Sugar Sites. Secret Benefits, WYP, Etc. Not Seeking or SA

**BearsBuddy** · 02-26-24 17:14

Originally Posted by BearsBuddy [View Original Post]

Never heard of HS. Thanks for all of the advice.

Never mind. I reread the thread. Thanks again for the advice.

**BearsBuddy** · 02-26-24 08:27

Originally Posted by BamBam [View Original Post]

To save you all some time here are the tips that SM and HS have posted in the past:

From SM: "SB requires a fair amount of patience. You have to understand that there's a metric fuckload of fake accounts so knowing how to spot them is the difference in spending all the site currency on nothing vs actually engaging with the real ones. Check the profile, if the bottom section only has the bare minimum requirements, I think three responses odds are it's not real. Don't ever message first and don't open messages from accounts who haven't viewed your profile. You can like and request private photos without spending anything and it's what I do, if they check your profile out normally they'll message you and I evaluate from that point if the person is worth spending the coins on or not. But don't waste money on private photos, get the conversation off the site as quickly as you can as well. ".

From HS: "I will ad. I start out in the search. If I see someone I click on the heart. Shows my interest. I click a lot of hearts. From there follow Secret's method. Once we are talking, I ask if there are into mutual benefits or pay to play, something along this line. A lot will ghost me at this point. If not, then get them off the site. Once off I don't beat around the Bush. Afterall dating is not what I'm after. I find out their real name and number and try to vet. Find out if they are a provider. I will never pay for a date without sex and a lot will leave because of that. I went out on a few dates without paying and about half were a waste of time and the money I spent on the food. The other half ended up back at my house. I paid 200 for a couple but now tell them my limit is 150. These girls are not providers. They have been giving out unskilled sex to guys who bust a nut in under a minute. For the most part I am done with them after a couple of visits because I become bored with them. Still looking for that diamond in the rough. I had a SB for 3 1/2 years and I'd like to have another. By the way if you follow these guidelines, it is really cheap to be on here. I think I've only spent like 250 on the credits. It may seem like a lot of work but if you want UTR 20-year old's then you may have to put in the time. ".

"SB requires a fair amount of patience. You have to understand that there's a metric fuckload of fake accounts so knowing how to spot them is the difference in spending all the site currency on nothing vs actually engaging with the real ones. Check the profile, if the bottom section only has the bare minimum requirements, I think three responses odds are it's not real. Don't ever message first and don't open messages from accounts who haven't viewed your profile. You can like and request private photos without spending anything and it's what I do, if they check your profile out normally they'll message you and I evaluate from that point if the person is worth spending the coins on or not. But don't waste money on private photos, get the conversation off the site as quickly as you can as well. ".

This is all good advice on how to avoid wasting credits on the site. The real trick is closing the deal after you find the ones that are real and will engage/meet.

BAM

Never heard of HS. Thanks for all of the advice.

**Boosted1** · 02-25-24 15:28

Post her user name so thers don't go through the same BS.

LOL, or share her number and we can f with her!

Originally Posted by Scrub868 [View Original Post]

I got kicked off after getting a girls phone number and texting off site. She asked my what I wanted and gave me a way high price. I declined and she got really bitchy with me. I made a rude response and that ***** sent them screen shots of our off site messages and got me booted.

**Scrub868** · 02-25-24 14:58

Originally Posted by RickMann [View Original Post]

You need a new email and cc to get back on SA happened to me don't report anyone and be careful what you say onsite. Get them to the phone asap and text the details. Ask for a nude and if they want money move on!

I got kicked off after getting a girls phone number and texting off site. She asked my what I wanted and gave me a way high price. I declined and she got really bitchy with me. I made a rude response and that ***** sent them screen shots of our off site messages and got me booted.

**BamBam** · 02-02-24 16:04

To save you all some time here are the tips that SM and HS have posted in the past:

From SM: "SB requires a fair amount of patience. You have to understand that there's a metric fuckload of fake accounts so knowing how to spot them is the difference in spending all the site currency on nothing vs actually engaging with the real ones. Check the profile, if the bottom section only has the bare minimum requirements, I think three responses odds are it's not real. Don't ever message first and don't open messages from accounts who haven't viewed your profile. You can like and request private photos without spending anything and it's what I do, if they check your profile out normally they'll message you and I evaluate from that point if the person is worth spending the coins on or not. But don't waste money on private photos, get the conversation off the site as quickly as you can as well. ".

From HS: "I will ad. I start out in the search. If I see someone I click on the heart. Shows my interest. I click a lot of hearts. From there follow Secret's method. Once we are talking, I ask if there are into mutual benefits or pay to play, something along this line. A lot will ghost me at this point. If not, then get them off the site. Once off I don't beat around the Bush. Afterall dating is not what I'm after. I find out their real name and number and try to vet. Find out if they are a provider. I will never pay for a date without sex and a lot will leave because of that. I went out on a few dates without paying and about half were a waste of time and the money I spent on the food. The other half ended up back at my house. I paid 200 for a couple but now tell them my limit is 150. These girls are not providers. They have been giving out unskilled sex to guys who bust a nut in under a minute. For the most part I am done with them after a couple of visits because I become bored with them. Still looking for that diamond in the rough. I had a SB for 3 1/2 years and I'd like to have another. By the way if you follow these guidelines, it is really cheap to be on here. I think I've only spent like 250 on the credits. It may seem like a lot of work but if you want UTR 20-year old's then you may have to put in the time. ".

