Rants, Raves and Opinions AKA "The Octagon"

[Observant]

Most of the mongers might be using their second brain. If someone wants to go UTR or go out of businsss, why would they simply not change their number and consider the problem solved?

Feels like a much easier solution than complaining to their favs and hoping for mongers to get a morality and manners lesson?

Ob.

I can understand if someone is looking for her number if they saw her once before, but if you liked spending time with her why didn't you save the number? Why do guys who have ATF's offer to provide a number to a girl that hasn't advertised if she doesn't want to vet new people out? I get the whole, girls have plenty of business from regulars and don't need to advertise. But I'm completely flumoxxed when I'm spending time with a girl that no longer advertises and she's like, "I haven't advertised in months and this guy is asking if I'm still in the business?

As for UTRs totally agree that some guys turn to trusted members to have their UTR's make extra cash. And as said previously, get that after a while the UTRs do have a tendency to ask for more money or get needy.

I guess with girls who stop advertising, confused as to why guys are willing to give information out if that lady doesn't want any new business.

[Cincyjim]

I know DATY. But what's this?

We Eat 7 Days At The why.

[LuckyNutz]

Some girls have plenty of business from regulars and no longer advertise as their phones blow up and they don't want the hassle of getting newbies. They don't need it. The ones looking for her number want to see her again and didn't save it the first time. The answer to your 2nd question is that the UTR needs more money and wants a trusted regular to turn her onto a few guys they know and trust, again eliminating their need to vet newbies.

I can understand if someone is looking for her number if they saw her once before, but if you liked spending time with her why didn't you save the number? Why do guys who have ATF's offer to provide a number to a girl that hasn't advertised if she doesn't want to vet new people out? I get the whole, girls have plenty of business from regulars and don't need to advertise. But I'm completely flumoxxed when I'm spending time with a girl that no longer advertises and she's like, "I haven't advertised in months and this guy is asking if I'm still in the business?

As for UTRs totally agree that some guys turn to trusted members to have their UTR's make extra cash. And as said previously, get that after a while the UTRs do have a tendency to ask for more money or get needy.

I guess with girls who stop advertising, confused as to why guys are willing to give information out if that lady doesn't want any new business.

[WhereDreamsGo]

Some girls have plenty of business from regulars and no longer advertise as their phones blow up and they don't want the hassle of getting newbies. They don't need it. The ones looking for her number want to see her again and didn't save it the first time. The answer to your 2nd question is that the UTR needs more money and wants a trusted regular to turn her onto a few guys they know and trust, again eliminating their need to vet newbies.

I would add that the down side of having UTRs who don't want to advertise is how many of them get way too needy eventually. Some of their regulars get bored or get broke, leaving you as a more prime target. That drives more away, so eventually they need to advertise again.

[Below Me]

I've never understood why people try to contact or get contact information if a lady on any site is no longer advertising? That is question number one. The second part of the question is why if you have an ATF that is willing to still see you after she is no longer advertising would you want to ruin that relationship? I guess, for me its about privacy and not providing any information that the lady no longer wants to see new people. Just an observation, it happens in all the sites I frequent and wanted to know some reasons.

Some girls have plenty of business from regulars and no longer advertise as their phones blow up and they don't want the hassle of getting newbies. They don't need it. The ones looking for her number want to see her again and didn't save it the first time. The answer to your 2nd question is that the UTR needs more money and wants a trusted regular to turn her onto a few guys they know and trust, again eliminating their need to vet newbies.

[BTBear]

It probably means that she gets really WET when DATY is performed or it means he really gets them wet when he performs DATY and he likes it.

I know DATY. But what's this?

[GiDaddy]

I know DATY. But what's this?

[LuckyNutz]

I've never understood why people try to contact or get contact information if a lady on any site is no longer advertising? That is question number one. The second part of the question is why if you have an ATF that is willing to still see you after she is no longer advertising would you want to ruin that relationship? I guess, for me its about privacy and not providing any information that the lady no longer wants to see new people. Just an observation, it happens in all the sites I frequent and wanted to know some reasons.

