyone to provide an electronic place where another person is prostituted. Language is WAY too broad and open and the fact that "victims" can now sure and collect damages from the websites has had a chilling effect on any number of sites!

Everyone knows what is going on there at SA, but it has to be UTR so Wade can stay in business. So the best move going forward is to take the conversation to offsite email or text as soon as possible. DO NOT talk about a fee for an arrangement and then turn around and talk about sex! Offering sex for money or something of value is ILLEGAL in all 50 states, except for a few select counties in NV (Las Vegas is NOT in one of those counties!) So IF one's past conversations have crossed these lines, then I am sure that the new surveillance SA has in effect is banning accounts!

One problem I see, is that IF one pizzes off a girl, she can report your profile and provide proof that you were asking for P2 P and one might get banned.

So good luck. Get an new monger phone number, email addy, pre-paid CC, new photos, new screen name / alias and try again!

**Madaboutmax** · 05-21-18 22:20

Given all the latest focus on FOSTA and the like, SA may be forced to thin out profiles treating SA as another version of Backpage.

Have you had "Pay for Play" discussions on the site?

Originally Posted by DoubtingTom [View Original Post]

What do you make of this?

I received this email from SAasset when I tried to log in and it said my account has been banned:

"you have violated SeekingArrangement's Terms of Service too many times and has been permanently banned.

You have committed this violation too many times, and as a result, your account has been permanently banned from SeekingArrangement.com. ".

When I emailed their Customer Support, this is what they said:

"Hi there,

I'm sorry for the inconvenience. Unfortunately, we have permanently removed your account and we are unable to reinstate it. We are also unable to reply to you again or disclose further details. Please read our FAQs for further information.

Your payment has been refunded at this time and you should see the credit within 5-10 business days.

You have been permanently banned from SeekingArrangement and are not allowed to access the website again. Future attempts to access the site will be considered a violation of our Terms of Use.

Let me know if you need anything else!

Best,

Sasha.

SeekingArrangement Support".

**DoubtingTom** · 05-21-18 21:30

What do you make of this?

I received this email from SA when I tried to log in and it said my account has been banned:

"you have violated SeekingArrangement's Terms of Service too many times and has been permanently banned.

You have committed this violation too many times, and as a result, your account has been permanently banned from SeekingArrangement.com. ".

When I emailed their Customer Support, this is what they said:

"Hi there,

I'm sorry for the inconvenience. Unfortunately, we have permanently removed your account and we are unable to reinstate it. We are also unable to reply to you again or disclose further details. Please read our FAQs for further information.

Your payment has been refunded at this time and you should see the credit within 5-10 business days.

You have been permanently banned from SeekingArrangement and are not allowed to access the website again. Future attempts to access the site will be considered a violation of our Terms of Use.

Let me know if you need anything else!

Best,

Sasha.

SeekingArrangement Support".

**Madaboutmax** · 05-20-18 19:19

Originally Posted by CavalierHoo [View Original Post]

Because if he can afford $6000 for an SB, then it is much cheaper on his scale than a wife or gf without the hassle.

Don't give up too quickly. I've had a few similar situations. One time the girl contacted me again saying the guy never came thru with his side of the arrangement and another returned after the guy gave up after a month. Guys can promise a lot, but delivering us different.

**Cavalier Hoo** · 05-20-18 18:34

Because if he can afford $6000 for an SB, then it is much cheaper on his scale than a wife or gf without the hassle.

Originally Posted by Bummm [View Original Post]

I had a sb I was seeing for fuck dates only, no dinners, movie dates, just fun for 1000/ mo. She dropped me for a sd who she swears is giving her near 6000/ month and he has not that much interest in sex with her but does it on occasion, but he likes just talking, dates, having her around, but he required her to have him as her only sd. She has no reason to lie and I believe her and of course understand her dropping me for a 6000 daddy. But tell me why would any dude who is single as he is give out that kind of cash? I mean I would feel like I was a total loser if I put out that kind of money just for companionship. Funny thing is she would have been his only sb if he only gave half that, but he started w /6000 so who will turn that down.

