Rants, Raves and Opinions AKA "The Octagon"

**Absinthed** · 07-27-20 15:16

Originally Posted by WhereDreamsGo [View Original Post]

The management has a preference for eyeballs and a distinct displeasure with anyone trying to discourage newbies in any way. Since they do it free, outside me having to dodge some really awful advertising, I figure that's their prerogative. I've actually grown a lot more patient with newcomers over the years. In general, I'm hesitant to give much free info to all the lurkers and newbies around here, but will share more privately with true contributors. And I don't actually blame anyone for having trouble navigating the search function or the often obscure lingo here. It's a learning process, and if they're not obnoxious about it, I feel like they deserve some help, or at least tolerance.

Just as an FYI for anyone new: If you've got trouble figuring out what an acronym stands for, Google probably has your answer to this, in addition to most other things.

Ok I am not a newbie but what the hell is AM?

**WhereDreamsGo** · 07-27-20 14:56

Originally Posted by Twisted69 [View Original Post]

I seriously think there needs to be an entrance test to gain full access to the site! Here's the answers to most frequently asked questions, here's the list of abbreviations, here's the hot zone routes if you are cruising, here's how you do a search. So many newbies are asking the lamest and laziest f at #$ing questions! Not that it matters, but I read the forum for several years before making a post. There is plenty of info, if one would just take the time to read. Oh now I see the problem, it takes effort!

The management has a preference for eyeballs and a distinct displeasure with anyone trying to discourage newbies in any way. Since they do it free, outside me having to dodge some really awful advertising, I figure that's their prerogative. I've actually grown a lot more patient with newcomers over the years. In general, I'm hesitant to give much free info to all the lurkers and newbies around here, but will share more privately with true contributors. And I don't actually blame anyone for having trouble navigating the search function or the often obscure lingo here. It's a learning process, and if they're not obnoxious about it, I feel like they deserve some help, or at least tolerance.

Just as an FYI for anyone new: If you've got trouble figuring out what an acronym stands for, Google probably has your answer to this, in addition to most other things.

**Irl Fan** · 07-27-20 13:07

If you are halfway decent looking (I'm not Brad Pitt by any stretch) not a creep and are willing to be patient, you'll have pretty good success on AM. Just be sure you and she are on the same page as far as discretion goes.

Originally Posted by PaiMei [View Original Post]

FWB all the way. Only money I spend is on hotels and AM subscription. They charge dudes per message, ladies play for free, so the game is getting them over to kik ASAP. 1/3 off activities happen in back seats. My success rate of getting girls interested and over to kik or snap is like 5-10%. I've banged maybe a 1/4 of those. Tenacity helps. I've received a few DMs about it. Happy to answer any questions there. Of course It's not for everybody and YMMV.

**DoctorAl** · 07-27-20 12:56

OK my turn to be ignorant and chastised Escort Babylon Where is the contact information?

Thanks.

Originally Posted by Twisted69 [View Original Post]

I seriously think there needs to be an entrance test to gain full access to the site! Here's the answers to most frequently asked questions, here's the list of abbreviations, here's the hot zone routes if you are cruising, here's how you do a search. So many newbies are asking the lamest and laziest f at #$ing questions! Not that it matters, but I read the forum for several years before making a post. There is plenty of info, if one would just take the time to read. Oh now I see the problem, it takes effort!

**PaiMei** · 07-27-20 11:13

Originally Posted by TheDaytimer [View Original Post]

So are these FWB or paid dates?

FWB all the way. Only money I spend is on hotels and AM subscription. They charge dudes per message, ladies play for free, so the game is getting them over to kik ASAP. 1/3 off activities happen in back seats. My success rate of getting girls interested and over to kik or snap is like 5-10%. I've banged maybe a 1/4 of those. Tenacity helps. I've received a few DMs about it. Happy to answer any questions there. Of course It's not for everybody and YMMV.

**Twisted69** · 07-26-20 22:34

I seriously think there needs to be an entrance test to gain full access to the site! Here's the answers to most frequently asked questions, here's the list of abbreviations, here's the hot zone routes if you are cruising, here's how you do a search. So many newbies are asking the lamest and laziest f at #$ing questions! Not that it matters, but I read the forum for several years before making a post. There is plenty of info, if one would just take the time to read. Oh now I see the problem, it takes effort!

**TheDaytimer** · 07-26-20 15:02

Originally Posted by PaiMei [View Original Post]

I'm fucking 3 chicks from AM right now. It's sort of unbelievable; supply may be covid related?? Over the last couple years I've always had 1 dangling around but 3 is surprising. You have to put in some time (lots of fun sexting too) and be clever about how you present yourself -pics and shit, but man it can really pay off. I got THEE best BJ from this hot, dark haired wifey last week. Total GFE. Hungrily swallowed it all in the backseat of her Lexus SUV at Kenwood Mall. Anyone else going this route?

Happy Hunting! -cpm.

So are these FWB or paid dates?

**IlvblckGrls** · 07-26-20 10:17

Originally Posted by HillbillyBob [View Original Post]

I hate change. If its not broken don't change it Just my 2 cents.

Seems broken to me.

**Hillbilly Bob** · 07-25-20 18:59

Originally Posted by IlvblckGrls [View Original Post]

After travelling and visiting the forum for other cities, I've learned the strands are not standardized. There are different forum topics in different cities. Since the Cincinnati one is designed for the way things were a couple years back, should we push for an update to our forums? You know, so they clearly align to different sources. One for EB, one for Tryst, things like that?

Anyone else with me? LOL.

I hate change. If its not broken don't change it Just my 2 cents.

**WhereDreamsGo** · 07-25-20 15:02

Originally Posted by LakersFan29 [View Original Post]

Sorry, I didn't fully read your report. So within a week she's out of a phone again. Wow!

If she's the one I'm thinking of -- apartment in Covedale where she lives and works with her mom -- I think I've got current digits. I've got to admit, while I've had fun, I haven't seen her since before the pandemic. Covedale is one of the hotter Covid-19 hot spots in the city, and ole Brit is pretty upfront about advertising BBFS. She does seem a lot like a disease waiting to happen.

**WhereDreamsGo** · 07-25-20 14:59

Originally Posted by IlvblckGrls [View Original Post]

After travelling and visiting the forum for other cities, I've learned the strands are not standardized. There are different forum topics in different cities. Since the Cincinnati one is designed for the way things were a couple years back, should we push for an update to our forums? You know, so they clearly align to different sources. One for EB, one for Tryst, things like that?

Anyone else with me? LOL.

I don't know how to do it, but the threads are a mess here at this point.

**PaiMei** · 07-25-20 12:35

I'm fucking 3 chicks from AM right now. It's sort of unbelievable; supply may be covid related?? Over the last couple years I've always had 1 dangling around but 3 is surprising. You have to put in some time (lots of fun sexting too) and be clever about how you present yourself -pics and shit, but man it can really pay off. I got THEE best BJ from this hot, dark haired wifey last week. Total GFE. Hungrily swallowed it all in the backseat of her Lexus SUV at Kenwood Mall. Anyone else going this route?

Happy Hunting! -cpm.

**IlvblckGrls** · 07-25-20 11:39

After travelling and visiting the forum for other cities, I've learned the strands are not standardized. There are different forum topics in different cities. Since the Cincinnati one is designed for the way things were a couple years back, should we push for an update to our forums? You know, so they clearly align to different sources. One for EB, one for Tryst, things like that?

Anyone else with me? LOL.