Rants, Raves and Opinions AKA "The Octagon"

[Bedtime Story]

You'd be better off working on yourself so you attract a better caliber of woman for your next LTR. Sounds like you're one of those guys that needs to be in one of those or you get lost.

To be honest, this made me slow down and perform a reality check. Nope, definitely not interested in another LTR. This has made several for me. On the other hand it's not going to suck itself. I'm looking for more than knock, knock, see ya. Not wired that way. But absolutely do not want another LTR. Seems like everything changes when the commitment starts. Yep, that's the way I see it. I really do think about what people say even if I don't agree with them, but I'm a jarhead and opinionated. I guess I owe you one for getting me to stop for a second and reality check.

Bedtime Story.

[BTBear]

Even worse is so many golf courses wanting a credit card to make a tee time.

The big difference is the golf course won't NCNS you. Also the reviews on sites like Golf Now are actually true.

[Bedtime Story]

Anyone else been having trouble logging into the forums? Over the last few weeks, my success rate has been about 50/50, on both phone and PC. The forum will kick back with a claim that I'm not connected to the internet, even though I clearly am. Either that, or it just hangs up and nothing happens. I also often encounter the pages not loading properly on the phone, and everything looking like squares or incomplete loads. I know. . . It's free, so why complain? Just saying, is all.

Yes, but it is when they do the automated serer back ups. When they start one usually can't log back in for a few hours.

[DaddioDoc]

Talking about his 1st experience with a Black chick. It was hilarious, but one of the funnier lines was about the 1st time he went down on her and saw the promised land. He said he made a bit of a surprised noise, and she asked him what was wrong. He said, "NOTHING!, Nothing is wrong, it's just that. It looks like a perfectly cooked steak. " Which he said made him want to taste it even more. I had never thought of it in those terms, but it's actually true now that I do. LOL.

[DaddioDoc]

I feel ya brother! Josie ruined me for most others. I know there were a lot of reports of her being difficult to schedule with, but I never had any issues with it. She responded the 1st time I ever texted her and our 1st experience was the next day right on time. After that, never had a problem getting a date (with a couple of exceptions when her medical condition interfered), but that wasn't that often.

Man she was hot, always fresh and had a FULL menu, and we had a good chemistry. Unless I had time constraints that caused me to need to leave by a certain time, our sessions ALWAYS lasted pretty much as long as I was willing to stay. Many times, she went for a 2nd pop in the 2nd hour without my even asking. And for the donation she asked for, I actually felt guilty about it. I tried tipping her generously a couple of times and she refused, so I just started leaving it on the dresser without her seeing it. She was a bargain at twice the price. REALLY miss that one!

I was looking through my posts, and I don't think I've seen someone besides Thalia since last September. I just got to a point where no one could ever live up to the way she makes me feel. So, I think I'm "settling down," so to speak. I don't really get out much recently, but when I do, it's only to see her.

I guess I was just curious if any other guys have had "relationships" like that. Where you just can't find anyone else as amazing, so you just kind of settle in to one girl. LOL.

[Hillbilly Bob]

Anyone else been having trouble logging into the forums? Over the last few weeks, my success rate has been about 50/50, on both phone and PC. The forum will kick back with a claim that I'm not connected to the internet, even though I clearly am. Either that, or it just hangs up and nothing happens. I also often encounter the pages not loading properly on the phone, and everything looking like squares or incomplete loads. I know. . . It's free, so why complain? Just saying, is all.

Not had any problems getting on the forum here.

[Gonz199]

Anyone else been having trouble logging into the forums? Over the last few weeks, my success rate has been about 50/50, on both phone and PC. The forum will kick back with a claim that I'm not connected to the internet, even though I clearly am. Either that, or it just hangs up and nothing happens. I also often encounter the pages not loading properly on the phone, and everything looking like squares or incomplete loads. I know. . . It's free, so why complain? Just saying, is all.

[Bedtime Story]

When you were bearing your soul and heartache over in the "Monger ISO" section, the focus of my reply was getting you to put your guard back up. So your life doesn't go from bad to worse. All these assumptions you're making about how I treat these girls based on how I described them are wrong. Sorry to disappoint, but I'm not going to return the favor and sling unfounded accusations back at you.