"SB requires a fair amount of patience. You have to understand that there's a metric fuckload of fake accounts so knowing how to spot them is the difference in spending all the site currency on nothing vs actually engaging with the real ones. Check the profile, if the bottom section only has the bare minimum requirements, I think three responses odds are it's not real. Don't ever message first and don't open messages from accounts who haven't viewed your profile. You can like and request private photos without spending anything and it's what I do, if they check your profile out normally they'll message you and I evaluate from that point if the person is worth spending the coins on or not. But don't waste money on private photos, get the conversation off the site as quickly as you can as well. ".

This is all good advice on how to avoid wasting credits on the site. The real trick is closing the deal after you find the ones that are real and will engage/meet.

BAM

**BamBam** · 02-02-24 15:48

Originally Posted by HornySenior [View Original Post]

I've been posting about my experiences since this thread started. Given plenty of advice. Nay sayers still abound but I have a lot of success. If you go back to the beginning of this thread and read some of my posts, you'll she I shared plenty. Try #28 and # 39. Also read the posts from Secretmenu. If all else fails PM me and I'll send a detailed process that works for me.

Looking at your post history, you started posting a little before January of 2023. That's a little over a year. Also, didn't you post something like this: "No way that girl is fucking you for $150." This in response to someone who actually posted a picture of the girl he was pursuing.

"Not sure what you guys are doing but I have had 6 girls that I have fucked for less than 200." "For the most part I am done with them after a couple of visits because I become bored with them." And yet, you are never sharing the ones you have finished with.

Extraordinary claims require extraordinary proof. More experienced sugar daddies are seeing rates far different than what you claim. You may be a prodigy but the one *known* prodigy is HollywoodGuy who used to teach his approach. He routinely got chicks for under $100 and could post links and pictures. Even he is not finding anything under 200. I am not trying to start a pissing contest but other people reading this thread should not be misled or disappointed to find they cannot duplicate your success.

BAM

**RickMann** · 02-02-24 12:11

Originally Posted by HornySenior [View Original Post]

I've been posting about my experiences since this thread started. Given plenty of advice. Nay sayers still abound but I have a lot of success. If you go back to the beginning of this thread and read some of my posts, you'll she I shared plenty. Try #28 and # 39. Also read the posts from Secretmenu. If all else fails PM me and I'll send a detailed process that works for me.

Not trying to bust chops 200 is a fair price but right now they are asking 4/500.

**Homebrewerguy** · 02-02-24 12:08

Originally Posted by BamBam [View Original Post]

Not entirely useless. Now we know that he has a preference for the kind of women most of us have no interest in or that he is "cock blocking" trying to reduce the competition for women above the 200 price point.

Nobody is ever entirely worthless: some just serve as a negative example.

BAM.

HornySenior is a valued contributor to this site. I don't see how his post could be viewed negatively. I see it as a positive that there is value out there if you put in the effort. Having a significant other, I can't play at that level, but I appreciate his contributions.

**HornySenior** · 02-02-24 07:57

Originally Posted by Prinohb [View Original Post]

Thanks for bragging but not sharing anything useful.

I've been posting about my experiences since this thread started. Given plenty of advice. Nay sayers still abound but I have a lot of success. If you go back to the beginning of this thread and read some of my posts, you'll she I shared plenty. Try #28 and # 39. Also read the posts from Secretmenu. If all else fails PM me and I'll send a detailed process that works for me.

**RickMann** · 02-02-24 07:24

Originally Posted by HornySenior [View Original Post]

Been knocking it dead lately. More than I can handle. Saw one for the 3rd time yesterday. She turned 21 last week. New one coming over tomorrow. Passing on anyone who wants more than 200.

Thats 2017 prices LOL can you give an example of who is 200?

**BamBam** · 02-01-24 13:00

Originally Posted by Prinohb [View Original Post]

Thanks for bragging but not sharing anything useful.

Not entirely useless. Now we know that he has a preference for the kind of women most of us have no interest in or that he is "cock blocking" trying to reduce the competition for women above the 200 price point.

Nobody is ever entirely worthless: some just serve as a negative example.

BAM.

**Prinohb** · 02-01-24 11:13

Originally Posted by HornySenior [View Original Post]

Been knocking it dead lately. More than I can handle. Saw one for the 3rd time yesterday. She turned 21 last week. New one coming over tomorrow. Passing on anyone who wants more than 200.

Thanks for bragging but not sharing anything useful.

**HornySenior** · 02-01-24 06:51

Been knocking it dead lately. More than I can handle. Saw one for the 3rd time yesterday. She turned 21 last week. New one coming over tomorrow. Passing on anyone who wants more than 200.

**Columbus Dave** · 01-15-24 16:21

Originally Posted by BearsBuddy [View Original Post]

Yea, that's her. Wasn't my best experience.

She is cute but not the most fun.

**RickMann** · 01-13-24 19:25

Originally Posted by HartBr43 [View Original Post]

Have you reached out to her? I'm curious if she is back. Seems like she is back from CA or got fired and came back. I'm just annoyed I fronted her to help her out and my payback was for her to ignore me. Her head isn't right. She was 260. I always gave her 3. Go figure, I turned into a bad client somehow. Got me. She also got a VRBO. The one time because she was reliable, I gave her money for the VRBO and was on the way when she cancel upon arrival for sickness. Make it up to me in two days. Nope.

No hard pass I just don't want to see others overpay as a SD if she is escorting for less.