**Assaholic** · 05-20-18 14:58

It's good to be back. Login works. Threads are there. Awesome. Time to celebrate. Shame we have to go to another country just for the privilege of speech. Good ole USA aint what it used to be. Fuck censorship. Good job admins! I hope your hard work is rewarded by making a shytload of advertiser money Oh, and where are those Twitter nay-sayers now? Looks like this shut them up pretty good.

**Bummm** · 05-20-18 12:29

I had a sb I was seeing for fuck dates only, no dinners, movie dates, just fun for 1000/ mo. She dropped me for a sd who she swears is giving her near 6000/ month and he has not that much interest in sex with her but does it on occasion, but he likes just talking, dates, having her around, but he required her to have him as her only sd. She has no reason to lie and I believe her and of course understand her dropping me for a 6000 daddy. But tell me why would any dude who is single as he is give out that kind of cash? I mean I would feel like I was a total loser if I put out that kind of money just for companionship. Funny thing is she would have been his only sb if he only gave half that, but he started w /6000 so who will turn that down.

**TravelinSD** · 05-20-18 10:07

I've tried it locally and when I travel. Very few hits and none have gone through to meeting. The most hits I've ever gotten were in Vegas. Quite a few P4 P ladies are on Tinder there. I've moved a cute 19 yo blonde three to texting, but have never pulled the trigger in my visits. I'm not sure if getting a paid membership helps or not, but most of the posts I've seen have said "not".

Good Hunting!

Travelin.

Originally Posted by BillCullen [View Original Post]

Question: Has anyone used tinder to find a SB? If so, any success?

**GoinDonkey** · 05-18-18 16:08

Originally Posted by BillCullen [View Original Post]

Question: Has anyone used tinder to find a SB? If so, any success?

I tried. I put my worst pic on there and assumed any girl who swiped me would be looking for money. But I didn't get any.

I've talked to a few SB's from SA who have tried it, though. Tinder caught them and banned them. So they need to be very careful what they say in the Tinder messaging. Take it to texts quickly. And there's still the risk of guys who are offended by the idea reporting them.

**Bill Cullen** · 05-18-18 15:53

Question: Has anyone used tinder to find a SB? If so, any success?

**FarFarAway** · 04-11-18 18:51

There is a video posted on the site by you know who, covering recent legislation that is expected to be signed by Trump (though who knows with him). Anyway in 5 minutes or so, Mr. SA says that they are going to be policing the site much more aggressively, using AI, etc. To keep out escorts and johns. So, I would recommend no discussion of anything concerning ppm, $, etc. You are likely to get banned. I got banned a couple of months ago, for reasons I still don't understand, and got back on w / an email alias, but it is still a pain.

**NeoDude** · 04-10-18 19:12

Originally Posted by CantWinLosin [View Original Post]

Pretty obviously photoshopped; besides the fingers, the lighting is obviously different on the note than the rest of the pic. The white blob was to cover up whoever's name was written on the note.

Yeah. Blipped out my new monger name.

Had the same name across multiple sites and decided to start fresh on SA and others so that when site gets confiscated or hacked, will not be able to cross post.

From here to pictures on SA or visa versa.

Sucked starting again and losing the old contacts. Scammers leave old timers alone.

BTW last night was prettylil from VA Tech and was very convincing and needed gas $$ to get back from out of town for meet.

**CantWinLosin** · 04-10-18 10:26

Originally Posted by JZLizard [View Original Post]

Foibles of scammers are part of the fun! You mean those fingernails weren't enough to make you want to get all in that, at any price? LOL.

I don't understand the white blotch, an attempt at a lighting flaw I guess, but why?

Pretty obviously photoshopped; besides the fingers, the lighting is obviously different on the note than the rest of the pic. The white blob was to cover up whoever's name was written on the note.

**JustLonely** · 04-10-18 10:03

Originally Posted by JZLizard [View Original Post]

They only pay for Premium accounts, which I think are like $20/ mo. I think that lets them contact the SD first instead of just favorite him, and some other things, and I think they occasionally run specials that are below full price.

But most SBs don't have premium, only free accounts.

I may be mistaken but I think an email address at a valid university gets them the same level of access as premium. Student discount..lol

The $19.95 premium monthly gets the SB privacy options, the read verification of messages sent, enhanced searches and popping up to the top of the page occasionally. Which pissed off my current SB when she thought she was hidden and then she showed up as a featured member and got lots of messages she did not want because of it.