My parting advice is to try not to jerk off too much here in the 'octagon. ' You'd be better off working on yourself so you attract a better caliber of woman for your next LTR. Sounds like you're one of those guys that needs to be in one of those or you get lost.

Well I don't know you, all I have to go on is what you say. If I have truly misjudged you then I am wrong and man enough to say it. Bearing my soul is a lit strong, maybe. Understand that I am opinionated. What we do can only be determined by what we say and our actions. I know that there are girls that read our stuff anonymously on here. (I have asked), Most of them don't want to deal with us by how critical our opinions are of them. With out them our hobby dies. Without us their lively hood ends. We need each other for either to exist. Hard to have a good give and take without at least a little kindness going both ways. There will always be some bad apples on both sides, but we truly are coexistent. We need to be able to at least communicate better if it will evr get better. They need to separate themselves from the rip-offs and bad actors before they lose all their business because of it. We need to communicate our findings honestly but with regard to the fact that they are human beings also. I don't care who you are if you startout being offensive in your communication the issue right or wrong is dead before it ever gets started.

So if I was to harsh and judgmental I apologize Sir. But we need to turn this stuff around on both sides before there is no more hobby left for any of us. We can review honestly, just with a little tact. I relly do appreciate everybody on this forum for their concern for my vulnerability in what I'm trying to do. I have learned some lessons the hard way. But sometimes that is the best way because they are remembered the longest. I have had some girls reach out to me from my post so yes they are on here watching. I have had many members here pm me with guidance and direction on my path. Even had some interesting offers come from it that I didn't ask for but find very interesting. Awaiting more details from the pm about he potential offer (you know who you are) and eagerly await in anticipation of more details. There are some very good people on here and a few bad. If we can be a little more tactful even with our bad reviews it could help turn this around for all of us. We are all human and respond to each other's opinions good and bad.

So summary, Mr PearishBA, I apologize if I was to rash or quick to judgement. But please look at your / our comments from both sides if we want to maintain our hobby.

Girls same goes for you, it takes both of us to make it work.

My pm potential offer, your killing me with anticipation, LOL. But Daddy like so far.

I have seen a couple of participants to take up the challenge and need to report my findings so far. This is actually getting more response than what I have anticipated. Happy with the progress so far. Catch a lot more bees with honey than bitterness. Happy Hunting.

Bedtime Story.

[Vinnie Kramer]

Even worse is so many golf courses wanting a credit card to make a tee time.

WTF With all these girls who have been around for a while asking for booking fees.

[PearishBA]

There used to be a thread on here called the octagon. Admin, where did the octagon go? I will post this one time here good sir, then to the octagon. Admin I'm trying here.

First off,

Wow, looked in a mirror lately dude. The cold hard truth is that we all are feeding our habits and decisions. The difference is being man enough to stand and admit our faults before we pass judgement on others. I have met many of these girls that are real. Most have very bad habits that they are trying to deal with but have failures. No one decides that one day they will wake up and become a drug addict or sex addict or any kind of addict. Sure this wasn't a career decision taught in school. If you would have been through a lot of the things that happened to them where would you be right now. I've seen a lot of strong men in bad situations fail under the pressure of life. You are part of the problem with all this. So quick to judge, but it's all good as long as they will suck your dick or let you bust a nut, then their dirty little thieving ******. It's all good, I appreciate these girls. If it wasn't for them I would be in prison or worse. Most are really scared little girls that are doing the best they can on their own not all, but most. You put them down, call them names, and get mad when they rip you off, or ghost you. I've been through a lot of shit in my life. But some of the shit that has happened to some of these girls I don't know that I could handle as well as they have. Their survivor's. I can wake up and look in the mirror every morning and deal with the judgements that I have passed, but only when looking through the lens of my mistakes in this life. How do you do it? The things they do that takes advantage of you, who is really letting who take advantage here. Big boy pants dude big boy pants.

