It's like the ending of "Shane. " It's kinda left up to each of our own imaginations and interpretations. Me, I like to think he had arranged for her to be gang banged by a crowd of Oompa Loompas, while he fed her his golden ticket. Whatever it is, it probably isn't half as fucked up as some of the shit I would ask for.
On a serious note, I will no longer be getting serviced by her because I prefer not to be ripped off. And I also prefer someone who does rip off a member of this board not to have my 20 bucks.
Although not directly relevant to the actual ripoff, I'm curious as to what you wanted her to do that required so much discussion and contemplation.
It's like the ending of "Shane. " It's kinda left up to each of our own imaginations and interpretations. Me, I like to think he had arranged for her to be gang banged by a crowd of Oompa Loompas, while he fed her his golden ticket. Whatever it is, it probably isn't half as fucked up as some of the shit I would ask for.
On a serious note, I will no longer be getting serviced by her because I prefer not to be ripped off. And I also prefer someone who does rip off a member of this board not to have my 20 bucks.
Obviously the low donation should have warned me, but even the oldest and wisest among us thinks with our dick sometimes.
Communication was good, and the location was convenient, so I figured what the hell. I get there and someone opens the door. I walk in and it's a skinny black guy wearing a wig like he's a tranny. At this point I knew I was fucked. He asked for the money, and I said not until I see the girl. Then he got very belligerent, threw off his wig and said his pimp was going to come out and take care of me.
I'm pretty sure there was no pimp, and no girl for that matter. And while I was certain I could kick this guy's ass, I gave him the money. He then demanded more, but given that I'm only mostly stupid, I had nothing else on me besides my car key. Once he was convinced I had nothing else, he calmed down and left the room to "go get her. " Naturally I walked out, thankful to learn another lesson at the low, low cost of $70 and my pride. He left his wig on the floor. I didn't think about stealing it until later LOL.
After so many past successes taking one for the team, I guess I figured my judgment was impeccable. That's my last one for a while. I'm sticking with the tried and true.
I agree we all have them or at least tried some wild play I know I have things maybe we do not want to admit to our partners so a provider with no relationship is a perfect outlet for this kind of play, I have played with Domes and even couples to scratch a itch.
For at least four months we had discussions about something I wanted to try. I was never coercive. I was never demanding. I repeatedly, yes over and over and over, (in other words, repeatedly) told her to take time to think about it before saying "yes". I was very clear, very precise about what I wanted to do. I was equally clear and precise about her being able to say "no". Again, over a period of many months so zero surprises and plenty of time to say "uhhhh, no, not interested".
So what happens? Everytime I get a "yes". And several times I say "why don't we wait and you think about it some more". Finally, the Sunday before last, I get a message "I'm ready" in regards to this particular thing. We make arrangements, go to the location. I go to the bathroom and left cash in the open. I finish and walk out and she is gone. Lifted the cash as she left.
It was premeditated on her part. She had arranged for someone with a car to be there so she could seize advantage of any opportunity to run off in a hurry. It was not SOP for her to have someone with a car waiting at any other time in the past so cross that off the list.
So she got cold feet before we got going with things. That I understand 100000%. I absolutely would not have been anything but understanding and I probably would have flipped her some bills for just showing up. She knows I am not an aggressive, "un-safe" person. She ABSOLUTELY knows she has always been safe when with me. So if she had said, at the last minute, "no, I don't think I am ready" she knew there was nothing to fear from me. I would have been as much as a gentleman as possible in this whole sordid business. Remember, I told her again and again, that she could walk away, no harm, no foul.
But she didn't simply leave. First he made a decision to have someone be there and then she made the decision to pick up the cash as she left. And that is what it all boiled down to, her decision to pick up the cash as she left.
Again:
1. Months of clear, precise discussion.
2. Months of being clear about saying "no" and about being certain before saying "yes".
3. Zero aggressive, coercive behavior.
4. The premeditated decision to have someone waiting and to walk with the cash which makes this episode a "rip-off" report and not some ambiguous, vague situation with multiple perceptions and interpretations.
