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Originally Posted by DrSummer
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When a girl throws the phrase "Traditional SD / SB Relationship", what does it typically mean to them? I asked follow up questions from several girls what that means, they gave me different answers.
In my mind's interpretation, the word "traditional" combined with "relationship" would typically mean the "older man / younger mistress" situation, where he has a wife in another town and keeps the SB in an apartment or some other situation for regular fucking and financial support. To me, relationship is the more important of the two words, and in my experience with women when they inject that word in, they are usually implying something in particular that involves some level of emotional support or attachment.
Problem is, women are all over the place with the notion of "what they want" and it changes faster than the weather. What they meant when they wrote their profile, and what they mean when explaining it later may or may not be remotely related.
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Urban Dictionary
I will add that urbandictionary.com is go to reference for understanding the younger generation. If you look up sugar daddy, sugar baby or arrangement you will get a good take on the expectations of most of the younger generation.
Originally Posted by Zcochran00
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My immediate assumption would have been either the standard P4 P approach (meet, bang, "allowance" on the way out), or the idealized version promoted by SA and various news articles (lots of cash and shopping, but probably still with sex involved).
I'm curious, what kinds of answers did you get back?
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Originally Posted by DrSummer
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When a girl throws the phrase "Traditional SD / SB Relationship", what does it typically mean to them? I asked follow up questions from several girls what that means, they gave me different answers.
Stay Safe.
Dr. S.
My immediate assumption would have been either the standard P4 P approach (meet, bang, "allowance" on the way out), or the idealized version promoted by SA and various news articles (lots of cash and shopping, but probably still with sex involved).
I'm curious, what kinds of answers did you get back?
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"Traditional SD / SB Relationship"
I've heard this comment often and I use it as a conversation starter to understand what it means to them.
Like you said, not everyone has the same understanding of what that means.
Originally Posted by DrSummer
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When a girl throws the phrase "Traditional SD / SB Relationship", what does it typically mean to them? I asked follow up questions from several girls what that means, they gave me different answers.
Stay Safe.
Dr. S.
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Traditional SD / SB Relationship
When a girl throws the phrase "Traditional SD / SB Relationship", what does it typically mean to them? I asked follow up questions from several girls what that means, they gave me different answers.
Stay Safe.
Dr. S.
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Same girl
Same girl. I have multiple profiles there. They come in handy for several things. No big deal.
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I've come across a few with multiple profiles, including one I've seen a couple of times. How was the M&G? Is she offering anything other than public dates?
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Evil Empire in action
It seems that Google does not like it if you use a privacy browser like Epic. I have bragged about how easy it is to use your gmail to check texts to your Android phone. Now, when I try to log into gmail to do that using Epic, the browser slows to a crawl. If I use Safari (even with private browsing), I can log right in. Google wants to know who I am, obviously, and track me. These people are slime. We can only hope that the day never comes that google has to give up all the info they have been collecting on all of us to the secret police.
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Originally Posted by CephlapodLove
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I just ran my GV number through that website and got the following reply: Searching billions of phones we did not return a valid result for XXX-YYY-ZZZZ.
I had a buddy who had a GV number tied to his phone. I was talking to him at one point and he crossed a cellphone boundary and the call was dropped. Of course my number was still there on his phone so he hit "redial" and his phone called me back, not his GV number. That was another way he inadvertently out of himself. Then another buddy kept his monger phone on while he was at home and he suspects that that "parked at location" was run through an GPS / county property record search as a girl ran his number through an app called "Mr. Number" and his real name & address came up in relation to his monger GV number. Sigh.
I guess there is truly no hiding, just hoping that there is enough distance between you and a girl who may not be too tech savvy.
Here is another website I have been using that seems to do a decent job and doesn't charge.
nuwber.com
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Same UDR with different profiles
Warning, so I just wrote top and she pretty much outed herself after we had M&G from the other address.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...d-ec53b93ac1af
Same as.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...0-1f12ee6f7467
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Originally Posted by Kwagmire
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Thanks for the tip about the Epic browser. That's really great.
I know what you mean about google. I had a GV number that I used as my hobby phone, tied to a completely separate hobby gmail address. One day someone on the CT boards mentioned a site called usphonebook.com. This is kind of like all the other "people look up" sites except that they give a lot more info about a reverse number lookup than other sites without having to pay. Its good for checking girls out before seeing them. Of course, when I first found out about the site I looked up my personal cell and my GV hobby number. The site had full and accurate info on me linked to my hobby phone #, and completely incorrect info on my personal cell. Obviously, I deleted that google account immediately. All I can hope is that none of the girls I used that number with ever looked me up, and hopefully their lives are in enough disarray that they lost their phone and all their contacts. I worked very hard to keep the hobby phone anonymous, but obviously there was a leak somewhere.
I just ran my GV number through that website and got the following reply: Searching billions of phones we did not return a valid result for XXX-YYY-ZZZZ.
I had a buddy who had a GV number tied to his phone. I was talking to him at one point and he crossed a cellphone boundary and the call was dropped. Of course my number was still there on his phone so he hit "redial" and his phone called me back, not his GV number. That was another way he inadvertently out of himself. Then another buddy kept his monger phone on while he was at home and he suspects that that "parked at location" was run through an GPS / county property record search as a girl ran his number through an app called "Mr. Number" and his real name & address came up in relation to his monger GV number. Sigh.
I guess there is truly no hiding, just hoping that there is enough distance between you and a girl who may not be too tech savvy.