[WanderingAbout]

Is evidently a Dirty girl.

https://thedirty.com/city/cincinnati/clara-adkins-2/#post-2374704.

[Vinnie Kramer]

Moved this from Massage thread.

Like I said, I'm not a lawyer and while you might win the case, the damage is done. See also Robert Kraft.

He may win the case. In fact, I suspect he will. But, the court of public opinion has already convicted him and that stain doesn't wash out.

I disagree with this because it's possible to not get a happy ending for the price of entry. If they were guaranteed like a regular provider then I'd agree.

[Vinnie Kramer]

Then there definitely is no talking about Atlanta!!

Read my recent review of Follies strip club in the Dayton section. I know it's way down in Atlanta but definitely worth the visit if you're ever there, or possibly as a special trip in itself (by air or car).

Follies will make you believe in the magic of strip clubs again and how it used to be similar in this area. A place where lots of clean girls are still enthusiastic about draining your balls and leaving you with a smile on your face. The only bad news is that you eventually have to leave Hotlanta and come back to the stark reality of the "Druggie No Fun Zone" in Cincy-Dayton and become depressed again.

[TMeister]

Maybe I need a trip out of country for a couple of months to feel alive again. I'm just not feeling enthusiastic about our local talent. Dayton or Cincinnati wise. If that doesn't work. Maybe I just need electro shock therapy.

Read my recent review of Follies strip club in the Dayton section. I know it's way down in Atlanta but definitely worth the visit if you're ever there, or possibly as a special trip in itself (by air or car).

Follies will make you believe in the magic of strip clubs again and how it used to be similar in this area. A place where lots of clean girls are still enthusiastic about draining your balls and leaving you with a smile on your face. The only bad news is that you eventually have to leave Hotlanta and come back to the stark reality of the "Druggie No Fun Zone" in Cincy-Dayton and become depressed again.

[BTBear]

They all should turn off their phone when with a client.

Or at least put it in silent.

It wasn't toward you, just in general. Was with a new girl over the weekend and a few people kept blowing up the phone. She just kinda looked frustrated by the whole situation because it was like they didn't get the hint. I'm the same as you, usually stay with one that I enjoy spending time with. If we go our separate ways I go back to the drawing board. I've been lucky that most are long term.

Hope you find your next regular dream.

[LuckyNutz]

I up until recently have had a steady and reliable few regulars. I don't play around.

Things change years seeing them, so back to the grind.

I text one time, inquire as to whether outcall or rate if not posted. That's it. In terms of any issues with ladies, never a problem or complaint. Just a normal dude, and treat them correctly.

It wasn't toward you, just in general. Was with a new girl over the weekend and a few people kept blowing up the phone. She just kinda looked frustrated by the whole situation because it was like they didn't get the hint. I'm the same as you, usually stay with one that I enjoy spending time with. If we go our separate ways I go back to the drawing board. I've been lucky that most are long term.

Hope you find your next regular dream.

[TennVols77]

I use to do overnights in California before moving to Houston / Lexington where I spend my year nowadays. But I've seen guys that will text 4-5 times within an hour and have the girl just say, "I'm just not going to deal with that. That means they are inpatient and not really willing to wait. Especially if I require references for my safety. Also, guys call if they don't a response. " So how much is too much texting from the monger if he hasn't received a return text?

Just one comment as well, if the lady isn't willing to respond to your text it might be due to her already doing her research on you or that she isn't seeing anyone that day. The worse is calling after not getting a text unless you know the girl and have seen her multiple times and has given you the okay.

Not trying to white knight, but girls do talk to one another on occasion. Its possible they share how you are with them.

I up until recently have had a steady and reliable few regulars. I don't play around.

Things change years seeing them, so back to the grind.

I text one time, inquire as to whether outcall or rate if not posted. That's it. In terms of any issues with ladies, never a problem or complaint. Just a normal dude, and treat them correctly.