CuddleComfort

[LuccaMac]

Regarding cuddling attire, I always go for a tank top and short. Now, depending on the vibe I get from the cuddler, I may freeball but I only if I feel very clearly that the session might turn frisky.

DO NOT talk about anything against the rules in writing with a prospective cuddler, that's the quickest way to get the banhammer smashed on your head. Now if they mention a skin to skin option when cuddling on their profile, it should be safe to inquire but still, be careful with that. After you've established a rapport with a cuddler and have moved things completely off CC, those topics are fair game I think.

The way I approach my sessions is by going in with low expectations. What I want is pleasant cuddling, anything beyond that is gravy. Regarding the touching, it varies but I let the ladies guide the proceedings by mirroring the area they touch me. If she slides her hand under my shirt, I take that as permission to do the same while staying away from their tits and pussy. I also check-in often to make sure that they are okay with whatever I am doing. Regarding the breast, I have two approaches. If they have a bra on, I don't touch them until they take it off or put my hands on them, can't get more explicit of a permission than that, LOL. If they are braless, I might graze the underboobs when my hands is rubbing their belly, or tease the nipple area OTC and see how they react. If she basically hugs my face into her cleavage, I may try uncovering a breast with my mouth.

I don't get anywhere near the lady's bits until I've gotten the green light on the boobs and even then I keep things OTC until it looks like they are very clearly into it and basically grinding against my hand / fingers. If we are face to face I don't draw attention to my penis until they touch it themselves. If we are spooning, if she doesn't react to my dick getting hard, I don't proceed until she pushes against it. And I just keep going with the flow. If she allows me to play with her pussy OTC, I slide my hands in her pants over her panties and do the same, if she responsive to that, I proceed with direct skin contact. I basically keep escalating while making sure that she is onboard with what's happening and is enjoying it. I've gotten HJs, BJs, dry humping session, FS offers and actual FS (went through with it once and I didn't like it) for my trouble so I must be doing something right, LOL.

If the goal was to solely get my dick wet, I have pretty reliable options around. I am there for a chill experience that can turn extremely sensual but still remains relaxed.

My advice for anyone wanting to give it a shot is to go in with low expectations, to not be a horny douchebag and to go with the flow. Do not take this as a cheaper way to get laid than booking an escort. Escorts using CC as a way to get more customers are definitely around but you will be paying for those non-CC extras.

This is a great write up. I feel if everyone deployed these tactics then the chance for extras multiplies. Thanks for these thoughts.

LM.

[MrNCbob]

Regarding cuddling attire, I always go for a tank top and short. Now, depending on the vibe I get from the cuddler, I may freeball but I only if I feel very clearly that the session might turn frisky.

DO NOT talk about anything against the rules in writing with a prospective cuddler, that's the quickest way to get the banhammer smashed on your head. Now if they mention a skin to skin option when cuddling on their profile, it should be safe to inquire but still, be careful with that. After you've established a rapport with a cuddler and have moved things completely off CC, those topics are fair game I think...

This was exactly what I was looking for, very helpful. Thank you. I may give it a try. If anyone has recommendations, please PM.

[Galleon]

So are we both in undergarments only? Assuming it's a regular session with no extras, what is the baseline amount of touching.

Are you guys offering more for extras or how does that conversation typically go? Ask for their number and broach the topic that way? Or what is the approach you guys have found successful?

Regarding cuddling attire, I always go for a tank top and short. Now, depending on the vibe I get from the cuddler, I may freeball but I only if I feel very clearly that the session might turn frisky.

DO NOT talk about anything against the rules in writing with a prospective cuddler, that's the quickest way to get the banhammer smashed on your head. Now if they mention a skin to skin option when cuddling on their profile, it should be safe to inquire but still, be careful with that. After you've established a rapport with a cuddler and have moved things completely off CC, those topics are fair game I think.

The way I approach my sessions is by going in with low expectations. What I want is pleasant cuddling, anything beyond that is gravy. Regarding the touching, it varies but I let the ladies guide the proceedings by mirroring the area they touch me. If she slides her hand under my shirt, I take that as permission to do the same while staying away from their tits and pussy. I also check-in often to make sure that they are okay with whatever I am doing. Regarding the breast, I have two approaches. If they have a bra on, I don't touch them until they take it off or put my hands on them, can't get more explicit of a permission than that, LOL. If they are braless, I might graze the underboobs when my hands is rubbing their belly, or tease the nipple area OTC and see how they react. If she basically hugs my face into her cleavage, I may try uncovering a breast with my mouth.

I don't get anywhere near the lady's bits until I've gotten the green light on the boobs and even then I keep things OTC until it looks like they are very clearly into it and basically grinding against my hand / fingers. If we are face to face I don't draw attention to my penis until they touch it themselves. If we are spooning, if she doesn't react to my dick getting hard, I don't proceed until she pushes against it. And I just keep going with the flow. If she allows me to play with her pussy OTC, I slide my hands in her pants over her panties and do the same, if she responsive to that, I proceed with direct skin contact. I basically keep escalating while making sure that she is onboard with what's happening and is enjoying it. I've gotten HJs, BJs, dry humping session, FS offers and actual FS (went through with it once and I didn't like it) for my trouble so I must be doing something right, LOL.