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Originally Posted by FarFarAway
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My backup is a privacy browser, Epic, which has its own built-in VPN. You appear to the whole web like you are coming from the exact same IP address as all the other Epic users. <snip> However, google is one of the worst companies regarding invasion of privacy, so be careful. I have found that again I can use Epic w / the gmail account I got w / google voice / android on my burner phone. If I try to use Tor, it takes me through a validation process that is painful, especially if I don't have my phone (like at home on the weekends around the SO).
Note that none of this addresses another identifier, the MAC address of your computer or phone. There is software that allows you to change or spoof it, though.
Thanks for the tip about the Epic browser. That's really great.
I know what you mean about google. I had a GV number that I used as my hobby phone, tied to a completely separate hobby gmail address. One day someone on the CT boards mentioned a site called usphonebook.com. This is kind of like all the other "people look up" sites except that they give a lot more info about a reverse number lookup than other sites without having to pay. Its good for checking girls out before seeing them. Of course, when I first found out about the site I looked up my personal cell and my GV hobby number. The site had full and accurate info on me linked to my hobby phone #, and completely incorrect info on my personal cell. Obviously, I deleted that google account immediately. All I can hope is that none of the girls I used that number with ever looked me up, and hopefully their lives are in enough disarray that they lost their phone and all their contacts. I worked very hard to keep the hobby phone anonymous, but obviously there was a leak somewhere.
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Originally Posted by CephlapodLove
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So who can explain the technology and what is happening?
My guess would be they have a pool of phone numbers. When a user begins browsing the site, they assign an available phone number to your session and display it to you. When you call in, they use the number you called in on to identify which active session on the site you are, then push the pop-ups out to that browser.
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Perhaps I wasn't clear. Real Time Access of My Computer by Company
Originally Posted by FanRat
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Websites use "cookies" - text files that gather information on what pages you visit, what links you click on, even what pages you spend time on. Thata data is fed back to the website your on, analyzed and used to throw popups for things you appear interested in. Google, Facebook, Amazon and all of them also share that data. Its pretty spooky.
You can turn cookies off in most browsers but sometimes the sites won't load properly or fully if you do. That setting is usually under security or privacy.
Good luck and stay safe!
Yeah, I know about cookies. I know about private browsing, deleting cookies, clearing web history, etc. This appears to be more than just a "cookie" issue! How does a company know how to or is able to access my computer when I make a telephone call to them? It is two separate technologies! One a telephone and the other an internet connection. So how is it that when I call on my telephone, IN REAL TIME, a company can cause pop-ups to appear on my desktop computer?
The guy I was talking to on the telephone was directly causing pop-ups to appear on my computer screen! He would say, let me show you product ACX and right then the product link would appear on my screen. No need for him to tell me the url, no need for me to type anything, it just happened! So this was no "cookie" driven, what you like style pop-up but a direct access to my computer.
Look, I know I have talked to my computer online support in the past and always had to do something special to grant them access to my desktop so they could help with issues. This company (not a computer company) did NOT ask and I DID NOT grant any access. The company just "took" it and somehow gained access!
So who can explain the technology and what is happening?
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Originally Posted by Kwagmire
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ALL of the browsers I use, on my PC, laptop and phone are put permanently into "private browsing mode". This means that the browser doesn't store any history of where I've been, or usernames / passwords / auto login info (good for a girlfriend or SO's prying eyes), and the browser automatically erases any and all cookies that are stored on my computer every time I close the program. That means any website I visit cannot reference a previously placed cookie on my machine and use it to figure out who I am. They must place a new cookie, which is of course deleted when I close the browser again. I also set my browser to never accept third-party cookies. Why would I allow a site that I'm not actually visiting to put any code on my computer?
The downside to this is that I need to actually type my username and password into all websites I log into, each time I go there. My browser will never remember login info. That's inconvenient, but the privacy improvement is more important to me.
I also run an adblocker on all of my web browsers -- And I selectively "whitelist" the sites I want to support. (Yes USASG, you're whitelisted!) But there are so many bad actors who create ads that contain more than a link to their site that I block ads on 99% of websites. Bad advertisements will place their own cookies on your computer, and some will even try to run malicious code on your machine. My adblocker also blocks the little social media tracking bugs. Did you know that those "like buttons" on pages you visit are actually tracking you for FB, IG, etc. , etc? Sorry, internet businesses, but the few have spoiled the advertising revenue stream for the many..
Browser use matters. This has recently been discussed in this thread. The best is Tor, your signal gets bounced around the world 4 times, so it is hard for the site you are actually going to to tell where you're from. It always automatically deletes all that intel stuff on shutddown. However, right now, SA is set up not to allow access via a Tor browser. It used to work just fine w / SA. My backup is a privacy browser, Epic, which has its own built-in VPN. You appear to the whole web like you are coming from the exact same IP address as all the other Epic users. I have logged on to SA with Epic many times. I would also be super cautious about any google sites. We all rely on google voice, I have recently posted some great things that can be done with it. However, google is one of the worst companies regarding invasion of privacy, so be careful. I have found that again I can use Epic w / the gmail account I got w / google voice / android on my burner phone. If I try to use Tor, it takes me through a validation process that is painful, especially if I don't have my phone (like at home on the weekends around the SO).
Note that none of this addresses another identifier, the MAC address of your computer or phone. There is software that allows you to change or spoof it, though.
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