There the gauntlet is thrown down, Are you not entertained? To the octagon. Admin please. I don't want to fill this thread with all this when others are trying to use it for its intended purpose. Open the octagon and let the games begin. Bedtime Story. Mic drop.

When you were bearing your soul and heartache over in the "Monger ISO" section, the focus of my reply was getting you to put your guard back up. So your life doesn't go from bad to worse. All these assumptions you're making about how I treat these girls based on how I described them are wrong. Sorry to disappoint, but I'm not going to return the favor and sling unfounded accusations back at you.

My parting advice is to try not to jerk off too much here in the 'octagon. ' You'd be better off working on yourself so you attract a better caliber of woman for your next LTR. Sounds like you're one of those guys that needs to be in one of those or you get lost.

[RogerOver]

There used to be a thread on here called the octagon. Admin, where did the octagon go? I will post this one time here good sir, then to the octagon. Admin I'm trying here.

First off,

Wow, looked in a mirror lately dude. The cold hard truth is that we all are feeding our habits and decisions. The difference is being man enough to stand and admit our faults before we pass judgement on others. I have met many of these girls that are real. Most have very bad habits that they are trying to deal with but have failures. No one decides that one day they will wake up and become a drug addict or sex addict or any kind of addict. Sure this wasn't a career decision taught in school. If you would have been through a lot of the things that happened to them where would you be right now. I've seen a lot of strong men in bad situations fail under the pressure of life. You are part of the problem with all this. So quick to judge, but it's all good as long as they will suck your dick or let you bust a nut, then their dirty little thieving ******. It's all good, I appreciate these girls. If it wasn't for them I would be in prison or worse. Most are really scared little girls that are doing the best they can on their own not all, but most. You put them down, call them names, and get mad when they rip you off, or ghost you. I've been through a lot of shit in my life. But some of the shit that has happened to some of these girls I don't know that I could handle as well as they have. Their survivor's. I can wake up and look in the mirror every morning and deal with the judgements that I have passed, but only when looking through the lens of my mistakes in this life. How do you do it? The things they do that takes advantage of you, who is really letting who take advantage here. Big boy pants dude big boy pants.

There the gauntlet is thrown down, Are you not entertained? To the octagon. Admin please. I don't want to fill this thread with all this when others are trying to use it for its intended purpose. Open the octagon and let the games begin. Bedtime Story. Mic drop.

Don't you need to go hit a closet or booth to change into Capt'and Save-A-Ho? Jesus. I can see why your relationships don't work out. You appear to be a stepping stone to something better.

[Absinthed]

WTF With all these girls who have been around for a while asking for booking fees.

[PaiMei]

Find a hot, sex-crazed married woman wanting to have an affair and fuck my brains out for free? Egad! Now why hadn't I thought of that before?

Exactly. Why haven't you. Go get them cowboy.

[Gonz199]

. . . Try to get yourself a repressed housewife or 2! . . .

Find a hot, sex-crazed married woman wanting to have an affair and fuck my brains out for free? Egad! Now why hadn't I thought of that before?

[PaiMei]

I was looking through my posts, and I don't think I've seen someone besides Thalia since last September. I just got to a point where no one could ever live up to the way she makes me feel. So, I think I'm "settling down," so to speak. I don't really get out much recently, but when I do, it's only to see her.

I guess I was just curious if any other guys have had "relationships" like that. Where you just can't find anyone else as amazing, so you just kind of settle in to one girl. LOL.

There really ain't much out ther that's worth a shit, at least in my price range. Try to get yourself a repressed housewife or 2! I feel like I've somewhat "settled" (evolved may be better word) on cheating housewives and Tinder girls doing poly or just wanting NSA FWB. They're out there. Generally much better experience than hookers anyway, always very GFE and more often than not PSE. Hot, safe, sane, clean, put together. Not sure if I'll ever go back, but probably will here and there because I'm a ****. Have had my eyes on that Green eye Hannah girl. She's bangin, but my needs are being fulfilled for now and she only does outcall and no BBBJ, boo. And I seriously doubt she'd let me do half of what these horny housewives are letting me do. Tons of kissin, sloppy gagging deepthroatn' and cream pies galore (I'm fixed). Go get ya some!