So that IS the FULL story.
As I indicated, I do accept her apology. She gets an "A for effort" for doing that. For me, it is really about my own stupidity as I explained in my other post.
Any further questions? Or can we put this one to bed?
Thank you Matt.
I appreciate the feedback, and clarity. I could not get the "full story" from her. I am not interested in the "lurid details", it always raises a red flag for me when someone skips the "details" of the events. I intended no disrespect, nor do I believe you need to share any intimate details. I PM you previously on this topic, please check your PM, and thank you for your response.
I would just respect Matt's wishes not to elaborate further.
However, it appears that the slag (who has been quoted as saying "You don't know the whole story") appears anxious to talk. Why not satisfy your need for the lurid details that way? I'm willing to bet that for the bargain price of an hourly donation, I. E ALL your money- she'd be willing to give you all the juicy dirt-with her very own personal spin which puts her in the best possible light, of course. May even make herself out to be the "victim" in the scenario.
Matt does not need to elaborate further. I have always respected Matt's posts and intelligent, insightful comments. I am not interested in "lurid details". Whether Matt, myself, you, or anyone else posts and "do not desire to get into the details" it always raises a red flag for me on this site and elsewhere, and I think it should be questioned. I apologize for the lack of clarity in my posts.
For at least four months we had discussions about something I wanted to try. I was never coercive. I was never demanding. I repeatedly, yes over and over and over, (in other words, repeatedly) told her to take time to think about it before saying "yes". I was very clear, very precise about what I wanted to do. I was equally clear and precise about her being able to say "no". Again, over a period of many months so zero surprises and plenty of time to say "uhhhh, no, not interested".
So what happens? Everytime I get a "yes". And several times I say "why don't we wait and you think about it some more". Finally, the Sunday before last, I get a message "I'm ready" in regards to this particular thing. We make arrangements, go to the location. I go to the bathroom and left cash in the open. I finish and walk out and she is gone. Lifted the cash as she left.
It was premeditated on her part. She had arranged for someone with a car to be there so she could seize advantage of any opportunity to run off in a hurry. It was not SOP for her to have someone with a car waiting at any other time in the past so cross that off the list.
So she got cold feet before we got going with things. That I understand 100000%. I absolutely would not have been anything but understanding and I probably would have flipped her some bills for just showing up. She knows I am not an aggressive, "un-safe" person. She ABSOLUTELY knows she has always been safe when with me. So if she had said, at the last minute, "no, I don't think I am ready" she knew there was nothing to fear from me. I would have been as much as a gentleman as possible in this whole sordid business. Remember, I told her again and again, that she could walk away, no harm, no foul.
But she didn't simply leave. First he made a decision to have someone be there and then she made the decision to pick up the cash as she left. And that is what it all boiled down to, her decision to pick up the cash as she left.
Again:
1. Months of clear, precise discussion.
2. Months of being clear about saying "no" and about being certain before saying "yes".
3. Zero aggressive, coercive behavior.
4. The premeditated decision to have someone waiting and to walk with the cash which makes this episode a "rip-off" report and not some ambiguous, vague situation with multiple perceptions and interpretations.
So that IS the FULL story.
As I indicated, I do accept her apology. She gets an "A for effort" for doing that. For me, it is really about my own stupidity as I explained in my other post.
Any further questions? Or can we put this one to bed?
Although not directly relevant to the actual ripoff, I'm curious as to what you wanted her to do that required so much discussion and contemplation.
For at least four months we had discussions about something I wanted to try. I was never coercive. I was never demanding. I repeatedly, yes over and over and over, (in other words, repeatedly) told her to take time to think about it before saying "yes". I was very clear, very precise about what I wanted to do. I was equally clear and precise about her being able to say "no". Again, over a period of many months so zero surprises and plenty of time to say "uhhhh, no, not interested".