If the goal was to solely get my dick wet, I have pretty reliable options around. I am there for a chill experience that can turn extremely sensual but still remains relaxed.

My advice for anyone wanting to give it a shot is to go in with low expectations, to not be a horny douchebag and to go with the flow. Do not take this as a cheaper way to get laid than booking an escort. Escorts using CC as a way to get more customers are definitely around but you will be paying for those non-CC extras.

[TheCondor7]

It honestly just depends on the vibe. Be sweet, don't be creepy or weird. Have a natural and genuine conversation and that could score you some points. I've had simple platonic cuddles, I've gotten HJs, BJs, and even went all the way with no cover (because I wasn't expecting it) just because the vibes were right. Make her feel at ease and don't pressure her for anything. Go in not expecting anything and you'll be surprised at how far some sessions can go.

Do you offer more or just do a one hour, $100 appointment and let things flow?

[TheCondor7]

Are you guys offering more for extras or how does that conversation typically go? Ask for their number and broach the topic that way? Or what is the approach you guys have found successful?

[Gatttaca]

So are we both in undergarments only? Assuming it's a regular session with no extras, what is the baseline amount of touching.

Well not really. Both will be in comfortable clothing not just in your underwear. Like shorts and a T-shirt. You should be cuddling like hugging or spooning and be able to touch anywhere except the areas covered with under clothing.

[MrNCbob]

I have only seen one. She hosts and is strictly platonic. We just lay on the couch together spooning or cuddling. As per CC guidelines you ain't suppose to touch anywhere covered by under garments. So no touching directly on bikini area pretty much. You can book on the website or you can take it outside to texting. I prefer to see one that hosts or else you have to figure out a place to host. That's a risk if you book a hotel and they cancel. Even with my SB who I have been seeing past 4 years I book right before we are heading to the hotel after I see she is there in person. So I am really skeptic on booking ahead.

For extras the general consensus is you can talk it out on text or when you actually start your cuddle session. The person I saw wanted to get cash in hand right before we start the session.

So are we both in undergarments only? Assuming it's a regular session with no extras, what is the baseline amount of touching.

[TheChosenOne91]

Can anyone describe a typical cuddle session? What is definitely included and acceptable, and what extras might be available by request without insulting the provider? I would like to get a play by play description like you might find on a TER review. Starting with greeting, what each of us would be wearing, how much touch is allowed, etc.

It honestly just depends on the vibe. Be sweet, don't be creepy or weird. Have a natural and genuine conversation and that could score you some points. I've had simple platonic cuddles, I've gotten HJs, BJs, and even went all the way with no cover (because I wasn't expecting it) just because the vibes were right. Make her feel at ease and don't pressure her for anything. Go in not expecting anything and you'll be surprised at how far some sessions can go.

[Gatttaca]

Can anyone describe a typical cuddle session? What is definitely included and acceptable, and what extras might be available by request without insulting the provider? I would like to get a play by play description like you might find on a TER review. Starting with greeting, what each of us would be wearing, how much touch is allowed, etc.

I have only seen one. She hosts and is strictly platonic. We just lay on the couch together spooning or cuddling. As per CC guidelines you ain't suppose to touch anywhere covered by under garments. So no touching directly on bikini area pretty much. You can book on the website or you can take it outside to texting. I prefer to see one that hosts or else you have to figure out a place to host. That's a risk if you book a hotel and they cancel. Even with my SB who I have been seeing past 4 years I book right before we are heading to the hotel after I see she is there in person. So I am really skeptic on booking ahead.

For extras the general consensus is you can talk it out on text or when you actually start your cuddle session. The person I saw wanted to get cash in hand right before we start the session.

[MrNCbob]

Can anyone describe a typical cuddle session? What is definitely included and acceptable, and what extras might be available by request without insulting the provider? I would like to get a play by play description like you might find on a TER review. Starting with greeting, what each of us would be wearing, how much touch is allowed, etc.

[DGoldN1]

I've seen her about 4 or 5 times. When I saw her she would provide some extras if you treated her right and with respect and kinda let it happen organically.

But now I think she is dating someone so YMMV with any extras.

Would anyone have a link available?

[RandomFrankP]

I've seen her about 4 or 5 times. When I saw her she would provide some extras if you treated her right and with respect and kinda let it happen organically.

But now I think she is dating someone so YMMV with any extras.

Has anyone seen her? She seems to travel a lot between nc and sc.

[UnluckyCamper4]

Has anyone seen her? She seems to travel a lot between nc and sc.

[TheChosenOne91]

I have never seen her, but look on Tryst for Heidi King and tell me if you think it's the same provider.

I've seen MsCuddleMuffin. They are not the same person. Admission is definitely worth the price to go see her.

[YourCCPimp]

I have never seen her, but look on Tryst for Heidi King and tell me if you think it's the same provider.

Definitely not her. MsCuddleMuffin is more hispanic / black-ish.