"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[FarFarAway]

Do you recall what bank issued the Lowes's gift card? Different locations carry different cards from different banks. Ty.

I have posted off and on about a card that is issued by Blackhawk, you can search for that. It is available on the west coast at a fancy grocery, there are some people who have said it is at Lowes and / or Home Depot.

[JWalker350]

I just used one from Lowes yesterday and it went through without any problems. Be sure to wait a few hours or a day after registering it before you use it on SA. This may not make any difference but it's the way I did it.

Do you recall what bank issued the Lowes's gift card? Different locations carry different cards from different banks. Ty.

[Tidad]

This is my first SB been seeing her for about 3 months all was great to start with she told me I was exclusive (bs) didn't bother me so the meeting have slowed down and last week she tells me bf has moved in but still wants to see me first instinct is to punt any input dm me please.

Your regular having a live in bf is a problem for her alone unless:

1. You were banging at her place and don't want the expense of a hotel.

2. You thought / hoped you were more than a customer.

That you have a question at all makes me think both conditions apply. If so, #1 is just math. #2 is where the work is: if it applies and she is not on the same page (see "bf has moved in") you need to get your head straight or move on.

[Cowboy1964]

This is my first SB been seeing her for about 3 months all was great to start with she told me I was exclusive (bs) didn't bother me so the meeting have slowed down and last week she tells me bf has moved in but still wants to see me first instinct is to punt any input dm me please.

[Curious Babu]

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...9-f3f5d39ae91d

This one is a scam. Set a time to meet then 30 minutes prior needed money for babysitter and would not come out unless I sent money. Oh well. There are way too many scams on SA now.

Same experience. So many scammers nowadays to deal with on SA.

[GoodNightBalt]

Has anyone ever talked to this woman? https://members.seeking.com/member/5...5-de8aa54e35ca.

I couldn't find anything but she's been around for years.

[SolRayode8]

Chatted with this one for a while and scheduled a breakfast M&G; knew it was a scam when she sent a couple of 'to good to be true' pics; did a google image search of the pics she sent and matched them with a hottie who's Instagram has her currently in Canada, not Richmond.

[FarFarAway]

I have had a couple of dates w / "SB"s who really strongly preferred doggie. Both were really skinny, and both ultimately turned out to be more like UTR escorts, not SBs. Didn't want to have a whole lot to do w / my life outside the FC. Anyway, I wondered if others see a connection between a girl liking doggie and wanting a more transactional relationship. In missionary, you are face to face, you can kiss, etc. , it's more intimate. They don't have to really come to grips w / you if you are banging them from behind.

The most recent example of this for me is a Russian gal, they already have a reputation for being sorta mercenary.

[GreenMan7560]

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...9-f3f5d39ae91d

This one is a scam. Set a time to meet then 30 minutes prior needed money for babysitter and would not come out unless I sent money. Oh well. There are way too many scams on SA now.

[Kurrozava]

She looks so familiar to me. I think she was someone on my rotation back in the day from backpack or a similar site.

She's been on the site for a while. I've chatted with her before, but when I mentioned actually meeting she completely ghosted me. Sounds like she's a bit of a pro though.

[Geechie Dan]

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...b-dbdfaec47ce3

Anyone know her? I feel like I've seen her on SA, but under a different name.

[HuslIslander]

350-400 for a 50 year old? Even with hosting?

Leaves me shaking my head, that's all.

But to each his own I guess.

She looks so familiar to me. I think she was someone on my rotation back in the day from backpack or a similar site.

[RegularJoe1985]

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...7-22ff194dda50

Great experience very chill. Fun and clean. Great Body. 350-400 ppm and can Host. No bs phone tag and scam service like most on SA. Yes I'm new to posting but been lurking for awhile now and registration took awhile. Send me a message if any questions on her. She is a reg of mine.

350-400 for a 50 year old? Even with hosting?

Leaves me shaking my head, that's all.

But to each his own I guess.

[JonFisher]

[QUOT=RegularJoe1985;6830385]The thing with Seeking is that it is becoming more and more difficult and time consuming to find real ones as decent asks.

Their algo seemed to show lot more girls in the area I searched when I wasn't a paid member. As soon as I paid, all I see are the same set of girls in the search. Many of the previous ones don't show up as much or at all. Sometimes I'd get a link from here and there and they never showed up in my search. Granted they might not have logged in for a while but there are just too many to be a coincidence.
.[/QUOTE]Yes. I have done quite some research on seeking search engine. And they do meddle with it. Not sure why? But two people using the search parameters. Get different research. But if you log out for few days and get back in the search results are different. Not sure if it has to do with the cache and you have to empty it every time. Its a bit annoying.

Also a lot more pros, and some blatantly obvious and seeking is turning a blind eye.E

[RegularJoe1985]

If you read other blogs one will see that there are many frustrations with SA as a site. That said, the general consensus is that in spite all of its obvious and persistent flaws, Seeking is still the best bang for the buck and best place to be. It does take a BUNCH of time to be on there, requires patience to sift and sort through the rinsers, scammers and prostitutes, but it can be done!

Oh there will be those that have had success on Secret Benefits and SD4M and other sites, but the best bet is still SA

The thing with Seeking is that it is becoming more and more difficult and time consuming to find real ones as decent asks.

That's why after a month, one gets drained and stops for a few months, then tries again, thanks TINA.

Couple of things I noticed recently.

Their algo seemed to show lot more girls in the area I searched when I wasn't a paid member. As soon as I paid, all I see are the same set of girls in the search. Many of the previous ones don't show up as much or at all. Sometimes I'd get a link from here and there and they never showed up in my search. Granted they might not have logged in for a while but there are just too many to be a coincidence.

Second, a lot of girls are trying their best just to have free drinks / dinner and leave after even when they'd agreed to proceed further. Now having to put my foot down on that and push for meals in between pops.