So what happens? Everytime I get a "yes". And several times I say "why don't we wait and you think about it some more". Finally, the Sunday before last, I get a message "I'm ready" in regards to this particular thing. We make arrangements, go to the location. I go to the bathroom and left cash in the open. I finish and walk out and she is gone. Lifted the cash as she left.
It was premeditated on her part. She had arranged for someone with a car to be there so she could seize advantage of any opportunity to run off in a hurry. It was not SOP for her to have someone with a car waiting at any other time in the past so cross that off the list.
So she got cold feet before we got going with things. That I understand 100000%. I absolutely would not have been anything but understanding and I probably would have flipped her some bills for just showing up. She knows I am not an aggressive, "un-safe" person. She ABSOLUTELY knows she has always been safe when with me. So if she had said, at the last minute, "no, I don't think I am ready" she knew there was nothing to fear from me. I would have been as much as a gentleman as possible in this whole sordid business. Remember, I told her again and again, that she could walk away, no harm, no foul.
But she didn't simply leave. First he made a decision to have someone be there and then she made the decision to pick up the cash as she left. And that is what it all boiled down to, her decision to pick up the cash as she left.
Again:
1. Months of clear, precise discussion.
2. Months of being clear about saying "no" and about being certain before saying "yes".
3. Zero aggressive, coercive behavior.
4. The premeditated decision to have someone waiting and to walk with the cash which makes this episode a "rip-off" report and not some ambiguous, vague situation with multiple perceptions and interpretations.
So that IS the FULL story.
As I indicated, I do accept her apology. She gets an "A for effort" for doing that. For me, it is really about my own stupidity as I explained in my other post.
Any further questions? Or can we put this one to bed?
Put too rest. I won't see her, too bad she will probably suffer monetarily.
I don't know, maybe. Quoting Matt, "I do not desire to get into the details. " What are these details Matt?
Okay Tony, here it is.
For at least four months we had discussions about something I wanted to try. I was never coercive. I was never demanding. I repeatedly, yes over and over and over, (in other words, repeatedly) told her to take time to think about it before saying "yes". I was very clear, very precise about what I wanted to do. I was equally clear and precise about her being able to say "no". Again, over a period of many months so zero surprises and plenty of time to say "uhhhh, no, not interested".
So what happens? Everytime I get a "yes". And several times I say "why don't we wait and you think about it some more". Finally, the Sunday before last, I get a message "I'm ready" in regards to this particular thing. We make arrangements, go to the location. I go to the bathroom and left cash in the open. I finish and walk out and she is gone. Lifted the cash as she left.
It was premeditated on her part. She had arranged for someone with a car to be there so she could seize advantage of any opportunity to run off in a hurry. It was not SOP for her to have someone with a car waiting at any other time in the past so cross that off the list.
So she got cold feet before we got going with things. That I understand 100000%. I absolutely would not have been anything but understanding and I probably would have flipped her some bills for just showing up. She knows I am not an aggressive, "un-safe" person. She ABSOLUTELY knows she has always been safe when with me. So if she had said, at the last minute, "no, I don't think I am ready" she knew there was nothing to fear from me. I would have been as much as a gentleman as possible in this whole sordid business. Remember, I told her again and again, that she could walk away, no harm, no foul.
But she didn't simply leave. First he made a decision to have someone be there and then she made the decision to pick up the cash as she left. And that is what it all boiled down to, her decision to pick up the cash as she left.
Again:
1. Months of clear, precise discussion.
2. Months of being clear about saying "no" and about being certain before saying "yes".
3. Zero aggressive, coercive behavior.
4. The premeditated decision to have someone waiting and to walk with the cash which makes this episode a "rip-off" report and not some ambiguous, vague situation with multiple perceptions and interpretations.
So that IS the FULL story.
As I indicated, I do accept her apology. She gets an "A for effort" for doing that. For me, it is really about my own stupidity as I explained in my other post.
Any further questions? Or can we put this one to bed?
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